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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what do people think of people looking for cuckold/hotwife fun but they are all singles ?? how does that work ?? I thought you had to be in a relationship for these things to be built on trust and love yet everyday there's people looking for instant cuckold play or hot wife yet not a real wife ? ..please im not knocking it if it works then great but just wondering how it works ? taken us 19 years of swinging and playing (often) to get were we are today totally at ease with each other and 100% trust n love yep some singles can do it just like that they cant be getting the same feelings surely ? ...don't forget im not knocking it just wondering what your getting from it I guess.. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm maybe some singles enjoy being part of a situation where they meet cuckold/hotwife couples? I certainly enjoy such fun.. But not sure if that's what you mean..

Singles looking for other singles to join where they're playing with another lady is a bit weird as I guess you're right in that you need to build the right mental state and trust over a while for you to play 'hotwife/cuckold' as part of a couple

On a separate note, great profile.. I'd love to know how you guys started your swinging adventures / moved onto cuckold / hotwife play x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nope I mean all singles playing no couples involved ? like 3 singles getting together for cuck fun yet no one is in a relationship or hotwife fun when no one is a real wife or hubs ?

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre

Only way it works for singles is role play. Its impossible for them to be cuck or hotwife . Simple as that. Though a single guy could ask for or prefer a cuck hotwife scenario as HE would be the single guy obviously.

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By *mallcock43Man
over a year ago

blackpool

Is there much of a difference between Hotwife and cuck. I would love my wife to be a Hotwife but I don’t want to be a cuck. Yes I love the thought of watching her have sex. What I don’t want is to be a second class citizen if you know what I mean

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By *ants_Nerdy_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Havant


"Is there much of a difference between Hotwife and cuck. I would love my wife to be a Hotwife but I don’t want to be a cuck. Yes I love the thought of watching her have sex. What I don’t want is to be a second class citizen if you know what I mean "

Yes, a big difference. I very much enjoy sharing Mrs Nerdy (or rather letting her enjoy herself with another man) but I'm not into humiliation at all.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

It’s not a scenario that we recognise and went through this a bit last year and I even posted something similar.

Our understanding of having a cuck / hotwife has to involve a couple in a relationship because the mental connection and dynamics wouldn’t be the same with singles who would at best be attempting to role play the situation.

We had a few guys wanting to come and be cuck which we didn’t appreciate. We are a sub / dom couple so the mental connection exists between us and as the sub I don’t want to role play a relationship that doesn’t exist with a play cuck.

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By *mallcock43Man
over a year ago

blackpool


"Is there much of a difference between Hotwife and cuck. I would love my wife to be a Hotwife but I don’t want to be a cuck. Yes I love the thought of watching her have sex. What I don’t want is to be a second class citizen if you know what I mean

Yes, a big difference. I very much enjoy sharing Mrs Nerdy (or rather letting her enjoy herself with another man) but I'm not into humiliation at all."

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By *eADevilCouple
over a year ago

Blantyre


"It’s not a scenario that we recognise and went through this a bit last year and I even posted something similar.

Our understanding of having a cuck / hotwife has to involve a couple in a relationship because the mental connection and dynamics wouldn’t be the same with singles who would at best be attempting to role play the situation.

We had a few guys wanting to come and be cuck which we didn’t appreciate. We are a sub / dom couple so the mental connection exists between us and as the sub I don’t want to role play a relationship that doesn’t exist with a play cuck. "

The guys who contacted you probably meant having fun with you while hubby watched lol not watch you have sex with someone else while they watch .

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

Doesn't work cuckokding there has to be trust a sense of being owned, if you don't know eachother, none of that comes in to play it's just three people with one being bossy

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

From the messages I recieve, i really think people who understand the dynamic are few and far between.

They see a picture of my husband in chastity and still ask his permission to fuck me! For me, being a Hotwife is about sexual freedom without this permission!

I also think being a Hotwife needs the 'wife' or at least 'significant other' relationship as its about how he treats me before and after a meet as well as during....The idolising, the teasing between us, the making him so horny that he could f*ck the wall

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"It’s not a scenario that we recognise and went through this a bit last year and I even posted something similar.

Our understanding of having a cuck / hotwife has to involve a couple in a relationship because the mental connection and dynamics wouldn’t be the same with singles who would at best be attempting to role play the situation.

We had a few guys wanting to come and be cuck which we didn’t appreciate. We are a sub / dom couple so the mental connection exists between us and as the sub I don’t want to role play a relationship that doesn’t exist with a play cuck.

The guys who contacted you probably meant having fun with you while hubby watched lol not watch you have sex with someone else while they watch ."

Yeah I’m sure. But my other half is my Dom and he doesn’t want to sit on the side

The whole scene was wrong for us.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Thinking we need the ultimate variations of the hotwife thread considering all the different types we seem to inevitabley have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get many guys message me saying they want to watch me being f@&ked and clean up like a cuck so I suppose people just throw the term around a bit freely without really understanding them, I would say you have to be in a long term relationship to actually have either of these "labels" as to me singles would just be subs I suppose

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"From the messages I recieve, i really think people who understand the dynamic are few and far between.

They see a picture of my husband in chastity and still ask his permission to fuck me! For me, being a Hotwife is about sexual freedom without this permission!

I also think being a Hotwife needs the 'wife' or at least 'significant other' relationship as its about how he treats me before and after a meet as well as during....The idolising, the teasing between us, the making him so horny that he could f*ck the wall "

Yes I get this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried this scenario a couple of times with a girl on Fabs who I wasn't in a relationship with.

I love the cuckold dynamic and accept that it would be more intense within a long term relationship because of the emotions involved.

We all had some amazing fun and if any other singles like the idea than I'd say go for it!

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