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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL" Bloody "professionals" 
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL" I have none of those and do perfectly well thanks | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL I have none of those and do perfectly well thanks "I have none of those as well and so bloody really good  | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL I have none of those and do perfectly well thanks "wow u dont watch bbc | |||
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"Less of the 'we' business paleface" Lighten up fella. You’re taking this far too seriously. | |||
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"It's especially funny when you get that attention and no pics on display. It really makes you see that some really are not fussy "Yes and some I've subsequently refused to meet again when my friend showed me her messages. She left after half a day. | |||
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"It's especially funny when you get that attention and no pics on display. It really makes you see that some really are not fussy
Yes and some I've subsequently refused to meet again when my friend showed me her messages. She left after half a day. "I think that's part of the problem. Some complain about there not being as many women on here. Some of the ones who join, just to test the waters, get scared off by the amount of messages they recieve. It can be very overwhelming for some. | |||
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"I must admit, these are the stats for a newbie, when I was a newbie, I didn't last long, too many men just sit and prey on the 'new female' it's quite creepy to be honest! "almost like predators | |||
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"All supply and demand and broadly indicative of the different attitudes to sex on the part of men and women." Well said | |||
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"A female could post a pic of baked beans and get loads of "Fabs' lol!!!" Ha ha oooh please someone do this! | |||
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"I must admit, these are the stats for a newbie, when I was a newbie, I didn't last long, too many men just sit and prey on the 'new female' it's quite creepy to be honest! "Have to agree with this  | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL" I don't think you will struggle! | |||
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"A female could post a pic of baked beans and get loads of "Fabs' lol!!!" I'm getting lots of messages with my bog pic.  | |||
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"This is why I don’t message a newbie as they’re always overwhelmed initially. If I like the look of a newbie I’ll hotlist them and maybe message them after a couple of weeks after the dust has settled and they’ve put the filters on." When they have ‘blocked all single men’ | |||
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"I must admit, these are the stats for a newbie, when I was a newbie, I didn't last long, too many men just sit and prey on the 'new female' it's quite creepy to be honest!
almost like predators "I wait patiently for women to make the first move 
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"A female could post a pic of baked beans and get loads of "Fabs' lol!!! I'm getting lots of messages with my bog pic. "When I first looked I thought you were holding onto a big turd  | |||
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"I must admit, these are the stats for a newbie, when I was a newbie, I didn't last long, too many men just sit and prey on the 'new female' it's quite creepy to be honest!
almost like predators "Definitely predators  | |||
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"A female could post a pic of baked beans and get loads of "Fabs' lol!!! I'm getting lots of messages with my bog pic.
When I first looked I thought you were holding onto a big turd " | |||
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"It's especially funny when you get that attention and no pics on display. It really makes you see that some really are not fussy "When I first joined again I had no pics up and no profile and I was messaged immediately by someone who in their profile said they were very picky about who they met | |||
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"Countless men. Who will fuck anything, and I mean anything, rather than wanking off into their hand. Fewer women. Some of whom wouldn’t pull in the real world. Hence they can be really strict ...(this is true, women themselves say it). Do the maths... When I was on here a few years ago I had good verifications from hot women/couples. I don’t have the time to settle for anything less this time around now but it is definitely more difficult for single men. " Very true | |||
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"I must admit, these are the stats for a newbie, when I was a newbie, I didn't last long, too many men just sit and prey on the 'new female' it's quite creepy to be honest!
almost like predators
Definitely predators "Predators?! It's a sex site, of course, that's why there are so many men here. | |||
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"I must admit, these are the stats for a newbie, when I was a newbie, I didn't last long, too many men just sit and prey on the 'new female' it's quite creepy to be honest!
almost like predators
Definitely predators "There is a very simple solution to this, block single guys and send the messages yourself, see how you get on | |||
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"A female could post a pic of baked beans and get loads of "Fabs' lol!!!" That could be indication of a sploshing fetish. Similar for a tin of custard. | |||
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"I must admit, these are the stats for a newbie, when I was a newbie, I didn't last long, too many men just sit and prey on the 'new female' it's quite creepy to be honest!
almost like predators
Definitely predators
There is a very simple solution to this, block single guys and send the messages yourself, see how you get on "Read it again! I said when women first join, men hang around the 'new female' and new females don't know anything about blocking men, or about filters! | |||
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"I must admit, these are the stats for a newbie, when I was a newbie, I didn't last long, too many men just sit and prey on the 'new female' it's quite creepy to be honest!
