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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone, hope you’re all well. Just thought I’d post this and see what people’s thoughts are. As a single guy who doesn’t particularly want to be single but would like to meet someone with a healthy appetite for sex abd intimacy, I thought Fab might be a good way of possibly meeting a woman who may be in a similar position. After being on here for about a month now, I don’t think Fab really lends itself to that. Anybody else, make or female, on here for a similar reason to me? Any success stories? All the best folks x

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Don’t give up, we met when we were both on here as singles. Now we are getting married and couldn’t be happier.

Fab doesn’t really lend itself to dating as that’s not really the primary reason for the majority of people joining. But I’m a big believer in fate and it will happen when it happens, at least here you can have fun, you know everyone is here for the same and maybe you’ll find the one!

Good luck!

Mrs C xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

5 weeks is to short to say whether it works or not as most struggle to get any meet in that time.

I've seen profiles where women want fwb so that's a kind of slow start towards a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a fair few men admit they are hoping to find a permanent relationship on here. Their thoughts being the same, hoping to meet a woman who enjoys sex. Most stating that was the reason their last relationship failed, lack of sex. There are some ladies on here too, that are on here and a dating site. You may be lucky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You’re right, I’ve met a couple of really nice women on here, genuinely nice people...always attached though...boo ha ha Thanks Mrs C, really pleased for you and congratulations! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"5 weeks is to short to say whether it works or not as most struggle to get any meet in that time.

I've seen profiles where women want fwb so that's a kind of slow start towards a relationship "

Cheers Sam, you might be right mate, probably a bit soon to judge!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get a fair few men admit they are hoping to find a permanent relationship on here. Their thoughts being the same, hoping to meet a woman who enjoys sex. Most stating that was the reason their last relationship failed, lack of sex. There are some ladies on here too, that are on here and a dating site. You may be lucky "

Fingers crossed Sophie x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"5 weeks is to short to say whether it works or not as most struggle to get any meet in that time.

I've seen profiles where women want fwb so that's a kind of slow start towards a relationship

Cheers Sam, you might be right mate, probably a bit soon to judge! "

It's definitely to soon mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might have more luck on something like pof make it clear on your profile what you’re looking for. As a single woman I can honestly say if I wasn’t shown this site or met the good ones I have. I wouldn’t have stayed . In fact I think my first profile I did only last a day or two. Was way to many messages.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Ps read my expectations v reality thread and quite a few women wanted fwb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ps read my expectations v reality thread and quite a few women wanted fwb"

Will do, cheers Sam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re right, I’ve met a couple of really nice women on here, genuinely nice people...always attached though...boo ha ha Thanks Mrs C, really pleased for you and congratulations! x"
I know what you mean mate

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Pps my last post cos I've hijacked your thread

Some women have high sex drives and wouldn't dream of coming on fab so even a normal site could work as long as you find the right woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You might have more luck on something like pof make it clear on your profile what you’re looking for. As a single woman I can honestly say if I wasn’t shown this site or met the good ones I have. I wouldn’t have stayed . In fact I think my first profile I did only last a day or two. Was way to many messages. "

Thanks Kinky. My thinking was that by coming on here I’ll have already filtered down to women that have a similar attitude as myself towards the physical side of a relationship. Getting chatting to people on here and meeting isn’t too difficult, it just seems they’re generally attached. Tried POF once...lots of crazies and people not genuine. Been quite fortunate on here so far in that respect. Thanks for response x

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By *ixaWoman
over a year ago

kettering

I know quite a few people on here hoping for more, myself included, When you find a relationship in the real world sex normally is the killer, with the other person not liking varied sex or having a high enough sex drive. I think you just have to give it time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know quite a few people on here hoping for more, myself included, When you find a relationship in the real world sex normally is the killer, with the other person not liking varied sex or having a high enough sex drive. I think you just have to give it time "

I agree Dixa, a good sex life and connection in that way just makes things so much better for me. I think you’re right to be fair, patience is a virtue and all that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a thread I've just posted to full of people who met their partners via fab. X

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

It happened to me a few years ago. Met the loveliest guy. He’s still on here as a single (or he was). The relationship for the most part was awesome. Just didn’t work out.

