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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

Even if it does?

You shouldn't care about etiquettes as long as you are enjoying yourself.

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just greedy lol enjoy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes you Bi curious and if you do it Bi xxx

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"

You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum.

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By *rgyll_LadMan
over a year ago

Around

Yes it makes you fully gay, you'll have to give up women forever im afraid...

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?

You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum. "

Sir is Not Gay !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not it doesn't!

People and their bloody labels!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Not it doesn't!

People and their bloody labels! "

What would the site be like if we all IDd as this

Gender: Neutral

Age: 18-99

Height: yes

Weight: yes

Smoker : TBC

Marital Status: TBC

Sexuality: Yes please

Location: UK

Is this what the anti labelling folk would like to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One question.

Are you romantically interested in other men?

If the answer is no, then no you’re not gay.

We can’t control what we find hot, so just enjoy it man.

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By *llie_worcMan
over a year ago

bristol

Probably makes you gay while you're doing it but then if you quickly have sex with the lady you'll turn straight again. If he's in your bum while you're in hers and you leave it there I'm afraid you will then be bi.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Only if you put on a tight police uniform with a cowboy hat and grow a 1970s tach..and start singing YMCA when your on the vinegar strokes ...x...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay

If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay

If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!

Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay

If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay

If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!

Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??"

Think you are being rather judgemental...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay

If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay

If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!

Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??

Think you are being rather judgemental..."

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares!!!! Just get on with it, it’s fun!

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Men worry about how their attractions define them more than women because being a gay/bi man is still considered 'dirty' or shameful by many. It's something that can still get you assaulted or worse, sadly.

On fab, at least, it's assumed almost by default that all women are at least bi-curious and this is a desirable trait. Bi men are largely seen in the same light as smokers and cheats.

OP, don't worry about what anything makes you. If you fancy trying some D and you find a consenting person then give it a whirl! If you find after that it's not your bag of fish then at least you had the courage to test your boundaries and your should be proud of yourself.

Don't worry about having to change your fab profile to indicate your sexuality. Most bi curious guys are listed as straight and will only mention their passing partiality to man-meat in a message. And that's fine too. If the people you message have an issue with that then pass them bi

Good luck and don't be afraid to explore yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay

If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay

If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!

Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??"

But if they like woman as well they are bisexual not gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I was under the assumption that a gay man was not sexually interested in women. That they were only interested in men. If someone is attracted to women also, how does that make them gay? .... Or have things changed and I'm just out of touch with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but sounds great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi means still means gay???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it about us bloody British, labels and more bloody labels. So what if anyone only likes opposite sex or occasionally likes a little of both or strictly sticks to own sex. So long honesty prevails and fun takes place who gives a fuck. Just be honest with who you meet and be bloody polite. It's ok to just say thanks but no thanks or yes please. Sermon over lol.

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon


"Bi means still means gay???"
no it does not.I have had a couple of bi experiences,mixed feelings on it,but love women and have an amazing sex life with my wife and I can assure you I am not gay or want to be.your comments are very judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi means still means gay???"

Erm, no it makes you bi. Gay means you have no interest sexually in the opposite sex. Bi people have sexual interest in both sexes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all just sexual, I like that saying much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it makes you bi dude but it doesn't matter what you are it's all good, don't stress about it and just enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not it doesn't!

People and their bloody labels! "

Labels are not the problem, everyone has and needs labels, that's how we communicate, we can't not have labels, that's not opinion, that's fact.

People can choose to be part of a label or not, that's up to them, that's a person's preference, the labels aren't going away, don't blame the labels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Bi means still means gay???"

Still trying to wind people up I see

OP no it doesn't make you gay in the slightest, unless of course you only have an interest in same sex sex and staying that way.

As for labelling - each to their own as to whether to do so or not, personally I think by choosing not to identify as bi/bi curious (when you are either, and have an interest in acting on it) you're closing as many doors as you think you're opening.

The vast majority on here are not bothered either way, but by choosing to appeal to the minority that won't meet bi men, you're potentially closing yourself off to the chance of meeting those that actively seek out bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi means still means gay???

