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Split condom has it happened to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So swinging can be risky not even for the fact of std's but the occasional condom split can cause your swing friend to get pregnant.

Has this happened to many of you ? Me and my gf have sex regular and always wear a condom, i can honestly say weve had about 2/3 break in 8 years of regular sex.

I couldnt imagin the feeling and thoughts going through our minds if she was having sex with a swing friend and the condom broke/ or if i was havig sex with another girl and it broke.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also for those who use condoms for meets do you prefer to go for the extra security of the extra safe ones,or do you go for pleasurable think or dotted ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but not when we've been at this game. Thank goodness!

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By *ymba 87Man
over a year ago

hunstanton

That’s how I was made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s how I was made"

Out of latex??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I was very worried

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When we were younger we used condoms as contraception for a while. We had a couple of breakages and I always took the morning after pill. It made me feel rubbish for a couple of days but prevented worry.

If condoms break while swinging I'd advise the map and bringing your check forward.

Ribbed condoms are horrible in my opinion they made me very sore when we used them, Skyns are favourite as far as I'm concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

There’s no such thing as safe sex if you’re having multiple partners, just safer sex. You need to weigh up whether the risk is worth it.

Would your relationship survive if you got another woman pregnant? Or, what if the other woman didn’t tell you she was pregnant and 18 years later your grown up child finds you? Or if a woman was pregnant by another man but said it’s yours? Obviously you’ could have a DNA test but the stress would be immense. So many possibilities and that’s without the worry of STI’s.

But, we all know the risks, we just need to decide if they’re worth taking.

Mrs x

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By *lim_jim1964Man
over a year ago

peterborough

From a slightly different angle having a good fitting condom is critical to me. Had they joy of meeting a couple where the lady seemed to know her rubbers, she looked me over like a Savile Row tailor, give it a feel here and there and recommended a Durex Elite, it fit like a glove

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I've experienced this twice - once by accident, once on purpose...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've experienced this twice - once by accident, once on purpose..."

Who split the condom on purpose, you or her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Split condoms have happened to me before, more than once. I worry myself stupid, take myself off to the GUM clinic for a check up and fortunately have been fine.

To echo another post, there is no such thing as 100% safe sex, but condoms make it safer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral sex passes std also

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Who split the condom on purpose, you or her?"

Her husband...

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By *arnsleycpl4uCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

What about lost condoms up there lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has happened to me maybe 6 times over the years, sometimes swinging and sometimes with girls I was dating. Usually I noticed and stopped but a couple of times only noticed after the end. Each time tested and she took the morning after, which isn’t an especially pleasant experience by all accounts.

Much better to use good quality condoms and make sure they are a good fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about lost condoms up there lol x"

Happens if a wee guy buys XL condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i Met a woman and had sex with a condom, when I was about to cum she slid the condom off and told me to fill her pussy. So I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had one split last night while a new date was inside her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had one split last night while a new date was inside her"

What did you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had one split last night while a new date was inside her

What did you do? "

Is life worth living i guess after that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had one split last night while a new date was inside her

What did you do? "

He pulled out as soon as he realised and she sucked him off

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after..."

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say. "

I think my comments have an extremity but its also extremely stupid to talk about the consequences of a split condom incident.

I have no tolerance for uneducated stupid people posting such comments and this is my way exactly to portray this stupidity.

Apologies if it offends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say. "

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes but she gave it to me ,so am I exonerated

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

I think my comments have an extremity but its also extremely stupid to talk about the consequences of a split condom incident.

I have no tolerance for uneducated stupid people posting such comments and this is my way exactly to portray this stupidity.

Apologies if it offends."

Why is it stupid to discuss the consequences of an accident? There was intention to stay safe. unfortunately, accidents happen but I don’t think it’s fair to those involved to call them stupid.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

I think my comments have an extremity but its also extremely stupid to talk about the consequences of a split condom incident.

I have no tolerance for uneducated stupid people posting such comments and this is my way exactly to portray this stupidity.

Apologies if it offends."

A split condom is a very real concern for many people. Dismissing their valid fears like you do is simply not on.

A condom is a risk reducer, and if it splits then that adds a risk they did not want.

You seem to believe only your opinion is correct, and everyone who disagrees is an idiot.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!"

Now your previous comments make sense ... and you call the people protecting themselves stupid and uneducated ?! Hilarious.

Mrs x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!"

Well it might if the woman isn't using another form of contraception... which is what the OP was about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!"

I think you will find this is complete nonsense. There is a risk of disease spreading if either partner has one.

If there was cum involved, and she isn’t on any other birth control there is a risk of pregnancy.

What you have said is completely biologically wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say. "

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

This happened to me a few years ago. The

woman was extra vigerous and the condom came off. Neither of us realised that it had happened until withdrawal after I had come. We looked for the condom and couldn't find it.