almost like predators
Definitely predators
There is a very simple solution to this, block single guys and send the messages yourself, see how you get on
Read it again! I said when women first join, men hang around the 'new female' and new females don't know anything about blocking men, or about filters! "That is partly true, I am sure new members can read the ways to set up their profiles or be advised by a friend who recommended they join | |||
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"Plus this: Photos in photo section; black and white and erotic. Open and read profile: Joined 27 minutes ago. I am a 20 year old straight woman and I'm looking to meet men. Reverse search images; both are lifted from other sites. Reported to Admin. I'm sure the user will have multiple friends by 6 pm." In defence of admin they have been very good at removing reported fake profiles in my area | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships?" Because alot of the men that message us are illiterate, socially inept and have very little sexual experience Not to mention sexist, rude and erm, well not very bright | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships?" Women are more hard-wired to search for a relationship than men, so it's a doddle for a man to get a fulfilling relationship compared to a woman. The problems are that a lot of women when young apply the criteria that they do for sexual partners even more so when it comes to seeking a longterm mate. They want a perfect man who ticks all the boxes; must be physically highly desirable, considerate, kind, thoughtful, sexually accomplished, well off to provide and have a job that means he still has time for her and any family wanted. Naturally men who tick ALL of these boxes are in a lot shorter supply than the women who want them, which is why there are a lot of 30-somethings of the Bridget Jones stereotype, with all the most desirable men they know snapped up and due to their being too selective, the "next best" desirable men they previously overlooked have now been snapped up too.... And of course for those that want children, the biological clock ticking ever louder in the background... Then of course it often becomes a dating free for all, the equivalent of an everything must go sale with a lot of women rushing headlong into unsuitable relationships, for fear of being left empty-handed. One big reason divorce rates are so high. That's a big reason why dating sites are dominated by women. And also why some women move the goalposts to try and find a life partner, such as joining sites like fab, even though they're not really looking for casual sex or sex with multiple partners. Naturally it also goes the other way. I know of men that join dating sites just to get laid as the ratios game tips the odds overwhelmingly in their favour. So if somehow hypothetically the ratio shifted the other way on fab, though the individual biological needs of the sexes tell me that it never will, then logic tells me women would on average become less choosy as a result and the men much more so. | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships?" Maybe because they’re no looking for them here? | |||
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"It's especially funny when you get that attention and no pics on display. It really makes you see that some really are not fussy "My thoughts exactly *sigh*  | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Maybe because they’re no looking for them here? " So they would say, but the in reality most are secretly thinking 'what if, just what if?" How many guy profiles do you see saying 'not meeting, just chatting with friends'? | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Because alot of the men that message us are illiterate, socially inept and have very little sexual experience Not to mention sexist, rude and erm, well not very bright" Block them , search and send messages , problem solved | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Women are more hard-wired to search for a relationship than men, so it's a doddle for a man to get a fulfilling relationship compared to a woman. The problems are that a lot of women when young apply the criteria that they do for sexual partners even more so when it comes to seeking a longterm mate. They want a perfect man who ticks all the boxes; must be physically highly desirable, considerate, kind, thoughtful, sexually accomplished, well off to provide and have a job that means he still has time for her and any family wanted. Naturally men who tick ALL of these boxes are in a lot shorter supply than the women who want them, which is why there are a lot of 30-somethings of the Bridget Jones stereotype, with all the most desirable men they know snapped up and due to their being too selective, the "next best" desirable men they previously overlooked have now been snapped up too.... And of course for those that want children, the biological clock ticking ever louder in the background... Then of course it often becomes a dating free for all, the equivalent of an everything must go sale with a lot of women rushing headlong into unsuitable relationships, for fear of being left empty-handed. One big reason divorce rates are so high. That's a big reason why dating sites are dominated by women. And also why some women move the goalposts to try and find a life partner, such as joining sites like fab, even though they're not really looking for casual sex or sex with multiple partners. Naturally it also goes the other way. I know of men that join dating sites just to get laid as the ratios game tips the odds overwhelmingly in their favour. So if somehow hypothetically the ratio shifted the other way on fab, though the individual biological needs of the sexes tell me that it never will, then logic tells me women would on average become less choosy as a result and the men much more so." Women aren’t looking for life partners on fab. | |||
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"I must admit, these are the stats for a newbie, when I was a newbie, I didn't last long, too many men just sit and prey on the 'new female' it's quite creepy to be honest!
almost like predators
Definitely predators
There is a very simple solution to this, block single guys and send the messages yourself, see how you get on "Yes but when you first join you may not be aware of filters | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Women are more hard-wired to search for a relationship than men, so it's a doddle for a man to get a fulfilling relationship compared to a woman. The problems are that a lot of women when young apply the criteria that they do for sexual partners even more so when it comes to seeking a longterm mate. They want a perfect man who ticks all the boxes; must be physically highly desirable, considerate, kind, thoughtful, sexually accomplished, well off to provide and have a job that means he still has time for her and any family wanted. Naturally men who tick ALL of these boxes are in a lot shorter supply than the women who want them, which is why there are a lot of 30-somethings of the Bridget Jones stereotype, with all the most desirable men they know snapped up and due to their being too selective, the "next best" desirable men they previously overlooked have now been snapped up too.... And of course for those that want children, the biological clock ticking ever louder in the background... Then of course it often becomes a dating free for all, the equivalent of an everything must go sale with a lot of women rushing headlong into unsuitable relationships, for fear of being left empty-handed. One big reason divorce rates are so high. That's a big reason why dating sites are dominated by women. And also why some women move the goalposts to try and find a life partner, such as joining sites like fab, even though they're not really looking for casual sex or sex with multiple partners. Naturally it also goes the other way. I know of men that join dating sites just to get laid as the ratios game tips the odds overwhelmingly in their favour. So if somehow hypothetically the ratio shifted the other way on fab, though the individual biological needs of the sexes tell me that it never will, then logic tells me women would on average become less choosy as a result and the men much more so. Women aren’t looking for life partners on fab. " Some are | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Because alot of the men that message us are illiterate, socially inept and have very little sexual experience Not to mention sexist, rude and erm, well not very bright"  | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Maybe because they’re no looking for them here? So they would say, but the in reality most are secretly thinking 'what if, just what if?" How many guy profiles do you see saying 'not meeting, just chatting with friends'?" I don’t doubt that Some would be personally speaking I’m here for fuck Sorry to disappoint you | |||
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"A female could post a pic of baked beans and get loads of "Fabs' lol!!! That could be indication of a sploshing fetish. Similar for a tin of custard. "Cream is my thing | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Women are more hard-wired to search for a relationship than men, so it's a doddle for a man to get a fulfilling relationship compared to a woman. The problems are that a lot of women when young apply the criteria that they do for sexual partners even more so when it comes to seeking a longterm mate. They want a perfect man who ticks all the boxes; must be physically highly desirable, considerate, kind, thoughtful, sexually accomplished, well off to provide and have a job that means he still has time for her and any family wanted. Naturally men who tick ALL of these boxes are in a lot shorter supply than the women who want them, which is why there are a lot of 30-somethings of the Bridget Jones stereotype, with all the most desirable men they know snapped up and due to their being too selective, the "next best" desirable men they previously overlooked have now been snapped up too.... And of course for those that want children, the biological clock ticking ever louder in the background... Then of course it often becomes a dating free for all, the equivalent of an everything must go sale with a lot of women rushing headlong into unsuitable relationships, for fear of being left empty-handed. One big reason divorce rates are so high. That's a big reason why dating sites are dominated by women. And also why some women move the goalposts to try and find a life partner, such as joining sites like fab, even though they're not really looking for casual sex or sex with multiple partners. Naturally it also goes the other way. I know of men that join dating sites just to get laid as the ratios game tips the odds overwhelmingly in their favour. So if somehow hypothetically the ratio shifted the other way on fab, though the individual biological needs of the sexes tell me that it never will, then logic tells me women would on average become less choosy as a result and the men much more so. Women aren’t looking for life partners on fab. " Have you read Ignitemybody's profile ...? | |||
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"A female could post a pic of baked beans and get loads of "Fabs' lol!!! That could be indication of a sploshing fetish. Similar for a tin of custard.
