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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

supposed to be meeting a guy tomorrow but as my sons off school ill today told him im not sure if i can make it, depends on how he is tomorrow, his reply to that was, just send him to bed then suck me off around the back!! WTF he then did say he was joking, what do u guys think?

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Half kiddin' I would imagine, testing you to see if you go for it...you know what us guys are like...

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Only you know if he was joking or not,you'll be the one having the chats with him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive been chatting to him on and off for a few weeks so dont really know what his sence of humours like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half kiddin' I would imagine, testing you to see if you go for it...you know what us guys are like... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i once had a guy ask me round for some fun but to 'be quiet cos the kids are in bed'

was also asked for a daytime meet by another guy who said his disabled daughter would be upstairs 'but don't worry, we won't be disturbed, she can't get downstairs on her own'

i passed on both i hasten to add !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The feckin cheek of the man, ,tell him to bring an umberella as its supposed to be pishing down tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet him and see how he behaves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i would not meet someone who would even joke that i send a sick child to bed while meeting his sexual needs!

most people on here respect that kids fall ill sometimes and it means meets have to be re-arranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half kiddin' I would imagine, testing you to see if you go for it...you know what us guys are like... "

LOL +1.

Many a true word is spoken in jest!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol yeh dont i just

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just testing you i have had same question and if you respond with a polite sorry never do with kids around thats what they are looking for. guys respect mothers who put kids first ive found that anyway.

hope your son is better soon. had my daughter home 2 days last week with a bug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one very similar ... my little boy was in the sick kids for a few months and he said he was sick of waiting could i meet him in the carpark while he was asleep!!!!!!!!! blockeddddddddd xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just testing you i have had same question and if you respond with a polite sorry never do with kids around thats what they are looking for. guys respect mothers who put kids first ive found that anyway.

hope your son is better soon. had my daughter home 2 days last week with a bug"

thank u

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had one very similar ... my little boy was in the sick kids for a few months and he said he was sick of waiting could i meet him in the carpark while he was asleep!!!!!!!!! blockeddddddddd xx"

thats unreal that there's guys out there like that

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I had one very similar ... my little boy was in the sick kids for a few months and he said he was sick of waiting could i meet him in the carpark while he was asleep!!!!!!!!! blockeddddddddd xx"

No way thats just wrong..I know we are bad, but that takes the biscuit...

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Give him the benefit of the doubt and tell him that his timing could be better.

And yes let hope that you son is well soon, nothing worse than your kids being unwell...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you think he meant it as a joke an only you can decide that

i would avoid someone with that attitude like the plague personally xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There you go, now you know what you can expect...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a thanks but no thanks and block him. No need for that behaviour, some people have no respect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Give him the benefit of the doubt and tell him that his timing could be better.

And yes let hope that you son is well soon, nothing worse than your kids being unwell... "

oh i know its a nightmare

the lad is youngish so should i give him the benefit of the doubt?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unless you think he meant it as a joke an only you can decide that

i would avoid someone with that attitude like the plague personally xx "

when he said that to me i told him to fuck off and his reply was is that a no then!! i said what do u think then he said he was joking x

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

i said what do u think then he said he was joking x

Now I would go with your first thought...tell him to fuckoff...That shows lack of respect, sorry...gives us a bad name...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he is testing the water, i had my teen child at home ,when a guy came round ,easy ,took hom into the garage told the child i was fixing the car locked the door and had great sex in the car, i bit guilty afterwards

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i said what do u think then he said he was joking x

Now I would go with your first thought...tell him to fuckoff...That shows lack of respect, sorry...gives us a bad name... "

i was quite shocked he said that in the first place so was kinda taken aback lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"he is testing the water, i had my teen child at home ,when a guy came round ,easy ,took hom into the garage told the child i was fixing the car locked the door and had great sex in the car, i bit guilty afterwards"

my kids not a teen tho, he's only a kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"supposed to be meeting a guy tomorrow but as my sons off school ill today told him im not sure if i can make it, depends on how he is tomorrow, his reply to that was, just send him to bed then suck me off around the back!! WTF he then did say he was joking, what do u guys think? "
Kick him into touch obvious a self centred selfish bastard and only thinking of himself you deserve better for you and your kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, you know him better than any of us. He's on your friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oo, ive had guys message me and when ive explained im not meeting cos its TOTM, a few have offered to just come round for a BJ.... "welcome to my block list!"

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You clearly mention your kids on your profile so where would he think that even as a joke you'd 1) go for it 2) think it was funny...Oh I forgot we dont read profiles do we....anyway you are best to make the judgement on your own...I am starting to rant...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, you know him better than any of us. He's on your friends list.

