FabSwingers.com forum: Guys who won’t take no for an answer

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bit of a rant

We’re a genuine bi couple who are looking for other bi couples our profile says exactly that. We want both partners to be bi when potentially meeting that’s just what we want.

Yet we still get pushy messages from male halfs of couples who are straight wanting us to fuck their wife while he watches.

No thanks! This is not what we want and then when we decline they get shitty.

It’s not hard to read a profile and understand what we’re looking for surely??

Is there any genuine bi couples out there in the south west. Please do say hello. X

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

You need to put that at the beginning of your profile, you may perhaps comb out some non-readers that way.

Then simply block the people who don’t read your profile, you’re wasting your own time replying to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That’s not a bad idea, the male half has updated our status to reflect that. I’ve also popped a line in further down on the profile.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the usual story to be honest, either cant be bothered to read the profile, or are chancing it anyway. We only meet at clubs, yet get so many "hey I'm in the area, lets meet now" messages, and messages where we have explained that we only do clubs but they keep on coming back, probably hoping we will give in. Oh, and the many insulting ones. We get a few of them.

Thats what the block button is for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its the usual story to be honest, either cant be bothered to read the profile, or are chancing it anyway. We only meet at clubs, yet get so many "hey I'm in the area, lets meet now" messages, and messages where we have explained that we only do clubs but they keep on coming back, probably hoping we will give in. Oh, and the many insulting ones. We get a few of them.

Thats what the block button is for

Oh definitely although I think I’m too polite and then J logs in and tells them exactly how it is lol he doesn’t take any crap.

It’s just so annoying isn’t it!

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

Thats what the block button is for

this

We thought inverness must be the "passing through" capital of the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of a rant

No thanks! This is not what we want and then when we decline they get shitty.

Exactly the reason we don't respond to about 95% of the messages we get.

That 95% are guys who haven't read the profile, so why should we make an effort?

Bitter experience confirms its best just to read the message and not respond. Even polite negative responses just open the door to some half-wit with a hardon to try again, or get abusive. We don't even delete the messages, just read, not respond and move on. Works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block. Not that difficult.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I had a message this morning from a guy who was in the area & did I fancy meeting up later.

I replied out of courtesy saying I was busy but thanks (which is true).

I then got a further 4 messages - what are you doing & what time will you be free, if your plans change let me know etc etc ...

I responded to tell him that this approach was exactly why women don’t bother replying to messages & simply delete them - and then blocked him!

Some people just don’t help themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message this morning from a guy who was in the area & did I fancy meeting up later.

I replied out of courtesy saying I was busy but thanks (which is true).

I then got a further 4 messages - what are you doing & what time will you be free, if your plans change let me know etc etc ...

I responded to tell him that this approach was exactly why women don’t bother replying to messages & simply delete them - and then blocked him!

Some people just don’t help themselves!"

I just take it on the chin. Don’t see the point in getting pissy. My ego can take rejection haha

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