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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all have been on here a while with ex gf's as cpl and as single now. Love watching porn and used to love wtchng gf with guys. Thing is I really love porn and when watchng often get as turned on by the guys bodies n cocks, and really like idea of wathing porn with a guy, wanking and maybe sucking but I don't actually fancy guys but would like someone with very good body, and big cock, partciularly wud luv to meet a blk guy. Put myself as bi curious on here for bit but just got majority who weren't my type (realise am very fussy!! lol) or who wanted to fuck so how do i go about finding someone grrr

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

try a sauna...there are osme very nice ones and you cud see if there was anyone u fancied.

Some clubs have gay or bi days...another good option to try

have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe be its great in theory but saying that I am the same with girls have to be really attracted to them to play. Maybe just start of orally you don't have to go the whole way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks hun nice idea but I'm really nervous about going to sauna or club alone but maybe worth it if get brave ta

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd be happy with watching, wanking or oral its more how to find right kind of guy, fussy i know lol dammit

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Just meet a guy on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HI peeps we are a bi couple and would love to know if there are any good bi clubs or at least any clubs that hold GOOD bi nights.

Regards.

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By *riseeTV/TS
over a year ago

MacKay

The term is Bisensual.

I coined the term about 20 years ago to separate the 'bisexual' aspect from the sex aspect.

Bisexual is a person who falls in love with either gender and could marry and live with whichever day to day. Sex is only a small part.

Sadly the term has been used so loosely in the swinging scene it pretty much means 'will brush lightly with another of the same gender'

Bisensual is the term that should be used in swinging and sex. It means a person who isn't attracted the the same gender but quite Ok with sexual engagement, whatever the _oundaries might be.

It has no 'love' element, no attraction element, and no wake up with heads on the pillow sucking face element.

Bi-curious is a shocking term that someone coined shortly after my term that was originally focused on women being pushed into swinging by their partners who wanted FFM situations. Men have now adopted the term, however it's not considered by academics and sexologists to be a correct term for casual sex as it infers by nature to be a stage of exploration before bisexual acceptable. It means 'to be exploring to see if I can wake up every day with someone of the same gender on my pillow'

One day in the future the term will have no meaning as it is mostly used by 35 to 50 year olds who grew up in a sexually repressed generation.

Under 25's tend to 'swap' their orientation depending on their mood and current fad. No many use bi-curious as they like to be part of a definitive crowd: lesbian, gay, bisexual or sometimes straight

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"The term is Bisensual.

I coined the term about 20 years ago

Bi-curious is a shocking term that someone coined shortly after my term

Funniest fucking thing I have ever read on here.

Congratulations whoever you are, you've beaten some pretty stiff competition to win the accolade.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"HI peeps we are a bi couple and would love to know if there are any good bi clubs or at least any clubs that hold GOOD bi nights.

Regards. "

Chams is be every Monday...normal club rules but mega sexy as you get to share cock(not normal in clubs )

we loved it

OP it might be a good option for u too as there is no pressure to play

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By *oundCouple
over a year ago

Milnrow

Not being a pretentious cock I won't lay claim to inventing this....

but the best term to describe this is:

BiFriendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with cam chat then you dont have to meet face to face then cam wanking watching each other then move on to meet when you are attracted or when you are ready.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not being a pretentious cock I won't lay claim to inventing this....

but the best term to describe this is:

BiFriendly"

Bifriendly and Biplayful pretty much cover it. I'm the same, can play with a woman in the right circumstances but don't actively seek them out

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"The term is Bisensual.

I coined the term about 20 years ago to separate the 'bisexual' aspect from the sex aspect.

Bisexual is a person who falls in love with either gender and could marry and live with whichever day to day. Sex is only a small part.

Sadly the term has been used so loosely in the swinging scene it pretty much means 'will brush lightly with another of the same gender'

Bisensual is the term that should be used in swinging and sex. It means a person who isn't attracted the the same gender but quite Ok with sexual engagement, whatever the _oundaries might be.

It has no 'love' element, no attraction element, and no wake up with heads on the pillow sucking face element.

One day in the future the term will have no meaning as it is mostly used by 35 to 50 year olds who grew up in a sexually repressed generation.

Under 25's tend to 'swap' their orientation depending on their mood and current fad. No many use bi-curious as they like to be part of a definitive crowd: lesbian, gay, bisexual or sometimes straight

disagree bi sexuals would/will fall in love with either sex..

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Pardon my French, but what a load of reheated bollocks. It's like the Eskimo having hundreds of words for snow!!

Only want sex with the opposite gender? You're heterosexual. Or, if you prefer it, Straight.

Fantasise about having sex with the same gender? You're bi-curious.

Had sex with the same gender? Enjoyed it? Would do it again? Congratulations, you are bi-sexual.

What's all this shit about relationships? I thought this was a swingers site?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Pardon my French, but what a load of reheated bollocks. It's like the Eskimo having hundreds of words for snow!!

Only want sex with the opposite gender? You're heterosexual. Or, if you prefer it, Straight.

Fantasise about having sex with the same gender? You're bi-curious.

Had sex with the same gender? Enjoyed it? Would do it again? Congratulations, you are bi-sexual.

What's all this shit about relationships? I thought this was a swingers site?

and there we have it....

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Sod it..

Just come out with it and say " I love cock and I m proud"

I did.. But I also love the other side.. Just so happens mrs new doesn't have a willy..

But we have this site! And in the old days.. Dar and gay..

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By *askinMan
over a year ago

East Lincs

"Pardon my French, but what a load of reheated bollocks. It's like the Eskimo having hundreds of words for snow!!

Only want sex with the opposite gender? You're heterosexual. Or, if you prefer it, Straight.

Fantasise about having sex with the same gender? You're bi-curious.

Had sex with the same gender? Enjoyed it? Would do it again? Congratulations, you are bi-sexual.

What's all this shit about relationships? I thought this was a swingers site?

What a nice person-- no wonder folks are very wary about opening up on here.

I was gonna open up and explain my situation till this post.

but will now keep quiet on here.

any one wants to chat about it pm me.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Pardon my French, but what a load of reheated bollocks. It's like the Eskimo having hundreds of words for snow!!

Only want sex with the opposite gender? You're heterosexual. Or, if you prefer it, Straight.

Fantasise about having sex with the same gender? You're bi-curious.

Had sex with the same gender? Enjoyed it? Would do it again? Congratulations, you are bi-sexual.

What's all this shit about relationships? I thought this was a swingers site?

What a nice person-- no wonder folks are very wary about opening up on here.

I was gonna open up and explain my situation till this post.

but will now keep quiet on here.

any one wants to chat about it pm me."

What was wrong with it?

The post gave the writers definition of the terms involved and what's involved in each from their point of _iew.

I would say it's as good a description as any, and frankly better than most.

At least the poster wrote what they thought. Everyone else is free to agree/disagree with it as they see fit. Which is a lot better than the whole 'oh, woe is me, but the people in here are all going to judge me, I wanted to open up to a bunch of complete strangers on the internet but now I have decided not to, but if you want to know then PM me as a complete stranger on the internet & I'll tell you all about my internal struggle...'

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