Still trying to wind people up I see

OP no it doesn't make you gay in the slightest, unless of course you only have an interest in same sex sex and staying that way.

As for labelling - each to their own as to whether to do so or not, personally I think by choosing not to identify as bi/bi curious (when you are either, and have an interest in acting on it) you're closing as many doors as you think you're opening.

The vast majority on here are not bothered either way, but by choosing to appeal to the minority that won't meet bi men, you're potentially closing yourself off to the chance of meeting those that actively seek out bi men."

Still gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"

Not really, but you're also not technically straight, as you have gay fantasies to some degree.

Why does it need to be a category though? You be you dude.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


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Still gay."

Still deluded and attention seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi means still means gay???

Still trying to wind people up I see

OP no it doesn't make you gay in the slightest, unless of course you only have an interest in same sex sex and staying that way.

As for labelling - each to their own as to whether to do so or not, personally I think by choosing not to identify as bi/bi curious (when you are either, and have an interest in acting on it) you're closing as many doors as you think you're opening.

The vast majority on here are not bothered either way, but by choosing to appeal to the minority that won't meet bi men, you're potentially closing yourself off to the chance of meeting those that actively seek out bi men.

Still gay."

Still have a blatent lie as your username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Still gay.

Still deluded and attention seeking "

I have to contest deluded....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's annoying when blokes pretend to be bi just to get a shag!!!(a meet)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi means still means gay???

Still trying to wind people up I see

OP no it doesn't make you gay in the slightest, unless of course you only have an interest in same sex sex and staying that way.

As for labelling - each to their own as to whether to do so or not, personally I think by choosing not to identify as bi/bi curious (when you are either, and have an interest in acting on it) you're closing as many doors as you think you're opening.

The vast majority on here are not bothered either way, but by choosing to appeal to the minority that won't meet bi men, you're potentially closing yourself off to the chance of meeting those that actively seek out bi men.

Still gay.

Still have a blatent lie as your username."

Yes I must choose an alternative corny yet slightly creepy one...darn...you've already took it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


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Still gay.

Still deluded and attention seeking

I have to contest deluded...."

I wouldn't - it fits perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Still gay.

Still deluded and attention seeking

I have to contest deluded....

I wouldn't - it fits perfectly "

I think someone got his flirty pants on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes you open minded doesn't it???

Why pigeon hole yourself?

If you were heterosexual, would you sleep with every woman? If you were gay would you sleep with every guy?

Attraction is attraction, who cares what others thing apart from the people involved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry need to correct my own typo 'think' not 'thing'!

Beating myself right now over that slip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi means still means gay???

Still trying to wind people up I see

OP no it doesn't make you gay in the slightest, unless of course you only have an interest in same sex sex and staying that way.

As for labelling - each to their own as to whether to do so or not, personally I think by choosing not to identify as bi/bi curious (when you are either, and have an interest in acting on it) you're closing as many doors as you think you're opening.

The vast majority on here are not bothered either way, but by choosing to appeal to the minority that won't meet bi men, you're potentially closing yourself off to the chance of meeting those that actively seek out bi men.

Still gay.

Still have a blatent lie as your username.

Yes I must choose an alternative corny yet slightly creepy one...darn...you've already took it."

Does me alright mate. A lot better than a blatent lie backed up by a sometimes knob shot avatar I'd imagine.

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

louth


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"

Certainly not; Bi yes; nowt wrong with that just like there is nowt wrong with being gay either.

Dave is so pleased he discovered his Bi side, just ask him, as he always blmaes me for it

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Probably classed as fab straight, but who really cares just have fun.

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By *elle and JamesCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch

It's just a cock, what's the worst that can happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it matter, I get messages winks views from straight 'so called' men when I reply they say the are bi but don't want to say so. I only meet bi/gay men singles. Couples don't care if the male is straight or bi

It's just another label

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"

No. As a man you’re only homosexual should you be only attracted to men. Just go wherever your enjoyment takes you and think little.

