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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mostly I'm an easy going kind of person, but just occasionally, something happens the just raised the odd question.

Tonight for instance. I'd been chatting to someone on here, I thought things were going okay, we were getting along, sharing interests. Then I raised the question of a social meet. This was naturally replied with a request for a picture. No big problem, Picture sent with a request for one in return, after all, it's nice to see who you're chatting with. Then bang, Blocked.

Now, had the lady in question not been verified, I would have leapt to the obvious.

Ladies and Gents, it's not difficult, a simple "I'm sorry, you're not my type" would suffice.

Rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no cure for ugliness, best to accept it and not question it.

Happened all the time to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly I'm an easy going kind of person, but just occasionally, something happens the just raised the odd question.

Tonight for instance. I'd been chatting to someone on here, I thought things were going okay, we were getting along, sharing interests. Then I raised the question of a social meet. This was naturally replied with a request for a picture. No big problem, Picture sent with a request for one in return, after all, it's nice to see who you're chatting with. Then bang, Blocked.

Now, had the lady in question not been verified, I would have leapt to the obvious.

Ladies and Gents, it's not difficult, a simple "I'm sorry, you're not my type" would suffice.

Rant over. "

Block is easier than saying you don't fancy them and mitigates against potential abuse afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or she was just being a chicken!

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By *ssexbull2016Man
over a year ago

Essex


"Mostly I'm an easy going kind of person, but just occasionally, something happens the just raised the odd question.

Tonight for instance. I'd been chatting to someone on here, I thought things were going okay, we were getting along, sharing interests. Then I raised the question of a social meet. This was naturally replied with a request for a picture. No big problem, Picture sent with a request for one in return, after all, it's nice to see who you're chatting with. Then bang, Blocked.

Now, had the lady in question not been verified, I would have leapt to the obvious.

Ladies and Gents, it's not difficult, a simple "I'm sorry, you're not my type" would suffice.

Rant over.

Block is easier than saying you don't fancy them and mitigates against potential abuse afterwards."

Just shows them as a coward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they recognised you.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP would it have been better if she had said "sorry mate, you look like Shrek."

She either just didn't fancy you or it's possible she knows you.

One way to avoid this is to send a face picture pretty early on in any message exchange. That way you don't waste your own time chatting to someone who doesn't fancy you. You can move on to others who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no excuse to not be polite.

Block is ok after a courteous reply if only to avoid inadvertent contact later.

Just think of it as a lucky escape as clearly they are either very self-centred and rude or unable to to be honest which would be difficult during a meet.

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By *he-Dirty-DuoMan
over a year ago

Boston


"Or she was just being a chicken!"

Or she was a he

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Mostly I'm an easy going kind of person, but just occasionally, something happens the just raised the odd question.

Tonight for instance. I'd been chatting to someone on here, I thought things were going okay, we were getting along, sharing interests. Then I raised the question of a social meet. This was naturally replied with a request for a picture. No big problem, Picture sent with a request for one in return, after all, it's nice to see who you're chatting with. Then bang, Blocked.

Now, had the lady in question not been verified, I would have leapt to the obvious.

Ladies and Gents, it's not difficult, a simple "I'm sorry, you're not my type" would suffice.

Rant over. "

A block is the norm, unfortunately, onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly I'm an easy going kind of person, but just occasionally, something happens the just raised the odd question.

Tonight for instance. I'd been chatting to someone on here, I thought things were going okay, we were getting along, sharing interests. Then I raised the question of a social meet. This was naturally replied with a request for a picture. No big problem, Picture sent with a request for one in return, after all, it's nice to see who you're chatting with. Then bang, Blocked.

Now, had the lady in question not been verified, I would have leapt to the obvious.

Ladies and Gents, it's not difficult, a simple "I'm sorry, you're not my type" would suffice.

Rant over. "

She may have given your profile one last check over before committing to meeting you and spotted the " I don't bite.. Unless you want me to" comment.

That is a straight red for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly I'm an easy going kind of person, but just occasionally, something happens the just raised the odd question.

Tonight for instance. I'd been chatting to someone on here, I thought things were going okay, we were getting along, sharing interests. Then I raised the question of a social meet. This was naturally replied with a request for a picture. No big problem, Picture sent with a request for one in return, after all, it's nice to see who you're chatting with. Then bang, Blocked.

Now, had the lady in question not been verified, I would have leapt to the obvious.

Ladies and Gents, it's not difficult, a simple "I'm sorry, you're not my type" would suffice.

Rant over. "

Er........we aren't the ones who blocked you........x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly I'm an easy going kind of person, but just occasionally, something happens the just raised the odd question.

Tonight for instance. I'd been chatting to someone on here, I thought things were going okay, we were getting along, sharing interests. Then I raised the question of a social meet. This was naturally replied with a request for a picture. No big problem, Picture sent with a request for one in return, after all, it's nice to see who you're chatting with. Then bang, Blocked.

Now, had the lady in question not been verified, I would have leapt to the obvious.

Ladies and Gents, it's not difficult, a simple "I'm sorry, you're not my type" would suffice.

Rant over. "

Just another shallow coward the site's full of them, move on mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its what i would hsve done (yeah im a chicken and a fake etc etc) having been on the reciving wnd of abuse for saying someone isnt my type (well you are fat and ugly etc) its just easier.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Why the sense of entitlement?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Hmmm to the little poppets above calling people cowards for not replying.

