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Keeping anything back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondered whether anyone keeps anything back sexually specifically for their partner. I know some couples don’t kiss on meets (fair enough), but do you think it’s important to keep something sexual just for you and your loved one. Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the dynamic of the realtionship and what both of you discussed I assume.

I personally would allow my gf to meet other ladies on her own but not guys.

P.S. I keep thinking you're in your early 20's because of the profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered whether anyone keeps anything back sexually specifically for their partner. I know some couples don’t kiss on meets (fair enough), but do you think it’s important to keep something sexual just for you and your loved one. Thoughts? "

Before I lost my full time partner and love we would say anything goes on a meet (apart from 3 p's). We didnt feel the need to keep anything back simply because for us there was a huge difference between us making love together and playing for sensual sexy fun with other people. The first was loving intimate and 'special' the latter was simply for fun. They were 2 totally different things.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Anal is our exclusive.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's up to each couple. It ranges from keeping nothing back to just fucking in the same room with own partner contact only.

I think it's great that there's room for us all.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Anal is our exclusive. "

This for us too

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Anal is just for hubby

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Anal is our exclusive.

This for us too "

Oh so we’re common then !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered whether anyone keeps anything back sexually specifically for their partner. I know some couples don’t kiss on meets (fair enough), but do you think it’s important to keep something sexual just for you and your loved one. Thoughts? "

Yes anal, amd fisting

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

For me I don’t sleep with women I mean fuck or top guys. I do play with couples but I’m always the reciever The giving is strictly for my loving wife x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the maid wants to fuck another man she is free do do as she wishes sexual with him, as long as.

She tells me what she did

Condoms are used

She does not give him her submission

Otherwise she can fuck another guy in what ever way gives her pleasure

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Anal is our exclusive.

This for us too "

Same. And bareback. I wouldn’t have a theeesome unles G was involved either, but that’s more because I wouldn’t want him to miss out!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotions

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Anal is our exclusive.

This for us too

Same. And bareback. I wouldn’t have a theeesome unles G was involved either, but that’s more because I wouldn’t want him to miss out!! "

Ah yes of course - bareback the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Emotions"

Second that!

I keep the deep and passionate stuff for Mr. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotions and anal x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Emotions"

Totally agree...big difference between making love and sexual playtimes

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

I think it is very important, if not essential, to keep something for you and the one you love or the one you want to share your deepest intimacy with.

If you do not, in my opinion, sex loses all its sense and essence and it somehow becomes mechanical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intimacy. The meets we have had have been great but the sex after it is so different. If you watched our mmf you wouldn't know which one was my hubby x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think it is very important, if not essential, to keep something for you and the one you love or the one you want to share your deepest intimacy with.

If you do not, in my opinion, sex loses all its sense and essence and it somehow becomes mechanical. "

I think most couples in certain relationships keep the deep intimacy of love for themselves at least. I'm not so sure about fwb or fb couples who have just teamed up for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We most definitely do, as previously stated, some things are reserved exclusively for our bedroom frolics, with other people it's gratuitous fun and play.

We have our boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the dynamic of the realtionship and what both of you discussed I assume.

I personally would allow my gf to meet other ladies on her own but not guys.

P.S. I keep thinking you're in your early 20's because of the profile pic "

But you can’t see me in the pic. Maybe that’s why haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting.. ours seems to be anal and bareback I think.

We’ve never been a couple that ‘makes love’ as the phrase makes me feel a little icky for some reason. So our sex together has always been rather carnal.

The cuddling after and the sharing of a bed for the night is probably also what we keep for only us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to stop sucking cock unless he does oral on me .This is starting to annoy me about some men .What's other people's thoughts about this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback is just for us as well.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Bareback is just for us as well. "
the same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You talking about one guy in particular or all meets?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"If the maid wants to fuck another man she is free do do as she wishes sexual with him, as long as.

She tells me what she did

Condoms are used

She does not give him her submission

Otherwise she can fuck another guy in what ever way gives her pleasure"

Think the telling is so important for keeping trust.

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