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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So potentially a meet arranged she’s sent me address but she’s partying with pals and d*unk but wants to be fucked .. she’s not verified she’s new and now went off line .. do I go or pass it by

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By *eased n pleasedCouple
over a year ago

wickford

Pass by :-/

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I’m thinking that .. would be awkward turning up to a flat with a party going on and she’s d*unk but we exchanged pics and gave me address

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By *eased n pleasedCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"Yeah I’m thinking that .. would be awkward turning up to a flat with a party going on and she’s d*unk but we exchanged pics and gave me address "

In that case i would arrange to meet another time when she's sober..

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Don't meet her if she's d*unk, you could end up being accused of non consensual sex as well. Definitely pass her by and move on. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I’m thinking that .. would be awkward turning up to a flat with a party going on and she’s d*unk but we exchanged pics and gave me address

In that case i would arrange to meet another time when she's sober.."

Thanks for that good advice

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By *eased n pleasedCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"Don't meet her if she's d*unk, you could end up being accused of non consensual sex as well. Definitely pass her by and move on. X"

That's what i was trying to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't meet her if she's d*unk, you could end up being accused of non consensual sex as well. Definitely pass her by and move on. X"

Yes that also went through my mind and with other friends in the flat also it could of turned bad

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

get to bed and let her meet some other desperado

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"get to bed and let her meet some other desperado"

Your right Probably a blessing not to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should definately go. Get stuck in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way."

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want to go to bed but keen to see how long this can be strung out for. I fear there's still a couple of hours in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start "

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Want to go to bed but keen to see how long this can be strung out for. I fear there's still a couple of hours in it."

I’m not going to the meet it’s clearly a bad move if I was going to go and she’s been offline now for nearly an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason "

Just giving some helpful advice. He's got the chance of a quick walk-in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason

Just giving some helpful advice. He's got the chance of a quick walk-in here.

"

He's also got the chance of being accused of r*pe in the morning if the woman wakes up and regrets it or doesn't remember anything about it due to being d*unk.

Why would any civilised, respectable, moral and ethical person knowingly have sex with a d*unk stranger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason

Just giving some helpful advice. He's got the chance of a quick walk-in here.

He's also got the chance of being accused of r*pe in the morning if the woman wakes up and regrets it or doesn't remember anything about it due to being d*unk.

Why would any civilised, respectable, moral and ethical person knowingly have sex with a d*unk stranger? "

I'm sure he'd have been fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn up and cop off with one of her friends lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason

Just giving some helpful advice. He's got the chance of a quick walk-in here.

He's also got the chance of being accused of r*pe in the morning if the woman wakes up and regrets it or doesn't remember anything about it due to being d*unk.

Why would any civilised, respectable, moral and ethical person knowingly have sex with a d*unk stranger? "

Most of us have had sex with a d*unk stranger haven't we??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely not going to the meet she’s been offline and I’m not Turing up to a house with a party going on with a d*unk lass and putting myself in a situation. If she’s genuine we can arrange when she’s sober. Thanks folks for the advice etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely not going to the meet she’s been offline and I’m not Turing up to a house with a party going on with a d*unk lass and putting myself in a situation. If she’s genuine we can arrange when she’s sober. Thanks folks for the advice etc "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason

Just giving some helpful advice. He's got the chance of a quick walk-in here.

He's also got the chance of being accused of r*pe in the morning if the woman wakes up and regrets it or doesn't remember anything about it due to being d*unk.

Why would any civilised, respectable, moral and ethical person knowingly have sex with a d*unk stranger?

Most of us have had sex with a d*unk stranger haven't we??"

No, but then as you're an internet troll I'm sure your whole life is based upon self importance, self gratification and the ridicule of others, simply because you spent too long on your mummys tit and forgot to grow the fuck up.

