FabSwingers.com forum: Ignorant

By *illy big bollox OP Man
over a year ago

Newark

What really pisses me off, is that you send a really nice polite message to a woman.

And they just delete you without a no thanks or not interested.

If guys do this it is classed as rude or offensive.

A polite yes or no would suffice

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Delete this quick. Thank me later.

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By *illy big bollox OP Man
over a year ago

Newark

Oh no I have broad shoulders lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete this quick. Thank me later."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete this quick. Thank me later."

Sound advice, good man

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Delete this quick. Thank me later."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh no I have broad shoulders lol"

Because I can ignore any message I want!

I get hundreds a day so should I message them all back? No!! Plus your profile doesn't excite me so yes I'd ignore and delete too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck OP

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Tin hat time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they dont have to answer

do you reply to unwanted mail thru your letter box

man up n move on

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Oh no I have broad shoulders lol"

Ya gonna need yer big danglies more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they dont have to answer

do you reply to unwanted mail thru your letter box

man up n move on "

This

Class it has junk mail!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"What really pisses me off, is that you send a really nice polite message to a woman.

And they just delete you without a no thanks or not interested.

If guys do this it is classed as rude or offensive.

A polite yes or no would suffice"
Familiarise yourself with the site FAQ’s op. No reply = not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh no I have broad shoulders lol"

You will need them...should have taken advice from first reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uuuugggghhhhh........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus your married which also puts folks off.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Delete this quick. Thank me later."

Too late

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

How do you think that Nigerian General feels OP? He can't even give away all his millions despite all his wonderfully crafted emails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you use the forum search feature you'll find this is a brand new topic that no-one has ever thought of discussing*

*today anyway

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Plus your married which also puts folks off. "

O christ alive. It's gonna go right off now!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"If you use the forum search feature you'll find this is a brand new topic that no-one has ever thought of discussing*

*today anyway"

Actually......

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I’m trying a new tack.

Yes OP you are correct. Rude and ignorant the lot of them. What do you propose to stop this? Compulsory answering or their account is deleted?

Just think of all the messsges you’d receive then. I haven’t looked at your profile btw, but here’s some possible examples.

Fuck off you’re too old

Sorry I don’t meet cheaters

You’re gay - not for me

You think I meet fatties

No ta, I read your compulsory verifications that say you don’t use deodorant.

Which of those do you like most ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plus your married which also puts folks off.

O christ alive. It's gonna go right off now!"

I really know how to put the boot in

He did say he had broad shoulders, funny he's not come back though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't even have a picture on your profile OP. Women get a lot of messages, unfortunately, if I were to respond to every nice message I recievde, I'd be doing admin work, not actually enjoying this site and would likely leave.

A no response is a person's way of saying no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh no I have broad shoulders lol

Because I can ignore any message I want!

I get hundreds a day so should I message them all back? No!! Plus your profile doesn't excite me so yes I'd ignore and delete too! "

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had guys ignore or delete my messages. I assume they're not interested, so I continue my search.

I'd most likely ignore your message as I'm not meeting married men. I used to reply with a thanks, but no thanks, but I always get pestered as to why, or get insulted. Fat Slag is the most popular insult

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Women can get hundreds of messages. You cannot reasonably expect a reply however, if you Do, consider it a bonus.

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

i learnt pretty quick not to send e.mails as your most prob wasting your time, if they want you they will find you if not go to a club meet people in person

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Plus your married which also puts folks off.

O christ alive. It's gonna go right off now!

I really know how to put the boot in

He did say he had broad shoulders, funny he's not come back though! "

With steel toe caps haha

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By *ally_weaverMan
over a year ago

Stoneyburn

I love when people who admit to cheating are doing so to be 'honest'. Lol all that honesty flowing your partners way.

obviously this is a general comment and no way relating to the OP. You stick at it tiger.

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

OP may have a point, But should realise the shear volume of messages we get, to answer them all would be a full time job and I've given my secretary the week off!

Saying thatif it's a typical"Fancy a fuck"

message then just delete.

If on the other hand someone has read your profile and crafts a nice message then I try to answer it.

