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By *rskinkyandsweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

West London

Hi All!!

I’d like to know what you single ladies want to get as an opening message from a guy to check I’m not missing out on opportunities by being too picky!!! What gets you to reply????

I like a profile that’s not only got Dick pics, and maybe hasn’t even got any at all!!

As for the text, I like stuff that’s not the usual ‘how are you doing’ - too boring! And something that intrigues me or interests me, but I also don’t want a life story or war and peace!!!!

Thank you!!!

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By *allish blokeMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

You have my attention lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want great sex...if I was looking for a partner, I very much doubt I'd be messaging people on here.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

A face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i look at the profile first...if it looks like its from someone who has actually read my profile,then i'm perfectly happy with simple, polite, hi, how are you? messages..the majority are so crude and rude, im pleased if someone can actually be civil..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, works for me sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like effort in a profile and body/dick pictures, (I like to see if a guy is my type or not before I reply) don't necessarily have to see a face pic in first messages

That being said when I message guys first I always send face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to all first messages.

Men rarely get replies so they get fed up and don't make an effort- I can't blame them at all for that. I pay more attention to their second messages in response to my reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi All!!

I’d like to know what you single ladies want to get as an opening message from a guy to check I’m not missing out on opportunities by being too picky!!! What gets you to reply????

I like a profile that’s not only got Dick pics, and maybe hasn’t even got any at all!!

As for the text, I like stuff that’s not the usual ‘how are you doing’ - too boring! And something that intrigues me or interests me, but I also don’t want a life story or war and peace!!!!

Thank you!!!

"

Someone that makes me smile and think hmmmm

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I always look at a profile before the message and if he ticks my boxes so to speak I'll reply, unless it's a crude one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reply to all first messages.

Men rarely get replies so they get fed up and don't make an effort- I can't blame them at all for that. I pay more attention to their second messages in response to my reply. "

I'm very tempted but knowing my luck your mysterious profile will turn out to be a man masquerading as a woman to give sympathetic replies to men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reply to all first messages.

Men rarely get replies so they get fed up and don't make an effort- I can't blame them at all for that. I pay more attention to their second messages in response to my reply.

I'm very tempted but knowing my luck your mysterious profile will turn out to be a man masquerading as a woman to give sympathetic replies to men lol"

If I was a man I'd choose a better pic than a carrot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If I was a man I'd choose a better pic than a carrot. "

Why carrot though?

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Firstly its an interesting non-vulgar profile name, then an eye catching profile picture which is not a cock or blank.

Some substance to the message rather than a few words ie how are you? Or Nice eyes/tits, or i'm in the area want to meet.

Then i'll look at the profile, which hopefully would not be an old profile with 'i'll fill this bit in later' or the sydney university crap is longer than their text.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There


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If I was a man I'd choose a better pic than a carrot. "

It's certainly an interesting choice of profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If I was a man I'd choose a better pic than a carrot.

Why carrot though?"

Because the sprout wasn't smiley enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If I was a man I'd choose a better pic than a carrot.

Why carrot though?

Because the sprout wasn't smiley enough."

Well nor was the carrot til you drew a smile on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reply to all first messages.

Men rarely get replies so they get fed up and don't make an effort- I can't blame them at all for that. I pay more attention to their second messages in response to my reply. "

Men can't message you. You've blocked all men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reply to all first messages.

Men rarely get replies so they get fed up and don't make an effort- I can't blame them at all for that. I pay more attention to their second messages in response to my reply.

Men can't message you. You've blocked all men."

I don't have anyone blocked. It just shows a warning because I don't have anything on my 'looking for' list at the mo. Anyone can still mail me.

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