FabSwingers.com forum: Girls never pop up first

By *eejay111111 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Girls should make te first move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women do make the first move! For the right guy that they find attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re sure is certain ladies find attraction they do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My popping days are behind me. More of a "pffft" these days.

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By *eejay111111 OP Man
over a year ago

london

I must be ugly then LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe add a few more interesting pictures. That could help.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Na, girls should never make the first move, just leave them frustrated.

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By *eejay111111 OP Man
over a year ago

london

They should not always up to the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be ugly then LOL"
you are where's your bag

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By *eejay111111 OP Man
over a year ago

london

All my face pics are for friends

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I frequently do.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"They should not always up to the guy"

Depends if it is doormat or assertive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m gonna go get some popcorn

anyone want some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women do make the first move! For the right guy that they find attractive!

L "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys need to attract the attention of females with their profile in the first place.

We message single guys when we want one, we find over three quarters have either been pricked by the lethargic and/or desperate (mailing every 5 mins) bug. Doesn't leave many candidates left.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I think I’m gonna go get some popcorn

anyone want some? "

You got a franchise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m gonna go get some popcorn

anyone want some?

You got a franchise?

I’m on a diet and really craving the bad stuff

Would be an idea for here tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate the women here seemly only go for attractive men but good luck on here

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The largest proportion of my meets are a result of me making the first move

I prefer it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes they do. Not on here, granted, or rarely I would imagine. Meeting in person I am often chatted up first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All my face pics are for friends "

Doesn't need to be face pics

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried this. It's a bloody nightmare! Haha. So many male profiles to trawl through.

That being said, If I do come across a profile I really like, I will message first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some girls do...

Some girls don't..

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I make the first contact about 50% of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mate the women here seemly only go for attractive men but good luck on here

do women elsewhere generally go for men they find unattractive then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mate the women here seemly only go for attractive men but good luck on here

do women elsewhere generally go for men they find unattractive then?"

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"I think I’m gonna go get some popcorn

anyone want some?

You got a franchise?

I’m on a diet and really craving the bad stuff

Would be an idea for here tho

Large sweet for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mate the women here seemly only go for attractive men but good luck on here

What’s wrong with women going for men they find attractive?

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Don’t think I’ve ever had a lady message me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m gonna go get some popcorn

anyone want some?

You got a franchise?

I’m on a diet and really craving the bad stuff

Would be an idea for here tho

Large sweet for me please

Coming right up

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Don’t think I’ve ever had a lady message me first

HG"

Holy hell!! If you lived nearer me, I’d DEFINITELY message you!!

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Mate the women here seemly only go for attractive men but good luck on here

What’s wrong with women going for men they find attractive?

OMG, do men only go for the women they find attractive?! Who knew!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mate the women here seemly only go for attractive men but good luck on here

What’s wrong with women going for men they find attractive?

OMG, do men only go for the women they find attractive?! Who knew!!

I know right. It’s okay for men to do it obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50% of my friends list messaged me first. It happens

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

"Don’t think I’ve ever had a lady message me first

Holy hell!! If you lived nearer me, I’d DEFINITELY message you!!

Story of my life

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By *eejay111111 OP Man
over a year ago

london

I have had one girl messige me first and I always get men asking of they can suck my dick LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have had one girl messige me first and I always get men asking of they can suck my dick LOL"

you can block men from messaging you..

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By *eejay111111 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Yea I no I can men messige me but women don't it's upsetting LOL

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

They definately do, I've had a good few women message me first. Learn to dress and do makeup and your luck may change?

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By *eejay111111 OP Man
over a year ago

london

I don't wear make up. What's rong with the way I dress LOL

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

Coming from such a wooooondeeeerful individual... I definately don't blame them, ever

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By *eejay111111 OP Man
over a year ago

london

What do u mean who is wonderful

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

"What do u mean who is wonderful "

The wonderful people are wonderful

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By *eejay111111 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Yh but I'm bored LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What could I do to make people take a second look? I mean besides steroid abuse or gender reassignment?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes they do.

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By *reeneyedbuddhaCouple
over a year ago

on tees

"What could I do to make people take a second look? I mean besides steroid abuse or gender reassignment?"

Excite their minds !! 3 sentences in your profile won't do , if you are a man of few words read some female erotica and discuss what you like in the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women do make the first move! For the right guy that they find attractive!

L "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve approached men before. We’ll usually wink first to test the water. And we probably would have been watching the guy for a while as we like to be sure before we approach. And Mr has made the first move for me on my behalf in clubs. Again more likely with men we’ve met before.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladies do make the first move, I don't send the first message so as I know it will probably get lost with in the inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What could I do to make people take a second look? I mean besides steroid abuse or gender reassignment?"

I will give you a little hint.... it's a lot about the profile text. Good pics are great, but it's not everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move or pop?

Lady I used to see would pop first, second, third ... I was last in the queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do u mean who is wonderful "

Another young upstart who thinks he can win them over...

It would help if you could spell properly too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What could I do to make people take a second look? I mean besides steroid abuse or gender reassignment?

I will give you a little hint.... it's a lot about the profile text. Good pics are great, but it's not everything

Thanks for the advice! I'll go practice my penmanship...

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Sweetie, i dont think after following the Green Arrow that any of the forum ladies would be enticed

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By *eejay111111 OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Sweetie, i dont think after following the Green Arrow that any of the forum ladies would be enticed"
what do u mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girls should make te first move "

Some do....met a few from here who have

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"Don’t think I’ve ever had a lady message me first

HG"

I had this happen last week...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweetie, i dont think after following the Green Arrow that any of the forum ladies would be enticed"

Bloody hell....I see what you mean!

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By *ilyandfelixCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

As a couple we’ve messaged guys first, you have to understand there are so many guys on here though you need to stand out, 1 public photo and a short sentence is similar to hundreds of other profiles on here. (Not trying to sound horrible, just giving one couples perspective)

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Maybe they're scared you'll try and "ruin" them OP!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they're scared you'll try and "ruin" them OP!!

Yeah, this kid has posted so many whiny threads I think any sane woman has already blocked him!

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By *ynawtywifeCouple
over a year ago

In a club

In most cases for us Mrs N messages the guys first. She knows what she wants and prefers to initiate things x

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

"Sweetie, i dont think after following the Green Arrow that any of the forum ladies would be enticedwhat do u mean "

See that little green arrow at the side of your name? It shows all the threads youve started or posted on. It paints a picture of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they're scared you'll try and "ruin" them OP!!

Yeah, this kid has posted so many whiny threads I think any sane woman has already blocked him!"

Lol I was close to after what he said on a thread he made wanting peoples numbers so he could call them. I agree with u on his threads being or sounding whiney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweetie, i dont think after following the Green Arrow that any of the forum ladies would be enticedwhat do u mean

See that little green arrow at the side of your name? It shows all the threads youve started or posted on. It paints a picture of you "

Just looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What could I do to make people take a second look? I mean besides steroid abuse or gender reassignment?

I will give you a little hint.... it's a lot about the profile text. Good pics are great, but it's not everything

Thanks for the advice! I'll go practice my penmanship...

You're very welcome lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweetie, i dont think after following the Green Arrow that any of the forum ladies would be enticedwhat do u mean

See that little green arrow at the side of your name? It shows all the threads youve started or posted on. It paints a picture of you "
and if a picture paints a thousand words then why oh why can't I paint you

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