FabSwingers.com forum: Them verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not all but most verifications on single girls and couples profiles end with ‘ be respectful with this lady’ or ‘ treat her with respect ‘

I mean what are you? Her dad?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

As soon as I read the first few words that say this I find I automatically switch off and stop reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have that on any of mine. Perhaps they don't care if I get treated like shit

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I don't have that on any of mine. Perhaps they don't care if I get treated like shit

Attention everyone. Be respectful of this lady and respectfully treat her with respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have none of that on ours. I don't need random strangers pointing out the obvious/making hollow veiled threats on my behalf.

If someone wasn't treating me decent, they wouldn't be meeting us, full stop.

Smacks of desperate to me and I won't meet desperate people, in our experience they turn stalkery or make a pain in the ass of themselves.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

it makes me think, what are they projecting and where has it come from.

It would have never crossed my mind not to respect someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly I once met a girl who had a verification like this and I said my lady, would you like a tea and she said no, I want your cock so we got down to business..

I think I let that fella down

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Not all but most verifications on single girls and couples profiles end with ‘ be respectful with this lady’ or ‘ treat her with respect ‘

I mean what are you? Her dad? "

Hopefully not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not all but most verifications on single girls and couples profiles end with ‘ be respectful with this lady’ or ‘ treat her with respect ‘

I mean what are you? Her dad?

Hopefully not!

Maybe husband then?

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Well said in the above posts.

It’s such an obvious given that we wouldn’t let anybody that showed even a sign of disrespect into our relationship, that it almost doesn’t even deserve mentioning.

It’s strange how it’s taken off as such a buzz phrase on here, what circles are people playing in if telling people to respect each other seems warranted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well said in the above posts.

It’s such an obvious given that we wouldn’t let anybody that showed even a sign of disrespect into our relationship, that it almost doesn’t even deserve mentioning.

It’s strange how it’s taken off as such a buzz phrase on here, what circles are people playing in if telling people to respect each other seems warranted. "

Or is it a warning that if you don’t, I’ll come after you

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I would much rather see that than the ott ones proclaiming how good they were ,how they suck like a dyson etc.

I dont get why it annoys people so much

Miss

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Well said in the above posts.

It’s such an obvious given that we wouldn’t let anybody that showed even a sign of disrespect into our relationship, that it almost doesn’t even deserve mentioning.

It’s strange how it’s taken off as such a buzz phrase on here, what circles are people playing in if telling people to respect each other seems warranted.

Or is it a warning that if you don’t, I’ll come after you "

Didn’t see it as that but you’re right. Got to watch out for these keyboard warriors haven’t we.

It does come across as somewhat paternal doesn’t it. Maybe there’s some deep set psychological motivations at work here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well said in the above posts.

It’s such an obvious given that we wouldn’t let anybody that showed even a sign of disrespect into our relationship, that it almost doesn’t even deserve mentioning.

It’s strange how it’s taken off as such a buzz phrase on here, what circles are people playing in if telling people to respect each other seems warranted.

Or is it a warning that if you don’t, I’ll come after you

Didn’t see it as that but you’re right. Got to watch out for these keyboard warriors haven’t we.

It does come across as somewhat paternal doesn’t it. Maybe there’s some deep set psychological motivations at work here "

Stalkers or desperate like said in the comments above I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well said in the above posts.

It’s such an obvious given that we wouldn’t let anybody that showed even a sign of disrespect into our relationship, that it almost doesn’t even deserve mentioning.

It’s strange how it’s taken off as such a buzz phrase on here, what circles are people playing in if telling people to respect each other seems warranted.

Or is it a warning that if you don’t, I’ll come after you "

Nah, they're already on to their next potential

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would much rather see that than the ott ones proclaiming how good they were ,how they suck like a dyson etc.

I dont get why it annoys people so much

Miss"

It’s a sex site lol keep it to the point and say something nice about their personality maybe..

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Or is it because during their meet she told him about all the disrespectful fucktards she's had to endure before finding him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter?

Sometimes people just don't know what to write. It's on a few of mine. I never read into it.

It's just like, have a nice day, time etc. It's a comment nothing else.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I would much rather see that than the ott ones proclaiming how good they were ,how they suck like a dyson etc.

