FabSwingers.com forum: Biggest turn off on a profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whats your biggest turn off on a profile?

For me its the amount of verifications and people being beyond to the point and out right rude.

What about you guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think they are so rude if they don’t message back even if it’s a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think they are so rude if they don’t message back even if it’s a no thanks. "

maybe read the site FAQ's , they will explain clearly why it is not rude, no reply should be taken as a polite 'no thank you'.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Self-righteousness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black silhouette avatar,from those whose profile has the mobile phone symbol that have been a member for over a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poorly written and incorrect English will put me off even the sexiest of bods!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with text describing themselves as posh or educated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a sexy bod, would not care what you’re gramma was like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

I think there needs to be an automated button to click to say no thanks. I try to send a message back but can’t physically respond to all. It would take up too much of my day. I don’t get as many as some women and I find it overwhelming tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking for single guys.

Puts me right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have a sexy bod, would not care what you’re gramma was like "

Oh dear...

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Takes about five seconds to say "Not for us sorry" But if the guy hasn't read the profile and isn't within the criteria of the profile then they don't deserve a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not looking for single guys.

Puts me right off. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s wrong with admiration for a nice lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

That's because you aren't getting hundreds of messages a day!

If I was in the shoes of a lot if the women here, I'd read the emails until I found a couple I wanted to reply to, and the rest would just get mass deleted. Whos got the time to go through hundreds of messages!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s wrong with admiration for a nice lady "

It was the spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think they are so rude if they don’t message back even if it’s a no thanks. "

Set-up a couples or single fem account for a day and then come back and reply here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men who describe themselves as "curvy"

Dick pic for avatar

Randy profile text

"Gash" photos

I could probably go on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes a lot to put me off

, but I saw a profile that said "we don't like black people, or fat people" and just thought "you're clearly not very nice people at all...

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

Maybe if you got more than 500 messages a day, most of them cock pics you didn't ask for, most of them outside of your stated preferences, a lot of them obscene, and 99% of them being of no interest to you whatsoever you might be inclined to re-think your stance.

It only takes two seconds to put yourself in another person's shoes. I just think being angry and entitled about something you're not remotely entitled to is downright rude, but I can put myself in your shoes for two seconds and see that you're obviously frustrated that you're not getting the attention you'd hoped for, and you're venting. So I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and politely point out how it might feel to be on the other side of the situation, instead of having an angry outburst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry in advance for this example...

lack of any considerations for the person reading the run on sentences that take up the whole profile with no way of knowing what their intended inflection or emphasis is txt spk wen t days o 160 chr sms r ln gone and ticking every possible option as an interest we have a few things that grind a little haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock/genital photos, esp as profile pic. I'd rather talk to a silhouette.

Badly spelled badly written, minimal sentences and textspeak. Or a wall of text with little or no punctuation. That probably makes me sound like an elitist grammar freak but hey.

People describing themselves as "genuine", "fun", "funny", "nice" etc etc.

Profiles that bang on about time wasters and what a rubbish site this is.

Sydney University nonsense.

I daresay I could think of more. It's no wonder I never meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes a lot to put me off

, but I saw a profile that said "we don't like black people, or fat people" and just thought "you're clearly not very nice people at all... "

They sound lush!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No angry outbursts here.

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

"I just think they are so rude if they don’t message back even if it’s a no thanks. "

Nobody is due a reply. We will sometimes reply with a no thanks if it not for us, but not always. Its not rude, what is rude is some of the messages we get, folk showing no respect and going about things in way that gets them no where. Also a turn off is when they have put no effort at all into their own page, no pic, nothing about them or photos. G

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"It takes a lot to put me off

, but I saw a profile that said "we don't like black people, or fat people" and just thought "you're clearly not very nice people at all... "

This

Anyone that comes across as overly judgemental or actively demeaning other people (only men in suits, no scruffy tramps/no fatties go to the gym instead/ etc etc ad infinitum) makes me gag a little bit. And those that are self righteous and ranty. Wind yer neck in, bab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It takes a lot to put me off

, but I saw a profile that said "we don't like black people, or fat people" and just thought "you're clearly not very nice people at all...

This

"Bab"....I love that...I never hear anyone else use it

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

"I just think they are so rude if they don’t message back even if it’s a no thanks.

