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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I see this around a lot and it got me wondering why.

Of course couple get to choose who they want to meet, not disputing that. However I’ve never got a proper answer as to why not.

Being on a swinging site you clearly don’t care super hard about a potential parters previous exploits, (diseases aside) so why does it matter if that person has had same-sex fun before? Is it an insecurity on the male half’s side? Or what?

Not to mention the double standard of expecting women on the site to be bi lol.

Any feedback appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BeCause some people don't like the thought of sex between 2 men.

Simple

It's a preference like any other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W"

You can't name and shame but you can report and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People assume that cos you are bi, you want to be all over the male half of a couple or you’ve contracted an STI cos bi/gay men are apparently more likely to have one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Of course, I already mentioned this^

But say if I was not disclose it. And the couple liked me and we met up and had a good time, would that not prove it has no basis other than some bigotry?

Not to sound like a SJW right now, but I get that vibe from a lot of (especially older) couples on here. You know why so many guys don’t display it on their profile

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By *uzi Jones 26Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair

Sex is sex. Why can't people just have fun and enjoy without judgement of others? If you dont like one thing then fine, but don't be rude about it

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"So I see this around a lot and it got me wondering why.

Of course couple get to choose who they want to meet, not disputing that. However I’ve never got a proper answer as to why not.

Being on a swinging site you clearly don’t care super hard about a potential parters previous exploits, (diseases aside) so why does it matter if that person has had same-sex fun before? Is it an insecurity on the male half’s side? Or what?

Not to mention the double standard of expecting women on the site to be bi lol.

Any feedback appreciated! "

See .... you got An answer privately, you chose to post publicly.... seems you weren’t happy with their answer? It was their answer their choice, however poor I or you think it is, it’s theirs and you’re now aghast! Maybe don’t ask and they won’t tell but their feedback doesn’t seem “appreciated”!

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W"

If they are so dedicated to the words of the bible then they should only be having vaginal sex in order to procreate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience particularly when dogging was rife guys would turn up early in evening looking for couples by the end of evening after no luck suddenly become interested in guys.

always find it odd when couples that post wont meet bi guys.

Sorry you have as the amount of supposedly ST8 guys well that what it says on there profile who send me meet requests when challenged they say meet couples on here and do not want to spoil there chances!!

Regularly go to "BI Party night" locally and the amount of "ST8" guys there outnumbers the Bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" People assume that cos you are bi, you want to be all over the male half of a couple or you’ve contracted an STI cos bi/gay men are apparently more likely to have one. "

This and I know at least two men who have received unwanted male sexual contact at a club and a party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W"

"Adam and eve, not adam and steve!"

Made me chuckle!!

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By *eanus 2000Man
over a year ago

Marlborough


"Sex is sex. Why can't people just have fun and enjoy without judgement of others? If you dont like one thing then fine, but don't be rude about it "
I could not agree more I see loads of profiles of every kind stating they are open minded and I often think " are you really?".

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By *ickadysplit17Man
over a year ago

cadishead

Bi sex is the best as long as u play safe there's not an issue, I play regular with a couple & have for 3years & we don't actually use condoms anymore & we're all sti free

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

OP just put straight on your profile and then shag the ones who said they don't meet bi/gay men hahaha everyone else does it. Makes me laugh when I read those profiles and look at their verifications from men who put straight but are not hehehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BeCause some people don't like the thought of sex between 2 men.

Simple

It's a preference like any other "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Eh, when your reasoning is a fairy tale book I don’t tend to respect that answer haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is some straight people think that a bi person wont respect boundaries and still try it on.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W"

The funny thing is that the religious nuts seem ok with Cane and Abel shagging their mother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

"Adam and eve, not adam and steve!"

Made me chuckle!! "

Or adelle and amy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess honesty is really wasted on a lot of people ey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is sex. Why can't people just have fun and enjoy without judgement of others? If you dont like one thing then fine, but don't be rude about it "

What the lady said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Bi guy who enjoys company of both sexes does that make me unique as for STIs I always play safe but STIs arnt confined to only Bi/Gay people.

As for unwanted attention Ladies complain of this all the time so nothing new there but polite No thanks should suffice

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Our reason is due to past experiences.

Not just the once but 3 times so we try and rule bi guys out now.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Lots of reasons given previously on similar threads.

They tend to be - higher proportion of sti's in bi/gay community, male half 'worried' about contact, blood donor rules prohibit it or it doesn't fulfil the fantasy scenario that people joined for.

On the flip side there are couples who specifically seek out bi guys, so maybe you'd probably work out even on the prefer bi / don't want bi guys.

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By *ally_weaverMan
over a year ago

Stoneyburn


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W"

Lol there are some total morons on here.

As for not meeting bi. It's because they're bi phobic or ignorant.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

Lol there are some total morons on here.

As for not meeting bi. It's because they're bi phobic or ignorant. "

Those are two potential reasons, there are others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W"
hehe i love this , a couple on a swingers site which is basically a fuck site quoting the bible ? loly hippocrits OP take no notice just block and move on , simple and really would you want to meet such people ? i know i wudnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Problem is some straight people think that a bi person wont respect boundaries and still try it on.

"

Straight men worried that they're going to be treated the way they often treat women hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just a preference, maybe the straight guy in the couple doesn’t want the other guy eyeing his cock up. No big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we’re riddled with STIs and aren’t very choosy about where we out our penises of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s just a preference, maybe the straight guy in the couple doesn’t want the other guy eyeing his cock up. No big deal."