I wish you every luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is a thread I've just posted to full of people who met their partners via fab. X"

From what’s being said i think it’s possible, maybe just a case of taking time and a bit of luck too x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Neither of us were looking for a relationship but we met on here and fell in love . Been together 16 months now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It happened to me a few years ago. Met the loveliest guy. He’s still on here as a single (or he was). The relationship for the most part was awesome. Just didn’t work out.

I wish you every luck xx"

These things happen but at least shows it’s possible! Thank you x

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I would never set out looking for a relationship, but at the end of the day this is another way of meeting people and getting to know them. If you click big time and get on well you're more likely to meet more often. And that might lead to something else. Of course there's always the risk that the person you feel like you might want something else with, is happy just having a fuckbuddy type relationship. So honesty is always the best policy

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I've met people off here I've dated I never rule it out. What's meant to be will be I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Neither of us were looking for a relationship but we met on here and fell in love . Been together 16 months now. "

That’s cool! Sounds like a proper success story! Pleased for you guys! Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would never set out looking for a relationship, but at the end of the day this is another way of meeting people and getting to know them. If you click big time and get on well you're more likely to meet more often. And that might lead to something else. Of course there's always the risk that the person you feel like you might want something else with, is happy just having a fuckbuddy type relationship. So honesty is always the best policy "

This is true! Don’t get me wrong, it is great to meet nice people and have a bit of fun together if it suits both parties, as you say as long as everyone’s honest and upfront nobody gets mislead and it’s all good x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met people off here I've dated I never rule it out. What's meant to be will be I guess "

A believer in fate x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met my other half here.

Was looking for a Fwb but ended up with a boyfriend. Been together 2 years now.

It does help if this is your thing.nfrom the start we were go8ng to clubs and are very open about what we want through swinging. "

You two are living the dream! Thanks guys and long may it continue x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

et my other half here.

Was looking for a Fwb but ended up with a boyfriend. Been together 2 years now.

It does help if this is your thing.nfrom the start we were go8ng to clubs and are very open about what we want through swinging.

You have a decent profile . Nicely completed. Maybe add a face pic. Females get a lot of messages so u need to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"et my other half here.

Was looking for a Fwb but ended up with a boyfriend. Been together 2 years now.

It does help if this is your thing.nfrom the start we were go8ng to clubs and are very open about what we want through swinging.

You have a decent profile . Nicely completed. Maybe add a face pic. Females get a lot of messages so u need to stand out. "

Thanks a lot for that, appreciate it. Tend to just send face pics on request to be honest but you’re right it would be a good idea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck mate.. it would be very exciting I’m sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good luck mate.. it would be very exciting I’m sure "

Cheers mate

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I've met people off here I've dated I never rule it out. What's meant to be will be I guess

A believer in fate x"

Of course! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, hope you’re all well. Just thought I’d post this and see what people’s thoughts are. As a single guy who doesn’t particularly want to be single but would like to meet someone with a healthy appetite for sex abd intimacy, I thought Fab might be a good way of possibly meeting a woman who may be in a similar position. After being on here for about a month now, I don’t think Fab really lends itself to that. Anybody else, make or female, on here for a similar reason to me? Any success stories? All the best folks x"

That's a very short time for fab and I have met happily married couples that met on here ... I believe that if it's meant to be then it will be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, hope you’re all well. Just thought I’d post this and see what people’s thoughts are. As a single guy who doesn’t particularly want to be single but would like to meet someone with a healthy appetite for sex abd intimacy, I thought Fab might be a good way of possibly meeting a woman who may be in a similar position. After being on here for about a month now, I don’t think Fab really lends itself to that. Anybody else, make or female, on here for a similar reason to me? Any success stories? All the best folks x

That's a very short time for fab and I have met happily married couples that met on here ... I believe that if it's meant to be then it will be "

Good things come to those who wait x

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Fab is a way to meet people to swing with.