"

he's not , like i say we've been chatting on and off for a few weeks so dont know him that well

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Well, you know him better than any of us. He's on your friends list.

he's not , like i say we've been chatting on and off for a few weeks so dont know him that well "

There are plenty more out there, just look at you inbox...pmsl...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

What a lot of fuss over nothing

If you don't think he was joking and lets face it,you're the only one on this thread that has actually spoken to him then say no thanks

If you think he was joking then arrange another time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AND many a guy has asked what time my kids go to bed..... FFS, i never have and never would play when my kids were at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you know him better than any of us. He's on your friends list.

he's not , like i say we've been chatting on and off for a few weeks so dont know him that well

There are plenty more out there, just look at you inbox...pmsl...xxx"

You're terrible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, you know him better than any of us. He's on your friends list.

he's not , like i say we've been chatting on and off for a few weeks so dont know him that well

There are plenty more out there, just look at you inbox...pmsl...xxx"

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"i said what do u think then he said he was joking x

Now I would go with your first thought...tell him to fuckoff...That shows lack of respect, sorry...gives us a bad name... "

Why does it give "us" a bad name?

Surely what another person does or says doesn't affect you personally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, you know him better than any of us. He's on your friends list.

he's not , like i say we've been chatting on and off for a few weeks so dont know him that well "

Even so, you've still had more contact with him than anyone on this thread. You can take all the advice here that you want but it's down to your own personal judgement in the end.

Best of luck to you!

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Well, you know him better than any of us. He's on your friends list.

he's not , like i say we've been chatting on and off for a few weeks so dont know him that well

There are plenty more out there, just look at you inbox...pmsl...xxx

You're terrible. "

But you like me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, you know him better than any of us. He's on your friends list.

he's not , like i say we've been chatting on and off for a few weeks so dont know him that well

Even so, you've still had more contact with him than anyone on this thread. You can take all the advice here that you want but it's down to your own personal judgement in the end.

Best of luck to you! "

and i appreciate it all, i was just wanting other peoples opinion as too what they think thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i said what do u think then he said he was joking x

Now I would go with your first thought...tell him to fuckoff...That shows lack of respect, sorry...gives us a bad name...

Why does it give "us" a bad name?

Surely what another person does or says doesn't affect you personally! "

+1

Personally, if someone isn't 100% ready to meet me then I don't want to know and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i said what do u think then he said he was joking x

Now I would go with your first thought...tell him to fuckoff...That shows lack of respect, sorry...gives us a bad name...

Why does it give "us" a bad name?

Surely what another person does or says doesn't affect you personally!

+1

Personally, if someone isn't 100% ready to meet me then I don't want to know and vice versa. "

i remember meeting a guy who i had been chatting to for ages, he was so sure he was wanting to meet up and when we did he was shaking and nervous as hell, then he told me had a gf and had never cheated on here before x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i said what do u think then he said he was joking x

Now I would go with your first thought...tell him to fuckoff...That shows lack of respect, sorry...gives us a bad name...

Why does it give "us" a bad name?

Surely what another person does or says doesn't affect you personally!

+1

Personally, if someone isn't 100% ready to meet me then I don't want to know and vice versa.

i remember meeting a guy who i had been chatting to for ages, he was so sure he was wanting to meet up and when we did he was shaking and nervous as hell, then he told me had a gf and had never cheated on here before x"

Wow and how did that end up? If you don't mind me asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had one very similar ... my little boy was in the sick kids for a few months and he said he was sick of waiting could i meet him in the carpark while he was asleep!!!!!!!!! blockeddddddddd xx"
I would of done exactly the same, swinging is a hobby, let's not forget that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i said what do u think then he said he was joking x

Now I would go with your first thought...tell him to fuckoff...That shows lack of respect, sorry...gives us a bad name...

Why does it give "us" a bad name?

Surely what another person does or says doesn't affect you personally!

+1

Personally, if someone isn't 100% ready to meet me then I don't want to know and vice versa.

i remember meeting a guy who i had been chatting to for ages, he was so sure he was wanting to meet up and when we did he was shaking and nervous as hell, then he told me had a gf and had never cheated on here before x

Wow and how did that end up? If you don't mind me asking."

i said he couldve said about the gf i wouldnt have minded, he knew my situation, but we just ended up chatting, was wanting more but i couldnt do it, i ended up feeling nervous for him lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had one very similar ... my little boy was in the sick kids for a few months and he said he was sick of waiting could i meet him in the carpark while he was asleep!!!!!!!!! blockeddddddddd xxI would of done exactly the same, swinging is a hobby, let's not forget that! "

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i said what do u think then he said he was joking x

Now I would go with your first thought...tell him to fuckoff...That shows lack of respect, sorry...gives us a bad name...

Why does it give "us" a bad name?

Surely what another person does or says doesn't affect you personally!

+1

Personally, if someone isn't 100% ready to meet me then I don't want to know and vice versa.

i remember meeting a guy who i had been chatting to for ages, he was so sure he was wanting to meet up and when we did he was shaking and nervous as hell, then he told me had a gf and had never cheated on here before x

Wow and how did that end up? If you don't mind me asking.

i said he couldve said about the gf i wouldnt have minded, he knew my situation, but we just ended up chatting, was wanting more but i couldnt do it, i ended up feeling nervous for him lol "

Lol, I rest my case. If you're not ready, you're not ready!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wasn't joking - he was testing and then pretending it was a joke so you wouldn't think he was unsympathetic and therefore not ruin future chances to meet.