Cream is my thing "Cream is sooooo yesterday lol! | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Because alot of the men that message us are illiterate, socially inept and have very little sexual experience Not to mention sexist, rude and erm, well not very bright Block them , search and send messages , problem solved "I like the sexist, idiots though They amuse me. If I can't get meself layed, I gotta think of new and exciting ways to get my kicks | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Women are more hard-wired to search for a relationship than men, so it's a doddle for a man to get a fulfilling relationship compared to a woman. The problems are that a lot of women when young apply the criteria that they do for sexual partners even more so when it comes to seeking a longterm mate. They want a perfect man who ticks all the boxes; must be physically highly desirable, considerate, kind, thoughtful, sexually accomplished, well off to provide and have a job that means he still has time for her and any family wanted. Naturally men who tick ALL of these boxes are in a lot shorter supply than the women who want them, which is why there are a lot of 30-somethings of the Bridget Jones stereotype, with all the most desirable men they know snapped up and due to their being too selective, the "next best" desirable men they previously overlooked have now been snapped up too.... And of course for those that want children, the biological clock ticking ever louder in the background... Then of course it often becomes a dating free for all, the equivalent of an everything must go sale with a lot of women rushing headlong into unsuitable relationships, for fear of being left empty-handed. One big reason divorce rates are so high. That's a big reason why dating sites are dominated by women. And also why some women move the goalposts to try and find a life partner, such as joining sites like fab, even though they're not really looking for casual sex or sex with multiple partners. Naturally it also goes the other way. I know of men that join dating sites just to get laid as the ratios game tips the odds overwhelmingly in their favour. So if somehow hypothetically the ratio shifted the other way on fab, though the individual biological needs of the sexes tell me that it never will, then logic tells me women would on average become less choosy as a result and the men much more so. Women aren’t looking for life partners on fab. " Oh yes they are. Quite a few are so frustrated with the lack of attention and the prevalence of 'commitmentphobes' on conventional dating sites that they migrate across here. | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Because alot of the men that message us are illiterate, socially inept and have very little sexual experience Not to mention sexist, rude and erm, well not very bright Block them , search and send messages , problem solved
I like the sexist, idiots though
They amuse me.
If I can't get meself layed, I gotta think of new and exciting ways to get my kicks"Crack on then, | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this." That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! | |||
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"Can we not just all get along...so much nagativity...and yes I have replaced the e for an a...Nagativity is my word of the day." Of course, men and women are designed to get along. | |||
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"It's especially funny when you get that attention and no pics on display. It really makes you see that some really are not fussy
When I first joined again I had no pics up and no profile and I was messaged immediately by someone who in their profile said they were very picky about who they met "So some lie about being picky? Bubble well and truly burst | |||
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"I found on dating sites 90% of men were looking for sex and only sex which is really disheartening when your generally looking for a relationship and they tell you all the lies just to get what they want (even though I have a 3month rule with dating) still didn't stop them trying, which is why I gave up dating and joined fab, at least that way I know I'm meeting just for sex " Kind of proves the point I made earlier in the thread. Your inclusion of the term 'princess' in your username is also true to form. Most women, contrary to bullshit modern feminism, want to be a princess and have a prince. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go!" Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this." I hope that was said tongue in cheek... I would hate to have my inbox flooded with hundreds of "Wanna fuck now" messages and cock pics
I think that all new profiles should automatically be filtered fully, allowing the owner to amend as required.
Maybe including a reminder to read FAQs etc. On sign up too.
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this." Doesn't matter if I get 50,000 messages in a day- if I don't fancy any of them I won't be fucking them!!! | |||
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"Jeez there some right fucking drivel on this thread " Its hilarious drivel though So many ironies just completely lost | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy" No, because pretty much all the guys aren't looking for that on here. If they are then they're more likely to be the kind that have no real world options and so would not be attractive to women anyway. Oh yes, women of all shapes, ages and sizes (to a degree) will get attention on here and this is mostly more important to them than the sex. | |||
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"Jeez there some right fucking drivel on this thread Its hilarious drivel though So many ironies just completely lost" Oh yea between the Cynicism of course | |||
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"Jeez there some right fucking drivel on this thread Its hilarious drivel though So many ironies just completely lost" The number of men who have absolutely no idea when it comes to women, does result in some amusing posts...
