FabSwingers.com forum: private messages

By *elen Hewie OP Couple
over a year ago

Gateshead

Does any one answer messages anymore, we sent a few out and they have just been ignored.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Does any one answer messages anymore, we sent a few out and they have just been ignored. "

No......

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Point is did you say anything interesting...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

If I am very honest, you guys give off a negative vibe. You are always questioning if people are genuine.

I mean no offence but that may be why...

good luck x

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

we do try answere every message, but sometimes they get very trying if it's the, hi how's u, however i think if someone takes the time to write a message, and has obviously read the profile would be very rude not to reply even with a simple sorry but not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the message is unsolicited, then I do not believe I have to reply.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"Does any one answer messages anymore, we sent a few out and they have just been ignored. "
just read ur profile, i see u tell people u will ignore them if they message u and dont meet wot ur lookin maybe others have done same after readin and decided no to reply, i'm not judgin ur choice just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does any one answer messages anymore, we sent a few out and they have just been ignored. just read ur profile, i see u tell people u will ignore them if they message u and dont meet wot ur lookin maybe others have done same after readin and decided no to reply, i'm not judgin ur choice just an observation"

Have to take your word for it...all the SHOUTING put me off!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Does any one answer messages anymore, we sent a few out and they have just been ignored. "
Having just read your profile Im sure quite a few are put off by it.. and the rest dont fit the very precise criteria you have set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow having looked at your profile you come accross as very agressive. its your way or no way and shouting like you do in your prife too.

we thought swinging was about relaxed people enjoying the fruits of life and going with the flow. Not a military regiment

Also double standards as has been mentioned you will ignor ppl who do not meet what you are looking for but piss & whine when they do the same.

just relax and enjoy.

peace & love

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think people might be too scared to reply after reading the profile, just in case they got shouted at..it does come across as a wee bit stroppy & demanding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read the profile...def scared me!!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

LOL +1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if we got a message we would just delete it after looking at your profile you come accoss as very aggresive and angry also like others have said its your way or no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if we got a message we would just delete it after looking at your profile you come accoss as very aggresive and angry also like others have said its your way or no way

+ two

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

"if we got a message we would just delete it after looking at your profile you come accoss as very aggresive and angry also like others have said its your way or no way

+1,0000

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

got to agree with other posters, too agressive and that is off putting tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, yours is the most aggressive and demanding profile I've seen on this site for a while, no wonder no one has replied as yet!! I'd change it, thought I was being a bit over the top on mine, not now lol

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By *axonsfunCouple
over a year ago

durham

we started off being nice and explaining why we said no, but its time we dont have . so now we just reply to those that i like . sax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile is aggressive and a little at odds with the description of yourselves as being 'easy going'.

The specifics and the negative tones will make your search limited. Its your profile and this is what you demand and that is completely fine, but it will attract a far limited audience than a friendly positive profile would

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By *istress ValeporcaCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

after first few lines of the shouting and aggressive demanding I would give up and delete x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy shit, no idea what you say in messages but would you reply to a profile like yours?

Think I need counselling after _iewing it.....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Does any one answer messages anymore, we sent a few out and they have just been ignored. "

ok how to answrt this within the rules...

A hypothetical couple started chatting, and you didnt reply cos there were a few days between messages, kids work and life getting in the way.....

just suggesting a scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does any one answer messages anymore, we sent a few out and they have just been ignored. "

Yes i have just replied to 30 and have another 99 to go. It all depends upon how many someone receives as it is not always possible to reply to all.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

scary

We wouldnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I want people messaging anymore anyway after some idiot just posted private messages between myself another female and him on my one liners thread! All because we didnt want to meet him as he didnt seem right for us.. Sorry fab just deleted that thread after I reported the fool!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Never send messages, always let 'em cum to me.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Not sure if you have edited your profile after the comments above....

But I don't find your profile that aggressive, reads like lots of others that I have seen on here.

Some people reply to mail, some don't, perhaps some are just busy and will get back to you at a later date.

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By *elen Hewie OP Couple
over a year ago

Gateshead

WE have edited it. hope people like it now

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

"WE have edited it. hope people like it now"

Mmmmm? I've no idea what your profile was like before but I still find it quite aggressive and demanding. So much so that by the time I'd got halfway I'd already given up and decided you weren't for me. Shame because you look fine but I'd be very worried about meeting you because it seems it's all to do with what you want, like it or lump it.

I'd also get rid of all the remining caps … it's unnecessary and reads oddly. A much softer approach might be better, describing yourselves as people and less as how you fuck, and how you'd like other people to.

Just a thought.

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