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Ashamed of being male.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're on here to have fun and yes wifey is able to play alone if she wishes and most of the time people are very respectful I will be honest. However some guys you are just beyond belief.

It really doesn't take much time or effort to read a profile from beginning to end. It doesn't take much to send a message, wait for some kind of correspondence before sending out friends invites. It also helps to have photo's available and not just of your cock.

Some of you guys really think you are god's gift to women and the woman you're contacting must be a wanton sluts who goes around wearing no knickers so that she wastes no time between each cock. However that woman is a person with feelings, taste and desires and it really doesn't hurt to find out a little more about them.

Try and remember who you've sent messages to so that you're not sending to someone who already has said their not interested and don't use copy and pasted messages. Try and make it a bit more personal and include something you read from their profile. Remember no means no and if you're having trouble remembering who said yes and who said yes there is block feature you can use to remove those uninterested from future searches.

Yes this might seem like a long rant/advice but it is also an apology to any woman or couple that I have messaged before where I've been guilty of any of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you feel better for that ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah always good to blow off a little steam lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not just males...some cpls and fems same too! that is all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yet to have that experience with fem and where it has been a couple often seems to have been the male in charge of the account.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Not in this case,its the fem thats always on

Theres too much fun to be had on here to let the little niggles get to you x

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

sits quietly in corner imagining a time when bash the single male threads will end

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I LOVE SINGLE MALES

just though id stick that in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you noticed koala I didn't say you were all bad and even said that I've been guilty too of similar behaviour. Not quite a bashing more of a self help guide lol.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

there really should be two new forums, one called Bash the Single Guys and another called Bash the Couples, then whenever any of us need to vent we can do it in those rooms. A seperate forum called Timewasters could be an option, haha, but have a feeling it will crossover both of the previously mentioned ones.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

having never been guilty of it i wouldnt know my point was there is enough of this type of thread also cpls and single fems can be just as guilty but there is not a thread thrown up about it every day live in peace you dont like someone block shimples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there really should be two new forums, one called Bash the Single Guys and another called Bash the Couples, then whenever any of us need to vent we can do it in those rooms. A seperate forum called Timewasters could be an option, haha, but have a feeling it will crossover both of the previously mentioned ones. "

Good idea. Though to be fair we'd need bashing threads for TVs and Single Women, too. Don't see why they should escape forum justice!

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

pmsl new forums please admin

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