She went into the shower and later she shouted "found it," which made me laugh.

No problem, just lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about lost condoms up there lol x"

Yes we’ve had this at a club when we first started swinging we were young and didnt know much about swinging. A guy joined us he pulled out and even grabbed some tissue as if he was taking off a condom we carried on playing want until the next day fem had bad pains and Found a condom left in her. He was a regular at the club until we reported what he had done. Now She makes sure the one when it goes in and still then when it comes out. Luckily she was on the pill and test were all clear. It’s the only one time it’s happened in 11 years

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Also for those who use condoms for meets do you prefer to go for the extra security of the extra safe ones,or do you go for pleasurable think or dotted ones?"

I don't really understand the whole extra safe thing. Surely they should all be as safe as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me and I didn't really understand the consequences. Told my friend about it and she took me to the family planning clinic for the morning after pill. And now over a decade later... I'd do exactly the same and a trip to the GUM clinic for tests. I'm not on the pill and I am extra careful. I rarely sleep with men anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!

I think you will find this is complete nonsense. There is a risk of disease spreading if either partner has one.

If there was cum involved, and she isn’t on any other birth control there is a risk of pregnancy.

What you have said is completely biologically wrong. "

Biologicaly, if you consider all odds even those below 0.005%, condoms are NOT safe.

Biologicaly, safe sex is cyber sex and to be safer even then use a condom cos who can trust those naughty wifi electromagnetic fields?..

Realisticaly, i dont think you will ever find anyone who caught anything from a split condom, you will only find “lucky” escapes

Statistically, the “lucky” if repeated becomes the norm and what very rarely occurs (sti transmission) becomes the exception.

Based on logic and simple mathematic analysis, even though theoriticaly there is a possibility to get an sti, the reality proves that it is extremely unlikely.

You have every right to be phobic, i choose to be realistic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!

Now your previous comments make sense ... and you call the people protecting themselves stupid and uneducated ?! Hilarious.

Mrs x

"

You cannot read or you cannot understand what you read.

I call stupid and uneducated people who are terrified about the consequences of a condom that broke with resulted in a few seconds of bareback sex.

I will never judge people who practice safe sex.

Who looks stupid now?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!

Now your previous comments make sense ... and you call the people protecting themselves stupid and uneducated ?! Hilarious.

Mrs x

You cannot read or you cannot understand what you read.

I call stupid and uneducated people who are terrified about the consequences of a condom that broke with resulted in a few seconds of bareback sex.

I will never judge people who practice safe sex.

Who looks stupid now?"

I don’t think it’s at all stupid or uneducated to be concerned about unprotected sex and the possible ramifications. How exactly do you think STI’s are transferred and how do people get pregnant? I think the OP has a valid concern and as I’ve said previously, we all know the risks and it’s up to us whether we think they’re worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!

Now your previous comments make sense ... and you call the people protecting themselves stupid and uneducated ?! Hilarious.

Mrs x

You cannot read or you cannot understand what you read.

I call stupid and uneducated people who are terrified about the consequences of a condom that broke with resulted in a few seconds of bareback sex.

I will never judge people who practice safe sex.

Who looks stupid now?

I don’t think it’s at all stupid or uneducated to be concerned about unprotected sex and the possible ramifications. How exactly do you think STI’s are transferred and how do people get pregnant? I think the OP has a valid concern and as I’ve said previously, we all know the risks and it’s up to us whether we think they’re worth it.

"

You cannot read like the rest of the safe sex crusaders on here.

Where did i say that people who opt for safe sex are stupid???

I say that people who think a few seconds of bareback sex due to a broken can be life threatening are stupid.

Can you seriously not read???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you call someone oponion stupid. so right to call your opinion stupid also.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!

Now your previous comments make sense ... and you call the people protecting themselves stupid and uneducated ?! Hilarious.

Mrs x

You cannot read or you cannot understand what you read.

I call stupid and uneducated people who are terrified about the consequences of a condom that broke with resulted in a few seconds of bareback sex.

I will never judge people who practice safe sex.

Who looks stupid now?

I don’t think it’s at all stupid or uneducated to be concerned about unprotected sex and the possible ramifications. How exactly do you think STI’s are transferred and how do people get pregnant? I think the OP has a valid concern and as I’ve said previously, we all know the risks and it’s up to us whether we think they’re worth it.

You cannot read like the rest of the safe sex crusaders on here.

Where did i say that people who opt for safe sex are stupid???

I say that people who think a few seconds of bareback sex due to a broken can be life threatening are stupid.

Can you seriously not read???"

We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x"

I don’t think they need to worry about their condoms breaking.

They advocate bareback at every opportunity and shout down anyone who dares suggest it could have risks.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!

