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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

But would the 15% want you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Fucking everyone regardless would make you shallow to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it. Prob about 99% of women wouldn't shag you on here. Does that make them shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely that depends on your reasoning for this conclusion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, your choices are your choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow."

I’m finding it hard to find 1% that I would even consider meeting...does that make me shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't see why it should make you shallow. Do you care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Fucking everyone regardless would make you shallow to me.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow.

I’m finding it hard to find 1% that I would even consider meeting...does that make me shallow? "

1% is still prob a couple of thousand guys... lucks in fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I hate facebollox twattter shitchat etc etc the whole countries obsessed with what others think about them! My ultimate pet hate is the quote only God can judge me!

I am shallow and cantankerous but there you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow.

I’m finding it hard to find 1% that I would even consider meeting...does that make me shallow?

1% is still prob a couple of thousand guys... lucks in fellas "

Yeah, maybe I got carried away there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow.

I’m finding it hard to find 1% that I would even consider meeting...does that make me shallow?

1% is still prob a couple of thousand guys... lucks in fellas

Yeah, maybe I got carried away there... "

Would be one hell of a group session...

You're well hot anyway! You shouldn't settle for the 99% that are wrong for you, no one should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would just be grateful for some attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow.

I’m finding it hard to find 1% that I would even consider meeting...does that make me shallow?

1% is still prob a couple of thousand guys... lucks in fellas

Yeah, maybe I got carried away there...

Would be one hell of a group session...

You're well hot anyway! You shouldn't settle for the 99% that are wrong for you, no one should"

I’m too fussy to settle. My standards are the same regardless of what site I’m on. I know what I like

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

No I don't think it makes you shallow it means you know what you want and gave standards.

You would probably have to lower that 23% of women though after your recent threads.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Insisting that the remaining 15% were to look a certain way would make you shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow.

I’m finding it hard to find 1% that I would even consider meeting...does that make me shallow?

1% is still prob a couple of thousand guys... lucks in fellas

Yeah, maybe I got carried away there...

Would be one hell of a group session...

You're well hot anyway! You shouldn't settle for the 99% that are wrong for you, no one should

I’m too fussy to settle. My standards are the same regardless of what site I’m on. I know what I like "

Yeah I'm the same. No point in wasting each other's time if there's not a proper connection. Being pick has its drawback but when you find that needle in the haystack: definitely worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But would the 15% want you? "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Insisting that the remaining 15% were to look a certain way would make you shallow. "

If that's what he's attracted to he's not being shallow. He's being true to himself and them. If they weren't what he was attracted to but he fucked them anyway, then he would be shallow. I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's shallow

Your here for your own reasons

Ok only meet guys I instantly find attractive.. .does that make me shallow?

Do I care?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,

No,

Don't care.

Choose whichever is the correct answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't think it makes you shallow it means you know what you want and gave standards.

You would probably have to lower that 23% of women though after your recent threads. "

I don't think the op views the forum as a viable way to meet people though so I think he's probably not done any damage

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I’m finding it hard to find 1% that I would even consider meeting...does that make me shallow? "

Not at all.

We are selective as well - as we have a right to be - and so finding the right playmates takes time and patience. That doesn't bother us as we don't consider this a race and we are looking for quality over quantity.

Perhaps 1% or 2% of messages/winks warrant further investigation. The vast majority are deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's shallow

Your here for your own reasons

Ok only meet guys I instantly find attractive.. .does that make me shallow?

Do I care?"

It is shallow. If you only meet guys that you find attractive without any consideration of who they are as a person, it is also shallow.

In today's day and age it's hard not to be shallow with all societies focus being on image. We're all a little bit shallow.

But yes you should care. How Others see and treat you in this world has a major impact on how happy you are. You are more likely to develop meaningful relationships with people who aren't shallow. Plus when our looks fade, you will still have an interesting person to talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m finding it hard to find 1% that I would even consider meeting...does that make me shallow?

Not at all.

We are selective as well - as we have a right to be - and so finding the right playmates takes time and patience. That doesn't bother us as we don't consider this a race and we are looking for quality over quantity.

Perhaps 1% or 2% of messages/winks warrant further investigation. The vast majority are deleted."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t you just love a good example of fabicide!!!

Sits back to enjoy watching the abuse.

And people wonder why men have a bad name in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evidence please?

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow.

I’m finding it hard to find 1% that I would even consider meeting...does that make me shallow? "

I’m not the only one then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's shallow

Your here for your own reasons

Ok only meet guys I instantly find attractive.. .does that make me shallow?

Do I care?

It is shallow. If you only meet guys that you find attractive without any consideration of who they are as a person, it is also shallow.

In today's day and age it's hard not to be shallow with all societies focus being on image. We're all a little bit shallow.

