FabSwingers.com forum: Slowly bringing my wife to the lifestyle

By *aintance_guy OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

And suggestions on how to introduce my wife into playing have to start light. She wanted to come on here but has got scared

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By *rontmanMan
over a year ago

Derby and often London

Good start, at least she’s interested! Guess slowly slowly is the best approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you made any progress since the last thread you made about this?

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

louth

Could we suggest a couples profile for starters

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Have you married your friend now? The last thread on this subject you were just close friends.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Have you made any progress since the last thread you made about this?"

that dam little arrows done it again.

Next !

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By *aintance_guy OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

We are still close friends but she wants me to call her wife when we open a couples profile but that's yet to happen. Maybe a new friend?

But I like this girl

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Close friend wants to be called wife

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Close friend wants to be called wife

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By *en.....emMan
over a year ago

West mids

took a while but my wife loves it now

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"We are still close friends but she wants me to call her wife when we open a couples profile but that's yet to happen. Maybe a new friend?

But I like this girl"

That does not make sense at all.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Close friend wants to be called wife

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Just watching, don’t mind me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you may need a discussion first and set some clear boundaries.

For example, confirming whether the lady in question is a friend or a wife?

People will be put off from meeting you with such a flaky outlook, that will do no good to the lady's confidence in fab

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By *ootleCouple
over a year ago

Romford, Essex

Oh dear !

First of all, if you were my husband and I found your ‘single guy’ profile on here I’d be furious.

1 cock pic and wanting ‘cuddles’ implies you’re cheating – your profile says your single and your post you say your married.

If you really are part of a couple, there may be some very good reasons your wife (or whatever you want to call her) feels scared – have you thought that she might not actually trust you ? Your profile and your previous posts suggests she has good reason not to !

Couples in this lifestyle have to be 100% committed to each other – if there are any cracks in your relationship it will soon show. If she doesn’t want to try out swinging, don’t force her, it has to be her choice.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Just watching, don’t mind me..."

I’m just getting some popcorn ... you want some?!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Just watching, don’t mind me...

I’m just getting some popcorn ... you want some?!

i could be the new blockbuster!!!!!!! star wars!!!! pahhhhhh give me fab forum posts like this anytime

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By *aintance_guy OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

She wants me to say say she's my wife as she dont want guys trying to get her on her own. It dont bother me at all

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Just watching, don’t mind me...

I’m just getting some popcorn ... you want some?!

I don’t do carbs, got any jerky?

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By *ootleCouple
over a year ago

Romford, Essex

"She wants me to say say she's my wife as she dont want guys trying to get her on her own. It dont bother me at all"

??? so why not just have a couples profile and filter out single guys in your settings - your post is just not making sense – and saying it doesn’t bother you just doesn’t add up – why ask a question and not be bothered about the replies !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She wants me to say say she's my wife as she dont want guys trying to get her on her own. It dont bother me at all

There's a reason that it doesnt make sense

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"And suggestions on how to introduce my wife into playing have to start light. She wanted to come on here but has got scared"

There really is only one way and that's by talking to her. Does she look at fab at all? You could start a couples profile, block all messages just so she could look at forum posts, profiles etc knowing nobody will contact the profile.

It doesn't matter how you refer to each other but you do need to have the boundaries of your relationship and how you wish to approach swinging clear before you start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She wants me to say say she's my wife as she dont want guys trying to get her on her own. It dont bother me at all"

This is comedy gold

OP, does she call you her husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think she'll have to exist first.....

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By *ssex_VixenWoman
over a year ago

Maldon

"think she'll have to exist first....."

Lol

The OP does seem to not be sure if he’s married, single, or what. Never would I want to be known as someone’s “wife” unless it’s the real thing, if she genuinely has an interest then a couples profile is the way to go, block those annoying “single” guys everyone mentions if that’s not what your looking for an just browse. Go to a couples only night at a club, more relaxed an socialise with people. But if first decide how your going to introduce her. Either as your wife/partner/fwb etc.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She wants me to say say she's my wife as she dont want guys trying to get her on her own. It dont bother me at all"

That seriously doesn't make any difference!

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