Work is a place to earn money.

Relationships start at both these places and many more, though it isn't part of the design.

Good luck with finding someone who feels the same way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met people off here I've dated I never rule it out. What's meant to be will be I guess

A believer in fate x

Of course! X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah mate think im kinda in same boat would like a nice lass but then im having lot fun exploring is it hard to meet some 1 like minded

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fab is a way to meet people to swing with.

Work is a place to earn money.

Relationships start at both these places and many more, though it isn't part of the design.

Good luck with finding someone who feels the same way."

Thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah mate think im kinda in same boat would like a nice lass but then im having lot fun exploring is it hard to meet some 1 like minded"

There is definitely fun to be had in the search in fairness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's hard to trust someone but i think fab is no different from dating sites either .Think some nice people on here and some diddly wacks .It's just looking for who you feel connection with .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's hard to trust someone but i think fab is no different from dating sites either .Think some nice people on here and some diddly wacks .It's just looking for who you feel connection with . "

Thanks Honey...I’ll be stealing the phrase ‘diddly wacks’ by the way ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's hard to trust someone but i think fab is no different from dating sites either .Think some nice people on here and some diddly wacks .It's just looking for who you feel connection with .

Thanks Honey...I’ll be stealing the phrase ‘diddly wacks’ by the way ha ha x"

More polite word I will let you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well he sure was lucky whilst it lasted lol

But yes this is serious topic lol

Think its lot easier 4 girl to find good guy on here as partner or regular due to being out numbered 1000-1 for blokes must be like searching 4 needle in haystack ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well he sure was lucky whilst it lasted lol

But yes this is serious topic lol

Think its lot easier 4 girl to find good guy on here as partner or regular due to being out numbered 1000-1 for blokes must be like searching 4 needle in haystack ha "

Definitely lots more men I think but probably a lot of time wasters and fantasists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo some diddly whacks on here although no more than in normal life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's hard to trust someone but i think fab is no different from dating sites either .Think some nice people on here and some diddly wacks .It's just looking for who you feel connection with .

Thanks Honey...I’ll be stealing the phrase ‘diddly wacks’ by the way ha ha x

More polite word I will let you . "

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Defo some diddly whacks on here although no more than in normal life

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Defo some diddly whacks on here although no more than in normal life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's hard to trust someone but i think fab is no different from dating sites either .Think some nice people on here and some diddly wacks .It's just looking for who you feel connection with . "

Defo some diddly whacks on here although no more than in normal life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well he sure was lucky whilst it lasted lol

But yes this is serious topic lol

Think its lot easier 4 girl to find good guy on here as partner or regular due to being out numbered 1000-1 for blokes must be like searching 4 needle in haystack ha "

I disagree as i think alot who have a meet and had good sex will move onto next as it's a swinging site .Alot say looking for a regular fuck bud but it's only words .As most would meet others .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess you may have a better chance of finding someone who enjoys a more open sex life within a relationship here than in other dating sites.

However, dating sites are more likely to have a slightly better balance of men to women than you find here!

I guess it's just a case of socialising in various places to improve your chances of finding the 'right' lady for you!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've seen a lot of threads in my time on the forums about couples who met via fab. One thing that a lot of couples seem to have in common is that they weren't looking for love but found it anyway.

My sister and her husband met on fab and this was the case for them.

There are lots of people on here who are looking for more than just a one off. I'm not keen on one offs but I'm not looking for a relationship. I like to make a deeper connection with people and don't want to feel like I'm just a convenient "hole".

I would suggest you just keep on going what you are doing if you are enjoying it. Aim for friendship as well as fun and you never know what may develop over time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being on here for about a month now, I don’t think Fab really lends itself to that."

Fab is as it says -on the main page before you log in- a site built by swingers for swingers.

