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By *inandRussian OP   Couple
over a year ago

lymm

Time wasters spoil the excitement of meeting because of no shows.

Why are not more people more honest, if they want pictures or just a chat just be honest and say so as the genuine people go through the rigmarole of sharing stories arranging a meet then get a no show of these people. It happens to often on here !!!!!

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By *aked AngelMan
over a year ago

Hampshire / Surrey


"Time wasters spoil the excitement of meeting because of no shows.

Why are not more people more honest, if they want pictures or just a chat just be honest and say so as the genuine people go through the rigmarole of sharing stories arranging a meet then get a no show of these people. It happens to often on here !!!!!"

Great point to raise.

I have experienced people not showing...

Or after a drink with final kisses not reply anymore...

Or block me in here and kik 1 hour before the arranged meet....

Or sending me their face pics and after blocking me

I can go on with the list if you like!!!'

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By *inandRussian OP   Couple
over a year ago

lymm

It's the most frustrating thing ever don't know why people can't be just honest after all we are all here for similar reasons ??

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

They are a nuisance. You'll learn how to spot the signs. I'd suggest keeping sex talk to a minimum online, arrange meets with well verified people, and arrange to meet at a club to minimise disappointment if they don't show or you don't click.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Don't talk sex

Don't swap lots of pics

Chat on phone or cam before

Insist on communication with them before you leave your home for the meet

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Time wasters spoil the excitement of meeting because of no shows.

Why are not more people more honest, if they want pictures or just a chat just be honest and say so as the genuine people go through the rigmarole of sharing stories arranging a meet then get a no show of these people. It happens to often on here !!!!!"

It goes with the territory I’m afraid, but what I find worse is chatting with someone, getting on really well, but struggling to find an opportunity to meet because they’re ‘busy’, then you log in here and they publish one or two meet verifications. I don’t mind them meeting others, we’re here to meet people, it’s the fact they don’t mention it to you, and you feel like you’re no more than a ‘Plan b’ if someone else falls through

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford


"It's the most frustrating thing ever don't know why people can't be just honest after all we are all here for similar reasons ??"

Must admit I don’t understand what they get out of it, only thing I can think of it’s some school boy pulling himself around his bedroom getting off on it.

Almost as annoying is the people with profiles who have zero interest in actually meeting, they have some profile pictures, and well written text, you get chatting and every excuse possible is thrown up. “You don’t the colour red, oh no you’re not for me”!!! They are often the ones with a ‘meet now’ request up, but never get a verified meet.....very telling.... just using as an ego boost I think!!!

Oh well fuckem, their loss...

HG

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

If it's a couple insist on a phone chat with both parties present and see if they (he) suddenly vanishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time wasters spoil the excitement of meeting because of no shows.

Why are not more people more honest, if they want pictures or just a chat just be honest and say so as the genuine people go through the rigmarole of sharing stories arranging a meet then get a no show of these people. It happens to often on here !!!!!

It goes with the territory I’m afraid, but what I find worse is chatting with someone, getting on really well, but struggling to find an opportunity to meet because they’re ‘busy’, then you log in here and they publish one or two meet verifications. I don’t mind them meeting others, we’re here to meet people, it’s the fact they don’t mention it to you, and you feel like you’re no more than a ‘Plan b’ if someone else falls through "

They shouldn't have to tell you. It's none of your business. Also if they have plans to meet other people then they are busy, they still couldn't meet you anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People aren't more honest because if they were then no one would chat to them. A lot of the excitement will be in thrill of the chase and knowing someone wants to meet them.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Time wasters spoil the excitement of meeting because of no shows.

Why are not more people more honest, if they want pictures or just a chat just be honest and say so as the genuine people go through the rigmarole of sharing stories arranging a meet then get a no show of these people. It happens to often on here !!!!!

It goes with the territory I’m afraid, but what I find worse is chatting with someone, getting on really well, but struggling to find an opportunity to meet because they’re ‘busy’, then you log in here and they publish one or two meet verifications. I don’t mind them meeting others, we’re here to meet people, it’s the fact they don’t mention it to you, and you feel like you’re no more than a ‘Plan b’ if someone else falls through

They shouldn't have to tell you. It's none of your business. Also if they have plans to meet other people then they are busy, they still couldn't meet you anyway. "

If this happened to you, how would you feel?

