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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

You see an update with a question so you say hi and respond example chips or mash and you get a reply your not what I am looking for !!! Got to laugh I suppose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the plus side, at least you got a reply!

#WinningAtFab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mailed someone in response to a status update, and they did not want to meet you ? Not sure why you are miffed ?

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

This is true one reply in 100 messages is good going there days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they were being very polite to reply. Some just send random stuff in reply to your status and others message on the back of it in the hope of getting a convo going and a possible meet. Can't see the issue here?

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth


"You mailed someone in response to a status update, and they did not want to meet you ? Not sure why you are miffed ?"
sorry I am a decent guy and a negative response to anwsering their question was not what I was looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mailed someone in response to a status update, and they did not want to meet you ? Not sure why you are miffed ?sorry I am a decent guy and a negative response to anwsering their question was not what I was looking for "

Would you have been as miffed if they'd deleted it without relply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mailed someone in response to a status update, and they did not want to meet you ? Not sure why you are miffed ?sorry I am a decent guy and a negative response to anwsering their question was not what I was looking for "

what would have been a positive response?

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

No I would not have been miffed for no reply as you get use to no replys but sometimes I think being polite on here is totally the wrong way to go and why do peeps automatically presume you want to meet them by anwsering their question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I would not have been miffed for no reply as you get use to no replys but sometimes I think being polite on here is totally the wrong way to go and why do peeps automatically presume you want to meet them by anwsering their question "

I've no idea but they obviously wanted no more contact which is totally their choice, as it was your choice to message them about their status.

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

A postive response = thankyou for taken time out of your busy day to answer of my status or question chips or mash I will take it on-board hope you have a great day once again thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A postive response = thankyou for taken time out of your busy day to answer of my status or question chips or mash I will take it on-board hope you have a great day once again thankyou "

You're on here, you can't be that busy!! Blimey, some people are never happy. I'm sure you'll not lose any sleep over it my lovely.

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Lol I will not loose sleep over it by the way thanku for your response and input on this matter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see an update with a question so you say hi and respond example chips or mash and you get a reply your not what I am looking for !!! Got to laugh I suppose x"

It's probably because they thought you would try and keep chatting, with the hopes of a meet, so decided to be honest. Plenty more fish for you lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I would not have been miffed for no reply as you get use to no replys but sometimes I think being polite on here is totally the wrong way to go and why do peeps automatically presume you want to meet them by anwsering their question "

Right, so along the lines of......

I get a mail saying 'Wow, lovely sexy pics Mmm'

I presume a man mailing a woman on a sex site, complimenting her on her 'sexy' pics, is a preamble to initiating conversation, with a view to possible sex.

I usually reply, 'thank you' but I would not be looking to meet you, sorry'.

Some reply 'thanks anyway, good luck'.

Some reply 'I never asked you to meet' ?

How would you have replied OP ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol I will not loose sleep over it by the way thanku for your response and input on this matter x"

I can't see why you want a polite response to this but are not bothered if people don't reply????? Makes no sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what the problem is. You sent the message in the hope that it'd be the opening of a dialogue between you, so why you upset with the reply you got?

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Ok here we go I was not informing them there pics or profile were great a question was put on there profile in which they were looking for a anwser so I presume now that questions are not really questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see an update with a question so you say hi and respond example chips or mash and you get a reply your not what I am looking for !!! Got to laugh I suppose x"

It's probably a question with a hidden meaning. Hence they didn't want to meet you because you didn't give the correct answer. Just suck it up and move on...XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see an update with a question so you say hi and respond example chips or mash and you get a reply your not what I am looking for !!! Got to laugh I suppose x"

What was the status question and what did you respond with?

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth


"I'm not sure what the problem is. You sent the message in the hope that it'd be the opening of a dialogue between you, so why you upset with the reply you got? "
as I did not ask if I was their type simply anwsering a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here we go I was not informing them there pics or profile were great a question was put on there profile in which they were looking for a anwser so I presume now that questions are not really questions "

You do realise this is all a load of old bullshit don't you, this site??? Don't worry about it, this is just a bit of fun never to be taken seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A postive response = thankyou for taken time out of your busy day to answer of my status or question chips or mash I will take it on-board hope you have a great day once again thankyou "

Are you having a laugh?! If I sent something like this is reply to one of the many random messages I get, most of them will reply and think it's an invitation to keep chatting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???! "

Why did nobody think of that??

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By *ustalittleKinkWoman
over a year ago

in the shadows

They clearly didn't wish to have a conversation with you regardless of what it was about. Status updates are just that. No need to comment on 99.9% of them.

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By *ugarplumpfairyWoman
over a year ago

scotland


"You mailed someone in response to a status update, and they did not want to meet you ? Not sure why you are miffed ?"

