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"The odd message can pass back and forwards and then you say, "Fancy meeting?" Silence. Why do 90%? Bottle it? Talk the talk springs to mind." That the pure fact of people using this as a way to walk off to. | |||
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 . That could be because I'm a single female though, so the dynamics are different | |||
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"If it was only the odd message back and forth then someone asked for a meet, I've backed off before too. I suppose it depends on if someone is looking for a quick meet or not. The safety issue comes into play, also. I've always liked to get to know someone first and for them to be of the same mindset . That could be because I'm a single female though, so the dynamics are different "Not into the long game and picture swoping. Just meet for a drink and say hi, no pressure, take it from there. | |||
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"If it was only the odd message back and forth then someone asked for a meet, I've backed off before too. I suppose it depends on if someone is looking for a quick meet or not. The safety issue comes into play, also. I've always liked to get to know someone first and for them to be of the same mindset . That could be because I'm a single female though, so the dynamics are different "Not a gender thing at all, not in my case anyway (although "get" that the safety aspect is possibly more of a factor for ladies) - unless it was someone that was a regular forum poster who I'd got a feel (and liking) for through their posts I'd back off too (and have done so) if a meet was suggested in the first couple of messages, especially if those messages were quick back and forth chatty type things. Definitely need to build a rapport, connection and chemistry somehow before I'll consider meeting  | |||
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"If it was only the odd message back and forth then someone asked for a meet, I've backed off before too. I suppose it depends on if someone is looking for a quick meet or not. The safety issue comes into play, also. I've always liked to get to know someone first and for them to be of the same mindset . That could be because I'm a single female though, so the dynamics are different
Not into the long game and picture swoping. Just meet for a drink and say hi, no pressure, take it from there."And there's nothing wrong with that approach either if that's what you're comfortable with and prefer - guess the key is finding others with a similar approach | |||
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"If it was only the odd message back and forth then someone asked for a meet, I've backed off before too. I suppose it depends on if someone is looking for a quick meet or not. The safety issue comes into play, also. I've always liked to get to know someone first and for them to be of the same mindset . That could be because I'm a single female though, so the dynamics are different
Not into the long game and picture swoping. Just meet for a drink and say hi, no pressure, take it from there.
And there's nothing wrong with that approach either if that's what you're comfortable with and prefer - guess the key is finding others with a similar approach "Put it this way, quick message to a guy and Mrs Littlesox at her s getting fucked as we speak. Hopefully she will have a few pictures!! | |||
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