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Changing tactics for more success

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We receive plenty of messages but more often than not, from guys that aren't suitable, who are odd balls or the usual pic collectors. The few that we think might be are often let downs when they go unlos or hide their profiles and stop answering messages (even verified guys).

No doubt it would be easy if we were looking for a straight guy but it's bi guys that ticks the boxes for us.

Any of you couples had more success when changing from being hunted to being the hunter?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have you thought of trying a Bi Night at a club - can't speak for others but the one at Vanilla Alternative (first Friday of the month) is usually well attended, has a good vibe and should cater to your needs. At least going down that route you avoid the pitfalls of looking for people on here

Great profile BTW - lays out clearly what you are about and looking for and hope it pays dividends

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Op post,your profile reads a bit like ours.we have had a bi mmf in a club and it was good fun.I think we are out there obviously,but in this instance were just too far away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

VA is about 2 hours from us and to be honest we've been put off clubs a bit following some of the reviews that they aren't kept as clean as some would hope.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Is Chameleons nearer, they do a bi night every Monday, have overnight rooms to. Our favourite club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is Chameleons nearer, they do a bi night every Monday, have overnight rooms to. Our favourite club "

Still about 2 hours from us and weekdays are a non starter when you have kids.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"VA is about 2 hours from us and to be honest we've been put off clubs a bit following some of the reviews that they aren't kept as clean as some would hope."

Again can't vouch for all clubs but VA is scrupulously clean and very classy - they also have rooms you can stay in for the night at a reasonable price - definitely worth considering even as an every once in a while great.

Other than that guess it's a case of just keep plugging away - decent bi guys that will turn up are out there just the same as every other category of people on here - is just a case of finding them and finding a mutual attraction etc.

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Exactly.chams is hour and a half for us,but fun and clean.we have 2 teenagers at home and that makes it even harder.my wife would like nothing more to watch me and a guy playing then all play together,its just so different.we only fell on it in club purely by a chance comment to a single guy,who turned out to be a real nice man.

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