FabSwingers.com forum: Question for the women

By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as women thinking all men want 'models'. Nope, just media pressure distorting how people should feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on the face and personality for me, not body shape, or fitness levels...although it is definitely better for my playmates if they are fit, I can be very demanding

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I avoid gym fit guys. Can't imagine lying next to them with my "mum tum" and them all toned. It wpuld make me feel very self conscious.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP there is no "one shape fits all" either in real life or on fab. What one person finds sexy as hell another will think is pig ugly.

If you want to be gym fit and ripped do it for yourself and not because you think that's what the ladies want.

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I get the personality thing but there’s always gotta be a sexual attraction too though, hasn’t there?

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

But if they show interest in you, they find you attractive too! We don’t all just like gym fit women! I prefer mine with a little extra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all kinds of lads. One of my very good buddies has no muscle whatsoever and an average sized body. I like him because he's a lovely man. I have had some very very physically fit men, over the years and they have more energy and stamina (especially Royal Marines) but I don't prefer them over Mr Squishy types.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I get the personality thing but there’s always gotta be a sexual attraction too though, hasn’t there? "

Sexual attraction doesn't have to be physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get the personality thing but there’s always gotta be a sexual attraction too though, hasn’t there? "

Of course! I like faces though...makes body shape quite unimportant....luckily for me, it works both ways apparently

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

No, that’s very true, I get that! Just have been curious to whom it attracts and whom it doesn’t.. I personally enjoy the gym and continue to do so for myself

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I stand corrected aha good point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work out and I am attracted to similar. But no amount of physical attraction will overcome someone being a kn*b personality wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I avoid gym fit guys. Can't imagine lying next to them with my "mum tum" and them all toned. It wpuld make me feel very self conscious. "

I've never felt self conscious with a fit man. They know what my body is like before we meet and I happily strip off. Relax and enjoy yourself.

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha "

You can only prove that by showing it. Sadly, some people won't give you the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I avoid gym fit guys. Can't imagine lying next to them with my "mum tum" and them all toned. It wpuld make me feel very self conscious.

I've never felt self conscious with a fit man. They know what my body is like before we meet and I happily strip off. Relax and enjoy yourself. "

Definitely agree here! I have played with some extremely beautiful young men, my very complimentary fwb included, all of which loved my body aswell as it's abilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't have to be to fit but not into beer belly's lol like a guy that looks after is self I go to the gym to keep in shape and I'm 54 lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha "

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't meet gym fit guys but I can appreciate a nice body.

I tend to go for slim men not bulky

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I personally don't meet gym fit guys but I can appreciate a nice body.

I tend to go for slim men not bulky "

Too slim and they don't do it for me - I don't need ripped but I definitely like beefy men, and not overweight, and it's often the gym that produces that combination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like muscular guys some don’t..

Muscular body is such a cliché in my opinion.. just be in shape and healthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some like muscular guys some don’t..

Muscular body is such a cliché in my opinion.. just be in shape and healthy

For the purposes of this site stamina is important to me.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"I personally don't meet gym fit guys but I can appreciate a nice body.

I tend to go for slim men not bulky "

That's me; have we met (actually, if we had, there's no way I'd forget!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a guy who is happy and confident being himself who doesn't spend time worrying about what "women" want.

if he's fit with it he will more than likely catch my eye. Sadly too many on here worry about comparing themselves to others and trying to mould themselves to appeal to the masses

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By *exyangeleyesMan
over a year ago

london

"I work out and I am attracted to similar. But no amount of physical attraction will overcome someone being a kn*b personality wise."

I agree totally

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By *exyangeleyesMan
over a year ago

london

"Some like muscular guys some don’t..

Muscular body is such a cliché in my opinion.. just be in shape and healthy

For the purposes of this site stamina is important to me. "

Gym fit bodies do not equal stamina,

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd."

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"Some like muscular guys some don’t..

Muscular body is such a cliché in my opinion.. just be in shape and healthy

For the purposes of this site stamina is important to me.

Gym fit bodies do not equal stamina, "

Most massive body builders won’t have the best Stamina but gym fit people mostly do! I hit cardio nearly as much as I hit weights..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x"

What is Gym Fit?

I am attracted to guys who are active and like to use their bodies a lot.. and am a sucker for big thick legs. But that doesn't mean to say that's the only type of physique I find attractive.

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x

What is Gym Fit?

I am attracted to guys who are active and like to use their bodies a lot.. and am a sucker for big thick legs. But that doesn't mean to say that's the only type of physique I find attractive."

I personally consider it someone who looks after their body and attends the gym lol but no, not suggesting it will be the only physique people will be attracted too if they are

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol "

It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol

It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.

