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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

Who turned off natural selection, come on own up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should hold doors open and offer seats because it;s the polite and right thing to do. The gender of the recipient is irelevant but doing it just because the recipient is female seems a bit dated to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold doors open for people coming into wherever I am. I will also offer my seat to any man who looks like he needs it more than me. I do notice a lot of men will let me on a bus before them (which isn't necessary), except during peak times. It's every man for himself then. I have been on a train and been the only person to give up my seat for a noticeably pregnant woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, maybe when a real woman, actually says this to you...then get your knickers in a twist about it, until then maybe find a new hobby..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I only hold the door open for men. Once or twice this has resulted in a stand-off between me and a man who thought he should be holding the door open for me instead (since I'm a woman). It's interesting to see how long a man will wait before finally giving in and going through the door I opened.

(The bit about me only holding the door open for men is a lie, the rest is true, though.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a total traditionalist. I like to look after my man, cooking etc and I like him to look after me back doing “manly” things such as opening doors, carrying bags and putting the bins out. It just makes me feel special when he puts in the effort to do that.

Day to day I would always hold the door for who ever but I do like it when men say ladies first and I have been offered a seat on the train before which I declined but I thought the offer was nice... unless he mistook my fat for pregnancy

Mrs

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

"

Is this irony?! I can't tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just try and be polite and kind to anyone - it really is amazing how many people nowadays though (younger women particularly) look at you as if you're some kind of twat when you offer them a seat etc.

Feminism gone mad in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold the door open for men and women as well as the young, middle aged and elderly.... Oh wait I have no choice when it's my job

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

"

Don't believe everything you read in the Daily Mail darlink.

It makes that vein stuck out in your forehead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just try and be polite and kind to anyone - it really is amazing how many people nowadays though (younger women particularly) look at you as if you're some kind of twat when you offer them a seat etc.

Feminism gone mad in my opinion."

I personally don't like for someone to open a door for me unless of course my hands are full then it is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

"

I think you’re OP is a good example of male aggression, but maybe I’m misreading the tone of your post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

I think you’re OP is a good example of male aggression, but maybe I’m misreading the tone of your post?"

yes! green arrow...terribly cross, all the time, about everything...must be exhausting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

I think you’re OP is a good example of male aggression, but maybe I’m misreading the tone of your post?

yes! green arrow...terribly cross, all the time, about everything...must be exhausting!"
yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's amusing is seeing all of this backfire horribly on young women. By and large, women aren't approached/flirted with/complimented any more (certainly become the case among my age group and younger) and theyre angrier and more self-conscious for it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What's amusing is seeing all of this backfire horribly on young women. By and large, women aren't approached/flirted with/complimented any more (certainly become the case among my age group and younger) and theyre angrier and more self-conscious for it."

This isn't the experience of our children who are your age group. Our daughter reports very similar experiences to mine although she was given the tools to handle those experiences very differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold doors open give up my seat to anyone i thinks needs it i dont care if your white .black .young or old or your sky blue pink with yellow spots

It just being polite

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I hold doors open give up my seat to anyone i thinks needs it i dont care if your white .black .young or old or your sky blue pink with yellow spots

It just being polite "

Damn! I'm old and sky blue pink with green spots .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's amusing is seeing all of this backfire horribly on young women. By and large, women aren't approached/flirted with/complimented any more (certainly become the case among my age group and younger) and theyre angrier and more self-conscious for it."

Genuine question, why do you think that's amusing?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"People should hold doors open and offer seats because it;s the polite and right thing to do. The gender of the recipient is irelevant but doing it just because the recipient is female seems a bit dated to me"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Genuine question, why do you think that's amusing?"

Having to tolerate the 24/7 campaign of victimhood (endless whining on Twitter, marching around London shouting meaningless slogans like cretins, etc) and the spite and venom aimed towards white men (only white, for some reason) - it's good to see that their awful behaviour isn't being rewarded with happiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

"

It’s true, I offered to lift a suitcase while boarding a train because she was struggling and she was very upset with me for offering help.

