FabSwingers.com forum: friend requests

By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

is it just me or do others get a bit peeved at people sendin friend requests without a message, even though it clearly states on our profile dont sent invites we're not friend collecters

i know i should just let it go but it's so annoyin, oh i do delete sometimes block

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"is it just me or do others get a bit peeved at people sendin friend requests without a message, even though it clearly states on our profile dont sent invites we're not friend collecters

i know i should just let it go but it's so annoyin, oh i do delete sometimes block"

we wait till they are off line - accept and look at the pics - if they're ok then we send a message back - life is too short to get annoyed at such trivia! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, totally agree with you,

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

I just automatically delete, dont look at profile as they obviously havnt looked at our. All friends request goes to Reject Bin

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By *lack_BoltMan
over a year ago

oxford

Mmmmmm? Your profile might be easier to read if it wasn't all CAPS. I started reading it but found it 'harsher' to look at and it does slow down your normal reading speed. All very frustrating.

Also all caps is 'shouting' in written communication, which probably accounts for the reactions you've been receiving. For greater clarity it's much better to stick to upper AND lower case letters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont bother me, i hardly look at my friends invites to be honest, every now and again i'll just block delete them

Its no hassle so not worth getting pissed off over

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"is it just me or do others get a bit peeved at people sendin friend requests without a message, even though it clearly states on our profile dont sent invites we're not friend collecters

i know i should just let it go but it's so annoyin, oh i do delete sometimes block

we wait till they are off line - accept and look at the pics - if they're ok then we send a message back - life is too short to get annoyed at such trivia! Z"

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it just me or do others get a bit peeved at people sendin friend requests without a message, even though it clearly states on our profile dont sent invites we're not friend collecters

i know i should just let it go but it's so annoyin, oh i do delete sometimes block"

I don't let it bother me, i must have well over 200 invites i have done nothnig with. I can chose if i get board to accept and peruse photos at any point or just leave there as it causes no real problems to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I add...then msg,give them time, then send a message saying theres no point if theres no communication...never asking for a meet just cos theyre on my friendslist.

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"Mmmmmm? Your profile might be easier to read if it wasn't all CAPS. I started reading it but found it 'harsher' to look at and it does slow down your normal reading speed. All very frustrating.

Also all caps is 'shouting' in written communication, which probably accounts for the reactions you've been receiving. For greater clarity it's much better to stick to upper AND lower case letters. "

wot reactions???????

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

thanx guys!! as for caps yeah has been mentioned about the shoutin i had no idea as it was done to highlight the importance of what was bein said, i'd hate to think i was bein rude though sometimes i wonder would that work lol???, any way i may get round to rewritin in small as it was for almost 10months when we came here around 2years ago but prob not lol, think the delete without lookin or block then delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thanx guys!! as for caps yeah has been mentioned about the shoutin i had no idea as it was done to highlight the importance of what was bein said, i'd hate to think i was bein rude though sometimes i wonder would that work lol???, any way i may get round to rewritin in small as it was for almost 10months when we came here around 2years ago but prob not lol, think the delete without lookin or block then delete

boing....@shouting hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

totally agree o that weird i know from a single male but its not just single guys that do that couples do too i have had a few they request i add and set email gets read then nothing.best thing to do is have a clean up once in a while get rid of the non communicators

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only accept if we exchange mail and we like. don't even bother to delete those who have never written, just ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at the pics on profile and if we think it's worth seeing more we might accept otherwise we block or delete depending on our mood. Glad we did take the time though to stop and look as we had a good looking vwe black guy send an invite and I'd have been kicking myself if I had missed that.

Wifey x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If they're local to me and hot, they get added. If they then never send a message or meet request, they get deleted.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"is it just me or do others get a bit peeved at people sendin friend requests without a message, even though it clearly states on our profile dont sent invites we're not friend collecters

i know i should just let it go but it's so annoyin, oh i do delete sometimes block"

what you do is wait till they go offline.... accept there request... look at there piccys... then go to your friends list and take them off..

okay... am i offically going to hell now

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By *weet threesome wife OP Couple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"is it just me or do others get a bit peeved at people sendin friend requests without a message, even though it clearly states on our profile dont sent invites we're not friend collecters

i know i should just let it go but it's so annoyin, oh i do delete sometimes block

what you do is wait till they go offline.... accept there request... look at there piccys... then go to your friends list and take them off..

okay... am i offically going to hell now

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lol someone else said that earlier and it works lol so we're be joinin j down there keep a warm seat for us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea! why didn't I think of that lol!

....runs off for a nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaaw .... I don't have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People add you as friends as you might have more pics in there that you don't have on your main profile ie face pics. might agree to add someone to see more pics, but I'll delete them if they are not my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block anyone who sends a friends request as per our profile - if they can't be arsed to read it or send one anyway then they deserve to b blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it just me or do others get a bit peeved at people sendin friend requests without a message, even though it clearly states on our profile dont sent invites we're not friend collecters

i know i should just let it go but it's so annoyin, oh i do delete sometimes block

what you do is wait till they go offline.... accept there request... look at there piccys... then go to your friends list and take them off..

okay... am i offically going to hell now

Not just me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never send a friend request unless I have chatted to them for a while

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By *nH_HertsMan
over a year ago

Weymouth

"If they're local to me and hot, they get added. If they then never send a message or meet request, they get deleted."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i usually send them a cocky message informing them its good manners to send a message before a random friends request...but everyone elses way of dealing with it sounds much more fun!!

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