But cant get to them all..sorry in advance

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Delete this quick. Thank me later."

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete this quick. Thank me later."

Agreed ....unless he likes being dissed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women on here get 100’s of messages per day. Even more messages than I get from Nigerian princes wanting my sort code and account number.

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

One other thing you should know, sort of related, If we leave the PM up when on cam the screen fills up with messages,I mean fills right up and you cant even answer one because they all go on top of each other. it's impossible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a profile has no pics, I don't care what's written, I won't be reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a status saying not meeting so no reply.... Still getting messages and abuse when I delete them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really pisses me off, is that you send a really nice polite message to a woman.

And they just delete you without a no thanks or not interested.

If guys do this it is classed as rude or offensive.

A polite yes or no would suffice"

Are you sure it’s classed as rude or offensive why guys do this? I don’t think you are correct there.

Mrs

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By *illy big bollox OP Man
over a year ago

Newark

Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.

Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.

A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.

I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to open a message to check the pics. If there's nothing on the profile to interest me then I won't be reading the message.

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By *ally_weaverMan
over a year ago

Stoneyburn

"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.

Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.

A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.

I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"

Does your wife know? Because if she did, then that would be honest x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.

Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.

A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.

I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"

Aha aha aha. Oh fuck that’s so funny. Bless your little cotton socks op and well done for reading through and taking the time to understand everyone that’s been decent enough to reply to you.

We shouldn’t have bothered

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Strange sense of deja vu today.......

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/718568

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.

Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.

A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.

I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"

Are you "very honest" with your wife about being on here?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've had abuse for doing just that today OP. Really no need.

He sent 4 messages, borderline pestering...which I don't like...I replied along the lines that I wasn't obligated to reply to any of his messages which he should take as an 'I'm not interested' as per fabs guidelines.

Before I read messages I look at the profile, if they're too far away, can't accommodate or a short arse I usually don't bother replying because clearly they haven't taken 2 minutes to read my profile to see what sort of guy I'm looking for. I actually find that quite rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you reply to every junk mail through your letter box

No, why should we reply to every message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wish this had been raised before!!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I just wish this had been raised before!!

Hold on. I’ll PM you links to some previous ones. Shouldn’t take long if I start now I may finish before bedtime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wish this had been raised before!!

Hold on. I’ll PM you links to some previous ones. Shouldn’t take long if I start now I may finish before bedtime. "

Which bedtime

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I just wish this had been raised before!!

Hold on. I’ll PM you links to some previous ones. Shouldn’t take long if I start now I may finish before bedtime.

Which bedtime

I was only planning on doing the last 24 hours

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

It's beyond belief really. You're dead against lying and cheating regarding the good folk of FAB. It's something you'd never do. It's a shame you don't find it necessary to afford your wife the same courtesy.

Also, you seem very flippant with the "if being married scuppers things on here" for you opener, but here you are having a right old whinge about not getting what you want and what you feel is owed to you from members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wish this had been raised before!!

Hold on. I’ll PM you links to some previous ones. Shouldn’t take long if I start now I may finish before bedtime. "

Well if you insist, can we do the bareback debate next!!!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I just wish this had been raised before!!

Hold on. I’ll PM you links to some previous ones. Shouldn’t take long if I start now I may finish before bedtime.

Well if you insist, can we do the bareback debate next!!!

You like a full box then

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.

Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.

A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.

I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"

Seriously if we get 100's a day we should have the decency to reply?? Ffs get real!! Read the FAQ.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the effort I put in my messages along I deserve to smash. Otherwise they're just being rude

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.

Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.

A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.

I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!

Seriously if we get 100's a day we should have the decency to reply?? Ffs get real!! Read the FAQ. "

I’ve honestly never seen a guy daft enough to start a thread like this, post that. It’s almost worthy of the B word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open your mail box to men. Let them inundate you with meet requests and see how many you don't reply to because they don't fit what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is written rejection so important to you?

Have you responded to all the junk mail that comes through your door.

If a response is so important to you then on behalf of all the women who have rejected you past, present and future .. no thanks

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.

Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.

A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.

I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"

FFS Entitlement much?

