FabSwingers.com forum: Persistance for a single guy at clubs pays off?

By *ugbylad121 OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I've been to loads of clubs. Chameleons in the midlands and Newport, The Office, Ab Fabs etc. I know single guys sometimes get a bad rap.

I'm not one of these guys that will follows couples and women everywhere. I'll get talking in the bar area or give them their space

But I've seen guys that follow and do get action straight away and before u know it a girl is sucking off ten fellas

So is it fair to give single guys a bad deal when persistence and following around sometimes pays off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what makes you happy.

Some like to be seduced by the men and some prefer men not to exist at all.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

You've not been there when we've been in a club. I've been known to take the whole lot on. We goto clubs to play to the max. It takes time, effort, money, work diaries, and mn on hols to plan a club. We have no local clubs. So when we go we love the single men.

Although we still have to say no to the unclean (not seen soap for 6 months) and one ir two others. But it's mainly game on.

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By *ugbylad121 OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

You've got the paradise in Bournemouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've got the paradise in Bournemouth "

Are you saying he's guaranteed sex there?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I prefer to chat & get to know people - but whatever approach suits you OP. Best thing is to be yourself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I think is important is to get to know people first maybe have a chat and see how we hit it off and get on

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By *hrisANtifCouple
over a year ago

Napoli, Italy

Everyone’s different to be honest! Following couples and females around can work very well if that’s what they are looking for, on the other hand some couples / females prefer to go upstairs with people they have chatted to for abit and got to know! Then there are couples that flit in between! Personally we tend towards the latter, however, on a couple of occasions we have been known to beckon a single guy into our play just because he’s happened to be standing there watching and tifs found him attractive! Judge your audience is probably the best advice! X

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"You've got the paradise in Bournemouth

Are you saying he's guaranteed sex there?"

His comment was to a couple that said they had no local clubs, nobody said anything about guaranteed sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You've not been there when we've been in a club. I've been known to take the whole lot on. We goto clubs to play to the max. It takes time, effort, money, work diaries, and mn on hols to plan a club. We have no local clubs. So when we go we love the single men.

Although we still have to say no to the unclean (not seen soap for 6 months) and one ir two others. But it's mainly game on. "

Bang on same here and they are great places to fulfill your wildest fantasies x

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

I hate the lurkers who are pretending not to watch! If you are going to watch, look like you are enjoying what you see, catch my eye! Something might happen! I didn't attend a swinging club for a cuddle, I am there for something particular! I am also not playing in public and expecting people to watch!

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