What makes him think the guy in question wants anything to do with his cock lmao?

just because you've played with men in the past doesn't mean every man you meet is a target. Bi/gay men have tastes/preferences too lol

And furthermore, if you're scared of a guy looking at your dick is swinging really the scene for you? Especially clubs!

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Well as a straight man in a couple, if we want to meet a single guy then there are thousands of straight single guys to meet on Fab, so why would we be interested in meeting a Bi guy? There are plenty of Bi couples looking to meet Bi guys so I think that evens it out perfectly.

Each to their own and all that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s just a preference, maybe the straight guy in the couple doesn’t want the other guy eyeing his cock up. No big deal.

What makes him think the guy in question wants anything to do with his cock lmao?

just because you've played with men in the past doesn't mean every man you meet is a target. Bi/gay men have tastes/preferences too lol

And furthermore, if you're scared of a guy looking at your dick is swinging really the scene for you? Especially clubs!"

It’s what I said, he might think that way and so what, that’s his preference. Are you really saying that the swinging scene isn’t for them just because of a preference? There’s also loads of couples that only want bi guys so it all evens out. Too many people are quick to have a go just because of a preference or rule, it’s their experience not yours.

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Makes me laugh when people won't meet bi guys, because the amount of straight guys who mail us each day asking for a bi MMF is staggering and some are well verified to Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People think bi men are dirty and don't use protection. I've had a few message me saying they like me and my profile but because I like bi men and t-girls they won't risk meeting me!

As if I'd meet them anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W"

Omfg

I have no issue with bi guys. What someone does when they're not with me is their business, as long as they played safe.

Someone who regularly plays bareback with multiple partners is where I draw the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

"Adam and eve, not adam and steve!"

Made me chuckle!! "
and me ......we are awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some big double standards out there.

Fine for a guy to see his woman randomly penetrated in holes various by multiple guys etc but if the blokes ever had his cock touched by another guy....

Ruuuunawaaaay.....uncleann!!!!

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By *oblovesyouMan
over a year ago

poole


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

Lol there are some total morons on here.

As for not meeting bi. It's because they're bi phobic or ignorant.

Those are two potential reasons, there are others."

... Like, being straight

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By *oblovesyouMan
over a year ago

poole


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

The funny thing is that the religious nuts seem ok with Cane and Abel shagging their mother."

Really?!? What page of the New T was that on? I must of missed that bit...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Or maybe the straight guys in couples that won't play with bi guys are worried that they won't be able to control themselves when faced with an available guy

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

The funny thing is that the religious nuts seem ok with Cane and Abel shagging their mother.

Really?!? What page of the New T was that on? I must of missed that bit... "

I think you'll find it's in the old testament. Everyone is descended from Adam & Eve who only had sons.

Think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People think bi men are dirty and don't use protection. I've had a few message me saying they like me and my profile but because I like bi men and t-girls they won't risk meeting me!

As if I'd meet them anyway!

"

People actually message you saying that? Wow

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

Lol there are some total morons on here.

As for not meeting bi. It's because they're bi phobic or ignorant.

Those are two potential reasons, there are others.

... Like, being straight "

So you wouldn't fuck a bi fem then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh it's a silly statement as most guys have straight listed. How would even know who does what Off fab .

i advised couple of my male friends to have two profiles here if they want to play with guys and not get black listed by lots of straight persons.

I find it amusing the amount of messages from straight only couples Some with hostile profile text. Message me. I reply with a confused dot com response

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By *dcumlover2Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

Most of the looks I get on my profile are straight guys !!!!!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We get a lot of "I can play straight tho" just be graceful and accept "u can't win em all" no matter how much it may cause u offence. My man's straight it's our preference and if that offends u then maybe u need to lose the ego.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair if someone wrote ‘its Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve’ that’s not quoting the bible it’s quoting Alan Partridge

Also I think although you maybe can’t see the reasoning, it’s still important to respect people’s preferences

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W"
was it tubs from the local town for local people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Well as a straight man in a couple, if we want to meet a single guy then there are thousands of straight single guys to meet on Fab, so why would we be interested in meeting a Bi guy? There are plenty of Bi couples looking to meet Bi guys so I think that evens it out perfectly.

Each to their own and all that..

"

Ah but are those straight guys you meet really straight ? Lots of straight guys messege us and are bi (play with hubby) when we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Makes me laugh when people won't meet bi guys, because the amount of straight guys who mail us each day asking for a bi MMF is staggering and some are well verified to Mrs x"

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


" Well as a straight man in a couple, if we want to meet a single guy then there are thousands of straight single guys to meet on Fab, so why would we be interested in meeting a Bi guy? There are plenty of Bi couples looking to meet Bi guys so I think that evens it out perfectly.

Each to their own and all that..

Ah but are those straight guys you meet really straight ? Lots of straight guys messege us and are bi (play with hubby) when we meet "

They usually start messages with "I know it says straight..........."

They're straight alright

Straight in the bin.

If someone is prepared to lie about something as basic as their sexuality what else will they lie about?

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Well as a straight man in a couple, if we want to meet a single guy then there are thousands of straight single guys to meet on Fab, so why would we be interested in meeting a Bi guy? There are plenty of Bi couples looking to meet Bi guys so I think that evens it out perfectly.

Each to their own and all that..

Ah but are those straight guys you meet really straight ? Lots of straight guys messege us and are bi (play with hubby) when we meet

They usually start messages with "I know it says straight..........."

They're straight alright

Straight in the bin.

If someone is prepared to lie about something as basic as their sexuality what else will they lie about?"