Sometimes I do wonder how some people have the audacity to type what they do and if they actually believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the effort I put in my messages along I deserve to smash. Otherwise they're just being rude "

Smash

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By *azkinsWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Does anyone else see the irony.?

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By *illy big bollox OP Man
over a year ago

Newark

Thank you for all your kind replies (not)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly happy to be called rude and ignorant by those I've no interest in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, you haven’t replied to everyone who took the time to post on your thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perfectly happy to be called rude and ignorant by those I've no interest in.

Me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP what is the maximum amount of messages you would reply to on a daily basis, and how much time on a daily basis would you be prepared to spend replying to messages?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And today's fab award for shooting yourself in both feet goes to..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delete this quick. Thank me later."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really pisses me off, is that you send a really nice polite message to a woman.

And they just delete you without a no thanks or not interested.

If guys do this it is classed as rude or offensive.

A polite yes or no would suffice"

Obviously the recipient doesn't find your advances as nice and polite as you think.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Oh dear OP. Done yourself no favours with this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have just wondered into one of the most violent plains I have ever come across.. the fab forums, mars was quite volatile but this place.. good luck OP

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

How long do you think it takes to reply to 100 messages?

Then whilst your messaging 100 more come in because youre online

Then because you've replied to some they respond asking why

You'd be messaging all day! No time for a job, or kids, unless of course you miss sleep just to keep the unsolicited message senders sweet

Fuck that shit. I couldnt even be arsed to repky to 10 that dont interest me or havnt read my profile, let alone that many

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"And today's fab award for shooting yourself in both feet goes to..

Don’t be hasty, there are other contenders.

Give them enough rope ....

In fact today is a first for me. Usually I’m mesmerised by posts of single women and couples. Single guys have got the gold today!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Why on earth would it really piss you off?! Life is too short to worry about people not messaging you specifically to tell you that they have zero interest in fucking you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is written rejection so important to you?

Have you responded to all the junk mail that comes through your door.

If a response is so important to you then on behalf of all the women who have rejected you past, present and future .. no thanks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the effort I put in my messages along I deserve to smash. Otherwise they're just being rude

Smash

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yea smash that pussy so hard the neighbours call the rspca

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"Op, you haven’t replied to everyone who took the time to post on your thread"

Now this is a very valid point

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By *parkle7Woman
over a year ago

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I can't possibly reply to all the messages I get - and I clearly state I am Not looking to meet out of a club or party - unless I know you but still get asked to meet at ur hotel or wherever......why should I reply when most don't bother to read my profile or want to be the exception!!!

Then if I do respond with a simple 'no thanks' I get questioned on why not or abuse because of the rejection.....

If my new response offends you OP then feel free to block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the effort I put in my messages along I deserve to smash. Otherwise they're just being rude

Smash

yea smash that pussy so hard the neighbours call the rspca "

Great filter for trolls

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I don't think the Op has done himself no favours , he is expressing himself, there is nothing wrong with that Op , Op look, you can have an opinion as long as you are not an inconveniece to anybody.

Infact lets take it to level 2, instead of messaging the ladies and waiting for a reply ,learn how to get the ladies to chase you and you be the one making the choice , how about that.

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath

"How do you think that Nigerian General feels OP? He can't even give away all his millions despite all his wonderfully crafted emails

Brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the effort I put in my messages along I deserve to smash. Otherwise they're just being rude

Smash

yea smash that pussy so hard the neighbours call the rspca

Great filter for trolls"
yeah I hate them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you think that Nigerian General feels OP? He can't even give away all his millions despite all his wonderfully crafted emails

Brilliant.

Or the ppi calls

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Thanks for the giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perfectly happy to be called rude and ignorant by those I've no interest in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.

Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.

A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.

I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"

I'd believe that sentiment more if you'd replied to every comment individually OP, rather than blanket reply. Priceless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really pisses me off, is that you send a really nice polite message to a woman.

And they just delete you without a no thanks or not interested.

If guys do this it is classed as rude or offensive.

A polite yes or no would suffice"

I'll just say a polite no now then...there, does that feel better?

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