But yes you should care. How Others see and treat you in this world has a major impact on how happy you are. You are more likely to develop meaningful relationships with people who aren't shallow. Plus when our looks fade, you will still have an interesting person to talk to"

You have point... but this is fab. I'm incredibly shallow on here as it's one very small aspect of my life... extra sex. I'm not here to develop meaningful relationships. I have plenty of those elsewhere in my life. When my sex appeal goes I guess I'll no longer be interested in looking for random strangers for sexual encounters. I'll be content snuggling down with my meaningful others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's shallow

Your here for your own reasons

Ok only meet guys I instantly find attractive.. .does that make me shallow?

Do I care?

It is shallow. If you only meet guys that you find attractive without any consideration of who they are as a person, it is also shallow.

In today's day and age it's hard not to be shallow with all societies focus being on image. We're all a little bit shallow.

But yes you should care. How Others see and treat you in this world has a major impact on how happy you are. You are more likely to develop meaningful relationships with people who aren't shallow. Plus when our looks fade, you will still have an interesting person to talk to"
erm...im married so I'm not looking to meet the love of my life here

Last time I looked..this was a sex site..maybe your different.. .but I need to find myself physically attracted to someone to have sex with them.and that's why I'm here..to have sex

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Insisting that the remaining 15% were to look a certain way would make you shallow.

If that's what he's attracted to he's not being shallow. He's being true to himself and them. If they weren't what he was attracted to but he fucked them anyway, then he would be shallow. I think."

I dunno... I guess I think fucking someone you’re not attracted to is just plain weird rather than shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's shallow

Your here for your own reasons

Ok only meet guys I instantly find attractive.. .does that make me shallow?

Do I care?

It is shallow. If you only meet guys that you find attractive without any consideration of who they are as a person, it is also shallow.

In today's day and age it's hard not to be shallow with all societies focus being on image. We're all a little bit shallow.

But yes you should care. How Others see and treat you in this world has a major impact on how happy you are. You are more likely to develop meaningful relationships with people who aren't shallow. Plus when our looks fade, you will still have an interesting person to talk to

You have point... but this is fab. I'm incredibly shallow on here as it's one very small aspect of my life... extra sex. I'm not here to develop meaningful relationships. I have plenty of those elsewhere in my life. When my sex appeal goes I guess I'll no longer be interested in looking for random strangers for sexual encounters. I'll be content snuggling down with my meaningful others"

Yep. Most are shallow on here, me included at times but I have also realised that there are people I've met in clubs that I find attractive but there fab profile doesn't do them justice. Personality is a big one. A girl's funny or holds herself well and I'm sold.

I find it hard to meet someone really shallow more than once. I get bored because they're only interested in me for looks. They have no interest in knowing me as a person so I find it hard to have a good chat, or build a real attraction. Even if it's just sex, I still want to be their friend first and not treat them like a piece of meat

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"But would the 15% want you? "

That what I was thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's shallow

Your here for your own reasons

Ok only meet guys I instantly find attractive.. .does that make me shallow?

Do I care?

It is shallow. If you only meet guys that you find attractive without any consideration of who they are as a person, it is also shallow.

In today's day and age it's hard not to be shallow with all societies focus being on image. We're all a little bit shallow.

But yes you should care. How Others see and treat you in this world has a major impact on how happy you are. You are more likely to develop meaningful relationships with people who aren't shallow. Plus when our looks fade, you will still have an interesting person to talk toerm...im married so I'm not looking to meet the love of my life here

Last time I looked..this was a sex site..maybe your different.. .but I need to find myself physically attracted to someone to have sex with them.and that's why I'm here..to have sex

"

Sex like all activities is better with someone you care about and get along with. Doesn't mean you have to commit to them. Even past fuck buddies I really like as people. If all I wanted was a soulless sex act with no connection i would masterbait or put my dick in a machine. As a person I don't like to judge others solely on looks because I wouldn't want others to do it to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Insisting that the remaining 15% were to look a certain way would make you shallow.

If that's what he's attracted to he's not being shallow. He's being true to himself and them. If they weren't what he was attracted to but he fucked them anyway, then he would be shallow. I think.

I dunno... I guess I think fucking someone you’re not attracted to is just plain weird rather than shallow. "

What if you're just really really attracted to their tits and booty??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But would the 15% want you? "

Ha ha love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus most women on here can afford to be shallow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is shallow in their own little way but who cares?

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By *icole FanningTV/TS
over a year ago

Navan

Whoops. Read the post title too quickly. Thought it said .... “15% swallow” ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoops. Read the post title too quickly. Thought it said .... “15% swallow” .... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus most women on here can afford to be shallow! "

Doesn't mean you should. The most respectable people are those in power but don't abuse it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow."