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL" You don't need any of those (but it does help) Being honest Turning up Not acting entitled This is what seems to work for most of the guys I've met at socials and parties. | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL You don't need any of those (but it does help) Being honest Turning up Not acting entitled This is what seems to work for most of the guys I've met at socials and parties. " | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy" Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL You don't need any of those (but it does help) Being honest Turning up Not acting entitled This is what seems to work for most of the guys I've met at socials and parties. " In fact, turning up is a big one. Amuses me when you see couples/single fems with a meet-today up with the usual six-pack/ten inch cock essentials requested and then later on their status is 'bloody timewasters' ha ha | |||
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"Jeez there some right fucking drivel on this thread " Christ alive, one of the things I dislike about you is you always beat around your bush...lol...get in Curvy...love it.. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. " No, but in all areas of male/female interaction there is the hope for the prince charming. Maybe, just maybe he's on fab and doesn't send the 'fancy a fuck' opening email. | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Maybe because they’re no looking for them here? So they would say, but the in reality most are secretly thinking 'what if, just what if?" How many guy profiles do you see saying 'not meeting, just chatting with friends'?" why do you think that that most women are on here looking for relationships, despite saying they aren't? have a lot of women told you this? | |||
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"I found on dating sites 90% of men were looking for sex and only sex which is really disheartening when your generally looking for a relationship and they tell you all the lies just to get what they want (even though I have a 3month rule with dating) still didn't stop them trying, which is why I gave up dating and joined fab, at least that way I know I'm meeting just for sex Kind of proves the point I made earlier in the thread. Your inclusion of the term 'princess' in your username is also true to form. Most women, contrary to bullshit modern feminism, want to be a princess and have a prince." more sweeping, and completely inaccurrate generalisations... | |||
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"Jeez there some right fucking drivel on this thread Christ alive, one of the things I dislike about you is you always beat around your bush...lol...get in Curvy...love it.. "Do you wanna trythst one again? | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. No, but in all areas of male/female interaction there is the hope for the prince charming. Maybe, just maybe he's on fab and doesn't send the 'fancy a fuck' opening email." This is the last place I'd look for a long term relationship (if I was, which I'm definitely not). | |||
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"I found on dating sites 90% of men were looking for sex and only sex which is really disheartening when your generally looking for a relationship and they tell you all the lies just to get what they want (even though I have a 3month rule with dating) still didn't stop them trying, which is why I gave up dating and joined fab, at least that way I know I'm meeting just for sex Kind of proves the point I made earlier in the thread. Your inclusion of the term 'princess' in your username is also true to form. Most women, contrary to bullshit modern feminism, want to be a princess and have a prince." Ahh so despite having a penis, you are the voice for what most women want are you? | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. No, but in all areas of male/female interaction there is the hope for the prince charming. Maybe, just maybe he's on fab and doesn't send the 'fancy a fuck' opening email." You do realise they’re called fairy tales for a reason? Trust me we all know prince fucking charming doesn’t exist | |||
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"If it is so amazing for ladies as the stats suggest, then why do some ladies still complain about finding relationships? Maybe because they’re no looking for them here? So they would say, but the in reality most are secretly thinking 'what if, just what if?" How many guy profiles do you see saying 'not meeting, just chatting with friends'? why do you think that that most women are on here looking for relationships, despite saying they aren't? have a lot of women told you this?" Obviously there's no empirical evidence from which to draw. Most of what people will comment on is a mix of opinion and their observations. I am no different in this. From the interactions I have had with women on here, from the way a significant number of female profiles are worded and human evolutionary biology are where I am coming from with that comment. Broadly speaking, the attitude to sex is different if depending on if you're male or female. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. No, but in all areas of male/female interaction there is the hope for the prince charming. Maybe, just maybe he's on fab and doesn't send the 'fancy a fuck' opening email. You do realise they’re called fairy tales for a reason? Trust me we all know prince fucking charming doesn’t exist " Depends on what Prince Charming is for you really. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. No, but in all areas of male/female interaction there is the hope for the prince charming. Maybe, just maybe he's on fab and doesn't send the 'fancy a fuck' opening email. You do realise they’re called fairy tales for a reason? Trust me we all know prince fucking charming doesn’t exist Depends on what Prince Charming is for you really. " According to you it’s the perfect man No such creature exists | |||
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"I found on dating sites 90% of men were looking for sex and only sex which is really disheartening when your generally looking for a relationship and they tell you all the lies just to get what they want (even though I have a 3month rule with dating) still didn't stop them trying, which is why I gave up dating and joined fab, at least that way I know I'm meeting just for sex Kind of proves the point I made earlier in the thread. Your inclusion of the term 'princess' in your username is also true to form. Most women, contrary to bullshit modern feminism, want to be a princess and have a prince. Ahh so despite having a penis, you are the voice for what most women want are you? "That is not a counter argument. Again, your previous post reinforces what I said earlier in the thread. | |||
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"I found on dating sites 90% of men were looking for sex and only sex which is really disheartening when your generally looking for a relationship and they tell you all the lies just to get what they want (even though I have a 3month rule with dating) still didn't stop them trying, which is why I gave up dating and joined fab, at least that way I know I'm meeting just for sex Kind of proves the point I made earlier in the thread. Your inclusion of the term 'princess' in your username is also true to form. Most women, contrary to bullshit modern feminism, want to be a princess and have a prince." The name princess is because I'm training to be a Domme which is then queen, please read profile before assuming I want to be a princess with a prince, no I want to degrade, punish and humiliate men | |||
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"I found on dating sites 90% of men were looking for sex and only sex which is really disheartening when your generally looking for a relationship and they tell you all the lies just to get what they want (even though I have a 3month rule with dating) still didn't stop them trying, which is why I gave up dating and joined fab, at least that way I know I'm meeting just for sex Kind of proves the point I made earlier in the thread. Your inclusion of the term 'princess' in your username is also true to form. Most women, contrary to bullshit modern feminism, want to be a princess and have a prince. Ahh so despite having a penis, you are the voice for what most women want are you?