Men and sex don't joke.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

There are lots of people on here who 'entertain' at theirs after the kids are in bed. I dont agree with it and would never do it.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"He wasn't joking - he was testing and then pretending it was a joke so you wouldn't think he was unsympathetic and therefore not ruin future chances to meet.

Men and sex don't joke.

"

Oh this is so true....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i said what do u think then he said he was joking x

Now I would go with your first thought...tell him to fuckoff...That shows lack of respect, sorry...gives us a bad name...

Why does it give "us" a bad name?

Surely what another person does or says doesn't affect you personally!

+1

Personally, if someone isn't 100% ready to meet me then I don't want to know and vice versa.

i remember meeting a guy who i had been chatting to for ages, he was so sure he was wanting to meet up and when we did he was shaking and nervous as hell, then he told me had a gf and had never cheated on here before x

Wow and how did that end up? If you don't mind me asking.

i said he couldve said about the gf i wouldnt have minded, he knew my situation, but we just ended up chatting, was wanting more but i couldnt do it, i ended up feeling nervous for him lol

Lol, I rest my case. If you're not ready, you're not ready! "

totally agree with u there, however he was the one who said he was ready etc, it was his first time on a swinging site kinda expected him to be nervous but not to the point where he was shaking x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He wasn't joking - he was testing and then pretending it was a joke so you wouldn't think he was unsympathetic and therefore not ruin future chances to meet.

Men and sex don't joke.

Oh this is so true.... "

haha so so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trouble is that there are men on here that think because us woman play were up for it all the time, manners would be nice I always say Thankyou afterwards lol, but seriously play it by ear go with your instincts n

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of people on here who 'entertain' at theirs after the kids are in bed. I dont agree with it and would never do it."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"supposed to be meeting a guy tomorrow but as my sons off school ill today told him im not sure if i can make it, depends on how he is tomorrow, his reply to that was, just send him to bed then suck me off around the back!! WTF he then did say he was joking, what do u guys think? "

without having read other replies to your post - It would put me off totally.

But then again - messages/texts often come over different. You can't hear the tone of the voice or see/hear if the person smiling or not ...

If he wants to meet he will be patient until you will be able to meet him. Kids come first xxx

Sandra x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and btw - We would never EVER play when kids are in the same house!!!

dont even have to THINK ABOUT IT!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and btw - We would never EVER play when kids are in the same house!!!

dont even have to THINK ABOUT IT! "

no id never do that aswell

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"supposed to be meeting a guy tomorrow but as my sons off school ill today told him im not sure if i can make it, depends on how he is tomorrow, his reply to that was, just send him to bed then suck me off around the back!! WTF he then did say he was joking, what do u guys think? "

If you have been chatting with him then you should an fair idea of his sense of humour & personality....

Sometimes it hard to get a feel of how something was meant when it is written down.

From what you have written above, it sounds as if you don't think he was joking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"supposed to be meeting a guy tomorrow but as my sons off school ill today told him im not sure if i can make it, depends on how he is tomorrow, his reply to that was, just send him to bed then suck me off around the back!! WTF he then did say he was joking, what do u guys think?

If you have been chatting with him then you should an fair idea of his sense of humour & personality....

Sometimes it hard to get a feel of how something was meant when it is written down.

From what you have written above, it sounds as if you don't think he was joking.

"

i wasnt sure how to take it as its sometimes hard to get someone personality thru messaging, anyway decided against and he's blocked me now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and btw - We would never EVER play when kids are in the same house!!!

dont even have to THINK ABOUT IT! "

+ 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a guy ask me what I was doing tomorrow and when I said I was spending the day with my kids, he called me a time waster hence I changed my profile and put a comment on my status for a few days that was aimed soley at him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once had a guy ask me what I was doing tomorrow and when I said I was spending the day with my kids, he called me a time waster hence I changed my profile and put a comment on my status for a few days that was aimed soley at him "

how can u be a timewaster when your spending time with your kids....what a twat xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had same 2 days ago text to see if meet still on today. both myself and my daughter werent well. his reply my daughter had better be well by thurs as he needed a fuck. he got an instant block and i am ignoring any texts he sends.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

how many twats does this site hold...I cannot believe some people...I had thought we were all here for a bit of fun and to make some like minded friends...could I be wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some forget it is a swingers site and not a "i just want a fuck regardless" site. they seem to think you will drop everything for a quickie including kids.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I think some people are being to sensitive and taking what was said to seriously the guy apologised and said he was joking and to be honest if it was said to me id have taking as a joke .

Thats the worst thing about emails and text unless u can see the persons face as they see it its very easy for things to get taken the wrong way .

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i wud take it as a joke...and replied in the same vein, people who know me know my sense of humour...but as others have said u have to be comfortable no one else.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i wud take it as a joke...and replied in the same vein, people who know me know my sense of humour...but as others have said u have to be comfortable no one else.

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