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"Perhaps log into your profile with her and show her a few profiles and the forums on here as well? The main thing is talk to each other and respect her choices. " He should create a separate profile for that depending on how long he has been on this site and if she knows he has a profile | |||
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"Perhaps log into your profile with her and show her a few profiles and the forums on here as well? The main thing is talk to each other and respect her choices. He should create a separate profile for that depending on how long he has been on this site and if she knows he has a profile" Or have admin change it to couples if she does want to go on fab. | |||
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"She knows, I’m hoping she’s going to join me on here. As she liked being watched having sex I suggested we could cam on here to see if she’d like that. " Maybe you should consider her option of going somewhere outside your area and try it with someone you may not see anytime soon. | |||
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"Try booking with someone from this site and go to a hotel by taking a city break, just need a guy who is not pushy and see if she's comfortable with the idea" Dreadful idea. 'Love, I know you said you weren't too keen but I've arranged for some bloke to join us anyway, without any input from you. What do you think?' | |||
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"She knows, I’m hoping she’s going to join me on here. As she liked being watched having sex I suggested we could cam on here to see if she’d like that. " Thanks for clarification OP. She may feel more comfortable chatting in the cam rooms, however I'd avoid the directing rooms for a while that will be sure to put her off! | |||
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"Try booking with someone from this site and go to a hotel by taking a city break, just need a guy who is not pushy and see if she's comfortable with the idea" This is a sure fire way to put her off the idea for life ! | |||
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"Try booking with someone from this site and go to a hotel by taking a city break, just need a guy who is not pushy and see if she's comfortable with the idea Dreadful idea. 'Love, I know you said you weren't too keen but I've arranged for some bloke to join us anyway, without any input from you. What do you think?'" I was going on the assumption they've discussed it first, then after can chat with a potential once everyone is on board | |||
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"She’s 100% into being watched, wanking and sucking another guy. She just wasn’t 100% into full sex but said she wouldn’t rule it out at all. I think full sex would depend on the situation and how turned on she was. I definitely think camming might be a good start though. Says she wants people to watch her have sex outdoors on say a night out or something too." If she is really into what you have described, just put up a couples profile saying you want soft swap only. It really is that simple. | |||
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"Try enjoying your relationship as it is rather than Focusing on how to pimp her out to get your kicks..in fact none of my business, just keep pushing her, then if it all goes fuck shaped you might look back and think...mmm maybe she didn’t want to fuck other men after all. I find this kind of thing so creepy" Agreed. I am dubious that she has any idea about the OP's desires. | |||
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"Perhaps log into your profile with her and show her a few profiles and the forums on here as well? The main thing is talk to each other and respect her choices. " Lol she wont no he on here..lmao | |||
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"Try enjoying your relationship as it is rather than Focusing on how to pimp her out to get your kicks..in fact none of my business, just keep pushing her, then if it all goes fuck shaped you might look back and think...mmm maybe she didn’t want to fuck other men after all. I find this kind of thing so creepy" | |||
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"Suggest taking her to a club, see what she says. Clubs are relaxed pressure free environments where she can just watch if she wishes too. This was what Tom and I did at first when we had taken the decision to dip our toes. I wasn't sure, about a club but decided to try it... loved it, I found it to be a liberating and empowering experience." This is a good idea. No pressure to play, use a private room to begin with & just play together ... maybe then move to open playrooms so people are watching & see if she wants to take it further or not. You can’t ‘convince’ her - but you can dis use it with her & agree how you are going to approach it! | |||
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