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"safe sex" and unprotected sex picures

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By *bout a Guy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hello fabs,

I see many people profiles writing "safe sex" on their preferences, only to have lots and lots of pictures, practising unprotected sex with different partners!

I do not get it

Now, when somebody doesn't mention safe sex, and has pictures doing unprotected sex, at least they are consistent.

Of course there can be genuine exceptions, of people practising safe sex with strangers, and having unprotected sex, and pictures, with people they know long term.

It still looks like false advertisement to me, stating something and leaving proof of the opposite.

What is your opinion about it?

(avoid such profiles/people, ask them, or?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fabs,

I see many people profiles writing "safe sex" on their preferences, only to have lots and lots of pictures, practising unprotected sex with different partners!

I do not get it

Now, when somebody doesn't mention safe sex, and has pictures doing unprotected sex, at least they are consistent.

Of course there can be genuine exceptions, of people practising safe sex with strangers, and having unprotected sex, and pictures, with people they know long term.

It still looks like false advertisement to me, stating something and leaving proof of the opposite.

What is your opinion about it?

(avoid such profiles/people, ask them, or?)"

I don't get why you say it's a preference list when in fact it's an interest list.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

At a guess, it's an indication they will practice safe sex if asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a bareback thread merely masquerading under a pseudonym?

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's an interests list not an "I/we ONLY do these things" list.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

[Removed by poster at 26/01/18 10:25:22]

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Is this a bareback thread merely masquerading under a pseudonym?"

Sue who?

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

My interests list has Adult Parties, Anal, DP, Gangbangs, Group Sex, Safe Sex, SM, Spanking, Threesomes, and Toys, on it. That doesn't mean all that has to happen during every meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use pics from relationships, long term Fb, partners etc, don’t akways assume they are having unsafe sex with random people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a bareback thread merely masquerading under a pseudonym?

Sue who?"

You don't know her? She's a shady one!

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Is this a bareback thread merely masquerading under a pseudonym?

Sue who?

You don't know her? She's a shady one! "

Oh yes, I do know her after all but she used another name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 26/01/18 13:13:16]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't look like this is going to plan lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why "action shots" are needed, whether with condoms or without. It is fair to assume that the vast majority of people (if not all!) using fab have had sex before, so do we need to see evidence of the cock going into the pussy? And in the case of the close up action shots, they could be of anybody, not necessarily the person displaying it on their profile, and I always wonder if the other person is aware and gave consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why "action shots" are needed, whether with condoms or without. It is fair to assume that the vast majority of people (if not all!) using fab have had sex before, so do we need to see evidence of the cock going into the pussy? And in the case of the close up action shots, they could be of anybody, not necessarily the person displaying it on their profile, and I always wonder if the other person is aware and gave consent."

You could say that about all pictures though. We've all seen tits/cocks/pussy/backs/legs/lingerie/action shots before, does that mean nobody need show any evidence of having those bits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spotted one last week only practice safe sex in the opening to there profile, there pic was a dp one both bare just goes to show people lie

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By *laytime 100Couple
over a year ago

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While we have a bareback picture on our profile it's a picture of us. We only play safe when we are with others.

Having said that we did get asked the same question that the OP asks and had to explain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see why "action shots" are needed, whether with condoms or without. It is fair to assume that the vast majority of people (if not all!) using fab have had sex before, so do we need to see evidence of the cock going into the pussy? And in the case of the close up action shots, they could be of anybody, not necessarily the person displaying it on their profile, and I always wonder if the other person is aware and gave consent."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello fabs,

I see many people profiles writing "safe sex" on their preferences, only to have lots and lots of pictures, practising unprotected sex with different partners!

I do not get it

Now, when somebody doesn't mention safe sex, and has pictures doing unprotected sex, at least they are consistent.

Of course there can be genuine exceptions, of people practising safe sex with strangers, and having unprotected sex, and pictures, with people they know long term.

It still looks like false advertisement to me, stating something and leaving proof of the opposite.

What is your opinion about it?

(avoid such profiles/people, ask them, or?)"

People lie. I just assume everyone does bareback.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"Is this a bareback thread merely masquerading under a pseudonym?

Sue who?"

Sue de nymph

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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago

Headington, Oxford

The options are not particularly clear on the site. There is no 'bareback' option on the site so, listing 'safe sex' could just mean they are happy to use condoms if that is your preference but they also play bareback.

Not having 'Safe Sex' listed could mean they are only interested in watching/being watched or oral, so not being listed is not an inclination they want to play bareback.

Chances are though that if it is a single male profile the various pictures are not of him at all, just ripped-off pictures to try and make themselves look popular with the women. If it is a couple or woman's profile it could well be past partners or close friends who they play with regularly and trust. Either way doesn't mean they are playing Russian roulette with every encounter.

You just have to make your own assessment, if you fear they are taking risks and that worries you then just skip their profile and try another. There are plenty of people on here to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares?

If you don't like them, don't fuck them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares?

If you don't like them, don't fuck them!!! "

Lmao, good point

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By *bout a Guy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Is this a forum? I thought so.

I did not want to upset anyone, with my question. If, by mistake, I did, my apologies. (I understand couples, trusting each other, and wanting safe sex with strangers)

Also, no, I am not masquerading anything. As somebody else said, there is no bareback option, and that is an "interests" list. I would say that somebody interested in safe sex, is not interested in unprotected sex. Differently from other interests, those two, are one the opposite of the other, really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a forum? I thought so.

I did not want to upset anyone, with my question. If, by mistake, I did, my apologies. (I understand couples, trusting each other, and wanting safe sex with strangers)

Also, no, I am not masquerading anything. As somebody else said, there is no bareback option, and that is an "interests" list. I would say that somebody interested in safe sex, is not interested in unprotected sex. Differently from other interests, those two, are one the opposite of the other, really"

That's the way you see it, black and white, but life (especially on here) is not like that.

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