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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question:

As s tv I have noticed more and more of you are having breast implants or hormone therapy.

Would you consider going all the way to becoming female and have the full op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely,I’d just have no idea how to go about starting hormones etc

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

If I knew at 19 what I know at 49, then yes my life would have turned out very different. But age has a fossilising effect on the body and the transformation possible at 19 is very different from the one at 49, so I've learned just to accept and embrace what I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I knew at 19 what I know at 49, then yes my life would have turned out very different. But age has a fossilising effect on the body and the transformation possible at 19 is very different from the one at 49, so I've learned just to accept and embrace what I have."

You look fabulous hun x

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By *ensualguy70TV/TS
over a year ago

paisley

I'll second that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question:

As s tv I have noticed more and more of you are having breast implants or hormone therapy.

Would you consider going all the way to becoming female and have the full op?

"

If I were younger, healthier, and wealthier ... hell yes, in a heartbeat. Or probably just the last two : )

But as it is, no. Really I'm content enough though. Or at least, I've finally found a place which on the whole isn't too bad at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I knew at 19 what I know at 49, then yes my life would have turned out very different. But age has a fossilising effect on the body and the transformation possible at 19 is very different from the one at 49, so I've learned just to accept and embrace what I have."

That's a good point about what's possible at different ages, I'd not even considered that.

You sound content though, that's lovely. I agree too, you do look gorgeous and your profile is a nice read x

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Yes definitely,I’d just have no idea how to go about starting hormones etc "

Go see your GP and ask them to refer you to a Gender Clinic. Take a look at which ones you can get to (there are a few across the country) as you can specify which one. I will warn you though that the waiting times are long, but there is nothing stopping you from doing bits yourself like name changing, dressing full time, or anything you feel you can do comfortably without hormones. Ask about a bridging prescription, there are some who have managed to get hormones while they wait for their GC appointment.

If your GP isn't particularly helpful don't forget that you aren't stuck with them, go and see another. They may not be very knowledgeable so you may (although it would be helpful doing the research for yourself anyway) have to direct them yourself.

If you're truly serious about it, don't hold yourself back, there is help out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes definitely,I’d just have no idea how to go about starting hormones etc

Go see your GP and ask them to refer you to a Gender Clinic. Take a look at which ones you can get to (there are a few across the country) as you can specify which one. I will warn you though that the waiting times are long, but there is nothing stopping you from doing bits yourself like name changing, dressing full time, or anything you feel you can do comfortably without hormones. Ask about a bridging prescription, there are some who have managed to get hormones while they wait for their GC appointment.

If your GP isn't particularly helpful don't forget that you aren't stuck with them, go and see another. They may not be very knowledgeable so you may (although it would be helpful doing the research for yourself anyway) have to direct them yourself.

If you're truly serious about it, don't hold yourself back, there is help out there x"

Thanks so much hun, very kind of you to take the time to write that, will be taking action very soon xx

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

If you are going to do the full change . do it as young as possible . waiting too long doesn't necessarily give you the end result you'd always hoped for I've had two friends do it privately ( very costly ) and both have turned out a total shambles .one paid £2000 to have the Adams apple removed and voice box altered . this leaves a fair old scar. She sounds more male now than she ever used to .it took her six months to learn how to speak again . be careful its not all about having a pair of boobs and a pussy

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

As far as I'm concerned I dont think I need to go down that road . I feel v femme anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as someone who is waiting for a first appointment at leeds gic,i know how frustrating it is at the nhs has failed to see people within 18 weeks. by the way, i got the letter from leeds saying that i was on the waiting list in march 2016, and november 2017 they say that they are hoping to see me by october this year. if you can go private, then so much better, but ask on the forum and also ask people at your local lgbt group if they know of people who can prescribe bridging hormones.(but when you get to see someone at the gic, they will probably not be as polite compared to as if you had waited to see them and then be prescribed.) hope it helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as someone who is waiting for a first appointment at leeds gic,i know how frustrating it is at the nhs has failed to see people within 18 weeks. by the way, i got the letter from leeds saying that i was on the waiting list in march 2016, and november 2017 they say that they are hoping to see me by october this year. if you can go private, then so much better, but ask on the forum and also ask people at your local lgbt group if they know of people who can prescribe bridging hormones.(but when you get to see someone at the gic, they will probably not be as polite compared to as if you had waited to see them and then be prescribed.) hope it helps"

Good luck Hun

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
over a year ago

France, Not in


"If I knew at 19 what I know at 49, then yes my life would have turned out very different. But age has a fossilising effect on the body and the transformation possible at 19 is very different from the one at 49, so I've learned just to accept and embrace what I have."

Great comment and I fully agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no, I love who I am both dressed and drab. Having said that I’ve never felt trapped in the wrong body and appreciate why a number of girls take that route.

A few of my friends of have gone full op post hormones and from my observation it’s neither a simple task or indeed one that automatically leads to happiness. I think inevitably you end up with supplementary surgery on top and whilst i’ll say a number of the young girls look stunning I do fear for them a little as age creeps on, plastic surgery isn’t the kindest of beasts when the ageing process kicks in.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Anyone considering moving along this path, I would recommend going along to a good support group where you can get advice and meet other people going through similar. In the north west the good groups I know are Manchester Transforum, Unique in north wales, InTrust in liverpool. For groups in other parts of the country you could try the Gires website, they have a directory. At groups like these you can get advice that the health service don't even know they should provide, get tips on how to negotiate the GIC system, find out about the social and legal aspects of transitioning... Anyone want to go into more detail or get more details, please pm me. Polly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really interesting and informative thread. Thank you OP.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Aa others have said, if age was on my side thrn absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny that this has come up on forums tonight I’ve just watched a couple of episodes of transformation street. The older lady Stephy had me in tears for her. She looked fantastic. I admire anyone who’s got the balls (no pun intended) to actually be who they are. The journey isn’t an easy one by the looks of it.