Ahh but like my last FB who is 41, she nearly missed out on a LOT of fun because she shrugged me off at first because of my age! But I can gaurantee you that she should would recommend opening your mind to younger bulls

aha id love the chance to meet yourself!!

sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol

It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.

aha id love the chance to meet yourself!!

sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x"

I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol

It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.

aha id love the chance to meet yourself!!

sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x

I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for

Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP

aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol

It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.

aha id love the chance to meet yourself!!

sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x

I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for

Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP

aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality! "

Hmm well I think you just demonstrated that your initial thoughts were different.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I go for personality over physique, which is why I don’t agree meets online without having met someone.

My preference is for someone tall, broad & hairy chest. Dad bods with a bit of meat on the bones are my ultimate fave but I wouldn’t rule out gym toned either.

A good personality & sense of humour instantly makes someone more attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I avoid gym fit guys. Can't imagine lying next to them with my "mum tum" and them all toned. It wpuld make me feel very self conscious.

I've never felt self conscious with a fit man. They know what my body is like before we meet and I happily strip off. Relax and enjoy yourself. "

Same! And they usually fit better between my legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol

It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.

aha id love the chance to meet yourself!!

sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x

I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for

Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP

aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality! "

Age isn't just a number. It really really isn't

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I personally prefer gym fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you have a 12"...sub with chicken, bacon, tomatoes, and cucumber, ladies will be drawn to you regardless of looks!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I do like a guy with good definition, specially arms...but it's not the only body type I'm attracted to.

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol

It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.

aha id love the chance to meet yourself!!

sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x

I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for

Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP

aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality!

Age isn't just a number. It really really isn't

How do you feel age affects your chance with having a connection with another living breathing human being?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol

It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.

aha id love the chance to meet yourself!!

sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x

I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for

Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP

aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality!

Age isn't just a number. It really really isn't

How do you feel age affects your chance with having a connection with another living breathing human being? "

From a fab perspective... physically I don't want to fuck someone where it's dubious as to whether they've left school yet or not. Equally I don't want to fuck anyone that looks like one of my parents. Now I know some look older/ younger than their years but generally that's a limit for me. I don't care about connecting if I don't find them attractive.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x"

Women are not of a hive mind so the answer is yes, no and don’t care.

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol

It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.

aha id love the chance to meet yourself!!

sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x

I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for

Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP

aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality!

Age isn't just a number. It really really isn't

How do you feel age affects your chance with having a connection with another living breathing human being?

Aha can always ask them for ID

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x

Women are not of a hive mind so the answer is yes, no and don’t care."

Yeah I get that, just wanted to get a general perspective of the opinions on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha

I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.

It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well

lol

It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.

aha id love the chance to meet yourself!!

sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x

I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for

Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP

aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality!

Age isn't just a number. It really really isn't

How do you feel age affects your chance with having a connection with another living breathing human being?

Aha can always ask them for ID

I'd rather not have to

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By *UCKY_13Couple
over a year ago

southwest

"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x"

To be honest if you mean the ripped skinny boys who look like they train because they have never had a good meal then no is extremely unattractive to me but am sure there are woman out there who like it xx

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x

Ouch, I eat pretty well thank you! A lot of meat, pasta and rice! No starving over here! What about the ones who eat well? Aha

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

If I like the guy abd they are fun, thats all great

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By *elly39devonCouple
over a year ago

tavistock

guys dont have to be gym fit but its nice if it looks as if they care about their bodies, age is unimportant up to about 45 when lets face it a load of guys let go

maybe just me being shallow

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"guys dont have to be gym fit but its nice if it looks as if they care about their bodies, age is unimportant up to about 45 when lets face it a load of guys let go

maybe just me being shallow"

Aha I know some men who look pretty good after 45 but yeah isn’t common... better enjoy my younger days!!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x

Women are not of a hive mind so the answer is yes, no and don’t care.

Yeah I get that, just wanted to get a general perspective of the opinions on Fab"

You asked “do women like gym fit guys”.

Language is hugely important.

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By *astRider600 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x

Women are not of a hive mind so the answer is yes, no and don’t care.

Yeah I get that, just wanted to get a general perspective of the opinions on Fab

You asked “do women like gym fit guys”.

Language is hugely important. "

You mean grammar is important? No need to be so sceptical! Am sure you’ve thought to yourself, I wonder if men will like new hair cut? Lol

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Not bothered either way though i do like men who are quite slim to average.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x

Women are not of a hive mind so the answer is yes, no and don’t care.

Yeah I get that, just wanted to get a general perspective of the opinions on Fab

You asked “do women like gym fit guys”.

Language is hugely important.

You mean grammar is important? No need to be so sceptical! Am sure you’ve thought to yourself, I wonder if men will like new hair cut? Lol"

There you go, what an excellent demonstration.

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