There are so many guys that bounce on and off here. They aren't swingers, when they are in a relationship they would never share their current partner. Yet as soon as they're single, they join again and expect every couple and lady to invite them in.

If you're looking for a partner who likes sex, use dating sites and apps and be clear and direct on those profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

G and i were on another swinging site, neither looking anything other than nsa fun. Met about 11/12 years ago, been living together over 10 years and married for 5 years. We still carried on the swinging life together up until recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice to meet someone like minded and develop a relationship. I usually find all the sites with free messaging, here, pof, okc never seem to provide the results but then again is the grass greener on the paying sites? Maybe the quality is better and more genuine as there are some fakes on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well he sure was lucky whilst it lasted lol

But yes this is serious topic lol

Think its lot easier 4 girl to find good guy on here as partner or regular due to being out numbered 1000-1 for blokes must be like searching 4 needle in haystack ha

I disagree as i think alot who have a meet and had good sex will move onto next as it's a swinging site .Alot say looking for a regular fuck bud but it's only words .As most would meet others . "

It would not be fun if we all agreed noe would it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats juat what I would like from this site to xx

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I will suggest you build confidence and talk to ladies face to face, the more ladies you talk to face to face, the better your chances.

I am not interested in any monogamous relationship because I noticed I enjoy the ladies more when am not in a relationship with them. They are nicer and put in more effort into me when am not in a relationship with them and I want it to stay that way.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes I met a lady on here. We were together for six months. Now she is my best friend.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

I think it would be a good place for open minded singles to pair off, lots of married guys on here cheating because there spouses aint as openminded as they wished.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, hope you’re all well. Just thought I’d post this and see what people’s thoughts are. As a single guy who doesn’t particularly want to be single but would like to meet someone with a healthy appetite for sex abd intimacy, I thought Fab might be a good way of possibly meeting a woman who may be in a similar position. After being on here for about a month now, I don’t think Fab really lends itself to that. Anybody else, make or female, on here for a similar reason to me? Any success stories? All the best folks x"

Dude, it took me 6 months before i even began to recieve messages from women and couples and a further 5 months before my first meet. Dont expect an easy ride on this site because you will be dissapointed. 2 years On and its no easier now for me than it was a a year ago. Its a struggle but i am resilient and tough skinned to stick at it.

Good luck, be yourself and remain patient, thats my advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people find us or we find them...

It's the who not the where that's the important part...

Don't expect miracles just wait hope and see what the future holds when it unfolds...

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I met boo through pof not here, so we both talked and things started that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, hope you’re all well. Just thought I’d post this and see what people’s thoughts are. As a single guy who doesn’t particularly want to be single but would like to meet someone with a healthy appetite for sex abd intimacy, I thought Fab might be a good way of possibly meeting a woman who may be in a similar position. After being on here for about a month now, I don’t think Fab really lends itself to that. Anybody else, make or female, on here for a similar reason to me? Any success stories? All the best folks x"

I am here for the same reasons as you. I’m on other dating sites also. Just keeping an open mind really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here to find an open / swinging relationship with someone who I can at least talk to about the years of my life I've been on here and the things I enjoy, and at best carry on enjoying these things with them.

In my experience the majority of people I've met through regular dating sites aren't open minded to such things and can be judgemental and in some cases hurtful in their reactions.

Good luck OP x

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

There's a lot more than I remember the last time I was around who are looking for exactly that - and openly so. Definitely not beyond the realms of possibility. And you see plenty of people who have got together on the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah mate think im kinda in same boat would like a nice lass but then im having lot fun exploring is it hard to meet some 1 like minded"

Erm, hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, hope you’re all well. Just thought I’d post this and see what people’s thoughts are. As a single guy who doesn’t particularly want to be single but would like to meet someone with a healthy appetite for sex abd intimacy, I thought Fab might be a good way of possibly meeting a woman who may be in a similar position. After being on here for about a month now, I don’t think Fab really lends itself to that. Anybody else, make or female, on here for a similar reason to me? Any success stories? All the best folks x"

met on here six years ago - blissfully happy - but have to say Fab was a much better site back then (in terms of meets and the genuineness of people). Just way too many fakes and timewasters now, so imagine it will be a lot more difficult, OP - but good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t give up, we met when we were both on here as singles. Now we are getting married and couldn’t be happier.