Since then I don’t offer any help unless an old or less able person needs it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a man holds a door open for a woman it just means he wants to fuck her senseless. No wonder she's offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

It’s true, I offered to lift a suitcase while boarding a train because she was struggling and she was very upset with me for offering help.

Since then I don’t offer any help unless an old or less able person needs it. "

You'll get slagged off for not helping.

You'll get slagged off for helping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t hold doors open for anyone.

I don’t offer my seat up on a train or bus for anyone pregnant either.

They got themselves into that situation, they can suffer the consequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a man holds a door open for a woman it just means he wants to fuck her senseless. No wonder she's offended."

Wish women would hold the door open for me then. When they see this beard, first thing they do is a runner.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I don’t hold doors open for anyone.

I don’t offer my seat up on a train or bus for anyone pregnant either.

They got themselves into that situation, they can suffer the consequences."

Yeah fuck em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t hold doors open for anyone.

I don’t offer my seat up on a train or bus for anyone pregnant either.

They got themselves into that situation, they can suffer the consequences.

Yeah fuck em "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the world has gone mad. No one can do anything right nowadays and everyone seems to be trying not to tread on anyone’s toes. Sad times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More gubbins from who cares where.

I was brought up to have manners, and that's the way it shall remain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the world has gone mad. No one can do anything right nowadays and everyone seems to be trying not to tread on anyone’s toes. Sad times.

"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think the world has gone mad. No one can do anything right nowadays and everyone seems to be trying not to tread on anyone’s toes. Sad times.

"

Indeed!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

It’s true, I offered to lift a suitcase while boarding a train because she was struggling and she was very upset with me for offering help.

Since then I don’t offer any help unless an old or less able person needs it. "

It’s so sad that this is how society thinks ... it’s just good manners to offer assistance to someone who looks like they may need it.

Sometimes this world really sucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Genuine question, why do you think that's amusing?

Having to tolerate the 24/7 campaign of victimhood (endless whining on Twitter, marching around London shouting meaningless slogans like cretins, etc) and the spite and venom aimed towards white men (only white, for some reason) - it's good to see that their awful behaviour isn't being rewarded with happiness."

Aww bless, feeling like a victim blossom?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"

Genuine question, why do you think that's amusing?

Having to tolerate the 24/7 campaign of victimhood (endless whining on Twitter, marching around London shouting meaningless slogans like cretins, etc) and the spite and venom aimed towards white men (only white, for some reason) - it's good to see that their awful behaviour isn't being rewarded with happiness.

Aww bless, feeling like a victim blossom?"

Please be more condescending. I don't feel you have done it quite enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mmmm....two last posts “removed” by posters, hopefully they had second thoughts on posting more false statements or bullying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm....two last posts “removed” by posters, hopefully they had second thoughts on posting more false statements or bullying."

What have I said that is false?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mmmm....two last posts “removed” by posters, hopefully they had second thoughts on posting more false statements or bullying.

What have I said that is false?"

The “more” relates to this thread in general, not everything is on a personal level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm....two last posts “removed” by posters, hopefully they had second thoughts on posting more false statements or bullying.

What have I said that is false?

The “more” relates to this thread in general, not everything is on a personal level."

Ok If you see me posting tripe let me know.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Mmmm....two last posts “removed” by posters, hopefully they had second thoughts on posting more false statements or bullying."

No I had a spelling mistake in mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mmmm....two last posts “removed” by posters, hopefully they had second thoughts on posting more false statements or bullying.

No I had a spelling mistake in mine "

Let me guess, you put "your amazing" instead of "you're amazing"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Mmmm....two last posts “removed” by posters, hopefully they had second thoughts on posting more false statements or bullying.

No I had a spelling mistake in mine

Let me guess, you put "your amazing" instead of "you're amazing""

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold the door open for anyone and everyone.

I call it "not being a selfish cunt".

I have been stuck in car parks for hours at a time as a result though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm....two last posts “removed” by posters, hopefully they had second thoughts on posting more false statements or bullying.