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Sorry peeps for opening up this can of worms must say great input from you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lovely lady once said i wasn’t her type as I reminded her of her Dad in his youth !

I saw it from her point of view. It was nice for her to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???! "

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I get messages from randomers saying they would love to chat more with the hope of a meet. I have a quick look at thier profile but it’s hidden as they don’t want to meet my type and then go to message back and I can’t as I can’t send them a message

If I have a stupid status up and get messages I’m relation to them. The minute I reply I’m suddenly blocked. Funny world isn’t it ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry peeps for opening up this can of worms must say great input from you all "

Don't be sorry, we have had fun teasing you

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

There is no intent to be a smart arse honest

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth


"Sorry peeps for opening up this can of worms must say great input from you all

Don't be sorry, we have had fun teasing you "
thank you for reassuring me of that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My take on it all is that the OP might be getting an unfairly bumpy ride here.

I don’t want to speak for the OP, obviously, but my interpretation is that he saw a status asking a question - I assume ‘chips or mash?’

OP replied ‘chips’ (or possibly ‘mash’!) in a good natured spirit of answering the status question posed.

The reply misinterpreted his intent and hence surprised him.

Why ask a question if you’re not going to accept (or misinterpret) a simple answer?

Simple as that!

I don’t think the OP seems affronted she didn’t like him, just that the reply was totally out of context with his mail to her.

I think it was just a thread to highlight a quirky response not a real whinge!

But maybe I’m wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no intent to be a smart arse honest "

I replied to a quote from Dark Angel, not you. It's what happens when you click on 'reply & quote'.

I was calling Dark Angel a smart a*se

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth


"My take on it all is that the OP might be getting an unfairly bumpy ride here.

I don’t want to speak for the OP, obviously, but my interpretation is that he saw a status asking a question - I assume ‘chips or mash?’

OP replied ‘chips’ (or possibly ‘mash’!) in a good natured spirit of answering the status question posed.

The reply misinterpreted his intent and hence surprised him.

Why ask a question if you’re not going to accept (or misinterpret) a simple answer?

Simple as that!

I don’t think the OP seems affronted she didn’t like him, just that the reply was totally out of context with his mail to her.

I think it was just a thread to highlight a quirky response not a real whinge!

But maybe I’m wrong!"
thank you someone can see where I am coming from the big question where they my type ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no intent to be a smart arse honest

I replied to a quote from Dark Angel, not you. It's what happens when you click on 'reply & quote'.

I was calling Dark Angel a smart a*se "

That's why I hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no intent to be a smart arse honest

I replied to a quote from Dark Angel, not you. It's what happens when you click on 'reply & quote'.

I was calling Dark Angel a smart a*se

That's why I hide it "

Try keeping your gob shut then lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A postive response = thankyou for taken time out of your busy day to answer of my status or question chips or mash I will take it on-board hope you have a great day once again thankyou

Are you having a laugh?! If I sent something like this is reply to one of the many random messages I get, most of them will reply and think it's an invitation to keep chatting!"

But it wasn’t a random message as such it was a answer to question. Someone asking a question on a status update should expect people to send a answer. If they really didn’t want to talk then wouldn’t it of been best to ignore the reply. I can’t see why if all the op messaged was the answer to there question that they would message back saying sorry not my type. Bit rude really.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You mailed someone in response to a status update, and they did not want to meet you ? Not sure why you are miffed ?sorry I am a decent guy and a negative response to anwsering their question was not what I was looking for "

Prime example why people don't send thanks but no thanks messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A postive response = thankyou for taken time out of your busy day to answer of my status or question chips or mash I will take it on-board hope you have a great day once again thankyou

Are you having a laugh?! If I sent something like this is reply to one of the many random messages I get, most of them will reply and think it's an invitation to keep chatting!

But it wasn’t a random message as such it was a answer to question. Someone asking a question on a status update should expect people to send a answer. If they really didn’t want to talk then wouldn’t it of been best to ignore the reply. I can’t see why if all the op messaged was the answer to there question that they would message back saying sorry not my type. Bit rude really. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no intent to be a smart arse honest

I replied to a quote from Dark Angel, not you. It's what happens when you click on 'reply & quote'.

I was calling Dark Angel a smart a*se

That's why I hide it

Try keeping your gob shut then lady "

That's a little more difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mailed someone in response to a status update, and they did not want to meet you ? Not sure why you are miffed ?sorry I am a decent guy and a negative response to anwsering their question was not what I was looking for

Prime example why people don't send thanks but no thanks messages!

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This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly us women can't win!

Moaning for getting a reply! Whatever next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t. I just can’t .

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t. I just can’t .

L x"

Don't, just don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no intent to be a smart arse honest

I replied to a quote from Dark Angel, not you. It's what happens when you click on 'reply & quote'.

