FabSwingers.com forum: Submissive side!

By *aughtybooy OP Man
over a year ago

maidstone

Hi all it's a bit late but happy New year. This is open to all but the questions are aimed at female's reading this, I've recently been having new experiences with my gorgeous FB ! She is fully submissive and loves the fact that I now own her! The questions are ... do all women enjoy being sub? Is it a natural turn on for you? Or is it a big fat no no for some ladies? I only ask as it's definitely a new thing I want to explore deeper but not sure if it's standard behaviour to start telling future partners I want to fully own her. Lol

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Its not standard at all. You will only find the true answers out by talking to her

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Treat people as individuals. Women are not like The Stepford Wives, some will love it, some will be persuaded, some will hate it, some may just tell you where to go.

Personally, I like ‘playing’ sub, it’s not a lifestyle for us, it’s just a bit of sexual role play when the mood takes us. There’s no way my Husband would ‘own’ me, despite us being together for 25 years.

Communication is key.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations on the start of your journey.

Just remember she allows you to own her. Don't abuse that priveledge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Congratulations on the start of your journey.

Just remember she allows you to own her. Don't abuse that priveledge!"

How very true !

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Of course all women don't enjoy it OP.

I don't mind it as in role playing but no man will ever own me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Congratulations on the start of your journey.

Just remember she allows you to own her. Don't abuse that priveledge!

How very true !

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on this journey. Communication is the key driver. Understanding her state of mind as this is where true dominance begins. Unlocking the biggest sexual organ in the body. I've found a useful way to understand how she is feeling is through a journal. We have a WhatsApp group that I monitor. I don't comment at all just observe. I've started a thread in the advice section which explains further

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Please don't assume all of a gender are submissive any more than you should assume all of a gender are bi.

People are individual.

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By *addyandbabyCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

"Hi all it's a bit late but happy New year. This is open to all but the questions are aimed at female's reading this, I've recently been having new experiences with my gorgeous FB ! She is fully submissive and loves the fact that I now own her! The questions are ... do all women enjoy being sub? Is it a natural turn on for you? Or is it a big fat no no for some ladies? I only ask as it's definitely a new thing I want to explore deeper but not sure if it's standard behaviour to start telling future partners I want to fully own her. Lol"

I’m sure there are just as many dominant women out there as submissive and just as many who are not interested in either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all women are submissive. Im (M - female) Domme, sub or vanilla depending on the interaction and who with.... however in I'm sub in our relationship.

The thing with D/s is submission is a gift that should be cherished. As much as S is my Master therefore he owns me, he never abuses that power and makes decisions for us based on what we have communicated and negotiated between us.

Good luck in your journey of discovering your inner Dominant.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Hey, recognition is a fantastic start, to me, and it is just my thoughts, if you can fully understand the psychology around Millers 7 +/- 2 theory you are there in understanding things like fractionation, sub space and drop.

Both of you have so much fun in your adventure.

Create your own dynamic... not a mythic conversation.

Have fun.!

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