Also arrogance, can not stand guys who scream look at me. As soon as i see that it a 100% no. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Takes about five seconds to say "Not for us sorry" But if the guy hasn't read the profile and isn't within the criteria of the profile then they don't deserve a reply. "

Exactly this

If people can't tailor their messages for the person they're writing to, if it's obvious that they've not even scanned your profile or even looked at pics properly, then I agree they deserve to be treated like junk mail.

On a bad day I will reply with a sentence or two of outright sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who call themselves educated and then have the Sydney University load of bollocks warning on their profile.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

420 friendly.

Each to their own but if they feel the need to be stoned when playing then they’re not for us.

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"People who call themselves educated and then have the Sydney University load of bollocks warning on their profile.

I wonder if Sydney Uni had an influx of students going there because of that warning!

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By *heoralexpertMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough/Helmsley NY

A guy sucking off another guy

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Guys with cock pics as avatars. That just screams to us "this bloke is an arse"

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Nothing really. We take each profile for what it is.

Even cock pics don't always offend me. There are some really nice cocks on here

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

Profiles with text describing themselves as posh or educated.

And professional especially if it's proffesional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who call themselves educated and then have the Sydney University load of bollocks warning on their profile.

I wonder if Sydney Uni had an influx of students going there because of that warning!

Worked for me. I'm actually here to work on my thesis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*starts taking notes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single guys profile..but his pictures are full of women sucking him off or him fucking several different women with NO protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Your” rather than “You’re”

Its the little things!

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"People who call themselves educated and then have the Sydney University load of bollocks warning on their profile.

I wonder if Sydney Uni had an influx of students going there because of that warning!

Worked for me. I'm actually here to work on my thesis

You can’t use my pictures!! Unless I’m getting royalties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles which are dick pics only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excessive vagina pics and no single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Self-righteousness"

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

This

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

Straight guys who make a point about how straight they are with verifications from TVs.

Meet me now babe -of course, I will drop everything to suck your smeggy cock. (messages)

Couples that say looking for bi women to play with the Mrs - clearly written by a bloke.

'looking for the elusive unicorn' I'm not elusive I'm here most days but I don't find the chav look attractive.

Bad spelling, misuse of the English language, text speak, Sydney university and the like copied off Facebook. Etc etc etc

I look like a snob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men profiles where the pics are mainly of a woman and just a little bit of his cock.

Men in ladies underwear (not TV/TS)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Your” rather than “You’re”

Its the little things!

I had a "u're" once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone mentioning discrete

Bare back "action" socks

Married

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

Profiles saying no photo with messages no reply, when they have no public photos on profile.

Profiles with one photo ....of a penis...

How hard is it (pun intended) to provide one full body photo showing physique - not necessarily completely naked, maybe a couple in various poses. No need to show face in public photos. What use is a penis without the rest of you (don't answer that!!).

'To be completed later' in the about you section or 5 words that explains nothing about your attitude, requirements or preferences.

Age range set 18-99....you don't really mean it.

Straight but only verified by men

All veris hidden -we use the veris to get a feel for what peeps enjoy and if they are similar to us it's a big plus. Have no problem will lots of veris....it's a swingers site for goodness sake.

If you are using Fabs as a dating site to find a life partner maybe you want minimal veris -thats fine but don't complain about those that have more.

Example: it's really useful to see a guys has veris from couples when we are a couple, as opposed to single women only.

I could go on...!!!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

Being on fab isn’t a bloody job, it’s supposed to be fun. One time I put new pics up and changed my status a few times. In one day I got over 600 messages. I replied to some which generated more.

So you can think what you like but if you expect people to do what you want and not what they want, you’re going to be in for a disappointing time.

I answer what messages I want when I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close up pussy pics

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

For me it's the profiles that come across as really unfriendly and overly demanding, maybe that's not the way it was intended as it's hard to convey in text but if I'm reading it that way I just click off the profile regardless of how hot they may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

complaning about English grammar when you don't have good parse- syntax-grammar yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples profiles where the photos are only of the lady.

Single lady profiles with lots of pics of shoes- why??

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"complaning about English grammar when you don't have good parse- syntax-grammar yourself."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone

What a good idea you should suggest that to the site.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Profiles of just genitalia, usually all similar, worse if cum dripping out. Couples profile with no pics of the man. Profiles with no pics or friends only pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

Problem is bud women get 100s messages where we get a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sense of entitlement

Being on this site does not entitle you to a reply let alone anything else

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The ones I move on fastest from are those where little or no effort has been made and the text amounts to not much more than a single line.