I was calling Dark Angel a smart a*se

That's why I hide it

Try keeping your gob shut then lady

That's a little more difficult "

Really ? you do surprise me.....not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no intent to be a smart arse honest

I replied to a quote from Dark Angel, not you. It's what happens when you click on 'reply & quote'.

I was calling Dark Angel a smart a*se "

No it was me God damn it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of curiosity what was your original message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no intent to be a smart arse honest

I replied to a quote from Dark Angel, not you. It's what happens when you click on 'reply & quote'.

I was calling Dark Angel a smart a*se

No it was me God damn it!! "

Oh push off you....pootles off muttering 'bloody attention seekers*....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no intent to be a smart arse honest

I replied to a quote from Dark Angel, not you. It's what happens when you click on 'reply & quote'.

I was calling Dark Angel a smart a*se

No it was me God damn it!!

Oh push off you....pootles off muttering 'bloody attention seekers*.... "

But it was me, ME ME ME ME ME, MEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"There is no intent to be a smart arse honest

I replied to a quote from Dark Angel, not you. It's what happens when you click on 'reply & quote'.

I was calling Dark Angel a smart a*se

No it was me God damn it!!

Oh push off you....pootles off muttering 'bloody attention seekers*....

But it was me, ME ME ME ME ME, MEEEEEEEEEEEEE "

Twas not, you iddy biddy liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that, you shouldn't feel the need to but I do, I always put at the end of a message to someone I have no intention of meeting just that. Blah blah blah whatever the message and don't panic, I'm not looking for a meet, just wanted to say x y and z.

Due to the nature of this site and some people being more pushy than others, most naturally assume you want to fuck them when you message. Of course that is bollocks but its the way of this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se "

Here it is, that's my quote. How very dare I be called a liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is no intent to be a smart arse honest

I replied to a quote from Dark Angel, not you. It's what happens when you click on 'reply & quote'.

I was calling Dark Angel a smart a*se

No it was me God damn it!!

Oh push off you....pootles off muttering 'bloody attention seekers*....

But it was me, ME ME ME ME ME, MEEEEEEEEEEEEE "

I didn't want to call you the smart arse, but I was thinking it

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"A postive response = thankyou for taken time out of your busy day to answer of my status or question chips or mash I will take it on-board hope you have a great day once again thankyou "

Take no notice, some times you wouldn't win whatever you said.

I got what you meant, you were obviously trying for some banter and a different way of mailing, but sometimes if you enter into banter the person thinks they are in with a chance so they probably nipped it in the bud incase you had that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se

Here it is, that's my quote. How very dare I be called a liar "

Does 'feisty, sarcastic biatch' sit any better lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say, before I started running my profile as I do now, I'd get responses to my status updates which I'd always reply to. On more than one occasion I had a bit of banter with them and a laugh and a couple then tried to persue a meet to which I politely said no thanks. One got abusive and one brandished me a time waster. Maybe this user has had similar experiences which is why they gave the answer they did?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"My take on it all is that the OP might be getting an unfairly bumpy ride here.

I don’t want to speak for the OP, obviously, but my interpretation is that he saw a status asking a question - I assume ‘chips or mash?’

OP replied ‘chips’ (or possibly ‘mash’!) in a good natured spirit of answering the status question posed.

The reply misinterpreted his intent and hence surprised him.

Why ask a question if you’re not going to accept (or misinterpret) a simple answer?

Simple as that!

I don’t think the OP seems affronted she didn’t like him, just that the reply was totally out of context with his mail to her.

I think it was just a thread to highlight a quirky response not a real whinge!

But maybe I’m wrong!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they had said thanks or something like it, what would you have done next?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se

Here it is, that's my quote. How very dare I be called a liar

Does 'feisty, sarcastic biatch' sit any better lady "

I can't see her as being sarcastic and it was her you quoted calling a smart arse, not Dark Angel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say, before I started running my profile as I do now, I'd get responses to my status updates which I'd always reply to. On more than one occasion I had a bit of banter with them and a laugh and a couple then tried to persue a meet to which I politely said no thanks. One got abusive and one brandished me a time waster. Maybe this user has had similar experiences which is why they gave the answer they did?"

I learned quickly that any response, other than a no thank you or not what I'm looking for sorry, left the sender thinking I was interested in them and wanted to meet.

The only time I've had a conversation-where the man didn't automatically think I was interested in him-was with people from the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se

Here it is, that's my quote. How very dare I be called a liar

Does 'feisty, sarcastic biatch' sit any better lady

I can't see her as being sarcastic and it was her you quoted calling a smart arse, not Dark Angel."

The big grin emoji at the end of the quote, indicates joke/banter. If you read her profile, the quote is how she describes herself. It is fun banter you have misunderstood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se

Here it is, that's my quote. How very dare I be called a liar

Does 'feisty, sarcastic biatch' sit any better lady

I can't see her as being sarcastic and it was her you quoted calling a smart arse, not Dark Angel.