Fab doesn’t really lend itself to dating as that’s not really the primary reason for the majority of people joining. But I’m a big believer in fate and it will happen when it happens, at least here you can have fun, you know everyone is here for the same and maybe you’ll find the one!

Good luck!

Mrs C xx"

Good luck guys...love conquers xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here over a year ago neither of us was looking for anything more than fun and it just happened been together just over a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I’m on fab for fun....after being introduced to the site several years ago. Had a profile for about five years. Met lots and lots of great people.... several of whom are now real friends (like Facebook, real names and surnames, met family members, swap Xmas cards etc).

Had a short break, came back couple years ago with new profile.

Never really looking for a partner. Have a couple of FWBs from earlier days (one left site one still on). Mentioned I’m looking for a new place to rent....one of them has suggested we get a place together.... hadn’t expected that....but there you go OP.... it can/does happen.

(Though I’m not sure I want to do this....?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like yourself I would much rather have someone to share all this with, sex is such an important part of any relationship and always better if your happy to share lol

Think it’s just when it’s meant to be it will be, I’m forever hopeful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't use fab to find a partner, I was never short of sexual partners using ordinary dating apps, I met Jane on Tinder nearly four years ago and she didn't know just how much she could enjoy sex u til we started dating. That's not me trying to big myself up, her previous partner was appalling, so I didn't have much competition lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've put on my profile that I'm open to the idea of "more", but I'm thinking of taking it off after getting dicked around recently. I'm quite open in that I'm willing to consider anything from a one off, to regular, fwb, or a relationship *if* i met the right person. This guy recently went all out on putting the effort in and told me he was hoping for a relationship... but once we met and fucked he vanished, I didn't even get a follow up message (which i find is only polite after a meet, even if you're never seeing each other again). It really pissed me off... why not just be straight about what he wanted?

One one hand I'm thinking maybe fab isn't the best place to say I'm open to the idea of a relationship. But on the other hand... there's dickheads everywhere, so who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep going as it's early days. Enjoy yourself and be happy. It will happen whether on Fab or the outside world. Good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and my partner met here 3 years as singles. He’s from London and I’m in Wales. 3 years later and we are stronger than ever. Nothing like finding someone on the same wavelength sexually

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

Well me and MRSP were singles on the scene we met fell in love and now getting married in 8 weeks. ..we have the best life ever and cannot wait to see what the future holds for us xxx

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

There's loads of people on here who would like a relationship with the right person. There's people who say it outright on the forums and in their profiles and also people who probably don't even know it yet because they haven't met that person that makes them want a relationship. I'd say mention on your profile that you're open to it and also read through the forum, who knows maybe that person who us for you has already declared their desire

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is totally what i would love to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is pretty much the same reason im here, I want the benefits of being in a relationship without actually being in one

I think though when it's a woman that wants this men tend to get worried and think she's "catching feelings" and back off a bit, which is a shame cause the majority of the time that's not the case

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By *lick9Man
over a year ago

Stockport

its funny I was not looking to find anyone to meet on a regulars basis. I have done that on POF and converted them to being swingers on fab. Both relationships lasted about two years . I now find myself in a relationship with the best girl ever who I met on here, This was not supposed to have happened , funny how its sneaks up on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for getting involved folks, appreciate all the contributions made. I was replying to each one but too many now ha ha Hope other people got something from the post anyway, thanks again ladies and gents x

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Wow, it's amazing to see how many ladies want relationships , what is it about this relationship of a thing , why can't we do away with this relationship thing lol

To me, you can enjoy me, go to the cinema with me, go for dinner with me , make love to me , whatever you want , all I ask is keep the idea of a relationship out of the equation. Why is this relationship thing so important to the ladies? am confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, it's amazing to see how many ladies want relationships , what is it about this relationship of a thing , why can't we do away with this relationship thing lol

To me, you can enjoy me, go to the cinema with me, go for dinner with me , make love to me , whatever you want , all I ask is keep the idea of a relationship out of the equation. Why is this relationship thing so important to the ladies? am confused."