“Do what thou wilt” Aleister Crowley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my ideal mmf situation. I have no intention of fucking the guy. It has no appeal to me. I just wanna be the one receiving and sucking. Are any guys the opposite?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"In my ideal mmf situation. I have no intention of fucking the guy. It has no appeal to me. I just wanna be the one receiving and sucking. Are any guys the opposite?"

Yes Sir won’t receive - he top bi and will suck

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"Bi means still means gay???no it does not.I have had a couple of bi experiences,mixed feelings on it,but love women and have an amazing sex life with my wife and I can assure you I am not gay or want to be.your comments are very judgemental."

I'm fairly sure this guy is just amusing himself by winding people up with purposely provocative contributions.

No offence to the OP but I find the question quite silly. That is unless the question relates more to a concern of being seen as guy by others.....who cares, just do what feels good

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Bi means still means gay???no it does not.I have had a couple of bi experiences,mixed feelings on it,but love women and have an amazing sex life with my wife and I can assure you I am not gay or want to be.your comments are very judgemental.

I'm fairly sure this guy is just amusing himself by winding people up with purposely provocative contributions.

No offence to the OP but I find the question quite silly. That is unless the question relates more to a concern of being seen as guy by others.....who cares, just do what feels good "

Agree but these nom threads are good to identify people with similar interests and those with prejudice. There’s a few such threads going on currently for bi , black or bi and black. Enjoy

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Gay? Im not even happy

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"Bi means still means gay???no it does not.I have had a couple of bi experiences,mixed feelings on it,but love women and have an amazing sex life with my wife and I can assure you I am not gay or want to be.your comments are very judgemental.

I'm fairly sure this guy is just amusing himself by winding people up with purposely provocative contributions.

No offence to the OP but I find the question quite silly. That is unless the question relates more to a concern of being seen as guy by others.....who cares, just do what feels good

Agree but these nom threads are good to identify people with similar interests and those with prejudice. There’s a few such threads going on currently for bi , black or bi and black. Enjoy "

Are there now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?

You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum.

Sir is Not Gay !!! "

Wow he’s hot & can stay hard in mine as long as he likes!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?

You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum.

Sir is Not Gay !!!

Wow he’s hot & can stay hard in mine as long as he likes!"

Your profiles hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if like me you like having sex with men and women then your bisexual not gay? I love it so what's not to like. Just go with the flow and enjoy yourself and don't worry about labels.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

The deciding factor is what do you do if you're in a pub and dancing queen by abba or I will survive by Gloria gaynor is played ?

get up, dance wildly and sing along followed by crying in the toilets and you've caught the gay

Shout out who put this crap on ?!.. You're straight or maybe gay but trying to overly mask it

Hope this helps

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london


"Not it doesn't!

People and their bloody labels!

What would the site be like if we all IDd as this

Gender: Neutral

Age: 18-99

Height: yes

Weight: yes

Smoker : TBC

Marital Status: TBC

Sexuality: Yes please

Location: UK

Is this what the anti labelling folk would like to see "

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

If you go with only men you gay.........if you go with both your bi......au de jour??

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay

If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay

If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!

Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??

Think you are being rather judgemental...

Thanks."

You labeller you....if he is still looking for female fun at worst Bi ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay

If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay

If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!

Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??

Think you are being rather judgemental...

Thanks.

You labeller you....if he is still looking for female fun at worst Bi .."

Worst? In my opinion it's the best being bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares?

Do what you enjoy and don't give a single fuck what people label you as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hot is what it is...it's a kink or potentially a path to more play with men. Either way you what to involve both sexes. In my eyes that's more fun than the 'don't even want to come anywhere near another man's bits' attitude.

E x

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

It's only gay if the balls are touching

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?

You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum. "

It’s tight and warm - it’s difficult not to get harder

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Live is too short to worry about that - just enjoy yourself. You don’t want to come to the end of your life regretting not having tried things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?

You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum.

Sir is Not Gay !!!

Wow he’s hot & can stay hard in mine as long as he likes!

