FabSwingers.com forum: Large age gap couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you guys feel you fare on here, and what would you say are your biggest hurdles?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Age really doesn’t come into it when couples are concerned for me. They are very very open minded and know what each other like. Same goes for other tv girls. I don’t meet men anymore no matter what age but that’s down to my personnel choices

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Age really doesn’t come into it when couples are concerned for me. They are very very open minded and know what each other like. Same goes for other tv girls. I don’t meet men anymore no matter what age but that’s down to my personnel choices "

I see your point, but I'm more asking the couples who actually have a large age gap what their hurdles, if any, have been.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

As an 'age gap' couple I guess we're your perfect responder. The main hurdle we've come across is finding couples/single females where everyone fancies each other and I'm under no illusion that it's me that puts people off. Finding singles for mmf's have never been a problem (either straight or bi) but as we won't play with cheaters finding truly single singles is another problem altogether.

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover

We are in the same boat, almost 25 years between us. Everybody wants a 22 year old lady but 47 year old guys are not wanted so much. Finding a guy to join us is easy and her finding a guy to play with Alaina is also easy. It just makes meeting a couple more fun when you find the right one although a lady to play with has not been found yet.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

Do you think the gender of the older party makes a difference? Which is best?

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover

"Do you think the gender of the older party makes a difference? Which is best?

Yes, with us the guy is older so we get a lot of the male half of couple chatting to us fancying a younger lady only to find out he is “trying to talk his other half into it”

Sorry but if she’s not willing or needs talking into it I’m not interested

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

"Do you think the gender of the older party makes a difference? Which is best?

Yes, with us the guy is older so we get a lot of the male half of couple chatting to us fancying a younger lady only to find out he is “trying to talk his other half into it”

Sorry but if she’s not willing or needs talking into it I’m not interested "

so is the solution to find a similar (older guy) couple and assume they have the same tastes? Or to find an opposite (older girl) couple and hope the oldies can get it on whilst the youngsters do whatever kids do these days..?

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I'm older, and certainly my age has been a problem - more than one couple has said so.

There are some more practical quirks - searches use my age as it's listed first. Whoever said life begins at forty hasn't been on fab

Seriously, there seem to be age age range bands that people search on and falling into two often means we don't fall in either.

Hey ho! We're still having fun!

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover

"Do you think the gender of the older party makes a difference? Which is best?

Yes, with us the guy is older so we get a lot of the male half of couple chatting to us fancying a younger lady only to find out he is “trying to talk his other half into it”

I think finding a couple, whatever age that likes us for who we are and what we look like without the older ones getting jealous of the young uns would do lol

Sorry but if she’s not willing or needs talking into it I’m not interested

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By *arleyfanCouple
over a year ago

Dover

"I'm older, and certainly my age has been a problem - more than one couple has said so.

There are some more practical quirks - searches use my age as it's listed first. Whoever said life begins at forty hasn't been on fab

Seriously, there seem to be age age range bands that people search on and falling into two often means we don't fall in either.

And having fun is what coupntbthe most

Hey ho! We're still having fun!"

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

13 year gap between us, it does seem to put some couples off on here from meeting us but still having fun so not all is lost

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By *llie_worcMan
over a year ago

bristol

19 years between us but all of our roleplay uses that to its advantage and we just get on as if we were the same age.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"Do you think the gender of the older party makes a difference? Which is best?

We have a 15 year age gap (he's younger) and have no shortage of younger men messaging us (now there's a new one)....but as far as couples go, we've found a very mixed bag. A very young woman is not for us, but women in his preferred age range who contact us tend to be with much older men (not my age range).

So yes, finding a couple we can both get on with to the point of going beyond a social has been difficult.

It tends to be more about what we can chat about than physical interest to even start! If we can't have a decent chat, it won't go further, end of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we have a 5 year gap between us, and it seemed to work marginally well on the majority if meetings. On other occasions not it did not work so well, so we just put it down to personal choice, so long as folk weren't rude or uncouth when either party decided 'Not for us ta!' then we parted in decent terms.

If anything, my age, at lamost 59 is the barrier.

Rea, being younger not so.

Swingy roundabout things really!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would expect that most will find that if the lady is the older of the two, there will be less issues. Otherwise there would mainly be interest from couples around the guy's age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 years between us, we have never come across couples not wanting to meet us due to the age gap.

Most couples we have met compliment us, and say I don't look my age, so I feel humbled.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"23 years between us, we have never come across couples not wanting to meet us due to the age gap.

Most couples we have met compliment us, and say I don't look my age, so I feel humbled.

I get told I don't look my age a lot too (and I certainly don't act my age) but as your age gap is the opposite way round to ours and the other older male couples that have posted you won't experience Fab the same way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our experience on fab has been mind blowing, and can only get better

We have an age range and only meet people that are truly in our criteria as some are not true to their pictures and many fakes.

Just selective I suppose like many other couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number you can be young and look and act older ir old and look and act younger. There has to be attraction of course but personally plays a part in that aspect for us

And as I punched so far above my weight hope that means my personality is ok

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