No I had a spelling mistake in mine

Let me guess, you put "your amazing" instead of "you're amazing"

No."

Surely these are grammatical errors rather than spelling mistakes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm....two last posts “removed” by posters, hopefully they had second thoughts on posting more false statements or bullying."

Is this you having the right to be offended by anything you choose as stated in your opening post?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We were in Holland last October and I gave up my train seat to an oldish lady and her granddaughter, I had to stand for just over an hour. Her (I presume) son was ever so grateful that I had helped with a seat for his mum and daughter. I was happy to help, she was happy to sit and we made good conversation for an hour with some nice people. There's nothing wrong in acting like a gentleman or a lady. It doesn't mean I'm denigrating a female, demeaning a female or feeling superior I her. I'm just trying to be nice. Is that wrong?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I hold the door open for anyone and everyone.

I call it "not being a selfish cunt".

I have been stuck in car parks for hours at a time as a result though."

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I always and always will open doors, offer up seats etc, regardless of gender. If it offends the person, tough, their problem not mine.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

If some good looking man wants to offer me their seat that wouldn't be a problem,he can have the seat and I'll sit on his lap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If some good looking man wants to offer me their seat that wouldn't be a problem,he can have the seat and I'll sit on his lap "

I'd let you have my seat anytime. In fact...I'd consider being a novelty stool for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

It’s true, I offered to lift a suitcase while boarding a train because she was struggling and she was very upset with me for offering help.

Since then I don’t offer any help unless an old or less able person needs it. "

So one person reacted negatively and you don't offer help anymore? Does that not seem a disproportionate response? Surely being nice to people should be a far more altruistic behaviour than beong driven by a need for praise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold doors open for anyone. Invariably they say thank you and quite frequently, when there are multiple doors to negotiate, they will hold a door open for me.

I give compliments to anyone when I think it is warranted and only ever get thanks.

I offer to help others when their luggage is heavy and they appear to be struggling. It’s only ever been met with gratitude.

I’m not going to let a minority of extreme views change my behaviour.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"If some good looking man wants to offer me their seat that wouldn't be a problem,he can have the seat and I'll sit on his lap

I'd let you have my seat anytime. In fact...I'd consider being a novelty stool for you."

Potentially wrong choice of word there.......

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington


"If some good looking man wants to offer me their seat that wouldn't be a problem,he can have the seat and I'll sit on his lap "

Would you like a seat miss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Micky Flanagan does a great sketch on holding doors open for some old ladies that don't say thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Micky Flanagan does a great sketch on holding doors open for some old ladies that don't say thank you. "

Haha. I love him. He’s funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it turns out that in this politically correct worl certain “women” are saying men shouldn’t hold doors open for them or offer them a seat ,

Because it means we are showing Male aggression.

Are you fucking serious!! This is just another example of Idiots having the right to be offended at anything they choose..

"

I hold doors open for women and men, it's polite..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If some good looking man wants to offer me their seat that wouldn't be a problem,he can have the seat and I'll sit on his lap

Would you like a seat miss? "

Yeah go on then,but be aware I fidget a fair bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People should hold doors open and offer seats because it;s the polite and right thing to do. The gender of the recipient is irelevant but doing it just because the recipient is female seems a bit dated to me"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the differences in etiquette between the way men and women behave to each other. I know it’s frown upon these days but I don’t want a man to behave towards me in the same way he would behave towards a man. So yeah I love things like a man holding a door for me when he doesn’t have to.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe equality is flawed, we are all different after all. I wouldn’t want someone to be bullied or frowned upon by their sex, age, race etc. However there’s nothing wrong with accepting we are all different. Nature has a funny way of levelling things out and I find one persons strength is often negated by a weakness is another area and concentrating on strengths rather than weaknesses is important. Discrimination is a problem when it’s negative but it’s a shame when people become scared to express their thoughts. We are all different and there’s nothing wrong with admitting it

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


" We are all different and there’s nothing wrong with admitting it"

Yes, we are all different *as individuals*

That's why it's not very helpful to generalise and say 'women are like this' or 'men are good at that'

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