Now your previous comments make sense ... and you call the people protecting themselves stupid and uneducated ?! Hilarious.

Mrs x

You cannot read or you cannot understand what you read.

I call stupid and uneducated people who are terrified about the consequences of a condom that broke with resulted in a few seconds of bareback sex.

I will never judge people who practice safe sex.

Who looks stupid now?

I don’t think it’s at all stupid or uneducated to be concerned about unprotected sex and the possible ramifications. How exactly do you think STI’s are transferred and how do people get pregnant? I think the OP has a valid concern and as I’ve said previously, we all know the risks and it’s up to us whether we think they’re worth it.

You cannot read like the rest of the safe sex crusaders on here.

Where did i say that people who opt for safe sex are stupid???

I say that people who think a few seconds of bareback sex due to a broken can be life threatening are stupid.

Can you seriously not read???

We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x"

I can read just fine thanks. That’s how I educated myself on the risks of unprotected sex. 5 hours or 5 seconds, it doesn’t matter how long it’s for, if bodily fluids are transferred there’s a risk.

It’s thank to us ‘safe sex crusaders’ that the risks are lower than that once were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x

I don’t think they need to worry about their condoms breaking.

They advocate bareback at every opportunity and shout down anyone who dares suggest it could have risks. "

You’re wrong..!!!

We’re the first who say that bareback sex leads to instant death...!!!

It’s just because we’re suicidal that we have chosen to enjoy natural sex with other married couples like us

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Not split but I’ve had one come off and get stuck inside me during play needed to go sea for him to remove it it was that well logged and though on the implant took the morning after pill that he offered off him just to try to stay doubly safe

The hum checkup after it was all clear too so all’s we’ll thatsends well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x

I don’t think they need to worry about their condoms breaking.

They advocate bareback at every opportunity and shout down anyone who dares suggest it could have risks.

You’re wrong..!!!

We’re the first who say that bareback sex leads to instant death...!!!

It’s just because we’re suicidal that we have chosen to enjoy natural sex with other married couples like us "

Exactly. When reasonable debate fails you, and you cannot provide constructive useful comments that support your position... you take it the extreme and make the entire debate a farce.

We are all aware that condoms still carry a level of risk.

People who choose to use them are managing that risk to a level they feel comfortable with.

You become absurdly petty for one who claims to be so intelligent.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"

We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x

I don’t think they need to worry about their condoms breaking.

They advocate bareback at every opportunity and shout down anyone who dares suggest it could have risks.

You’re wrong..!!!

We’re the first who say that bareback sex leads to instant death...!!!

It’s just because we’re suicidal that we have chosen to enjoy natural sex with other married couples like us "

Goodness you like a bit of drama and hyperbole to try and undermine others opinions don't you? Nobody has mentioned "instant death" apart from yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!

Now your previous comments make sense ... and you call the people protecting themselves stupid and uneducated ?! Hilarious.

Mrs x

You cannot read or you cannot understand what you read.

I call stupid and uneducated people who are terrified about the consequences of a condom that broke with resulted in a few seconds of bareback sex.

I will never judge people who practice safe sex.

Who looks stupid now?

I don’t think it’s at all stupid or uneducated to be concerned about unprotected sex and the possible ramifications. How exactly do you think STI’s are transferred and how do people get pregnant? I think the OP has a valid concern and as I’ve said previously, we all know the risks and it’s up to us whether we think they’re worth it.

You cannot read like the rest of the safe sex crusaders on here.

Where did i say that people who opt for safe sex are stupid???

I say that people who think a few seconds of bareback sex due to a broken can be life threatening are stupid.

Can you seriously not read???

We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x

I can read just fine thanks. That’s how I educated myself on the risks of unprotected sex. 5 hours or 5 seconds, it doesn’t matter how long it’s for, if bodily fluids are transferred there’s a risk.

It’s thank to us ‘safe sex crusaders’ that the risks are lower than that once were. "

FYI, the first thing they will ask you if you call an HIV support line and say “i had unprotected sex with an HIV+” will be “for how long and how hard and fast”

So there goes down the drain your first stupid comment.

There will always be a risk no matter how many condoms you put on and thats why i always suggest three layers of cling film before you put the condoms on.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Happened to a friend...so sad to watch him suffer an agonising death because of this accident. His last words before he died minutes later were...” i should have put double condom on....”. Luckily the woman survived and is in carantine ever after...

Why do you always post such sarcastic and nasty responses on anything to do with condoms or safer sex?

You never seem to have anything positive or nice to say.

Also, i can say so many nice things about the joy of sharing natural sex but you all seem to be pre occupied about what may happen if a condom ever breaks.

By the way...FYI....

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN !!!

Now your previous comments make sense ... and you call the people protecting themselves stupid and uneducated ?! Hilarious.

Mrs x

You cannot read or you cannot understand what you read.

