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By *innamon! OP Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Have sex with a person who has HIV.. have a relationship with or casual sex with. Do clubs specify that they are HIV free places ( people of course can and will lie. or can you not do that .. im not sure of the club etiquette..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have sex with a person who has HIV.. have a relationship with or casual sex with. Do clubs specify that they are HIV free places ( people of course can and will lie. or can you not do that .. im not sure of the club etiquette..

Nope, and clubs can't (and don't) guarantee anything regards the health of their customers.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have no problem with people that have it. However im sorry to say my health is more important to me than a shag. I like to think i keep myself safe

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

No club I have ever been to has ever specified anything like that

How would they know,what is different from a club to a party or a meet in a hotel,a dogging meet or a one on one at somebodies house?

As adults its up to us individually to act responsibly with our own sexual health

I would'nt trust anyone to take care of me I take care of myself

I doubt very much that given the choice I would have sex with someone that has hiv,I also doubt very much that they would tell me they had hiv in the first place

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

No club cud or should make that sort of guarantee.People are responsible for their own safety and choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not knowingly do so..

Clubs normally have little signs up saying that anything happening is between consenting adults..

So dont see how they could or would put that.. after all.. even if everyone on entry showed a certificate it doesnt mean that they are clean..

Maybe in the future all clubs will have little blood test units, that screen blood and saliva on entry. ( sorry was watching something on sci fi earlier.. lol)

Cali

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By *innamon! OP Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Yeah maybe everyone should get the snap test on entry.. its quick and easy.. we do it on the cats at the vets . Son does it at the soho clinics.

think that was the secondary part of the question really .. more interested to know if people would have sex with a person with HIV regularly or as a one off.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Presumably ( i'm guessing ) that HIV+ peeps would look for other HIV+ peeps to play with? Might as well go the whole bareback sloppy route.

As someone once joked, i don't want to catch that AIDS again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people will shag whoever they want to shag, regardless of risk or small mindedness....if you play unprotected and then catch something..who can you blame but yourself??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

If all the bizarre and pointless threads were stopped, there wouldn't be much left.

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By *innamon! OP Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

* you're right !! of course no one is going to admit it.. wish I was as clever as you

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

* you're right !! of course no one is going to admit it.. wish I was as clever as you

ok...just to prove sassy wrong

Were kev ever to test positive,after medical advice ect i wud want to have whatever sex we cud,it is a part of our marriage and neither of us see penetration as the be all and end all...

We wud of course stop swinging.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

There are people who have sex with people diagnosed HIV+. Its not AIDS! The healthcare professionals who counsel AIDS sufferers give advice about that sort of thing. They don't suddenly become untouchable!

As for tests at clubs, puhleeze! If you're that paranoid, stop swinging!

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

"What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

I thought I was hallucinating for a second there, but I totally agree with you! This is one of the most pointless threads I seen recently. Along with all the other hundred and thousand stupid threads on "Safe sex" and "Bareback".

Dumb question! Dumb thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

As for tests at clubs, puhleeze! If you're that paranoid, stop swinging!"

swinging is a high risk to your sexual health. protect yourself as best as you can and deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i dont really know enough about the ins and outs of HIV and how you cant catch it to give a honest opinion

I know you can catch it thro intercourse, but as for oral, kissing im not that sure, i believe you have to have a open cut to have any chance of catching the virus in these ways but im not 100%

So because of that i would have to say no

You cant protect yourself against something you dont fully understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

* you're right !! of course no one is going to admit it.. wish I was as clever as you

ok...just to prove sassy wrong

Were kev ever to test positive,after medical advice ect i wud want to have whatever sex we cud,it is a part of our marriage and neither of us see penetration as the be all and end all...

We wud of course stop swinging."

I think you miss the point.

The question is would you knowingly sleep with someone with HIV, I'm assuming in a swinging context and not within a marriage.

Therefore it's a pointless thread as I said: no one is going to say "yes" if they want shag!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

* you're right !! of course no one is going to admit it.. wish I was as clever as you

it seems to have sparked some debate about testing at clubs etc so its not really a pointless thread is it??

it might be pointless to you but then you are not the only one who uses the forums

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

* you're right !! of course no one is going to admit it.. wish I was as clever as you

ok...just to prove sassy wrong

Were kev ever to test positive,after medical advice ect i wud want to have whatever sex we cud,it is a part of our marriage and neither of us see penetration as the be all and end all...

We wud of course stop swinging.

I think you miss the point.

The question is would you knowingly sleep with someone with HIV, I'm assuming in a swinging context and not within a marriage.

Therefore it's a pointless thread as I said: no one is going to say "yes" if they want shag! "

Ahhhh but the pedant in me points out that isnt what she asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's many who would swing with someone who is HIV positive. Most of us are of the opinion that safe sex is best and we protect ourselves as much as we feel necessary. HIV infection is not the easiest virus to catch.

Some clubs, Chams included, have specific dates that they hold a clinic for STI testing which I presume is an outreach service provided by the GUM team. I think this is an excellent idea and a good service.

Testing on entry could not work.

You'd need trained medical staff, a trained nurse and maybe a healthcare assistant. The NHS wouldn't have the resources to put staff in at every session so it would have to come from the private sector.

For permanent health testing you would need a sanitised clinical room which would adhere to infection control procedures.

You'd also need access to a microbiologist.

Names, personal info would have to follow strict confidential information governance procedures.

Testing everyone on entry would take time so would lead to lengthy queuing

The results are not instant

The cost of this would be borne by the club and thereafter passed to the customer so therefore you'd be looking at a £300 entry fee.

People couldn't afford it and wouldn't go, so club would have to let it all go anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a bizarre and pointless question.

Mention "bareback" and the zealots appear, mass blocking anyone who even says "each to their own".

Do you honestly think people are going to destroy any chance of a shag by stating on an open forum, "yes, I'd sleep with someone with HIV?!!" Honestly?!!

* you're right !! of course no one is going to admit it.. wish I was as clever as you

so do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

however, if you fell in love, it would be another question altogether, would it not?

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