That is not a counter argument. Again, your previous post reinforces what I said earlier in the thread."You've clearly not heard of sarcasm then, I take it?  | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. No, but in all areas of male/female interaction there is the hope for the prince charming. Maybe, just maybe he's on fab and doesn't send the 'fancy a fuck' opening email. You do realise they’re called fairy tales for a reason? Trust me we all know prince fucking charming doesn’t exist Depends on what Prince Charming is for you really. According to you it’s the perfect man No such creature exists " Your 'perfect' man might be different from what I would say he is for you. However, there are universal good genetic indicators and for men these are simple. Youth and physical beauty which equates to fertility. About much else we do not care. For example, Orlando Bloom when staying in the hotel could have any 35 plus, successful, independent career woman - but he bangs the 21 year-old hottie cocktail waitress. As do many such status men. | |||
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"I found on dating sites 90% of men were looking for sex and only sex which is really disheartening when your generally looking for a relationship and they tell you all the lies just to get what they want (even though I have a 3month rule with dating) still didn't stop them trying, which is why I gave up dating and joined fab, at least that way I know I'm meeting just for sex Kind of proves the point I made earlier in the thread. Your inclusion of the term 'princess' in your username is also true to form. Most women, contrary to bullshit modern feminism, want to be a princess and have a prince. Ahh so despite having a penis, you are the voice for what most women want are you?
That is not a counter argument. Again, your previous post reinforces what I said earlier in the thread.
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"To the OP's original post before the "women act like this....and men act like this" gag. I have largely abandoned messaging couples and/or single females on the site. Unless it's a party profile and I'm looking for an invite. The best thing is just to go to clubs and be the honourable gentlemanly self. #dontletthebastardsgrindyoudown " Very good strategy and a great way to acquire those precious verifications. This is always the advice I would give. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. No, but in all areas of male/female interaction there is the hope for the prince charming. Maybe, just maybe he's on fab and doesn't send the 'fancy a fuck' opening email. You do realise they’re called fairy tales for a reason? Trust me we all know prince fucking charming doesn’t exist " Prince Charming, Prince Charming, Prince Charming, ridicule is nothing to be scared of. (Said in best Adam and the Ants voice)  | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. No, but in all areas of male/female interaction there is the hope for the prince charming. Maybe, just maybe he's on fab and doesn't send the 'fancy a fuck' opening email. You do realise they’re called fairy tales for a reason? Trust me we all know prince fucking charming doesn’t exist Depends on what Prince Charming is for you really. According to you it’s the perfect man No such creature exists Your 'perfect' man might be different from what I would say he is for you. However, there are universal good genetic indicators and for men these are simple. Youth and physical beauty which equates to fertility. About much else we do not care. For example, Orlando Bloom when staying in the hotel could have any 35 plus, successful, independent career woman - but he bangs the 21 year-old hottie cocktail waitress. As do many such status men." If you say so But I’m sorry you talk some serious shit | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. " In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. No, but in all areas of male/female interaction there is the hope for the prince charming. Maybe, just maybe he's on fab and doesn't send the 'fancy a fuck' opening email. You do realise they’re called fairy tales for a reason? Trust me we all know prince fucking charming doesn’t exist Depends on what Prince Charming is for you really. According to you it’s the perfect man No such creature exists Your 'perfect' man might be different from what I would say he is for you. However, there are universal good genetic indicators and for men these are simple. Youth and physical beauty which equates to fertility. About much else we do not care. For example, Orlando Bloom when staying in the hotel could have any 35 plus, successful, independent career woman - but he bangs the 21 year-old hottie cocktail waitress. As do many such status men. If you say so But I’m sorry you talk some serious shit " Not a counter argument. But ok, put a gym fit, facially attractive, 23-year-old female profile on here, perhaps with a couple of verifications and see what the response is. The market does not lie. | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL" Why a great career? It’s never mattered what my meets do for a living! I just expect them to look good and have a great personality! Xx | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? " Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? | |||
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"New female put this on her status within 24 hrs of joining.... 1400 views 500 messages 100 friends requests 1000 likes ....that’s why we’re all struggling! I know these aren’t the stats for everyone but it shows the impossible ratio we’re up against." Not really, I wouldn't tend to message a new female often if at all as it would be pointless. Why does someone have to be new to fab to be considered the kind I have designs on? In fact the opposite is usually true... | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL Why a great career? It’s never mattered what my meets do for a living! I just expect them to look good and have a great personality! Xx" Yes, but a great career can also be an indicator of intelligence, ambition and being further up the social dominance hierarchy - all triggers for good genetics that the female limbic system is primed to search for. For men it's a simpler equation. Youth and physical beauty which equates to a longer span of fertility. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them?" The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you " Again, not a counter argument. | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL Why a great career? It’s never mattered what my meets do for a living! I just expect them to look good and have a great personality! Xx Yes, but a great career can also be an indicator of intelligence, ambition and being further up the social dominance hierarchy - all triggers for good genetics that the female limbic system is primed to search for. For men it's a simpler equation. Youth and physical beauty which equates to a longer span of fertility." So where do uscfat fucks that still somehow manage to get a shag via this site got into your little theories? Im certainly not as youthful as u once was that’s for sure | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument." Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance | |||
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"I wonder if tighter filtering might be the way forwards? A female could then filter by age, distance, time on site, etc etc. to minimise that initial influx. Maybe also have a guide of siggestions sent to newbies or available to open on the start-up page. Just musing" I think a height filter would be a good idea as well. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance " It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument." I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL Why a great career? It’s never mattered what my meets do for a living! I just expect them to look good and have a great personality! Xx Yes, but a great career can also be an indicator of intelligence, ambition and being further up the social dominance hierarchy - all triggers for good genetics that the female limbic system is primed to search for. For men it's a simpler equation. Youth and physical beauty which equates to a longer span of fertility. So where do uscfat fucks that still somehow manage to get a shag via this site got into your little theories? Im certainly not as youthful as u once was that’s for sure " You have invited me to comment personally on your profile in a veiled way and I'm not going to do that. You're having many meets and great fun. More power to you! | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL Why a great career? It’s never mattered what my meets do for a living! I just expect them to look good and have a great personality! Xx Yes, but a great career can also be an indicator of intelligence, ambition and being further up the social dominance hierarchy - all triggers for good genetics that the female limbic system is primed to search for. For men it's a simpler equation. Youth and physical beauty which equates to a longer span of fertility. So where do uscfat fucks that still somehow manage to get a shag via this site got into your little theories? Im certainly not as youthful as u once was that’s for sure You have invited me to comment personally on your profile in a veiled way and I'm not going to do that. You're having many meets and great fun. More power to you! " No I didn’t ask you to review my profile I asked where do fat fucks like me fit into your theory In the spirit of debate surely you can answer the question? | |||
