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By *heHookyMonster OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

......as to the dynamics of couples or single ladies looking at you, then when you look back their profile states they aren't after single guys and you're blocked from contacting them? Is there a point to this, or is it just a bit random? Just curiou's.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I often look at profiles after I've seen a comment in the forum or if their avatar is interesting. Its often the case that they are younger than our stated age limit, or we're not interested in the same things but I don't know that until I've actually looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they like the look of you they will contact you. If I don't block men from messaging me I would have too many messages to answer. I unblock when I'm ready to reply.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Ill often try view a profile after they have winked at me or messaged me only to find the message this person is not looking for your type or profile hidden. It’s frustrating. What’s even more frustrating is getting a message someone and then trying to reply but can’t because thier message filter blocks your type or age etc

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP many ladies and couples choose to block everyone from messaging them because they get too many messages and they don't want to have to deal with them all.

They will choose to search for themselves and decide to message those who they want to chat with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s called being nosy, but also they block men because they don’t want a million and one messages, so they look for people they’re attracted to.

L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"......as to the dynamics of couples or single ladies looking at you, then when you look back their profile states they aren't after single guys and you're blocked from contacting them? Is there a point to this, or is it just a bit random? Just curiou's. "

Well, obviously there is a point to them looking but it could be any one of numerous reasons. sounds like you're overthinking it and taking the 'looked at me' tab far too seriously...

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By *heHookyMonster OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

That all makes perfect sense. Thanks ladies! Hope you're all great! x

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By *heHookyMonster OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"......as to the dynamics of couples or single ladies looking at you, then when you look back their profile states they aren't after single guys and you're blocked from contacting them? Is there a point to this, or is it just a bit random? Just curiou's.

Well, obviously there is a point to them looking but it could be any one of numerous reasons. sounds like you're overthinking it and taking the 'looked at me' tab far too seriously..."

Just curious really - may be nothing in it as you say, but was interested. The replies make a lot of sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Nosey.

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By *heHookyMonster OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yup. Nosey. "

Thank you! Gorgeous, classy photos by the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"......as to the dynamics of couples or single ladies looking at you, then when you look back their profile states they aren't after single guys and you're blocked from contacting them? Is there a point to this, or is it just a bit random? Just curiou's. "

intergue

noisiness

lady wank time

man wank time

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By *heHookyMonster OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"......as to the dynamics of couples or single ladies looking at you, then when you look back their profile states they aren't after single guys and you're blocked from contacting them? Is there a point to this, or is it just a bit random? Just curiou's.

intergue

noisiness

lady wank time

man wank time

"

That's a fair point. Sorry I wasn't for you when I messaged last week. You look lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"......as to the dynamics of couples or single ladies looking at you, then when you look back their profile states they aren't after single guys and you're blocked from contacting them? Is there a point to this, or is it just a bit random? Just curiou's.

intergue

noisiness

lady wank time

man wank time

That's a fair point. Sorry I wasn't for you when I messaged last week. You look lovely! "

im not looking to meet at the moment. too much going on x

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By *ornCouple
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

I sometimes look at profiles of people who have posted in forums. Nothing more than interest in what they said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes i get singke females or couples that check me out via a forum post. About it really

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I sometimes look at profiles of people who have posted in forums. Nothing more than interest in what they said."

yup we back to the earlier comment we are all nosey buggers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are the hunters, not the hunted...

It's the ninja's you need to watch out for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often look at profiles after reading comments on forums .

1 ...cos I'm nosey lol

2 ... cos I might just find something in them and thier profile to get us to message them . I might just fab a pic if I think that it's nice too ...lots of reasons I look but mainly cos I'm nosey

. I sometimes reply privately to forum posts if it's something I/ we don't want to post publicly. We have our filters set so no males can message us at the min as you get so many silly ones so we like to look ourselves but will open them up sometimes if we feel like we have time to deal with them .

Mrs here by the way and usually is when in the forums

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By *heHookyMonster OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I often look at profiles after reading comments on forums .

1 ...cos I'm nosey lol

2 ... cos I might just find something in them and thier profile to get us to message them . I might just fab a pic if I think that it's nice too ...lots of reasons I look but mainly cos I'm nosey

. I sometimes reply privately to forum posts if it's something I/ we don't want to post publicly. We have our filters set so no males can message us at the min as you get so many silly ones so we like to look ourselves but will open them up sometimes if we feel like we have time to deal with them .

Mrs here by the way and usually is when in the forums "

Thank you! Always interesting to get others perspectives! xx

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