Besides those many of the examples already given would put me off but one that's not been mentioned is overly graphic veris, especially if the profile owner has left equally graphic one also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone mentioning discrete

Bare back "action" socks

Married

Bareback action, action socks or both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone mentioning discrete

Bare back "action" socks

Married

Bareback action, action socks or both?"

Both

*shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us the biggest turn off is the lack of respect towards my Mrs. Why would anyone post only cock pics. Aren't there other body parts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single females and couples x

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

No photos, one line bio, excessive demands

O and “ straight Guy”. Drives me nuts when straight guys message me looking to pound me ass. Do they not think that maybe I want to pound thiers

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Pictures of other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone mentioning discrete

Bare back "action" socks

Married

Bareback action, action socks or both?

Both

*shots"

If Lovehoney did Action Socks...

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Fill in later

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"I just think they are so rude if they don’t message back even if it’s a no thanks. "

If someone's put in a bit of effort they'll get a reply, even if it is a polite no thanks. The one liners, dick pics and the ones who obviously never bothered to read what I'm looking for are deleted in a split second and probably blocked as well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men who describe themselves as "curvy"

Omg I was just thinking that this morning!!

Also pics of women on a single guys profile, messy rooms, dressed like a chav and cock pics. Oh and disgusting language and bad grammar and if they’re too far away...... basically everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

I used to ALWAYS send a thanks but no thanks message. Unfortunately, 9 out of 10 times I’d get an abusive message back. Now I just instantly block to avoid the abuse... so when a decent guy messages he probably does think I’m being rude, but if you could see just a few of the nasty messages we get from guys on here, you would understand our being rude and not replying x

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"Whats your biggest turn off on a profile?

For me its the amount of verifications and people being beyond to the point and out right rude.

What about you guys? "

Amount of veris will not put us off. This is a swingers site after all.

However, we do look at veris - and may be put off by who someone who they have played with previously.

Sometimes it's a case of 'if you're willing to go there, you're not coming here'.

Not just fussy swingers, fussy by proxy swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poorly written and incorrect English will put me off even the sexiest of bods!"

Could not agree more... Your sexy, i'd love to grab you're arse etc... And don't get me started on txt speak!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats your biggest turn off on a profile?

For me its the amount of verifications and people being beyond to the point and out right rude.

What about you guys?

Amount of veris will not put us off. This is a swingers site after all.

However, we do look at veris - and may be put off by who someone who they have played with previously.

Sometimes it's a case of 'if you're willing to go there, you're not coming here'.

Not just fussy swingers, fussy by proxy swingers. "

Totally this!!!

There are some people here who look like they have never come into contact with personal hygiene products... if they are on a verification of someone who has messaged me ... it’s an instant no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who call themselves educated and then have the Sydney University load of bollocks warning on their profile.

made me laugh thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who's description reads "fill in later"

Also 'straight' guys who are not looking for tvs who in reality are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor grammar, spelling, punctuation and the use of ‘text speak’ is an instant turn off for me, as are lots of tattoos.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Profile full off cock pictures its a delete from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

male only available on a couples profile

only bite if you want us too ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback pictures with multiple women, just an off putting thing to see, also shitloads of cock pics, well pics of men in general really tbh.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

‘Only after a long exchange of messages to see wether we connect will I or we consider meeting’

So that’ll be 2021 then!

‘If you have too many verifications you’re not for us

That’s why we’re on here to have sex with different attractive people.

‘If you’re the sort of person that attends clubs and parties pass us by’

Ok I’ll stay in every night and wait for your messages

‘This isn’ instashag”

Maybe it should be the site would be much more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been here before, know how this site works" - or any of the multiple variations.

Good on you, you can use a webbrowser! I'll stamp your hand with Well Done. What colour stamp would you like?

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

""Been here before, know how this site works" - or any of the multiple variations.

Good on you, you can use a webbrowser! I'll stamp your hand with Well Done. What colour stamp would you like?"
They are also usually very lucky as they can spot a time waster a mile off.I often wonder wether it’s easier to spot them if you are one

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Explicit pics

We all know why we are on here but don’t see the need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who choose to type in text talk.... it triggers me!

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

"People who choose to type in text talk.... it triggers me!