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"OP Have you never thought that it’s a wind up? It’s most likely a guy setting up,a fem profile. For some reason they love to wind you other guys up
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it "Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets? That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles. This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige. My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value. What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either. | |||
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"Hearing this kind of make me appreciate being a bi guy! Your options increase significantly! It's a numbers game really, I think most sites have lots more guys than woman. To pull single women on these kind of sites you will generally need to have face pics, a decent profile and send the message at the right place and the right time I think. " | |||
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"New female put this on her status within 24 hrs of joining.... 1400 views 500 messages 100 friends requests 1000 likes ....that’s why we’re all struggling! I know these aren’t the stats for everyone but it shows the impossible ratio we’re up against." Im over it already | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either."Why are women at an advantage when they receive 100 crap messages from fellas they don't fancy? The result is the same as for the men - no meet. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either."Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old? Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
Sorry this is not a good counter argument "Damn! And he was me thinking I was onto a winner but isuing his own logic against him | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
"The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking. Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it."Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband | |||
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"Come on everybody, let’s work out how to recruit more females to the swinging lifestyle. Any ideas? Imagine if we got thousands to join and turn the tables. Would also encourage some of the existing ladies to up their game a bit. Not saying you are slacking in any way girls, but competition has to be a good thing." I’m not here to compete with or for anyone I’m me take me or leave me | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
"I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men. | |||
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"Come on everybody, let’s work out how to recruit more females to the swinging lifestyle. Any ideas? Imagine if we got thousands to join and turn the tables. Would also encourage some of the existing ladies to up their game a bit. Not saying you are slacking in any way girls, but competition has to be a good thing. I’m not here to compete with or for anyone I’m me take me or leave me " We all compete for the best mate, men and women. | |||
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"I found on dating sites 90% of men were looking for sex and only sex which is really disheartening when your generally looking for a relationship and they tell you all the lies just to get what they want (even though I have a 3month rule with dating) still didn't stop them trying, which is why I gave up dating and joined fab, at least that way I know I'm meeting just for sex Kind of proves the point I made earlier in the thread. Your inclusion of the term 'princess' in your username is also true to form. Most women, contrary to bullshit modern feminism, want to be a princess and have a prince." Not once they're past the age of 12 probably | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men."My mistake you said most are looking for it But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are” That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking "I stand by 'most' but state again not 'all'. | |||
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"Come on everybody, let’s work out how to recruit more females to the swinging lifestyle. Any ideas? Imagine if we got thousands to join and turn the tables. Would also encourage some of the existing ladies to up their game a bit. Not saying you are slacking in any way girls, but competition has to be a good thing. I’m not here to compete with or for anyone I’m me take me or leave me We all compete for the best mate, men and women." No we’re not If I was “forced” to compete for a guy they’re be no competition as the door can gladly hit his arse on the way out of it! | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL I have none of those and do perfectly well thanks "Ah but you have great thighs and a hairy chest. Definately pulling power in my opinion. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking
I stand by 'most' but state again not 'all'."No you don’t you stand by a certain number
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"Come on everybody, let’s work out how to recruit more females to the swinging lifestyle. Any ideas? Imagine if we got thousands to join and turn the tables. Would also encourage some of the existing ladies to up their game a bit. Not saying you are slacking in any way girls, but competition has to be a good thing." Up their game? Most of the ladies on here have gorgeous pics of themselves, looking amazing, in beautiful, expensive lingerie. Myself excluded. I use my rapier wit to attract my princes And I'm fucking lazy Alot of the men's pics are of them hanging over toilets, knickers down, with their wives toiletries in the background Who needs to up their game? | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking "Ok, I'll ignore the 'crap' comment. But a stereotype is a stereotype for a reason. | |||
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"Come on everybody, let’s work out how to recruit more females to the swinging lifestyle. Any ideas? Imagine if we got thousands to join and turn the tables. Would also encourage some of the existing ladies to up their game a bit. Not saying you are slacking in any way girls, but competition has to be a good thing. Up their game? Most of the ladies on here have gorgeous pics of themselves, looking amazing, in beautiful, expensive lingerie. Myself excluded. I use my rapier wit to attract my princes And I'm fucking lazy Alot of the men's pics are of them hanging over toilets, knickers down, with their wives toiletries in the background Who needs to up their game?" There are also plenty of profiles that say 'no cock pics' and then have a close up vagina shot. But yes, for the most part, men do need to put more effort in. | |||
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"yep the odds are not good unless you have the body of a greek god a great career or BBC you have no bloody hope LOL" Great Career - not really, self employed but do alright (never known this pre-requisite on Fab before though) BBC - clearly not... and I don’t have a TV licence either so can’t offer either variation
Body of a god - ok I cheated here, not a Greek god but certainly a god (Buddha)
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking
Ok, I'll ignore the 'crap' comment. But a stereotype is a stereotype for a reason."just because something is a stereotype, doesnt mean its either true, or that it cannot change. There are, thankfully, many men on here who are intelligent, interesting and articulate, who speak to women as equals and have left behind the whore/madonna mindset years ago. So your ignorant generalisations are not just insulting to women on here, but to plenty of men too. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking
I stand by 'most' but state again not 'all'.