Lets face it, any grown 'man' who creates a profile on a swinging site, or indeed any other, purely to troll and get a reaction from people he doesn't even know, has severe self esteem issues. However those self esteem issues are justified because you have every reason to dislike yourself, just as we all do.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Yeah I’m thinking that .. would be awkward turning up to a flat with a party going on and she’s d*unk but we exchanged pics and gave me address

In that case i would arrange to meet another time when she's sober.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell her why you didn't want to meet her while she was d*unk. Myself personally I'd want to meet for a coffee or something first, for the safety of being in a public place, if nothing else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason

Just giving some helpful advice. He's got the chance of a quick walk-in here.

He's also got the chance of being accused of r*pe in the morning if the woman wakes up and regrets it or doesn't remember anything about it due to being d*unk.

Why would any civilised, respectable, moral and ethical person knowingly have sex with a d*unk stranger?

Most of us have had sex with a d*unk stranger haven't we??

No, but then as you're an internet troll I'm sure your whole life is based upon self importance, self gratification and the ridicule of others, simply because you spent too long on your mummys tit and forgot to grow the fuck up.

Lets face it, any grown 'man' who creates a profile on a swinging site, or indeed any other, purely to troll and get a reaction from people he doesn't even know, has severe self esteem issues. However those self esteem issues are justified because you have every reason to dislike yourself, just as we all do. "

Aww, just because you didn't like someone else's opinion.

Bless.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’m shocked you even had to ask. Any self respecting person would have turned her down and arranged to meet her when she was sober for a social meet.

I’ve heard of scenarios where guys have gone to an address and they’ve been robbed. So it’s about everyone’s personal safety. We have to protect ourselves first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange I had exactly the same last night lady sent me a message saying she wanted to get d*unk and me to come round fuck her and leave!

Not for me and was thinking I would open myself up to all sorts it could even be an ex of hers trying to set her up!!

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend


"So potentially a meet arranged she’s sent me address but she’s partying with pals and d*unk but wants to be fucked .. she’s not verified she’s new and now went off line .. do I go or pass it by "

I don't want to pop your balloon but beware of crazy male trolls who masquerade with female profiles, provide photos and seem to good to be true, they usually are !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If she only wants to fuck people when she is pissed I would give a super wide berth.....she is not a true swinger, she is just a pissed up tart lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could have been walking into anything. Unless you did a can she could be a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason

Just giving some helpful advice. He's got the chance of a quick walk-in here.

He's also got the chance of being accused of r*pe in the morning if the woman wakes up and regrets it or doesn't remember anything about it due to being d*unk.

Why would any civilised, respectable, moral and ethical person knowingly have sex with a d*unk stranger?

Most of us have had sex with a d*unk stranger haven't we??

No, but then as you're an internet troll I'm sure your whole life is based upon self importance, self gratification and the ridicule of others, simply because you spent too long on your mummys tit and forgot to grow the fuck up.

Lets face it, any grown 'man' who creates a profile on a swinging site, or indeed any other, purely to troll and get a reaction from people he doesn't even know, has severe self esteem issues. However those self esteem issues are justified because you have every reason to dislike yourself, just as we all do. "

Sounds like someone else had a little more drink than they can handle after I crashed last night!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason

Just giving some helpful advice. He's got the chance of a quick walk-in here.

He's also got the chance of being accused of r*pe in the morning if the woman wakes up and regrets it or doesn't remember anything about it due to being d*unk.

Why would any civilised, respectable, moral and ethical person knowingly have sex with a d*unk stranger?

Most of us have had sex with a d*unk stranger haven't we??

No, but then as you're an internet troll I'm sure your whole life is based upon self importance, self gratification and the ridicule of others, simply because you spent too long on your mummys tit and forgot to grow the fuck up.

Lets face it, any grown 'man' who creates a profile on a swinging site, or indeed any other, purely to troll and get a reaction from people he doesn't even know, has severe self esteem issues. However those self esteem issues are justified because you have every reason to dislike yourself, just as we all do.

Aww, just because you didn't like someone else's opinion.

Bless. "

No its because you gave stupid advice to the OP. He could have been in all kinds of trouble if he had of met her. I refer you to the think tea campaign, perhaps this will help you to understand the consequences better? https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason

Just giving some helpful advice. He's got the chance of a quick walk-in here.

