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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning guys! So really struggling to get even a reply let alone a meet, been here for a while now with very little success Is there something wrong with my profile?

Thanks in advance

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

You have good pics on your profile.

But.......your profile wording is extremely short.

With so many men here compared to women you really need to stand out.

Have a look at other male profiles, who've had meets, and see what they're putting.

You need to sell yourself on here!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It can be difficult for single men. Your pictures are fine but your profile is very brief maybe make that a little more informative.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, will get my creative hat on lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics are fine, maybe something partially undressed for variety.

However your bio is short, dull and instantly loses my interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a tweak lol hopefully is a little better :/ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a tweak lol hopefully is a little better :/ x"

Looks good to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add what you're looking for...not too specific that people think thats all youre into but give some idea. You're looking to get someone to message saying something like... I like your profile, Interesting profile, You're profile made me smile, would love to chat about "...." etc. So think carefully about it and try and get your character to come across, some humour etc.

I'd avoid dos and donts. ..They're generally off putting and give the impression is all about you... not attractive though some feel it gives a clear message - it does but not the best one.

Lastly enter into the forums. The short interactive ones to get ur profile visual to asany as possible and use a pic that's liked. Mine isn't my favourite but it's my most fabber one other than my plan ass which is fabber mostly by a group I'm not into so I don't encourage it being fabber by using it.

Be respectful and you'll succeed....But it can take some time.

Consider going to a social where you can meet other fabber. Some require you to be verified others don't.

Hope these points help.

Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a tweak lol hopefully is a little better :/ x"

Much better. But I'd lose the 20th July pic. Its so dark you can barely see you on it, so its a bit pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a tweak lol hopefully is a little better :/ x"

Much better... seems you were doing some of what I suggested as I was writing it. You'll do well with your attitude and approach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had a tweak lol hopefully is a little better :/ x

Much better... seems you were doing some of what I suggested as I was writing it. You'll do well with your attitude and approach. "

Yea i was reading your post thinking yep, yep, yep done that, haha thanks thoough much appreciated

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

All looks good to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a tweak lol hopefully is a little better :/ x

Much better... seems you were doing some of what I suggested as I was writing it. You'll do well with your attitude and approach.

Yea i was reading your post thinking yep, yep, yep done that, haha thanks thoough much appreciated "

You did it before I wrote it...showed you'd listened to others.

Looks good now. Remember it's an evolving thing here so don't be afraid to evolve your profile to keep up.

You may get those who may see changes and be negative about them in a jealous way..They expect you not to evolve. Ignore it's your profile not theirs.

Here's to happy future meets mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning guys! So really struggling to get even a reply let alone a meet, been here for a while now with very little success Is there something wrong with my profile?

Thanks in advance "

Try smiling! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Morning guys! So really struggling to get even a reply let alone a meet, been here for a while now with very little success Is there something wrong with my profile?

Thanks in advance

Try smiling! x"

Always smiling just not in my pictures lol I'll try get some up!

Thanks x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Profile looks good - the right balance of who you are, what you're looking for and can offer with a dash of personality thrown in.

Maybe consider some pics that show off your body a little - either semi-clothed or naked - but avoid out and out cock shots.

Other things to consider are getting along to clubs and socials or getting more involved in the forums on a regular basis, which is a great way to spark conversations and get to know people as well as get known

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile looks good - the right balance of who you are, what you're looking for and can offer with a dash of personality thrown in.

Maybe consider some pics that show off your body a little - either semi-clothed or naked - but avoid out and out cock shots.

Other things to consider are getting along to clubs and socials or getting more involved in the forums on a regular basis, which is a great way to spark conversations and get to know people as well as get known "

Yeah fancy going to clubs never been before just a bit dawnting on my own haha

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Profile looks good - the right balance of who you are, what you're looking for and can offer with a dash of personality thrown in.

Maybe consider some pics that show off your body a little - either semi-clothed or naked - but avoid out and out cock shots.

Other things to consider are getting along to clubs and socials or getting more involved in the forums on a regular basis, which is a great way to spark conversations and get to know people as well as get known

Yeah fancy going to clubs never been before just a bit dawnting on my own haha "

If you treat them as a night out at a bar (which is what the social areas are really), are respectful and willing to talk to people, they're really not as daunting as they may seem - a lot of them do "newbie" nights too so worth keeping an eye out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile looks good - the right balance of who you are, what you're looking for and can offer with a dash of personality thrown in.

Maybe consider some pics that show off your body a little - either semi-clothed or naked - but avoid out and out cock shots.

Other things to consider are getting along to clubs and socials or getting more involved in the forums on a regular basis, which is a great way to spark conversations and get to know people as well as get known

Yeah fancy going to clubs never been before just a bit dawnting on my own haha

If you treat them as a night out at a bar (which is what the social areas are really), are respectful and willing to talk to people, they're really not as daunting as they may seem - a lot of them do "newbie" nights too so worth keeping an eye out "

Will defo keep an eye out thnks!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Your profile looks good to me, as others said socials and clubs are a great way fmeeting people.

If you lived near me I would consider chatting.

All the best to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile looks good to me, as others said socials and clubs are a great way fmeeting people.

If you lived near me I would consider chatting.

All the best to you."

Thank you and what a shame lol x

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