The big grin emoji at the end of the quote, indicates joke/banter. If you read her profile, the quote is how she describes herself. It is fun banter you have misunderstood "

He's know's its banter, he knows me very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se

Here it is, that's my quote. How very dare I be called a liar

Does 'feisty, sarcastic biatch' sit any better lady

I can't see her as being sarcastic and it was her you quoted calling a smart arse, not Dark Angel."

It's all good banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se

Here it is, that's my quote. How very dare I be called a liar

Does 'feisty, sarcastic biatch' sit any better lady

I can't see her as being sarcastic and it was her you quoted calling a smart arse, not Dark Angel.

The big grin emoji at the end of the quote, indicates joke/banter. If you read her profile, the quote is how she describes herself. It is fun banter you have misunderstood "

Oooh snap!

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over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se

Here it is, that's my quote. How very dare I be called a liar

Does 'feisty, sarcastic biatch' sit any better lady

I can't see her as being sarcastic and it was her you quoted calling a smart arse, not Dark Angel.

The big grin emoji at the end of the quote, indicates joke/banter. If you read her profile, the quote is how she describes herself. It is fun banter you have misunderstood

He's know's its banter, he knows me very well "

Oh I see, I thought it was a white knight jumping to your defence. I was trying to reassure him I meant no offence

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over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se

Here it is, that's my quote. How very dare I be called a liar

Does 'feisty, sarcastic biatch' sit any better lady

I can't see her as being sarcastic and it was her you quoted calling a smart arse, not Dark Angel.

The big grin emoji at the end of the quote, indicates joke/banter. If you read her profile, the quote is how she describes herself. It is fun banter you have misunderstood

He's know's its banter, he knows me very well

Oh I see, I thought it was a white knight jumping to your defence. I was trying to reassure him I meant no offence "

I think there was a bit of white knighting there, don't worry, I'll give him a slap next time I see him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I might have to move to the 'abuse the person above' thread in the lounge

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over a year ago


"Ah, maybe they were saying the answer you gave was not what they were looking for???!

You do realise, that nobody loves a smart a*se

Here it is, that's my quote. How very dare I be called a liar

Does 'feisty, sarcastic biatch' sit any better lady

I can't see her as being sarcastic and it was her you quoted calling a smart arse, not Dark Angel.

The big grin emoji at the end of the quote, indicates joke/banter. If you read her profile, the quote is how she describes herself. It is fun banter you have misunderstood

He's know's its banter, he knows me very well

Oh I see, I thought it was a white knight jumping to your defence. I was trying to reassure him I meant no offence

I think there was a bit of white knighting there, don't worry, I'll give him a slap next time I see him!"

Awww I think it's rather sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone seems to have completely missed the point....

Is it chips? Or is it mash?

Ffs people... Sort it out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone seems to have completely missed the point....

Is it chips? Or is it mash?

Ffs people... Sort it out!!"

We hope it’s chips, it’s chips,

We hope it’s chips, it’s chips ..

(One for people of a certain age there .. )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone seems to have completely missed the point....

Is it chips? Or is it mash?

Ffs people... Sort it out!!

We hope it’s chips, it’s chips,

We hope it’s chips, it’s chips ..

(One for people of a certain age there .. )"

The other I remember is Daddy or chips?? Chips says the little girl!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"My take on it all is that the OP might be getting an unfairly bumpy ride here.

I don’t want to speak for the OP, obviously, but my interpretation is that he saw a status asking a question - I assume ‘chips or mash?’

OP replied ‘chips’ (or possibly ‘mash’!) in a good natured spirit of answering the status question posed.

The reply misinterpreted his intent and hence surprised him.

Why ask a question if you’re not going to accept (or misinterpret) a simple answer?

Simple as that!

I don’t think the OP seems affronted she didn’t like him, just that the reply was totally out of context with his mail to her.

I think it was just a thread to highlight a quirky response not a real whinge!

But maybe I’m wrong!thank you someone can see where I am coming from the big question where they my type ?"

That’s how I see it too - I know it’s easy to do, but sometimes we forget that behind the people looking for meets there is actually the possibility of just some basic human interaction & not everything is designed to get someone to meet.

Gomez does the same quite often on our couples profile - he sees a status that makes him chuckle or with that kind of question & he’ll send a message, purely just for the fun or the banter.

Yes, we all get lots of messages, but sometimes it is just a bit of social banter & nothing more!!

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By *OR THE WIFES PLEASURE OP   Man
over a year ago

plymouth

Think I should end this thread now thanks for all the input and the messages never had so many from the guy who isn't your type good nite x

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there


"On the plus side, at least you got a reply!

#WinningAtFab"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see an update with a question so you say hi and respond example chips or mash and you get a reply your not what I am looking for !!! Got to laugh I suppose x"
or cry

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