Yep, I already know when someone "rites lyk dis" that they aren't for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. Shitty usernames

. Graphic fuck pics

. No profile pic

. Lazy bios

. Whinging status updates

. Chavvy, text speak

. That stupid legal disclaimer

Jesus, I could go on

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By *pl4moreCouple
over a year ago

oldham

"Not looking for single guys.

Puts me right off. "

Why does that put you off?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"420 friendly.

Each to their own but if they feel the need to be stoned when playing then they’re not for us.

Ed"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aggressive profiles do nothing for me.

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By *adyR68Woman
over a year ago

HYDE

Profiles with text describing themselves as posh or educated.

And then you notice all the bad spelling and poor grammar

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"420 friendly.

Each to their own but if they feel the need to be stoned when playing then they’re not for us.

With you on that too

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By *adyR68Woman
over a year ago

HYDE

"Bareback pictures with multiple women, just an off putting thing to see, also shitloads of cock pics, well pics of men in general really tbh."

i hate the multiple Bareback pics too ... just why would you risk your health

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By *adyR68Woman
over a year ago

HYDE

"People who call themselves educated and then have the Sydney University load of bollocks warning on their profile.

made me laugh thanks "

Haha i think the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Poorly written and incorrect English will put me off even the sexiest of bods!"

Amen to that

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

If this is such a live and let live way of life , why on earth would anyone else’s profile offend you ?

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I'm liking the pro-grammar stance in this thread. I await the grenades!

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Professional fit couple that 'seek similar' we hate totally.

We've seen, over the years, plenty of these 'professional fit' couples at clubs and parties and, true, they have fit bods but boy are they ugly. Mostly ugly on the inside but ugly none the less. We'd rather meet honest, ordinary looking, ordinary bodied people anyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not looking for single guys.

Puts me right off.

Why does that put you off?

I'm a single guy, when I see that it tends to put me off sending a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whats your biggest turn off on a profile?

For me its the amount of verifications and people being beyond to the point and out right rude.

What about you guys? "

- Too many demands and hoops to jump through

- Cock and pussy close up pics

- Profiles with under ten words

- Attitude

- Misplaced assumptions about people

Could go on ...

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

CAPITAL LETTERS on a profile what a turn off

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

INDEED!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"A single guys profile..but his pictures are full of women sucking him off or him fucking several different women with NO protection. "

Yes! When the pictures are basically of a woman/women and all you can see if maybe part of his finger and his cock. It this her profile or yours?

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

But not replying isn't part of someone's profile.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Poor spelling

People who claim not to like married people then have veris from them

Shouty aggressive script

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick rants"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

Now I know you took a little flack in a different post, but you really should read the Q&As.

You may well reply to every message you get, but a fair few ladies on here get 100s...you’d need to give this place full time working hours to reply to all. And then there’s the ones that moan and bitch because you said no...and the ones that think they can persuade you to change your mind.

So in short if someone doesn’t reply it’s bcause they don’t wish to open any dialogue what so ever.

Not a question of rude at all.

MrsK x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

filth and i dont mean the sexual kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone

Now I know you took a little flack in a different post, but you really should read the Q&As.

So in short if someone doesn’t reply it’s bcause they don’t wish to open any dialogue what so ever.

Not a question of rude at all.

MrsK x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone

Now I know you took a little flack in a different post, but you really should read the Q&As.

So in short if someone doesn’t reply it’s bcause they don’t wish to open any dialogue what so ever.

Not a question of rude at all.

MrsK x"

Thanks again mrs k. I just rise to dickheads and say stupid things sometimes. The type of people who think they are above all others.

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Fat ugly women in their late 50's dreaming to meet a young athletic smart guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fat ugly women in their late 50's dreaming to meet a young athletic smart guy"

Well that excludes you from their dreams then. And you have verifications from men in their late 50s, don't see why you are attacking women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

But I’m guessing you don’t get hundreds a day like some do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A guy sucking off another guy "

I'd stick to looking at women's and MF couples' profiles if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Your” rather than “You’re”

Its the little things!

I had a "u're" once

If used in place of you're, surely that's accepted text speak?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mother natures arrived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone

But I’m guessing you don’t get hundreds a day like some do?"

I get this now and get my error, and I’m sure I apologised for not understanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Your” rather than “You’re”

Its the little things!