I dont get why it annoys people so much

Miss

It’s a sex site lol keep it to the point and say something nice about their personality maybe.. "

.i think its saying something nice rather than just boosting their own ego/skills

Its a swinging site op...

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Does it matter?

Sometimes people just don't know what to write. It's on a few of mine. I never read into it.

It's just like, have a nice day, time etc. It's a comment nothing else."

That’s what I think too. I’ve seen a lot worse things in verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It’s likely evolved as something people say as a curtesy because they heard the stories from women that there’s more than a few guys on here that are complete arses and treat women no better than a walking fanny or free prostitute

Not quite sure why it winds people up so much and more often than not these are the people that insist they’re laid back in their profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would much rather see that than the ott ones proclaiming how good they were ,how they suck like a dyson etc.

I dont get why it annoys people so much

Miss

It’s a sex site lol keep it to the point and say something nice about their personality maybe..

.i think its saying something nice rather than just boosting their own ego/skills

Its a swinging site op..."

Exactly, it’s a swinging site not a parental blog

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"I would much rather see that than the ott ones proclaiming how good they were ,how they suck like a dyson etc.

I dont get why it annoys people so much

Miss

It’s a sex site lol keep it to the point and say something nice about their personality maybe..

.i think its saying something nice rather than just boosting their own ego/skills

Its a swinging site op...

Exactly, it’s a swinging site not a parental blog "

I donr get why you are so wound up by it,really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would much rather see that than the ott ones proclaiming how good they were ,how they suck like a dyson etc.

I dont get why it annoys people so much

Miss

It’s a sex site lol keep it to the point and say something nice about their personality maybe..

.i think its saying something nice rather than just boosting their own ego/skills

Its a swinging site op...

Exactly, it’s a swinging site not a parental blog

I donr get why you are so wound up by it,really

Don’t know, maybe I’m bored or suspicious or maybe I like to post in forums the topics that catch my eye.. hmmm

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not really seen it on couples veris and it only on a few ladies. Certainly nowhere near 'most'. Don't sweat the small stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not really seen it on couples veris and it only on a few ladies. Certainly nowhere near 'most'. Don't sweat the small stuff."

I don’t like to sit on the fence

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Not really seen it on couples veris and it only on a few ladies. Certainly nowhere near 'most'. Don't sweat the small stuff.

I don’t like to sit on the fence "

Fair enough. In which case you should have done a thread saying you'd not seen it on any profiles at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not really seen it on couples veris and it only on a few ladies. Certainly nowhere near 'most'. Don't sweat the small stuff.

I don’t like to sit on the fence

Fair enough. In which case you should have done a thread saying you'd not seen it on any profiles at all

Let’s not get carried away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have that on any of mine. Perhaps they don't care if I get treated like shit

Maybe they didn’t feel the need if your fiesty or now u take no shit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have that on any of mine. Perhaps they don't care if I get treated like shit

Attention everyone. Be respectful of this lady and respectfully treat her with respect"

Can I copy and paste that and pop it on my profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

itsa piss marker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have that on any of mine. Perhaps they don't care if I get treated like shit

Attention everyone. Be respectful of this lady and respectfully treat her with respect

Can I copy and paste that and pop it on my profile?

fuck that...just pop it in your mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have that on any of mine. Perhaps they don't care if I get treated like shit

Attention everyone. Be respectful of this lady and respectfully treat her with respect

Can I copy and paste that and pop it on my profile?

fuck that...just pop it in your mouth"

Carry on and I'll bombard you with pictures of feet.... I know how much you love those

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

No one has ever felt the need to say that about me. Maybe its ubiquity is that some people just want to say something nice but lack literary inspiration in the post-coital haze and revert to platitudes. Or maybe they're taking the piss since verifications are quite a weird thing to write when you think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all but most verifications on single girls and couples profiles end with ‘ be respectful with this lady’ or ‘ treat her with respect ‘

I mean what are you? Her dad? "

Fab Tourette’s syndrome I call it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or is it because during their meet she told him about all the disrespectful fucktards she's had to endure before finding him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one has ever felt the need to say that about me. Maybe its ubiquity is that some people just want to say something nice but lack literary inspiration in the post-coital haze and revert to platitudes. Or maybe they're taking the piss since verifications are quite a weird thing to write when you think about it."

Agree on the piss take. I know I've said on veri's "treat them with respect" and people have said the same on mine... but as a piss take.

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