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By *inandRussian OP   Couple
over a year ago

lymm

It's happened to us more than once it's wrong honesty is the best policy !!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Time wasters spoil the excitement of meeting because of no shows.

Why are not more people more honest, if they want pictures or just a chat just be honest and say so as the genuine people go through the rigmarole of sharing stories arranging a meet then get a no show of these people. It happens to often on here !!!!!

It goes with the territory I’m afraid, but what I find worse is chatting with someone, getting on really well, but struggling to find an opportunity to meet because they’re ‘busy’, then you log in here and they publish one or two meet verifications. I don’t mind them meeting others, we’re here to meet people, it’s the fact they don’t mention it to you, and you feel like you’re no more than a ‘Plan b’ if someone else falls through

They shouldn't have to tell you. It's none of your business. Also if they have plans to meet other people then they are busy, they still couldn't meet you anyway.

If this happened to you, how would you feel?"

It's going way off topic. They told you in advance they were busy. They were busy, they had another meet. People have to arrange things as best as they can.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It's happened to us more than once it's wrong honesty is the best policy !!"

Most people think so. But it's up to you to act in the right way to look after yourselves. There are loads of fakes and timewasters here. Use the tips above to help avoid them, and you'll learn to spot them too.

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By *inandRussian OP   Couple
over a year ago

lymm

Not at all the people who have done it to us have just not spoken again and don't reply to messages. In some cases you are 20 to meeting then nothing and no apologies we can't make it etc so no excuse for them sort of people

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"It's the most frustrating thing ever don't know why people can't be just honest after all we are all here for similar reasons ??"

Unfortunately, it would appear we're not.

There are those of us who are here for our stated (honest) reason - to find people who can satisfy our fantasies. And there are others who are only here to pretend, and who get their kicks out of perving and stringing others along, presummably because they're not in a position to fully indulge.

We get the feeling there are a LOT of married men hanging around who get their jollies from perving around Fab behind wifey's back, living out some desperate fantasy they could never make real.

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By *inandRussian OP   Couple
over a year ago

lymm

Well put I could not agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had meets cancel on me because I didn't get back to them within 10 mins of them messaging me. They were paranoid I was gonna ditch them.

Shame because it gives us genuine folk a bad name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had enough no shows for us to put the brakes on our swinging activities for the foreseeable.

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By *tjohnspairCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"If it's a couple insist on a phone chat with both parties present and see if they (he) suddenly vanishes."

At least speak to her. The last two couples I’ve met with I never spoke with him.... in fact last night I only found out his name when he was half way through the brew I made him and his wife’s nics were already on the floor. Very rude of me I know....I’d just forgotten to ask...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my hubby have had 7 no shows some after we've drove to Durham , Manchester , Leeds and Bradford , one if the meets who was suppose to be a 26 yr old female turned out to be a guy around 50 yr with a big chin who lived around pontefract train station , I once spent £270 hair nails underwear to meet one guy only for him not to show up !! Then guys ask why our account has a bit if attitude !! Well it's because of them shit heads on here why we've developed a bad attitude !! You message admin and they never reply or are they bothered ,, the day fab starts charging £100 /£ 150 a year it will be bliss for all genuine people on here .yes they will loose 75 % of there data base but them prepared to pay will be decent honest folk!! Get shut of the arm chair wankers)

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Me and my hubby have had 7 no shows some after we've drove to Durham , Manchester , Leeds and Bradford , one if the meets who was suppose to be a 26 yr old female turned out to be a guy around 50 yr with a big chin who lived around pontefract train station , I once spent £270 hair nails underwear to meet one guy only for him not to show up !! Then guys ask why our account has a bit if attitude !! Well it's because of them shit heads on here why we've developed a bad attitude !! You message admin and they never reply or are they bothered ,, the day fab starts charging £100 /£ 150 a year it will be bliss for all genuine people on here .yes they will loose 75 % of there data base but them prepared to pay will be decent honest folk!! Get shut of the arm chair wankers) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don’t people do social meets! Wasting all that money to get nails done is ridiculous

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