FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever shied away from a meet( with someone you fancied the fuck out of) simply because you weren't feeling a 100% fit to do the job on the day?

I mean, I am not exactly unwell but I am simply feeling a bit "not there" and don't wish to risk "losing the fight". How do you communicate this without coming across as a time waster?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a meet that is already arranged and about to happen quite soon?

If you cancel at the last minute this could annoy the person In question and could ruin your chances or rearranging for the future.

If it’s some time off, just explain you’re not feeling 100% lately and would it be possible to reschedule for a slightly later date. Unless this is a regular occurrence, I would have no problem with this.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the truth and hope they don't think you a timewaster. Simple.

By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd go for it, that veri is needed, explain you are not on top form.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is this a meet that is already arranged and about to happen quite soon?

If you cancel at the last minute this could annoy the person In question and could ruin your chances or rearranging for the future.

Friend on here, been chatting for a while. Never met. Been asked if I fancy a meet and I can see the have a meet up. Gutted.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If nothing has been arranged don’t be the one to volunteer for the meet. Wait until you’re on top form.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had guys postpone a meet for that exact reason. No problem at all. I'd rather they do that than go at it half heartedly.