That's a real shame James. You always sound like a real catch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, it's amazing to see how many ladies want relationships , what is it about this relationship of a thing , why can't we do away with this relationship thing lol

To me, you can enjoy me, go to the cinema with me, go for dinner with me , make love to me , whatever you want , all I ask is keep the idea of a relationship out of the equation. Why is this relationship thing so important to the ladies? am confused."

Erm... I think it was a man who started this thread, so...

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Wow, it's amazing to see how many ladies want relationships , what is it about this relationship of a thing , why can't we do away with this relationship thing lol

To me, you can enjoy me, go to the cinema with me, go for dinner with me , make love to me , whatever you want , all I ask is keep the idea of a relationship out of the equation. Why is this relationship thing so important to the ladies? am confused.

That's a real shame James. You always sound like a real catch"

Quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not? You can meet a partner anywhere. And at least on here, you can be having fun in the meantime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here and now we are a couple. Neither of us were actually looking for anything more than something casual but hey ho these things happen. Couldn’t be happier. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, it's amazing to see how many ladies want relationships , what is it about this relationship of a thing , why can't we do away with this relationship thing lol

To me, you can enjoy me, go to the cinema with me, go for dinner with me , make love to me , whatever you want , all I ask is keep the idea of a relationship out of the equation. Why is this relationship thing so important to the ladies? am confused."

There are degrees of NSA so why are you surprised, I’d imagine a vast majority of women on here are looking for a relationship of sorts.

It’s shown in the territory marking & jealous behaviour played out on here.

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"You’re right, I’ve met a couple of really nice women on here, genuinely nice people...always attached though...boo ha ha Thanks Mrs C, really pleased for you and congratulations! x"

Well don’t meet the cheating ones then??

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

Hello OP, how nice to see such a positive and encouraging thread.. I had a relationship from here over a 6 year period.. For the last 3 years we lived together and had some of the best times of my life with meeting other couples... The sex with your partner after a meet with another couple is just the best!! There are no words to express how good it is

Unfortunately and very sadly, it came to and end when due to family issues I had to relocate, my relocation would have put my ex partner too far away from his children so we had to make a very painful decision...

At some point, I hope I will be able to put my big girl pants on and put myself out there to find another with a like mind... It does seem from this thread there are a few people out there..

What you have to remember though is you can't just jump into this lifestyle with just anyone.. First and foremost you have to have a very strong relationship and be absolutely secure in yourselves and each other, as this lifestyle can break relationships too.. Good communication is absolutely essential ... Good luck it can happen xxx Lady A xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, it's amazing to see how many ladies want relationships , what is it about this relationship of a thing , why can't we do away with this relationship thing lol

To me, you can enjoy me, go to the cinema with me, go for dinner with me , make love to me , whatever you want , all I ask is keep the idea of a relationship out of the equation. Why is this relationship thing so important to the ladies? am confused.

That's a real shame James. You always sound like a real catch"

LMAO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi everyone, hope you’re all well. Just thought I’d post this and see what people’s thoughts are. As a single guy who doesn’t particularly want to be single but would like to meet someone with a healthy appetite for sex abd intimacy, I thought Fab might be a good way of possibly meeting a woman who may be in a similar position. After being on here for about a month now, I don’t think Fab really lends itself to that. Anybody else, make or female, on here for a similar reason to me? Any success stories? All the best folks x"

You will need A LOT of patience. Imagine 49 out of every 50 mags you carefully write an send will get instantly binned, most that you do get a chat with you will not click with, a few people a day might look at your profile - some do it incognito so you won't even know, nobody will send you a wink, and probably nobody will send you the first message.