Some of the male to female need lots of work but aparently it’s easier to create a vagina than it is for female to male.

Either way it’s brutal surgery. Fair play to you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have considered it and decided it is probably not for me, although I suspect that in a decade or two I might regret not going full time.

A couple of close friends have transitioned and seem to be happy with the outcome.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Do note that going full time and having hormones/surgery can be independent decisions. I have friends who live full time as female without having done any surgery, friends who have done both, friends happy as part time but publicly open who have done neither. About the only combination that i don't personally know anyone, but have heard of it happening, is having had surgery done without being full time transitioned. I'll leave it for people to look at my photos and guess for yourself where i might personally fit in the equation. Polly xx

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Nope, I'm quite happy being able to be both a masculine man and a feminine girl. Lilly is part of who I am but she is not the whole of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope I can ask this without someone taking offence. I mean nothing bad by it. I'm merely curious. Anyway...

When a person goes from female to male, can he ever gain an erection? As such go on to have a full sex life using his own penis?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I hope I can ask this without someone taking offence. I mean nothing bad by it. I'm merely curious. Anyway...

When a person goes from female to male, can he ever gain an erection? As such go on to have a full sex life using his own penis?"

Yes. All depends on hrt amounts etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was single I would go for the full hormones and breast enhancement but id never have my cock removed, I love my cock and the thought of having a womans body, large breasts and a cock is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope I can ask this without someone taking offence. I mean nothing bad by it. I'm merely curious. Anyway...

When a person goes from female to male, can he ever gain an erection? As such go on to have a full sex life using his own penis?

Yes. All depends on hrt amounts etc. "

Thank you

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I hope I can ask this without someone taking offence. I mean nothing bad by it. I'm merely curious. Anyway...

When a person goes from female to male, can he ever gain an erection? As such go on to have a full sex life using his own penis?"

Without surgery all we have, if we are lucky, is an enlarged clitoris. It is very rare that it will get big enough for penetration.

With surgery it depends on whether an erectile device is chosen or not. I didn't have one put in, I still have a full sex life though, but then I'm a Bottom not a Top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope I can ask this without someone taking offence. I mean nothing bad by it. I'm merely curious. Anyway...

When a person goes from female to male, can he ever gain an erection? As such go on to have a full sex life using his own penis?

Yes. All depends on hrt amounts etc.

Thank you"

I'm no expert on ftm, but I think trans men can get an inflatable implant in their penis for sex

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I hope I can ask this without someone taking offence. I mean nothing bad by it. I'm merely curious. Anyway...

When a person goes from female to male, can he ever gain an erection? As such go on to have a full sex life using his own penis?

Yes. All depends on hrt amounts etc.

Thank you

I'm no expert on ftm, but I think trans men can get an inflatable implant in their penis for sex "

Yes, either an inflatable or bendable implant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yet to meet a happy post op,having ones penis removed and getting castrated is a pure fight against nature which has its dire consequences...

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

I am very happy as I am and would never consider to get rid of my happenis.

Although I am on hormones but not t blockers, so a fine balance as in my sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yet to meet a happy post op,having ones penis removed and getting castrated is a pure fight against nature which has its dire consequences..."

Couldn’t agree more. I prefer the thinking of a 3rd sex... embrace your form and find happiness with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Society places too much expectation on genders.

Girls toys boys toys, girls clothes boys clothes, i was considered a tomboy because i liked doing things boys did, cant toys be just toys and clothes just clothes?

Its about what makes you happy.

Consider cross dressers - perfectly happy with their body but love to wear clothes society states isnt for their gender.

Then trans well the world is huge

Transvestites who have a persona. They are happy with their gender but enjoy becoming someone else. They dress and they become that person be it briefly or for a while. Happy in who they are and who they become.

Then there are people who want to live full time in a gender role without any surgery or hormones.

Then people who want some feminine surgery but without hormones

Then those who want hormones but with to keep their sexual organs

Then we come to those who wish to have full gender surgery

Not mentioning all in between theres so many variations on what a person wants and will make them happy or feel whole.

There is nothing wrong in any of these choices. What matters above all else is being happy.

Be happy and be yourself.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Yes definitely,I’d just have no idea how to go about starting hormones etc

Go see your GP and ask them to refer you to a Gender Clinic. Take a look at which ones you can get to (there are a few across the country) as you can specify which one. I will warn you though that the waiting times are long, but there is nothing stopping you from doing bits yourself like name changing, dressing full time, or anything you feel you can do comfortably without hormones. Ask about a bridging prescription, there are some who have managed to get hormones while they wait for their GC appointment.

If your GP isn't particularly helpful don't forget that you aren't stuck with them, go and see another. They may not be very knowledgeable so you may (although it would be helpful doing the research for yourself anyway) have to direct them yourself.

If you're truly serious about it, don't hold yourself back, there is help out there x

Thanks so much hun, very kind of you to take the time to write that, will be taking action very soon xx"

Good to hear my gf is 20 and is starting her transition this year and will be going full op as she has always felt she was wrong gender from young age thankfully she has low testosterone so transitioning should be a bit easier xx Good luck with yours hun you got a very feminine face already x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yet to meet a happy post op,having ones penis removed and getting castrated is a pure fight against nature which has its dire consequences..."

I know several, and all are, as far as I can tell, happy with their decision.

As long as somebody understands the process when they start, it can be life changing in a good way.

Having said that, on some forums there can be peer pressure to transition - it is certainly not for all transgendered people, and is not easy.

You can argue any medical treatment is a fight against nature.

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