Have to remember though. At its crux people just want casual Sex meets. So majority of people will say / do etc whatever increase odds in favour of hitting gold.

Just the way of life . Add in the massive discrimination on Feb of sexuality / racism / etc. Not hard to see why people omit things or have two profiles etc

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

So because they may face predudice they lie. Silly excuse that

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Silly and sly as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to real life .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Well as a straight man in a couple, if we want to meet a single guy then there are thousands of straight single guys to meet on Fab, so why would we be interested in meeting a Bi guy? There are plenty of Bi couples looking to meet Bi guys so I think that evens it out perfectly.

Each to their own and all that..

Ah but are those straight guys you meet really straight ? Lots of straight guys messege us and are bi (play with hubby) when we meet

They usually start messages with "I know it says straight..........."

They're straight alright

Straight in the bin.

If someone is prepared to lie about something as basic as their sexuality what else will they lie about?"

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Welcome to real life .

"
sad really. U r stunning by the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So because they may face predudice they lie. Silly excuse that"

What about guys in clubs then ?do you ask if they take cock first lol. Come on this is the real world bit Alice In wonderland.

Some will be open about but most are not. Just how it rolls .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to real life .

sad really. U r stunning by the way x"

Thanks most kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to real life .

sad really. U r stunning by the way x"

Ps I am not having a dig. Just giving some reasons

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


" Well as a straight man in a couple, if we want to meet a single guy then there are thousands of straight single guys to meet on Fab, so why would we be interested in meeting a Bi guy? There are plenty of Bi couples looking to meet Bi guys so I think that evens it out perfectly.

Each to their own and all that..

Ah but are those straight guys you meet really straight ? Lots of straight guys messege us and are bi (play with hubby) when we meet

They usually start messages with "I know it says straight..........."

They're straight alright

Straight in the bin.

If someone is prepared to lie about something as basic as their sexuality what else will they lie about?

Have to remember though. At its crux people just want casual Sex meets. So majority of people will say / do etc whatever increase odds in favour of hitting gold.

Just the way of life . Add in the massive discrimination on Feb of sexuality / racism / etc. Not hard to see why people omit things or have two profiles etc

"

Sorry. Liars are liars and if you play along you are giving them permission to lie to you.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Oh I know. Shit reasons tho lol. Do u hide anything?

I assume not because u r confident and not a sly chancer x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"So because they may face predudice they lie. Silly excuse that

What about guys in clubs then ?do you ask if they take cock first lol. Come on this is the real world bit Alice In wonderland.

Some will be open about but most are not. Just how it rolls . "

Just because people might lie, doesn't stop people having preferences who they *want* to meet. People might not want to meet barebackers, married men, drug users, fox hunters, West Ham fans etc etc etc, all can be lied about, it doesn't make the preference invalid.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"So because they may face predudice they lie. Silly excuse that

What about guys in clubs then ?do you ask if they take cock first lol. Come on this is the real world bit Alice In wonderland.

Some will be open about but most are not. Just how it rolls . "
sniff test?

Haaaaa kidding....

2 far? ? Xx

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"So because they may face predudice they lie. Silly excuse that

What about guys in clubs then ?do you ask if they take cock first lol. Come on this is the real world bit Alice In wonderland.

Some will be open about but most are not. Just how it rolls . sniff test?

Haaaaa kidding....

2 far? ? Xx"

Probably is too far but I found it fucking hilarious

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Haaaaa I've got the mouth of a young lad my fella cringes lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And have u notice that on their verification shows men had verified them but they only display verifications from woman.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I notice that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So because they may face predudice they lie. Silly excuse that

What about guys in clubs then ?do you ask if they take cock first lol. Come on this is the real world bit Alice In wonderland.

Some will be open about but most are not. Just how it rolls .

Just because people might lie, doesn't stop people having preferences who they *want* to meet. People might not want to meet barebackers, married men, drug users, fox hunters, West Ham fans etc etc etc, all can be lied about, it doesn't make the preference invalid."

Of course it doesn't but it doesn't change the fact people will omit certain things to get laid. Fact of life .

Look at the club scene. Couple only wants to play with straight men. How they know guy in club there is straight that they like to play with ? He could be out with hank and frank on the common night before playing batter the sausage in a group sausage fest ?

Guarantee the guy will say zilch at that point .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People think bi men are dirty and don't use protection. I've had a few message me saying they like me and my profile but because I like bi men and t-girls they won't risk meeting me!

As if I'd meet them anyway!

People actually message you saying that? Wow"

I have had that because I play with bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't agree with same sex and avoid on that basis.

Some may not be bi or play bi but it means you have to trust the other party to play str8. Maybe they don't want the hassle of that.

Some believe there's more risk to sexual infections.

Whatever their preference, it's their choice.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I might say I'm a size 8 with a tight snatch that smells of lenor. Can't beat em and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I know. Shit reasons tho lol. Do u hide anything?

I assume not because u r confident and not a sly chancer x"

I can't hide shit even if I wanted too alas lol all over the internet put to bed any hope of that. I get rejected by lots by people as I am adult industry .

Now I just don't bother mentioning it on profile if I am

Asked I will confirm it though not discuss it as against T / C of fab

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By *uzi Jones 26Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair


"People think bi men are dirty and don't use protection. I've had a few message me saying they like me and my profile but because I like bi men and t-girls they won't risk meeting me!

As if I'd meet them anyway!

People actually message you saying that? Wow

I have had that because I play with bi men. "

Their loss lovelies

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Oh I know. Shit reasons tho lol. Do u hide anything?