A sex-starved bargepole is an interesting concept, is there such a thing as a promiscuous bargepole out of interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus most women on here can afford to be shallow!

Doesn't mean you should. The most respectable people are those in power but don't abuse it"

Got to love those that like to tell others how they think they should behave! Being shallow when choosing meets is nothing to do with abusing power! Dear Lord!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus most women on here can afford to be shallow!

Doesn't mean you should. The most respectable people are those in power but don't abuse it"

I try not to act it then a thread like this comes up and I can't help myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But would the 15% want you?

Ha ha love it "

Don't you be worrying your empty little noodles about that... I've actually had to have a sign made that says

"15% queue to the left - 77% stand over hatch and pull hard on lever"

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Insisting that the remaining 15% were to look a certain way would make you shallow.

If that's what he's attracted to he's not being shallow. He's being true to himself and them. If they weren't what he was attracted to but he fucked them anyway, then he would be shallow. I think.

I dunno... I guess I think fucking someone you’re not attracted to is just plain weird rather than shallow.

What if you're just really really attracted to their tits and booty??"

It’s subjective though... we’re all different. If someone is a twat but they have a nice body, they’re still a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus most women on here can afford to be shallow!

Doesn't mean you should. The most respectable people are those in power but don't abuse it"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Insisting that the remaining 15% were to look a certain way would make you shallow.

If that's what he's attracted to he's not being shallow. He's being true to himself and them. If they weren't what he was attracted to but he fucked them anyway, then he would be shallow. I think.

I dunno... I guess I think fucking someone you’re not attracted to is just plain weird rather than shallow.

What if you're just really really attracted to their tits and booty??

It’s subjective though... we’re all different. If someone is a twat but they have a nice body, they’re still a twat. "

But I love fucking twats

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Insisting that the remaining 15% were to look a certain way would make you shallow.

If that's what he's attracted to he's not being shallow. He's being true to himself and them. If they weren't what he was attracted to but he fucked them anyway, then he would be shallow. I think.

I dunno... I guess I think fucking someone you’re not attracted to is just plain weird rather than shallow.

What if you're just really really attracted to their tits and booty??

It’s subjective though... we’re all different. If someone is a twat but they have a nice body, they’re still a twat.

But I love fucking twats"

Everyone’s a winner then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus most women on here can afford to be shallow!

Doesn't mean you should. The most respectable people are those in power but don't abuse it

Got to love those that like to tell others how they think they should behave! Being shallow when choosing meets is nothing to do with abusing power! Dear Lord!"

No it's not. If I have hot men asking to meet me, why would I turn them down?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Did you know when you click your fingers the sound comes from your finger hitting your palm....

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

No, you like who you like, simple, just because it's Fab why have sex with people you wouldn't normally. I would say selective to your taste not shallow. There's probably 0.1% I would have sex with on here lol but I've always had difficulty with finding people I'm attracted with, probably because I need the personality along with the physical look xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow."

Not at all, sex to most men is about physical attraction, your numbers seem reasonable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus most women on here can afford to be shallow! "

Do you honestly believe that?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Did you know when you click your fingers the sound comes from your finger hitting your palm...."

You know we all just did that to see if you’re right right?!

You are!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

The OP makes a fair point, which if examined closely has a lot of truth in it. Majority of the ladies on here are not swinging for fun like the guys are doing.

I sense a lot of bitterness from the ladies, are the guys on fab to blame for the wrong choices in relationships you have made as ladies?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you assume James you make an ass out of u and me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP makes a fair point, which if examined closely has a lot of truth in it. Majority of the ladies on here are not swinging for fun like the guys are doing.

I sense a lot of bitterness from the ladies, are the guys on fab to blame for the wrong choices in relationships you have made as ladies?.

"

Wow...I just spat my g&t out here in Hong Kong!! (What a waste, oops)

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"When you assume James you make an ass out of u and me"

I speak for myself only, what assumptions have I made that makes an ass out of you? We might have the same colour of skin , it does not mean the content of our characters are the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon there’s probably 8% of women on this site that I would happily Fuck and meet again.

77% I wouldn’t touch with a sex starved bargepole

That leaves around 15% I wouldn’t have a problem fucking, but wouldn’t want anything further...

Does that make me shallow."

8% is pretty specific, how did you come to that figure?

I'm similar as in I know there's not that many women on here who I'm interested in playing with but I have no idea if it's 5%, 10% or 15% of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP makes a fair point, which if examined closely has a lot of truth in it. Majority of the ladies on here are not swinging for fun like the guys are doing.

I sense a lot of bitterness from the ladies, are the guys on fab to blame for the wrong choices in relationships you have made as ladies?.

"

Run that by me again?

James, you should be on the stage my love

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