FabSwingers.com forum: bbw does size really count

By *incscple OP Couple
over a year ago

boston

We was just wondering does size really matter , were a bbw cpl (f just lost 3 stone ) we are finding iit does guess we all have our preferences though , but when you cant find fun and the only reason is cos the f is bbw its heatbreaking and we only just wanna have sexy fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt have anything to do with size i think. im a bbw - or bigger girl if u like and i get loads of attention on here.never had a problem gettin meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm much bigger and older than you and never had a problem. It's very easy to assume the fault lies with others.

I'm going to be blunt: take the shit off your profile, write something about yourselves so others can judge whether there's a shared interest and you'll be surprised at the difference.

Sorry Ruggers...I'm suffering heat stroke.

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By *incscple OP Couple
over a year ago

boston

yes that was a bit harsh and not needed and as a cpl its slightly different than been a single woman but will take your point but y do u hide your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im BBW and proud, if i wanted to loose a few pounds i could, do i want to? no

do i struggle to get meets? no

has any guy thats met me ran off in horror? no

my profile is honest and people know who and what to expect when they meet me and those who dont want to meet me DONT! simple x

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on yr tastes....some openly advertise for bbw...others like slim to average..im a size 12 so attract guys looking for that size...but hang on in there,and im sure you will get what you are looking for....it just takes time..

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"yes that was a bit harsh and not needed and as a cpl its slightly different than been a single woman but will take your point but y do u hide your profile"

okay.. the point may well have been harsh.. but it was valid...

what I tend to say is this... if the complaint is longer than the profile, then that may be where to start...

nine words.... thats it... your profile is your shop window to go out and sell yourself to the swinging universe... nine words!!!

now hand on heart... would you answer your own profile????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, don't let being a BBW get in your way of having fun - use it to get fun!

There are plenty of folk that actively seek BBW couples.

Have a look through the meet requests and parties section and get yourselves off to a BBW party. These are usually held in clubs, I see you have 'Swingers Clubs' as an interest

There's a BBW night 20th November at Chams in the west midlands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes that was a bit harsh and not needed and as a cpl its slightly different than been a single woman but will take your point but y do u hide your profile"

My profile is hidden as I have a partner, not meeting but like the forums.

If you put "not meeting" people still contact you to meet...easier to hide...if that's ok with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me that if someone was to click on your profile, and compare it with another couple who offer more information about themselves, their likes and dislikes, what they are looking for etc. then they are unlikely to pick you, sorry.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

well done on your 3 stone loss.

you have written 9 words, hardly selling yourself to others.

Craft an improved profile selling yourself and being clear with what you are looking for.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I'm much bigger and older than you and never had a problem. It's very easy to assume the fault lies with others.

I'm going to be blunt: take the shit off your profile, write something about yourselves so others can judge whether there's a shared interest and you'll be surprised at the difference.

Sorry Ruggers...I'm suffering heat stroke.

i'm with Sassy...what on earth is that pic meant to tell us about you

No way wud i want to meet someone who cant string a few words together about their likes/dislkes and what they are looking for.

And why does the fact her profile is hidden matter...she didnt start the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't think it is anything to do with you being BBW.... I have never had a problem (quite the opposite) and have had some wonderful meets, and I am larger lady... more to do with your profile I guess... make it so that people want to know more about you, make it appealing to others! Good luck

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By *incscple OP Couple
over a year ago

boston

ok guys thank you for all your comments whether we liked that or not but taken all your points on board please take another look as i have just altered it for the better i think your opininons would be appreciated allie phil

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Much better...now people have some sense of who you are !

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think it is much better but I would take off 47 and bbw.... you make it sound like being a 'bbw' is what defines you.

You are honest later on and mention it... but don't make it central to everything.

good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok guys thank you for all your comments whether we liked that or not but taken all your points on board please take another look as i have just altered it for the better i think your opininons would be appreciated allie phil"

Its really good!

See!

And, a few more comma's and grammar sorted and you are there, I wish you much fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Much better...now people have some sense of who you are !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey guys sorry to hear your having problems personally i love bbws and iam also local to you so dont let that get to you like most on here have said it probably was your profile as i had some teething problems with mine and just making some slight tweaks has made all the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liking it...well done you.

You come across as fun people to meet.

Good luck to you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt see the previous profile but your profile seems fine to me.

I personally wouldnt write things like - Im BBW and if you dont like it move on. It almost feels like an apology that you are a bigger lady.

Dont apologise for what you are, noone here is better than you. Be proud of your looks, your size, your style. People will move on if they dont like you, there is no point highlighting it to indicate that you expect them to move on and not like you.

Be confident and have fun xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Think your profile reads fine.

Best Wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does size matter? (hold on I thought it was only single blokes that wrote these posts?). It does and it doesnt, size is not an issue when it comes to sex (the actual physical aspect), unless there is a limitation in the number of positions that can be achieved....

Why do I say this, aha! I come from the opposite end of the spectrum (congratulations on your recent weight loss by the way, its the way to a healthy heart), as a skinny fella, if the lady is very large, it can be difficult to find a "comfortable" position, sounds mad, but I have been there....

Now to be fair, it isnt the ladies fault and it isnt my fault, its just the way things are, if the position that is most accommodating (usually doggy) for this scenario is unavailable due to discomfort, then, yes, size does matter...

I think that was all a bit random, but genuinely, I did know what I was going to say, and it all makes sense to me.

I am sure you will have many happy meets, for every saucer there is a teacup

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I know i play as a single but away from this site i play with my partner as well. I was a size 26 and NEVER had a problem with guys. Im now a size 18 and the guys i know well are complaining (in a nice way) that im dissappearing. Guys are attracted to all kinds of people some like slim some like large.

Have you thought about putting some photos on in sexy lingerie that might appeal to those that are looking for couples with a larger female.

Good luck

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