I assume not because u r confident and not a sly chancer x

I can't hide shit even if I wanted too alas lol all over the internet put to bed any hope of that. I get rejected by lots by people as I am adult industry . How cool are u!! X

Now I just don't bother mentioning it on profile if I am

Asked I will confirm it though not discuss it as against T / C of fab

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So because they may face predudice they lie. Silly excuse that

What about guys in clubs then ?do you ask if they take cock first lol. Come on this is the real world bit Alice In wonderland.

Some will be open about but most are not. Just how it rolls . sniff test?

Haaaaa kidding....

2 far? ? Xx"

Could be onto a new business here. Sniffing out sexuality . Think would be profitable lol justbrcarel where you sniff

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By *uzi Jones 26Woman
over a year ago

The Devil's Lair


"Oh I know. Shit reasons tho lol. Do u hide anything?

I assume not because u r confident and not a sly chancer x

I can't hide shit even if I wanted too alas lol all over the internet put to bed any hope of that. I get rejected by lots by people as I am adult industry .

Now I just don't bother mentioning it on profile if I am

Asked I will confirm it though not discuss it as against T / C of fab

"

In my experience, people in the adult industry are far safer bedfellows than the average "joe" x

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Msg me ur film name

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Just realised u can't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I know. Shit reasons tho lol. Do u hide anything?

I assume not because u r confident and not a sly chancer x

I can't hide shit even if I wanted too alas lol all over the internet put to bed any hope of that. I get rejected by lots by people as I am adult industry .

Now I just don't bother mentioning it on profile if I am

Asked I will confirm it though not discuss it as against T / C of fab

In my experience, people in the adult industry are far safer bedfellows than the average "joe" x"

This is extremely true of pro adult workers models.

It's quite shocking amount of swingers into group play never been tested. Especially the 50+ age which have a very riding STI issue currently in uk

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"So because they may face predudice they lie. Silly excuse that

What about guys in clubs then ?do you ask if they take cock first lol. Come on this is the real world bit Alice In wonderland.

Some will be open about but most are not. Just how it rolls . sniff test?

Haaaaa kidding....

2 far? ? Xx

Could be onto a new business here. Sniffing out sexuality . Think would be profitable lol justbrcarel where you sniff "
I'm like a hound I'd know trust me haaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People think bi men are dirty and don't use protection. I've had a few message me saying they like me and my profile but because I like bi men and t-girls they won't risk meeting me!

As if I'd meet them anyway!

People actually message you saying that? Wow

I have had that because I play with bi men. "

Yeah we have it In adult movies. Some women get black listed dropped if they shoot with trans / x-over models

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I know. Shit reasons tho lol. Do u hide anything?

I assume not because u r confident and not a sly chancer x

I can't hide shit even if I wanted too alas lol all over the internet put to bed any hope of that. I get rejected by lots by people as I am adult industry .

Now I just don't bother mentioning it on profile if I am

Asked I will confirm it though not discuss it as against T / C of fab

In my experience, people in the adult industry are far safer bedfellows than the average "joe" x

This is extremely true of pro adult workers models.

It's quite shocking amount of swingers into group play never been tested. Especially the 50+ age which have a very riding STI issue currently in uk "

This is so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at a party a few years ago, played with the lady of a couple in a group situation, all straight MMMMF fun. I didn't go looking for them, the lady said I looked nice and would I like her to suck my cock, funny enough I obliged.

After we all enjoyed ourselves and before we all went out separate ways to enjoy the party more, we all swapped fab names to verify each other.

I go to verify them and find that I've already blocked them as they had stated on their profile "Strictly no bi men we only play with straight males" and I routinely blocked profiles which state no bi men to prevent them from showing in my searches.

Now I had no idea they didn't like bi men, they had no idea I was bi, and the total amount of talking before hand was less than 10 words.

Sometimes, as in my experience, when it comes down to it people will get carried away, forgo questioning others about their sexuality and play with anyone who takes their eye

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By *RayMan
over a year ago

essex


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

The funny thing is that the religious nuts seem ok with Cane and Abel shagging their mother."

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To be honest I don't tend to dwell on why people won't meet me because I'm bi, any more than I dwell on why they won't meet me for any other reason.

There are plenty out there who openly look out for bi men or who don't rule us out, so I prefer to focus my energies on them

As for Fab straight guys, in my opinion they're shooting themselves in the foot as they're closing as many doors as they're opening by not labelling themselves bi or no curious.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Fab straight?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Fab straight? "

Guys who set their sexuality setting to straight but are actually bi/bi curious - something they do in the mistaken belief it will stand them a better chance of getting meets with women.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I won't eat sprouts because I don't like them

If ur bi how can u play straight. Seems so egotistical to me

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Fab straight?

Guys who set their sexuality setting to straight but are actually bi/bi curious - something they do in the mistaken belief it will stand them a better chance of getting meets with women."
shocking that

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

And how do u know if they are fab straight? Is it wishful thinking?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I won't eat sprouts because I don't like them

If ur bi how can u play straight. Seems so egotistical to me"

Quite easily - I understand and respect another person's sexuality - if someone is not bi, it doesn't even occur to me to make sexual approaches to them even if I'm involved in group play with them. I've had both straight MMF, as well as MMFF, experiences and believe it or not the thought of touching the other guys in any way hasn't so much as crossed my mind.

Contrary to popular belief in some quarters bi guys are not sexual predators who will pounce at any opportunity!!

