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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do a lot of the "clerical" work on here while wifey does the "yes, hell yeah and god jesus no" to every one that messages us and I'm fine with sending out the yes's (hey yes you can fuck my wife when you free lol) but it's the no's I always feel nervous about. Sometimes I don't reply but as found some people think no news is good news. So what is everyone elses approach to saying "na you're alright mate!"

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I just think be polite and wish them well

Thats what I do,I don't always reply at all though,thats because you can't say thank you but no thanks to a message that says Hi how are you where are you from......its does'nt flow well and then you set yourself up for a response that says I only asked how you were ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple. . . . . . .

No thankyou

Take care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i usually just something like

thanks for the mail but im going to have to say thanks but no thnaks

for most people thats the end of it

but you always get the odd one whos replies back to ask why lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I make up an elaborate story about how I only meet blue women with hats.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i usually just something like

thanks for the mail but im going to have to say thanks but no thnaks

for most people thats the end of it

but you always get the odd one whos replies back to ask why lol"

Well yeah why? lol

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I make up an elaborate story about how I only meet blue women with hats."

Which is fine until they get back to you having painted themselves blue and stuck a badly chosen baseball cap on.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I make up an elaborate story about how I only meet blue women with hats.

Which is fine until they get back to you having painted themselves blue and stuck a badly chosen baseball cap on."

That's only happened twice.

But I agree, HUGE backfire!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a standard - thankyou for your message but im not interested x

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Two different girls?

Or one girl being extra persistent?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Two different girls?

Or one girl being extra persistent?"

Same one although she had different hats on.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Like she thought you wouldn't notice?

And they give single guys a hard time on here. Sheesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks but no thanks xx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Thanks but no thanks xx"

At least wait until I ASK.

Jesus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well what are you waiting for?? Ask me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks but no thanks xx

At least wait until I ASK.

Jesus."

This from the man who wanted to pinch my bum in Tesco....

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Well what are you waiting for?? Ask me! "

I'm sorry, but I can't.

I know some single guys on here like to 'play the field' but not me.

I need to ask her, then get rejected by her, before I can ask you.

Please hold Swinger, you are in a queue. You are shagee #2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewaster!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Two different girls?

Or one girl being extra persistent?

Same one although she had different hats on."

Actually I had just turned it around

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Two different girls?

Or one girl being extra persistent?

Same one although she had different hats on.

Actually I had just turned it around "

Hoping he was dim enough not to notice?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Two different girls?

Or one girl being extra persistent?

Same one although she had different hats on.

Actually I had just turned it around

Hoping he was dim enough not to notice?"

Well the thought it was a different hat.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Two different girls?

Or one girl being extra persistent?

Same one although she had different hats on.

Actually I had just turned it around

Hoping he was dim enough not to notice?

Well the thought it was a different hat."

I've always wondered where people bought those baseball caps with the peak at the back!

So you just turn it round???

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Two different girls?

Or one girl being extra persistent?

Same one although she had different hats on.

Actually I had just turned it around

Hoping he was dim enough not to notice?

Well the thought it was a different hat."

Wherever you lay your hat, that's your Homme?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We tend to put something like:

Thanks for your mail but we don't feel you are what we are looking for.

Best Wishes

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

it's never easy but, we ask for fit goodlookin guys between 27 40, if a guy 55 wit a beer belly messages with a pic and asks well do u like my pic, wot can ya do but say sorry no not wot i'mm lookin i do hate it but i also hate bein put in the possition to have to say, and thats not my fault so i try to remember that maybe people should be more careful who they message just a touught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply say thanks for the message but they're not what I'm looking for and wish them well. If they are brave enough to point out that they meet what I'm looking for, so why not...I tell them the reason and advise them not to contact me again...usually works!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I do a lot of the "clerical" work on here while wifey does the "yes, hell yeah and god jesus no" to every one that messages us and I'm fine with sending out the yes's (hey yes you can fuck my wife when you free lol) but it's the no's I always feel nervous about. Sometimes I don't reply but as found some people think no news is good news. So what is everyone elses approach to saying "na you're alright mate!""

Sorry your not my type, if they reply wo ask why i block.

To get a reply i need more than a fancy a fuck message in the first place

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

reply why *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's never easy but, we ask for fit goodlookin guys between 27 40, if a guy 55 wit a beer belly messages with a pic and asks well do u like my pic, wot can ya do but say sorry no not wot i'mm lookin i do hate it but i also hate bein put in the possition to have to say, and thats not my fault so i try to remember that maybe people should be more careful who they message just a touught"

Easy. Put your preference on your profile and say you'll only reply to people who meet your criteria. If people outwith your choices contact you ignore them...why worry about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having read through your profile I see that you would like an "Attractive", "Generous" "Respectful" single-male that doesn't smoke, can accommodate and will jump through the other 50 "hoop-like" stipulations you have requested.

Whilst I respect your freedom of choice and you preference/s I have looked in the mirror and realised that contrary to popular belief, I am not Jonny Depp. I also checked the driveway to discover that a) I do not have a Ferrari, and b) I dont have a driveway.

On further investigation, I dont have a 12" penis and my six pack is full of empty cans..... I appreciate the time it took you to wink at me, but unfortunately I feel, that you feel we are incompatible, happy meets."

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By *issbehaveCouple
over a year ago

wrexham


"I make up an elaborate story about how I only meet blue women with hats."

You must love the movie Avatar!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had the opportunity to send a rejection message yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Having read through your profile I see that you would like an "Attractive", "Generous" "Respectful" single-male that doesn't smoke, can accommodate and will jump through the other 50 "hoop-like" stipulations you have requested.

Whilst I respect your freedom of choice and you preference/s I have looked in the mirror and realised that contrary to popular belief, I am not Jonny Depp. I also checked the driveway to discover that a) I do not have a Ferrari, and b) I dont have a driveway.

On further investigation, I dont have a 12" penis and my six pack is full of empty cans..... I appreciate the time it took you to wink at me, but unfortunately I feel, that you feel we are incompatible, happy meets.""

A Porche will do.

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