He's also got the chance of being accused of r*pe in the morning if the woman wakes up and regrets it or doesn't remember anything about it due to being d*unk.

Why would any civilised, respectable, moral and ethical person knowingly have sex with a d*unk stranger?

Most of us have had sex with a d*unk stranger haven't we??

No, but then as you're an internet troll I'm sure your whole life is based upon self importance, self gratification and the ridicule of others, simply because you spent too long on your mummys tit and forgot to grow the fuck up.

Lets face it, any grown 'man' who creates a profile on a swinging site, or indeed any other, purely to troll and get a reaction from people he doesn't even know, has severe self esteem issues. However those self esteem issues are justified because you have every reason to dislike yourself, just as we all do.

Aww, just because you didn't like someone else's opinion.

Bless.

No its because you gave stupid advice to the OP. He could have been in all kinds of trouble if he had of met her. I refer you to the think tea campaign, perhaps this will help you to understand the consequences better? https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8"

There is a strong argument that all of the advice given on the thread was stupid...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Don't go. If you do, you are basically setting yourself up to be accused of r*pe. The law says d*unk people can't consent, and she only has to wake up tomorrow with regrets and you will be fucked in a bad way.

Your totally right I’ve decided not to go it’s not worth it. I was wary from the start

Good call. The fella from 'Narnia' who said go, is clearly deep in the closet for a reason

Just giving some helpful advice. He's got the chance of a quick walk-in here.

He's also got the chance of being accused of r*pe in the morning if the woman wakes up and regrets it or doesn't remember anything about it due to being d*unk.

Why would any civilised, respectable, moral and ethical person knowingly have sex with a d*unk stranger?

Most of us have had sex with a d*unk stranger haven't we??

No, but then as you're an internet troll I'm sure your whole life is based upon self importance, self gratification and the ridicule of others, simply because you spent too long on your mummys tit and forgot to grow the fuck up.

Lets face it, any grown 'man' who creates a profile on a swinging site, or indeed any other, purely to troll and get a reaction from people he doesn't even know, has severe self esteem issues. However those self esteem issues are justified because you have every reason to dislike yourself, just as we all do.

Aww, just because you didn't like someone else's opinion.

Bless.

No its because you gave stupid advice to the OP. He could have been in all kinds of trouble if he had of met her. I refer you to the think tea campaign, perhaps this will help you to understand the consequences better? https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8

There is a strong argument that all of the advice given on the thread was stupid..."

I doubt it very much, the OP was given plenty of sound advice and possible consequences if he declined to take it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Head up guys I didn’t go the thrill of the messages was exciting but deep down not for me I was not prepared to walk in to and unknown situation where I didn’t feel was right. And surprisingly the said person has still not been back online lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Head up guys I didn’t go the thrill of the messages was exciting but deep down not for me I was not prepared to walk in to and unknown situation where I didn’t feel was right. And surprisingly the said person has still not been back online lol "

I do hope you get a genuine meet soon OP, just put this down to being a learning curve xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Head up guys I didn’t go the thrill of the messages was exciting but deep down not for me I was not prepared to walk in to and unknown situation where I didn’t feel was right. And surprisingly the said person has still not been back online lol

I do hope you get a genuine meet soon OP, just put this down to being a learning curve xx "

Yeah totally that’s for sure I’m looking forward to my next genuine meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a not genuine meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Head up guys I didn’t go the thrill of the messages was exciting but deep down not for me I was not prepared to walk in to and unknown situation where I didn’t feel was right. And surprisingly the said person has still not been back online lol "

Looks like you dodged a bullet, there. Social meets, first, are the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a not genuine meet?"

The amount of windup merchants on here. When you do get a message, and try and sort a meet, a lot of the time, they go missing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no evidence of the woman been real. could be man,could be children, could be armed robber.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"no evidence of the woman been real. could be man,could be children, could be armed robber."

Well it’s nice to have a positive outlook on life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a not genuine meet?

The amount of windup merchants on here. When you do get a message, and try and sort a meet, a lot of the time, they go missing. "

That's something else, there's no meeting there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big whopping red flag!

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