Not sure how you work out it's egotistical?!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I'd get harpooned if I turned up to a meet aft saying I'm a size 8. No difference apart from u can c what I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Problem is some straight people think that a bi person wont respect boundaries and still try it on.

Straight men worried that they're going to be treated the way they often treat women hahaha "

Good point

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"And how do u know if they are fab straight? Is it wishful thinking? "

Because they message suggesting meeting, or with lines such as "I'm bi really..." or have sexual veris from other men!!

Absolutely nothing to do with wishful thinking!! I actually wouldn't meet with a guy who identifies as straight on here - if he's lying about his sexuality, what else will he be lying about?

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Problem is some straight people think that a bi person wont respect boundaries and still try it on.

Straight men worried that they're going to be treated the way they often treat women hahaha now that I'd like to c

Good point "

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"I won't eat sprouts because I don't like them

If ur bi how can u play straight. Seems so egotistical to me"

Like eating sprouts, you may like them but they make you fart a lot, there may be times when you don’t want to fart a lot and so push sprouts to the side?!

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By *ilthpotMan
over a year ago

uxbridge

Am i Bi if say "I was in a 3some MMF and the guy started sucking my cock or licking my arse & maybe i fucked his arse ...No kissing, sucking the guy from me....am i Bi!"...I'm not looking to meet men, maybe a TS/TV..??

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I don't need help farting I'm champion trump winner 2003

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Am i Bi if say "I was in a 3some MMF and the guy started sucking my cock or licking my arse & maybe i fucked his arse ...No kissing, sucking the guy from me....am i Bi!"...I'm not looking to meet men, maybe a TS/TV..??"
haaaaaaaa only kisses make it gay.. u win

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

From a bi guys perspective with a bi curious mrs.. we get all kinds of greif over it.

Ultimately if you got a problem with it.. Then I wish you well in your narrow minded existance because I'm quite happy getting the fuck on with mine, no fucks given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only gay when you push back ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had several experiences with bi men messaging us for a mfm threeway and then wanting to play with my male partner (who is completely straight). I also have a relative who used to swing with her straight male partner, and they met a bisexual man on the understanding that there would be no m/m contact at all, but the guy touched him without permission, and he lost it and beat the guy up.

I appreciate that not bisexual men are like that, but it's an issue we just don't want to deal with.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"From a bi guys perspective with a bi curious mrs.. we get all kinds of greif over it.

Ultimately if you got a problem with it.. Then I wish you well in your narrow minded existance because I'm quite happy getting the fuck on with mine, no fucks given"
well.. u feel better now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ultimately if you got a problem with it.. Then I wish you well in your narrow minded existance because I'm quite happy getting the fuck on with mine, no fucks given"

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House


"

Not to mention the double standard of expecting women on the site to be bi lol.

"

Absolutely this ^

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Have I missed something. Ppl don't like being led into a false situation makes them narrow minded? ? Wow

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By *ally_weaverMan
over a year ago

Stoneyburn


"We have had several experiences with bi men messaging us for a mfm threeway and then wanting to play with my male partner (who is completely straight). I also have a relative who used to swing with her straight male partner, and they met a bisexual man on the understanding that there would be no m/m contact at all, but the guy touched him without permission, and he lost it and beat the guy up.

I appreciate that not bisexual men are like that, but it's an issue we just don't want to deal with. "

Was he arrested for that hate crime?

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Now we on a whole new subject

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"We have had several experiences with bi men messaging us for a mfm threeway and then wanting to play with my male partner (who is completely straight). I also have a relative who used to swing with her straight male partner, and they met a bisexual man on the understanding that there would be no m/m contact at all, but the guy touched him without permission, and he lost it and beat the guy up.

I appreciate that not bisexual men are like that, but it's an issue we just don't want to deal with.

Was he arrested for that hate crime?"
not hate crime sexual assault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.9% of the men ive ever met off here in 5 yrs are so called straight married or with a gf ,on straight profiles, im told very often they keep their true sexualality quiet because so many women and couples turn them down if they admit the truth !

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By *ally_weaverMan
over a year ago

Stoneyburn


"We have had several experiences with bi men messaging us for a mfm threeway and then wanting to play with my male partner (who is completely straight). I also have a relative who used to swing with her straight male partner, and they met a bisexual man on the understanding that there would be no m/m contact at all, but the guy touched him without permission, and he lost it and beat the guy up.

I appreciate that not bisexual men are like that, but it's an issue we just don't want to deal with.

Was he arrested for that hate crime?not hate crime sexual assault "

Sorry vigilantism but admitting to beating someone up is a admitting to a crime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have I missed something. Ppl don't like being led into a false situation makes them narrow minded? ? Wow "

I think you're misunderstanding the point a little.

No one is claiming being duped is akin to being narrow minded, but rather, that in this day and age it's a shame we aren't all a little more accepting and understanding of sexuality.

Everyone has a right to choose who they spend time with, of course.

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Quite right Madame Penelope ??

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

99%

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Just have a straight profile as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99.9% of the men ive ever met off here in 5 yrs are so called straight married or with a gf ,on straight profiles, im told very often they keep their true sexualality quiet because so many women and couples turn them down if they admit the truth ! "

Yup, I'd say the vast majority of messages I get are from guys listed as straight. This does of course open the discussion to whether guys attracted to girls like us can be considered straight, but by fuck I'm not starting that debate for the nth time

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Have I missed something. Ppl don't like being led into a false situation makes them narrow minded? ? Wow

I think you're misunderstanding the point a little.