I had a "u're" once

If used in place of you're, surely that's accepted text speak?"

There is no such thing as acceptable text speak!

My main turn off has to be smokers. That's the first thing I check, before reading the profile, or checking the gallery. If they smoke, I just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders in..

Reads thread...

Wonders how anyone ever gets to meet anyone else ....

Slips quietly out of side door...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most things have been mentioned already but I shall add

Photos that aren't even theirs,

to the list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry in advance for this example...

huh! I didn't understand half of that.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Fat ugly women in their late 50's dreaming to meet a young athletic smart guy"

Not a very nice thing to say.

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By *adyR68Woman
over a year ago

HYDE

"Fat ugly women in their late 50's dreaming to meet a young athletic smart guy

Not a very nice thing to say."

i think that says more about you than the poor women you are slating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullet points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 paragraphs of text, ranting about their requirements/dislikes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"20 paragraphs of text, ranting about their requirements/dislikes."

Phew, thank goodness

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

"Takes about five seconds to say "Not for us sorry" But if the guy hasn't read the profile and isn't within the criteria of the profile then they don't deserve a reply. "

Have a star for that.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"Poorly written and incorrect English will put me off even the sexiest of bods!"

It's spelt 'Poorly ritten'.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I just think they are so rude if they don’t message back even if it’s a no thanks. "

So if it's your biggest turn off you shouldn't be bothered because the people who don't respond are presummably not what turns you on anyway. Nobody loses.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Takes about five seconds to say "Not for us sorry" But if the guy hasn't read the profile and isn't within the criteria of the profile then they don't deserve a reply.

Have a star for that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men who describe themselves as "curvy"

Dick pic for avatar

Randy profile text

"Gash" photos

I could probably go on..."

I don't get men that describes themselves as curvy. Usually means they have a beer belly.

Never met a man with a curvaceous hourglass figure! It's like me saying I'm athletic. Just no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles with text describing themselves as posh or educated.

I am not sure why this would offend or annoy anyone..?

If you would prefer to have both your brain and body stimulated. Why would you not point out the fact that you are educated as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of cock over the toilet, boxers round the ankles.

Cock pics with lynx cans, sky remotes and such like. I recently received a cock pic with a keyboard as a measurement. Classy!

Single guys with various Bareback pics with clearly different women.

Purple, angry looking cocks that look like they're being throttled to death!

I love minge, but find extreme close ups off putting.

Women using cheap, jelly sex toys. Bin them bad boys!!

I could go on forever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"20 paragraphs of text, ranting about their requirements/dislikes."

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

Rubbish photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"420 friendly.

Each to their own but if they feel the need to be stoned when playing then they’re not for us.

Ed"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Warnings at the end of their profile about court action ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any tips on mine . I have to update it and put more effort in soon.

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

hot wife

Any thing that has to do with 420 etc I'm not looking to get high just to have lots of sex and fun

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By *or Fox SakeCouple
over a year ago

Thornaby

Smoking

And bragging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apostrophes

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area

"You have a sexy bod, would not care what you’re gramma was like

Oh dear...

I think that was irony??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any thing that has to do with 420 etc I'm not looking to get high just to have lots of sex and fun "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake cock pics

Not reading my profile!!

Lots of bareback photos, just because I can’t bareback.

Men who say they are nice an polite

Normally turn out to be the biggest jerks here.

An people who have been here over a year. With nothing on there profile demanding a face pics

Typical women here , not much to moan about. I’m lovely honest

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

"Fat ugly women in their late 50's dreaming to meet a young athletic smart guy"

Say the super slim athletic guy !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

"Smoking

And bragging"
And up they’re own arse profiles with lots of do s and don’t s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy going , go with the flow !! What I think is this person will do anything or say anything to get a meet .

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We're pretty laid back.

You can always ask for photos and not everyone is good at spelling and grammar.

Though we don't get loads of messages, as we block single guys, so it's not really a problem for us.

I don't care if they have lots of verifications, it proves that they meet.

I do get put off my certainly physiques and ranty negative profiles.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

*By certain physiques

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who just come across as so serious/bitter/up themselves, it’s just fun

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Fat ugly women in their late 50's dreaming to meet a young athletic smart guy"

Yes, it must be annoying when they're not looking for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drug references and big willies.