No you don’t you stand by a certain number
Once you’ve got specific facts by all means come back and prove us all wrong "Like I said, there's no such thing as empirical data on fab. It's observation and opinion based. I still say that a 23 year old hot looking woman represent the peak of female sexual power. On fab and in life generally. If you go into a bar as 23 year old hot woman chances are you'd have no idea what the drinks cost. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking
Ok, I'll ignore the 'crap' comment. But a stereotype is a stereotype for a reason."And there are more than plenty of exceptions to them, that many choose not to factor in when it doesn’t serve purpose to their argument | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking
Ok, I'll ignore the 'crap' comment. But a stereotype is a stereotype for a reason.
just because something is a stereotype, doesnt mean its either true, or that it cannot change. There are, thankfully, many men on here who are intelligent, interesting and articulate, who speak to women as equals and have left behind the whore/madonna mindset years ago. So your ignorant generalisations are not just insulting to women on here, but to plenty of men too. "The men on here are 'supportive' and 'articulate' because they want to get laid. The Madonna/Whore complex has been extensively written about. I have not been personally insulting. I'm expressing opinions that is all. | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking
Ok, I'll ignore the 'crap' comment. But a stereotype is a stereotype for a reason.
And there are more than plenty of exceptions to them, that many choose not to factor in when it doesn’t serve purpose to their argument "Just because there's an exception to the rule it doesn't mean that there is no rule. | |||
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"Having had women and guys sexually, generally speaking even in a casual or fling type relationship, a women will still need to connect with a guy, (that means not just connect via his cock) Most guys in a casual situation would be quite happy to literally fuck and leave. I think a very large number of guys are not single but look for more sexual partners. My view is so many guys want a porn scenario with no strings In reality, I think you can get this within a realashsonihip or of course you go and work within the porn industry (if parameters permit O:- ) I think, simply because of the general differences between guys and women's desires, also the skewed balance between the number ratio between guys and women leaves guys frustrated and women bombarded with the type of messages they don't want, which of course makes them even more defensive or more likely to leave the site. "
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"Come on everybody, let’s work out how to recruit more females to the swinging lifestyle. Any ideas? Imagine if we got thousands to join and turn the tables. Would also encourage some of the existing ladies to up their game a bit. Not saying you are slacking in any way girls, but competition has to be a good thing. Up their game? Most of the ladies on here have gorgeous pics of themselves, looking amazing, in beautiful, expensive lingerie. Myself excluded. I use my rapier wit to attract my princes And I'm fucking lazy Alot of the men's pics are of them hanging over toilets, knickers down, with their wives toiletries in the background Who needs to up their game? ‘Some’ women do, their profiles are often one line or full of SHOUTY and unrealistic demands with disgusting photos of there badly bashed growler. I can’t comment on men’s profiles because I don’t read them and don’t care
Some men are just as bitter to their approach to fab and the women that use it
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking
Ok, I'll ignore the 'crap' comment. But a stereotype is a stereotype for a reason.
And there are more than plenty of exceptions to them, that many choose not to factor in when it doesn’t serve purpose to their argument
Just because there's an exception to the rule it doesn't mean that there is no rule."But it’s not a rule, that implies an hardline, it’s a stereotype they’re open to interpretation and culturally and socially change over time | |||
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking
Ok, I'll ignore the 'crap' comment. But a stereotype is a stereotype for a reason.
just because something is a stereotype, doesnt mean its either true, or that it cannot change. There are, thankfully, many men on here who are intelligent, interesting and articulate, who speak to women as equals and have left behind the whore/madonna mindset years ago. So your ignorant generalisations are not just insulting to women on here, but to plenty of men too.
The men on here are 'supportive' and 'articulate' because they want to get laid.
The Madonna/Whore complex has been extensively written about.