No one is claiming being duped is akin to being narrow minded, but rather, that in this day and age it's a shame we aren't all a little more accepting and understanding of sexuality.

Everyone has a right to choose who they spend time with, of course."
I'm bi. My man's straight. I'm not the one misunderstanding

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By *ackwithabang2000Couple
over a year ago

Stoke


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W"
disgusting message we have no hang ups at all like it's said couples don't mind women on women that's ok as far as we are concerned as long as you practice safe sex and are clean what's the prob it's sex and fun had by all

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By *queekyCheesyCouple
over a year ago

newark

[Removed by poster at 17/01/18 21:18:17]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good responses here, didn’t expect so much action on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have I missed something. Ppl don't like being led into a false situation makes them narrow minded? ? Wow

I think you're misunderstanding the point a little.

No one is claiming being duped is akin to being narrow minded, but rather, that in this day and age it's a shame we aren't all a little more accepting and understanding of sexuality.

Everyone has a right to choose who they spend time with, of course.I'm bi. My man's straight. I'm not the one misunderstanding "

Well in fairness one of you typed "Ppl don't like being led into a false situation makes them narrow minded?" which wasn't what the previous poster was saying, I believe. So one of you was misunderstanding, at the least.

This isn't meant as an attack btw. As I stated, everyone has a right to choose who they spend their time with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BeCause some people don't like the thought of sex between 2 men.

Simple

It's a preference like any other "

Much like verifications putting people off when they see who the person fucked before. It's the knowing that's the issue. If they don't know it's different. So in a club etc "don't ask don't tell" works well.

I also think it's that the man doesn't want the bi guy eyeing him up, because it would make him feel uncomfortable. Same as a person wouldn't meet with someone they didn't find at all attractive.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Have I missed something. Ppl don't like being led into a false situation makes them narrow minded? ? Wow

I think you're misunderstanding the point a little.

No one is claiming being duped is akin to being narrow minded, but rather, that in this day and age it's a shame we aren't all a little more accepting and understanding of sexuality.

Everyone has a right to choose who they spend time with, of course.I'm bi. My man's straight. I'm not the one misunderstanding

Well in fairness one of you typed "Ppl don't like being led into a false situation makes them narrow minded?" which wasn't what the previous poster was saying, I believe. So one of you was misunderstanding, at the least.

This isn't meant as an attack btw. As I stated, everyone has a right to choose who they spend their time with."
u need to read the whole thread x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have I missed something. Ppl don't like being led into a false situation makes them narrow minded? ? Wow

I think you're misunderstanding the point a little.

No one is claiming being duped is akin to being narrow minded, but rather, that in this day and age it's a shame we aren't all a little more accepting and understanding of sexuality.

Everyone has a right to choose who they spend time with, of course."

Being accepting and understanding of someone's sexuality is one thing. Not wanting to fuck that person is something entirely different.

If I don't want to meet a bi man I won't meet him. He can call me homophobic, biphobic, narrow minded, whatever he likes. I still wouldn't fuck him.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Have I missed something. Ppl don't like being led into a false situation makes them narrow minded? ? Wow

I think you're misunderstanding the point a little.

No one is claiming being duped is akin to being narrow minded, but rather, that in this day and age it's a shame we aren't all a little more accepting and understanding of sexuality.

Everyone has a right to choose who they spend time with, of course.

Being accepting and understanding of someone's sexuality is one thing. Not wanting to fuck that person is something entirely different.

If I don't want to meet a bi man I won't meet him. He can call me homophobic, biphobic, narrow minded, whatever he likes. I still wouldn't fuck him. "
xx

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By *heik yourwillyMan
over a year ago

shire

horses for courses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Being accepting and understanding of someone's sexuality is one thing. Not wanting to fuck that person is something entirely different.

If I don't want to meet a bi man I won't meet him. He can call me homophobic, biphobic, narrow minded, whatever he likes. I still wouldn't fuck him. "

Absolutely. Like I've said in each post, everyone has a right to choose who they spend their time with. Likewise, everyone has a right to believe antiquated views are narrow minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Well as a straight man in a couple, if we want to meet a single guy then there are thousands of straight single guys to meet on Fab, so why would we be interested in meeting a Bi guy? There are plenty of Bi couples looking to meet Bi guys so I think that evens it out perfectly.

Each to their own and all that..

Ah but are those straight guys you meet really straight ? Lots of straight guys messege us and are bi (play with hubby) when we meet

They usually start messages with "I know it says straight..........."

They're straight alright

Straight in the bin.

If someone is prepared to lie about something as basic as their sexuality what else will they lie about?"

Yes....they might exaggerate....

Everyone, sorry a high proportion of people lie on here. Names(of course) location, understandable, "curvy" I.e fat as fuck. Well hung( camera angle or mini can of linx )

People are after shags, not a moving in date.....a few fibs from some are part for the course.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I'd get harpooned if I turned up to a meet aft saying I'm a size 8. No difference apart from u can c what I am"

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By *ervously excitedCouple
over a year ago

perranporth


"Problem is some straight people think that a bi person wont respect boundaries and still try it on.

"
this, and it does happen!

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Not the same

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By *amdenfunMan
over a year ago

London


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

The funny thing is that the religious nuts seem ok with Cane and Abel shagging their mother.

Really?!? What page of the New T was that on? I must of missed that bit...

I think you'll find it's in the old testament. Everyone is descended from Adam & Eve who only had sons.