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By *ueryMan
over a year ago

london

"It takes a lot to put me off

, but I saw a profile that said "we don't like black people, or fat people" and just thought "you're clearly not very nice people at all... "

Yea definitely.

I understand people and couples having specific things they find attractive but when you're browsing a profile and the very first thing you see is "NO BLACKS! NO BLACK PEOPLE...", christ, I mean it's hard not to take that a little personally

Also, when people have no pictures and a bare bones profile but expect you to send face/body/dick pics immediately while giving you absolutely no idea of what their personality or interests are...

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By *ueryMan
over a year ago

london

‘If you’re the sort of person that attends clubs and parties pass us by’

Ok I’ll stay in every night and wait for your messages

Wait? Why the hell would that ever be a bad thing? If it wasn't for clubs, socials and parties no one would ever meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a fb already " you know who you are "

The you know who you are bit drives me bonkers

Worse than someone telling you something followed by " does that make sense"

I always reply .....no sense whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-Loads of verifications,

-Pictures of unprotected sex

-Guys with pictures of their bum, assholes and profile says they are straight.

-desperate men.

I think that is it for now...

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘If you’re the sort of person that attends clubs and parties pass us by’

Ok I’ll stay in every night and wait for your messages

Wait? Why the hell would that ever be a bad thing? If it wasn't for clubs, socials and parties no one would ever meet!

I kind of understand why that would be a problem for people. I have never been to a club or any sort of parties like that and I used to think they might be dirty, not safe, full of sti and that sort of stuff. So I do understand why people don't like meeting others that go to clubs. But also you can get all that even if you go to someone else's house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rubbish photos "

I have rubbish photos, which is odd for someone who loves photography haha! I've never been good with portraits, so I'll just stick to landscapes

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By *ary_JosephCouple
over a year ago

South Shields

Biggest turn off?

Ranting about must haves and won't haves and going on about strict rules...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

What about couples who routinely get as many as a hundred messages every day? Should they really type out an answer to every one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the Ladies are getting hundreds of replies every day, what are they doing on a site like this in the first place ?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

How many messages do you get on a daily basis?

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By *ueryMan
over a year ago

london

‘If you’re the sort of person that attends clubs and parties pass us by’

Ok I’ll stay in every night and wait for your messages

Wait? Why the hell would that ever be a bad thing? If it wasn't for clubs, socials and parties no one would ever meet!

That's just not doing research then. It's not that clubs are perfect but it's much easier to meet people in person there and see if there's chemistry rather than repeated messages on Fab. Plus it's a great way to avoid time wasters...

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"If the Ladies are getting hundreds of replies every day, what are they doing on a site like this in the first place ?

Meaning what, exactly ? There seems to be an implication that women who are on here aren't able to get any attention in the 'real world.' I do hope I'm wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys with cock pics as avatars. That just screams to us "this bloke is an arse" "

You mean cock?! Unless it was an arse pic ...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"If the Ladies are getting hundreds of replies every day, what are they doing on a site like this in the first place ?

"
can you clarify your post please?

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone "

When I joined I replied to every Message. I was never nasty jist usually sd not meeting anyone new sorry. I got replies from "il b the best fuck of it life, is loss " to "didnt want to meet u anyway u fat slag". So now iv added if i dont reply im not interested to my profile. Why ahould i put up with abuse like that for saying no thanks. There were 10 of those to 1 saying no prob thanks for reply. So blame the idiots on the site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I joined I replied to every Message. I was never nasty jist usually sd not meeting anyone new sorry. I got replies from "il b the best fuck of it life, is loss " to "didnt want to meet u anyway u fat slag". So now iv added if i dont reply im not interested to my profile. Why ahould i put up with abuse like that for saying no thanks. There were 10 of those to 1 saying no prob thanks for reply. So blame the idiots on the site x "

Couldn’t agree more... no thank you is often interpreted as: pester more, fail to listen or in my case... become a uturn homophobe who suddenly wants to mock the ass that 2 minutes earlier they where trying to fuck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry Anna I just think it’s down right rude. I would never just ignore if I got a message off someone

Can't anything be done about these pricks? The little shit bags wouldn't say it your face so why say it at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the Ladies are getting hundreds of replies every day, what are they doing on a site like this in the first place ?

can you clarify your post please? "

What's to clarify?

He basically just said that he's only on here because he can't get laid in the real world. He thinks that's why everyone else is here and is confused

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