I call stupid and uneducated people who are terrified about the consequences of a condom that broke with resulted in a few seconds of bareback sex.

I will never judge people who practice safe sex.

Who looks stupid now?

I don’t think it’s at all stupid or uneducated to be concerned about unprotected sex and the possible ramifications. How exactly do you think STI’s are transferred and how do people get pregnant? I think the OP has a valid concern and as I’ve said previously, we all know the risks and it’s up to us whether we think they’re worth it.

You cannot read like the rest of the safe sex crusaders on here.

Where did i say that people who opt for safe sex are stupid???

I say that people who think a few seconds of bareback sex due to a broken can be life threatening are stupid.

Can you seriously not read???

We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x

I can read just fine thanks. That’s how I educated myself on the risks of unprotected sex. 5 hours or 5 seconds, it doesn’t matter how long it’s for, if bodily fluids are transferred there’s a risk.

It’s thank to us ‘safe sex crusaders’ that the risks are lower than that once were.

FYI, the first thing they will ask you if you call an HIV support line and say “i had unprotected sex with an HIV+” will be “for how long and how hard and fast”

So there goes down the drain your first stupid comment.

There will always be a risk no matter how many condoms you put on and thats why i always suggest three layers of cling film before you put the condoms on."

I’ve never needed to call a HIV helpline. But you are aware there are other STI’s out there?

And if you refer back to the OP, it was about the risk of pregnancy. Perhaps your reading skills aren’t what they used to be. I do hope it’s not neurosyphillis.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders


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We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x

I don’t think they need to worry about their condoms breaking.

They advocate bareback at every opportunity and shout down anyone who dares suggest it could have risks. "

Ah right... That is totally up to them and I'm not judging people who do bareback, i just stay well clear of them. No excuse for them to have a go at people who play safe. Not worth another reply or a single second of our time as far as I'm concerned x

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Know a guy who this happened to with a prostitute in Hamburg. He'd been fucking her and finished inside her, he only noticed when he pulled out and the tip of the condom was hanging off. He said the girl didn't seem bothered and laughed it off she only used a baby wipe to clean her minge which caused him great panic, to top it all off he wasn't single. She'd just had a child so luckily for him sex wasn't on her mind

He eventually waited a couple of weeks and got the all clear but he was still panicking for weeks later until he got checked for HIV

Unless your single or your partner knows you play with other girls or even prostitutes then unless you want to have weeks on weeks of sleepless nights then keep it in your pants for the boys or keep your knickers on for the girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x

I don’t think they need to worry about their condoms breaking.

They advocate bareback at every opportunity and shout down anyone who dares suggest it could have risks.

You’re wrong..!!!

We’re the first who say that bareback sex leads to instant death...!!!

It’s just because we’re suicidal that we have chosen to enjoy natural sex with other married couples like us

Exactly. When reasonable debate fails you, and you cannot provide constructive useful comments that support your position... you take it the extreme and make the entire debate a farce.

We are all aware that condoms still carry a level of risk.

People who choose to use them are managing that risk to a level they feel comfortable with.

You become absurdly petty for one who claims to be so intelligent. "

Reasonable debate talking about the health risks of a split condom in an heterro encounter?

Where’s the reason in that?

You can only ridicule such a conversation and I choose to do so.

You wanna go on about the risk of 0.001%, then ok make a big issue out of it.

For me you’re all a bunch of uneducated idiots.

As i said. 3 layers of cling film before you put a condom on so if it breaks you’re still safe..!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Know a guy who this happened to with a prostitute in Hamburg. He'd been fucking her and finished inside her, he only noticed when he pulled out and the tip of the condom was hanging off. He said the girl didn't seem bothered and laughed it off she only used a baby wipe to clean her minge which caused him great panic, to top it all off he wasn't single. She'd just had a child so luckily for him sex wasn't on her mind

He eventually waited a couple of weeks and got the all clear but he was still panicking for weeks later until he got checked for HIV

Unless your single or your partner knows you play with other girls or even prostitutes then unless you want to have weeks on weeks of sleepless nights then keep it in your pants for the boys or keep your knickers on for the girls"

That only goes to prove my point that even if it happens with a high risk person, still the odds are extremely low, next to 0% to catch an std.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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We can read just fine. Hope your condom splits x

I don’t think they need to worry about their condoms breaking.

They advocate bareback at every opportunity and shout down anyone who dares suggest it could have risks.

Ah right... That is totally up to them and I'm not judging people who do bareback, i just stay well clear of them. No excuse for them to have a go at people who play safe. Not worth another reply or a single second of our time as far as I'm concerned x"

You cannot read either.

I never had a go at people who practice safe sex. I come from Greece the land where free will, democracy and freedom of opinion was populated to the World.

I just ridicule the std fear of a broken condom.

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