Think about it"

Actually, the bible specifically says that after Cain and Abel, Adam begat Seth and then more sons and daughters. And it specifically mentions, at least, that Cain knew his wife.

Lots daughters slept with him - but they're not exactly held out as paragons of virtue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have a problem with bi men but we can see why some might from our experience. We have been asked if Fred was straight to which we replied yes, only for them to persevere and ask what if I touched him? What would he do if I sucked his cock, needless to say we never met as we didn't believe Fred's boundaries would be respected.

We've also had, I know Fred's straight but I'd love to suck his cock, then go into detail about what they'd like to do with him, now; as I fancy women too I would not dream of making those sort of comments to a straight women as it's pretty obvious they aren't welcome!

Additionally two or more women together turn me on massively, two men don't it's not double standards it's just what works for me.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

The funny thing is that the religious nuts seem ok with Cane and Abel shagging their mother.

Really?!? What page of the New T was that on? I must of missed that bit...

I think you'll find it's in the old testament. Everyone is descended from Adam & Eve who only had sons.

Think about it

Actually, the bible specifically says that after Cain and Abel, Adam begat Seth and then more sons and daughters. And it specifically mentions, at least, that Cain knew his wife.

Lots daughters slept with him - but they're not exactly held out as paragons of virtue. "

The old testament is filthy, there's the two daughters that plied their Father with drink and "lay" with him un hope they could continue the family name too

Ginger

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"

Was he arrested for that hate crime?"

Retaliation to a sexual assault is a hate crime?

Wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Was he arrested for that hate crime?

Retaliation to a sexual assault is a hate crime?

Wow! "

Hate crime debatable, but physical assault is most certainly a crime. Saying this doesn't excuse the person doing the sexual assault of wrongdoing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Being accepting and understanding of someone's sexuality is one thing. Not wanting to fuck that person is something entirely different.

If I don't want to meet a bi man I won't meet him. He can call me homophobic, biphobic, narrow minded, whatever he likes. I still wouldn't fuck him.

Absolutely. Like I've said in each post, everyone has a right to choose who they spend their time with. Likewise, everyone has a right to believe antiquated views are narrow minded."

Agree.

What antiquated views do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Being accepting and understanding of someone's sexuality is one thing. Not wanting to fuck that person is something entirely different.

If I don't want to meet a bi man I won't meet him. He can call me homophobic, biphobic, narrow minded, whatever he likes. I still wouldn't fuck him.

Absolutely. Like I've said in each post, everyone has a right to choose who they spend their time with. Likewise, everyone has a right to believe antiquated views are narrow minded.

Agree.

What antiquated views do you mean?"

That bi-sexuality is wrong, or that bi-sexual (men only, it seems) are prone to disease, or are deviant.

I'm not saying specific people ITT hold this view, but it was mentioned and seems like it is a common enough held belief to warrant calling out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Being accepting and understanding of someone's sexuality is one thing. Not wanting to fuck that person is something entirely different.

If I don't want to meet a bi man I won't meet him. He can call me homophobic, biphobic, narrow minded, whatever he likes. I still wouldn't fuck him.

Absolutely. Like I've said in each post, everyone has a right to choose who they spend their time with. Likewise, everyone has a right to believe antiquated views are narrow minded.

Agree.

What antiquated views do you mean?

That bi-sexuality is wrong, or that bi-sexual (men only, it seems) are prone to disease, or are deviant.

I'm not saying specific people ITT hold this view, but it was mentioned and seems like it is a common enough held belief to warrant calling out."

Fair enough.

I respect their views though. I just won't shag them. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Fair enough.

I respect their views though. I just won't shag them. x"

That's all that's needed I think, respecting others' views, live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had several experiences with bi men messaging us for a mfm threeway and then wanting to play with my male partner (who is completely straight). I also have a relative who used to swing with her straight male partner, and they met a bisexual man on the understanding that there would be no m/m contact at all, but the guy touched him without permission, and he lost it and beat the guy up.

I appreciate that not bisexual men are like that, but it's an issue we just don't want to deal with.

Was he arrested for that hate crime?"

I don't think the guy ever reported it. While I don't agree with the level of violence used (I think removing him from the property would have been enough) he wasn't completely innocent either. What was he going to say? "I met this guy and his girlfriend, they made it very clear that he was straight and didn't want me to touch him under any circumstances, but then he hit me because I fondled his balls."

They were both out of line, IMO.

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By *ike4362ukMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt


"I won't eat sprouts because I don't like them

If ur bi how can u play straight. Seems so egotistical to me"
Very easily. No means no and you must respect that. As a bi man I can enjoy sex with the lady of a couple without having to lech about the guy.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Would u eat a sprout tho

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Could u pretend u like ciggy breath

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


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Was he arrested for that hate crime?

Retaliation to a sexual assault is a hate crime?

Wow!

Hate crime debatable, but physical assault is most certainly a crime. Saying this doesn't excuse the person doing the sexual assault of wrongdoing."

Good luck on finding a jury that will convict a sexual assault victim of assaulting their attacker.

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By *oblovesyouMan
over a year ago

poole


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

The funny thing is that the religious nuts seem ok with Cane and Abel shagging their mother.

Really?!? What page of the New T was that on? I must of missed that bit...

I think you'll find it's in the old testament. Everyone is descended from Adam & Eve who only had sons.

Think about it"

I think you'll find I was taking the piss. So old or new, the burning bush or from the lips of the vicar of Dibley, it's irrelevant where it's from

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough


"Sex is sex. Why can't people just have fun and enjoy without judgement of others? If you dont like one thing then fine, but don't be rude about it "

Well said!