Your profiles hidden. "

Not anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"

Not if you keep one foot on the floor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Means you’re greedy

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Labels pah! Nugatory labels shouldn't concern anyone.

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By *ustful HedonistMan
over a year ago

Worsley, Manchester


"Men worry about how their attractions define them more than women because being a gay/bi man is still considered 'dirty' or shameful by many. It's something that can still get you assaulted or worse, sadly.

On fab, at least, it's assumed almost by default that all women are at least bi-curious and this is a desirable trait. Bi men are largely seen in the same light as smokers and cheats.

OP, don't worry about what anything makes you. If you fancy trying some D and you find a consenting person then give it a whirl! If you find after that it's not your bag of fish then at least you had the courage to test your boundaries and your should be proud of yourself.

Don't worry about having to change your fab profile to indicate your sexuality. Most bi curious guys are listed as straight and will only mention their passing partiality to man-meat in a message. And that's fine too. If the people you message have an issue with that then pass them bi

Good luck and don't be afraid to explore yourself! "

Well said, and my sentiments exactly. It's ok for a woman to be bi, but men are very much so not treated in the same way.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I was under the assumption that a gay man was not sexually interested in women. That they were only interested in men. If someone is attracted to women also, how does that make them gay? .... Or have things changed and I'm just out of touch with it? "

Christ! You're so last year... Where have you been!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it makes you fully gay, you'll have to give up women forever im afraid... "

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

Curious I'd say, I'm in similar position. Wouldn't want to meet a guy alone but in a couple and after a few drinks I'd try many things; (

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Just go to a club on a bi-night..you can be bi..straight..gay..or just very sociable...and very happy...as for me..I'm so gay when I'm being fucked ..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"

It makes you Bisexual, but if you're worrying about it enough to ask, you may not be ready.

Take it from someone that's been there, make sure you're comfortable with yourself before trying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth


"Men worry about how their attractions define them more than women because being a gay/bi man is still considered 'dirty' or shameful by many. It's something that can still get you assaulted or worse, sadly.

On fab, at least, it's assumed almost by default that all women are at least bi-curious and this is a desirable trait. Bi men are largely seen in the same light as smokers and cheats.

OP, don't worry about what anything makes you. If you fancy trying some D and you find a consenting person then give it a whirl! If you find after that it's not your bag of fish then at least you had the courage to test your boundaries and your should be proud of yourself.

Don't worry about having to change your fab profile to indicate your sexuality. Most bi curious guys are listed as straight and will only mention their passing partiality to man-meat in a message. And that's fine too. If the people you message have an issue with that then pass them bi

Good luck and don't be afraid to explore yourself! "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the Kinsey Scale Sexuality Test, accept what you are and get on with life....you are what you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem to be searching for a label, please don't.

You are human, free yourself and just 'be'.

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By *orkiecplCouple
over a year ago

York

Never heard of bi if you live in a full time relationship with a man or you only sleep with men then you gay if you sleep with both your bi if you only sleep with women your straight it's not complicated really is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I have a fantasy about winning the lotto does that make me a millionaire ?

I think you're looking to be bi - playful in a threesome.

If you eventually do stuff with a male that will make you bi but gay no way.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

You're only gay if you have a legally binding agreement with another same sex partner. Anything else is just "mucking about!"

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Never heard of bi if you live in a full time relationship with a man or you only sleep with men then you gay if you sleep with both your bi if you only sleep with women your straight it's not complicated really is it "

Going off the number of threads asking questions similar to this it is apparently very complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" You're only gay if you have a legally binding agreement with another same sex partner. Anything else is just "mucking about!""

Dammit man I ended up reading that in a Kenneth Williams voice.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"

Yes... Your gay

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


" You're only gay if you have a legally binding agreement with another same sex partner. Anything else is just "mucking about!"

Dammit man I ended up reading that in a Kenneth Williams voice. "

ooooooh stop mucking about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So i played rugby orten had my head near other guys cocks in scrums and patented a bollock twist after a tackle

Also showered and had baths with many men over the years

Are you saying all rugby players are gay.

Or mma fighters

Or most team based athletes in general

Dont think so fella

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