I have not been personally insulting. I'm expressing opinions that is all. "your assertion that men on here are only capable of speaking to women like decent human beings if they are trying to somehow con them into getting laid isn't insulting? really? you dont think any men are genuinely articulate and intelligent, and capable of speaking to women as if they are from the same species?....and yes, the whore/madonna complex has been extensively written about, and if you maybe read some more up to date literature on it you might find out that it has changed a lot over the last few decades, even if that seems to have passed by the less intelligent amongst us. | |||
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Some men are just as bitter to their approach to fab and the women that use it
I am sure they are, likewise with some women "So you agree both sexes are equally capable of being twats So there’s no reason to go to war with women they way you do on every bloody thread of this type | |||
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"Unfortunately when you generalise anyone using a stereotype you will risk offending some that are the exception to it Yes, I agree. But look at you. Good profile, get loads of meets. You're clearly having great fun and I suspect you're a great fun person to be around. Life and soul with a genuine character. I might be wrong, but that is how I see you. Gutsy and give shit back too. It would take a lot to offend you I hope." To be fair to you that’s pretty much the nail on the head of me Not one easily offended | |||
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"Come on everybody, let’s work out how to recruit more females to the swinging lifestyle. Any ideas? Imagine if we got thousands to join and turn the tables. Would also encourage some of the existing ladies to up their game a bit. Not saying you are slacking in any way girls, but competition has to be a good thing. Up their game? Most of the ladies on here have gorgeous pics of themselves, looking amazing, in beautiful, expensive lingerie. Myself excluded. I use my rapier wit to attract my princes And I'm fucking lazy Alot of the men's pics are of them hanging over toilets, knickers down, with their wives toiletries in the background Who needs to up their game? ‘Some’ women do, their profiles are often one line or full of SHOUTY and unrealistic demands with disgusting photos of there badly bashed growler. I can’t comment on men’s profiles because I don’t read them and don’t care
Some men are just as bitter to their approach to fab and the women that use it
I am sure they are, likewise with some women
So you agree both sexes are equally capable of being twats
So there’s no reason to go to war with women they way you do on every bloody thread of this type
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"It is really difficult to understand why the ladies should have any complaints with statistics like this, 500 messages in 24 hours is a lot. If I had that kind of statistics and I was fucking one lady each day, I would only manage 365 and the year will be over. The ladies should not complain again with statistics like this. That's because you're looking at their dilema through male eyes. It's very different for woman. All male/female sexual interaction is affected by the fact that eggs come round once a month and have a shelf life. On the other hand sperm is plentiful, cheap and always ready to go! Even at that, the opportunity this site provides the ladies is still amazing, with that kind of statistics, even if the ladies are looking for marriage, it should be easy Seriously? Would you marry someone who literally sent the same crap 'fancy a fuck' message to every woman on site? Some of us have standards and clearly are not that desperate. In my opinion , opportunity is the main thing, it does not matter how it presents itself, if you are looking for marriage. I know there are a lot of decent ladies on fabs, I know there are decent guys too. The fact that someone swings as a recreational activity, does that make him or her not marriage material? Good point, but the classic male double-standard operates. That being the Madonna/Whore complex. We want to bang the porn-stars and strippers but would we want to marry them? The only person hung up on marriage in this thread evidently is you Again, not a counter argument. Neither is that statement your conveniently repeatedly spouting in pure avoidance It is you're conveniently by the way. Take issue with or present something specific I have said and let us debate. Casting personal aspersions might make to feel better but they are not an argument. I already have posed you a question you’ve convient may avoided it
And I posted it before this one you requited
Sorry it didn’t serve your agenda to answer it
Ah, re the reason some ladies get meets?
That's easy, it's Fab. Supply and demand. For seemingly no-consequence sex this is an arena that will always attract more men. The number are obvious to all in terms of the ratio of male to female profiles.
This put the advantage clearly with women. Much the same as in the clubs. There will always be guys willing to oblige.
My point was that a 23-year-old, gym fit, facially attractive hottie will be in the most demand since that pretty much represents the pinnacle of female, sexual market value.
What it doesn't mean is that no other women get laid either.
Surely then , as the 23 year old hottie is the only desirably type of lady to men the rest of us must already know this and can therefore only be on the site purely to find a fuck because the men just want to marry the 23 year old?
Therefore we don’t all come he looking for marriage afterall hey
The 23 year old hottie is not the ONLY desirable, she's the MOST desireable, typically speaking.
Also saying 'well lots of other women get mail too' doesn't disprove the point. Hell, silhouette female profiles with no veris get mails on here. Being in possession of a vagina is agency but if you're 23 and hot you have more of it.
Fail to see how that relates to your original argument that all women are here purely to find an husband
I never said ALL. What I did say was that there will a number that are. Women are more hard-wired to seek relationships and security. Not ALL on here, but probably more than would admit. This will not be the same for the men.
My mistake you said most are looking for it
But that estimation as come down and now it’s just a “number that are”
That’s the trouble with spouting streotypical crap based on your own bais of the women you’ve encountered thus far, it’s causes backtracking
Ok, I'll ignore the 'crap' comment. But a stereotype is a stereotype for a reason.
just because something is a stereotype, doesnt mean its either true, or that it cannot change. There are, thankfully, many men on here who are intelligent, interesting and articulate, who speak to women as equals and have left behind the whore/madonna mindset years ago. So your ignorant generalisations are not just insulting to women on here, but to plenty of men too.
The men on here are 'supportive' and 'articulate' because they want to get laid.
The Madonna/Whore complex has been extensively written about.
I have not been personally insulting. I'm expressing opinions that is all.
your assertion that men on here are only capable of speaking to women like decent human beings if they are trying to somehow con them into getting laid isn't insulting? really? you dont think any men are genuinely articulate and intelligent, and capable of speaking to women as if they are from the same species?....and yes, the whore/madonna complex has been extensively written about, and if you maybe read some more up to date literature on it you might find out that it has changed a lot over the last few decades, even if that seems to have passed by the less intelligent amongst us."Men are capable of speaking to whoever they want in any way they want. But, they're on fab for SEX. Sure, some think it's facebook at times and and they will chat away for ages, if they think they'll get sex at some point. That is not to say that there will certainly be some pleasant social interaction along they way but the end game is sex. | |||
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"The best thing this site could is make it impossible to search for new members and make new members opt in to receiving messages. " The catch with that is the site would have to ensure this was completely clear upon joining otherwise people would likely leave thinking the site is a Monday making con like some dating sites eg you can join but must pay to upgrade to send and receive messages | |||
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