Feel free to green arrow me to another thread I contributed to yesterday. A lady complaining about abusive messsges after saying very nicely, no thsnks you’re not for me.

The outcome is the same, the person doesn’t want to meet. Get over yourselves

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Its what i would hsve done (yeah im a chicken and a fake etc etc) having been on the reciving wnd of abuse for saying someone isnt my type (well you are fat and ugly etc) its just easier. "

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Mostly I'm an easy going kind of person, but just occasionally, something happens the just raised the odd question.

Tonight for instance. I'd been chatting to someone on here, I thought things were going okay, we were getting along, sharing interests. Then I raised the question of a social meet. This was naturally replied with a request for a picture. No big problem, Picture sent with a request for one in return, after all, it's nice to see who you're chatting with. Then bang, Blocked.

Now, had the lady in question not been verified, I would have leapt to the obvious.

Ladies and Gents, it's not difficult, a simple "I'm sorry, you're not my type" would suffice.

Rant over.

Just another shallow coward the site's full of them, move on mate"

And unfortunately the site has more than enough abusive men, who name call when they don’t get their own way.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"There's no excuse to not be polite.

Block is ok after a courteous reply if only to avoid inadvertent contact later.

Just think of it as a lucky escape as clearly they are either very self-centred and rude or unable to to be honest which would be difficult during a meet."

So it would make you happy to get replies explaining that the person didn’t find you attractive ? And then you’d be happy to be blocked?

Nah I don’t believe you, I reckon you and several other men in this thread don’t have the right attitude for this. You’re another guy name calling people for not replying.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Its what i would hsve done (yeah im a chicken and a fake etc etc) having been on the reciving wnd of abuse for saying someone isnt my type (well you are fat and ugly etc) its just easier. "

Me too

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I've learnt that if someone gets suspended then the same blocked message comes up. So maybe she got suspended just after you sent the face pic OP....its happened to me....*insert laughing emoji*

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By *inandRussianCouple
over a year ago

lymm

Omfg please the site is full of them feeling the need to abuse you when you say no. I had a guy yesterday offer money for sex when i say call a prostitue i am not that kind of person he gets all abusive. Just block and move on life is to short to give these people any sort of time or argument !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine if every guy posted a thread after getting blocked ha!

I’ve just accepted that I’m fab ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they recognised you. "

that’s generally the only reason I would block if I’d been chatting to someone and he sent a face pic.

I can’t see where its a sense of entitlement if you’ve been chatting to someone over a few continuous messages, sent a face pic to expect a reply even if it’s a no thanks.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"I've learnt that if someone gets suspended then the same blocked message comes up. So maybe she got suspended just after you sent the face pic OP....its happened to me....*insert laughing emoji*"

It's a different message that comes up when you are blocked from the one on suspended profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me as well. Everything OK, swap some pics. Then she block me. Waist of time really.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I've learnt that if someone gets suspended then the same blocked message comes up. So maybe she got suspended just after you sent the face pic OP....its happened to me....*insert laughing emoji*

It's a different message that comes up when you are blocked from the one on suspended profiles."

Are you sure ? Check out the OP profile on thread callled No Fuck Given.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"It's happened to me as well. Everything OK, swap some pics. Then she block me. Waist of time really.

"

waste of time?! Why

If you want more of a sure fuck there are escort sites instead

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"I've learnt that if someone gets suspended then the same blocked message comes up. So maybe she got suspended just after you sent the face pic OP....its happened to me....*insert laughing emoji*

It's a different message that comes up when you are blocked from the one on suspended profiles.

Are you sure ? Check out the OP profile on thread callled No Fuck Given. "

Yes try to send a message and the message if blocked is different for suspended profiles.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"It's happened to me as well. Everything OK, swap some pics. Then she block me. Waist of time really.

"

Never mind, don’t “waste”any more time pondering it....man up and start again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened to me as well. Everything OK, swap some pics. Then she block me. Waist of time really.

"

Waste**

Blocked**

Might be down to the spelling mistakes and poor grammar. Better luck next time

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"I've learnt that if someone gets suspended then the same blocked message comes up. So maybe she got suspended just after you sent the face pic OP....its happened to me....*insert laughing emoji*

It's a different message that comes up when you are blocked from the one on suspended profiles.

Are you sure ? Check out the OP profile on thread callled No Fuck Given.

Yes try to send a message and the message if blocked is different for suspended profiles."

On that no fucked one it just says 'why'. If it was blocked it would say 'you have blocked' or 'they have blocked you'. So that one is suspended.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I've learnt that if someone gets suspended then the same blocked message comes up. So maybe she got suspended just after you sent the face pic OP....its happened to me....*insert laughing emoji*

It's a different message that comes up when you are blocked from the one on suspended profiles.

Are you sure ? Check out the OP profile on thread callled No Fuck Given.

Yes try to send a message and the message if blocked is different for suspended profiles.

On that no fucked one it just says 'why'. If it was blocked it would say 'you have blocked' or 'they have blocked you'. So that one is suspended."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really gets me his sense of entitlement from single guys. Yes it's not nice being blocked without warning but it happens. I'm sure you'd sooner that than be told you're fugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing requires someone being personal about another when they are not for them.

A simple, thanks but your profile isn't for us, works well and is also courteous! If any silliness after that, then yup! block away.

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