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Walsall

Why would you report someone for saying they think something is disgusting? You asked for opinions...

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By *oblovesyouMan
over a year ago

poole


"Just had a reply from a couple (won’t name and Shame)

Direct quote: “It matters cus itso disgusting god made Adam n eve not Adam n steve SIMPLE”

W O W

Lol there are some total morons on here.

As for not meeting bi. It's because they're bi phobic or ignorant.

Those are two potential reasons, there are others.

... Like, being straight

So you wouldn't fuck a bi fem then?"

Of course I would! I wouldn't fuck a bi guy because I'm straight, not because I'm bi phobic or ignorant

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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think if everyone would get along ,with what they enjoy would be great ! If a profile says white people preferred, I would not start a tread to ask why ! Also I noticed a loads of bi guys , claiming they are straight, but they been with guys ! People are free to decide if they want a bi guy in their dynamic or not ! What is the big deal? Why people trying to break in to people's brain to accept it !

If I read no blacks I just stay way of those profiles ! Is not a big issue! If I don't like strawberry ice cream ,I must to explain why and must to eat it! Hell no!

Does not bother me if a guy is bi, but bothers to same people and I respect that , without question !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if everyone would get along ,with what they enjoy would be great ! If a profile says white people preferred, I would not start a tread to ask why ! Also I noticed a loads of bi guys , claiming they are straight, but they been with guys ! People are free to decide if they want a bi guy in their dynamic or not ! What is the big deal? Why people trying to break in to people's brain to accept it !

If I read no blacks I just stay way of those profiles ! Is not a big issue! If I don't like strawberry ice cream ,I must to explain why and must to eat it! Hell no!

Does not bother me if a guy is bi, but bothers to same people and I respect that , without question !!!"
this pity more dont share a tolerant attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me chuckle too

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By *ilthpotMan
over a year ago

uxbridge

Phew!....doubted myself for a minute then...??

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

No Ur still gay my love

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By *ncandiladoCouple
over a year ago

Dundee


"Makes me laugh when people won't meet bi guys, because the amount of straight guys who mail us each day asking for a bi MMF is staggering and some are well verified to Mrs x"

We experience this too! Surely you can't truely know if someone is straight or bi unless they are honest about it! And how can you verify that? People will tell you exactly what you want to hear to get a meet.

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

I was going to respond to loads on this . Then remembered thread title

No Bi Males .

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By *eanus 2000Man
over a year ago

Marlborough


"There's some big double standards out there.

Fine for a guy to see his woman randomly penetrated in holes various by multiple guys etc but if the blokes ever had his cock touched by another guy....

Ruuuunawaaaay.....uncleann!!!!"

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"There's some big double standards out there.

Fine for a guy to see his woman randomly penetrated in holes various by multiple guys etc but if the blokes ever had his cock touched by another guy....

Ruuuunawaaaay.....uncleann!!!! "
choice

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By *eanus 2000Man
over a year ago

Marlborough

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By *eanus 2000Man
over a year ago

Marlborough


"There's some big double standards out there.

Fine for a guy to see his woman randomly penetrated in holes various by multiple guys etc but if the blokes ever had his cock touched by another guy....

Ruuuunawaaaay.....uncleann!!!! choice "

I agree every one has the right to their own choices I just thought that was a brilliant ending to the post. However I do think some people get way too zellous about whatever choice others make and miss the whole point of swinging and for me it's to relax ,have fun and if all goes well great sex with friendly people regardless of their gender.

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"There's some big double standards out there.

Fine for a guy to see his woman randomly penetrated in holes various by multiple guys etc but if the blokes ever had his cock touched by another guy....

Ruuuunawaaaay.....uncleann!!!! choice

I agree every one has the right to their own choices I just thought that was a brilliant ending to the post. However I do think some people get way too zellous about whatever choice others make and miss the whole point of swinging and for me it's to relax ,have fun and if all goes well great sex with friendly people regardless of their gender."

But that is you ! Swinging means different things for different people ! To enjoy swinging I need to be bisexual for the sake of it ?

! I respect people choices if they don't meet a bi guy they don't ! And they are entitled to have their fun in the way they want !

To me gender is important yes ! If I am looking for a guy is a guy I want end off !

It's all boils down to acceptance ! I don't care what others do ! But I have my own criteria and if people respect great ! If not move on! I won't compromise to please people.

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I know what I want. Don't like fetish don't like watersports. Just coz I'm here for sex doesn't mean I have to shag anyone or try anything I don't have interest in

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By *lackbird1000Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I know what I want. Don't like fetish don't like watersports. Just coz I'm here for sex doesn't mean I have to shag anyone or try anything I don't have interest in"

Totally agree with you ! The priority is to please yourself and your partner if you have one ! You have your standards and I respect that ! Not because you are in this site , you should do what you don't enjoy!

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

I guess not every woman wants to give oral to a jobby jabber... so no not everyone likes bi guys

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Jobby jabber?

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes


"Jobby jabber? "
a bloke who fucks a guys ass, oh and hits the poo. You never heard of a poo being a jobby?

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Turds we call em. Get it now lol

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By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester

I have a question.....

If a guy is curious about being bisexual he may be termed bi-curious.

If he tries bi sexuality and decides he it's not for him, by partaking in the act has he not then already been involved is bisexual sex and in some eyes can therefore no longer be straight even though he doesn't want to be bisexual now that he's no longer bi-curious?

Answers either on a postcard or....

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Christ on a cracker I'm going bed

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

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