That all sounds very cynical but it is fairly accurate. That said, you could be one of the lucky ones.

My advice is to keep all options open and use other sites as well. Being on the forums will get you noticed more, good or bad, and fate will win the day in the end.

To summarise: set your expectations to the lowest setting possible.

Good luck.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Wow, it's amazing to see how many ladies want relationships , what is it about this relationship of a thing , why can't we do away with this relationship thing lol

To me, you can enjoy me, go to the cinema with me, go for dinner with me , make love to me , whatever you want , all I ask is keep the idea of a relationship out of the equation. Why is this relationship thing so important to the ladies? am confused.

That's a real shame James. You always sound like a real catch"

The truth is am really sweet if you get to know me face to face, I am definitely different in my way of thinking but still very sweet.

I do not take talking on the computer or forum seriously and if a lady is respectful I will treat her like a Queen, when we are face to face.

I really don't understand why the relationship thing is so important to ladies because I believe ladies tend to change when in a relationship and become someone else.

I only want to enjoy the sweet side of the ladies and this side is only available when there is no relationship. They are not jealous in this stage and there is no stress. I don't want to taste the bitter side of the ladies, which mostly comes with the relationship.

This is my experience, now maybe the ladies are acting when there is no relationship but honestly I enjoy them better when there is no relationship and prefer it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, it's amazing to see how many ladies want relationships , what is it about this relationship of a thing , why can't we do away with this relationship thing lol

To me, you can enjoy me, go to the cinema with me, go for dinner with me , make love to me , whatever you want , all I ask is keep the idea of a relationship out of the equation. Why is this relationship thing so important to the ladies? am confused.

That's a real shame James. You always sound like a real catch

The truth is am really sweet if you get to know me face to face, I am definitely different in my way of thinking but still very sweet.

I do not take talking on the computer or forum seriously and if a lady is respectful I will treat her like a Queen, when we are face to face.

I really don't understand why the relationship thing is so important to ladies because I believe ladies tend to change when in a relationship and become someone else.

I only want to enjoy the sweet side of the ladies and this side is only available when there is no relationship. They are not jealous in this stage and there is no stress. I don't want to taste the bitter side of the ladies, which mostly comes with the relationship.

This is my experience, now maybe the ladies are acting when there is no relationship but honestly I enjoy them better when there is no relationship and prefer it."

I guess that’s your prerogative. Still sounds like a catch...

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

There is no catch, ok what does the relationship solve for me as a man in a swinging environment?

What is the opportunity cost of the relationship to me as a man in a swinging environment?

I am disciplined and honest to myself.I face the truth instead of believe a lie.

I enjoy everything the relationship will offer with the ladies I see without being in a relationship.

The opportunity cost of the relationship in a swinging environment to me is too big as compared to not being in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no catch, ok what does the relationship solve for me as a man in a swinging environment?

What is the opportunity cost of the relationship to me as a man in a swinging environment?

I am disciplined and honest to myself.I face the truth instead of believe a lie.

I enjoy everything the relationship will offer with the ladies I see without being in a relationship.

The opportunity cost of the relationship in a swinging environment to me is too big as compared to not being in a relationship."

Nobody's trying to convince you to be in a relationship

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Ok let me rephrase the question, what does the relationship solve for the ladies in a swinging environment?

What is the opportunity cost of a relationship to the ladies in a swinging environment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no catch, ok what does the relationship solve for me as a man in a swinging environment?

What is the opportunity cost of the relationship to me as a man in a swinging environment?

I am disciplined and honest to myself.I face the truth instead of believe a lie.

I enjoy everything the relationship will offer with the ladies I see without being in a relationship.

The opportunity cost of the relationship in a swinging environment to me is too big as compared to not being in a relationship.

Nobody's trying to convince you to be in a relationship "

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Methinks he doth protest too much.....and is actually trying to convince himself.....not the rest of Fabville

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By *elsosreyxCouple
over a year ago

Southminster

We met on here, still going strong three years later

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