FabSwingers.com forum: PERSONALITY Vs HOT BODY

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is more important to you,picking someone on here with a great personality or someone with a hot body?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it either/or? I want both

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

"Why is it either/or? I want both "

Me too !?

I’m patient I’ll wait

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Even for a one off meet, I think if I can't connect with someone, or think they are an awful person, It's going to be difficult (not impossible obviously, I am a bloke after all).

If it's more than that, a FWB or similar, then the personality has to come first.

There's also the recognition that I may not be the hottest bloke ever!

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

personality for me in a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously there has to be an initial atraction to start with but if the personality isn't there it just won't get past the chatting stage.

A good mix of attraction and personality is what I look for but it is quite rare to find in one person but when you do oh boy thats when the fireworks start

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Personality over 'hot body' anytime.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As you said on here OP surely it would have to be a hot body as you have no way of knowing what their personality is like until you meet them.

You can get a bit of an insight if they post in the forums or you get to chat but there’s nothing real till it’s there in front of you.

Plus then define HOT? as everyone will have what’s hot for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here? Body first. Every time. I only put effort in with those I find attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my books personally always wins

Love having the crack and banter and if something happens it happens if not no big deal - at least your getting to chat to like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality for us, no doubt

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Personality all the way for me. I don’t want a boring meet

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Personally. ... I like to meet someone who I can connect with ...beauty is only skin deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally. ... I like to meet someone who I can connect with ...beauty is only skin deep. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, and I won't compromise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naughty personality and hot body as bonus

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By *lay-full-funCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Personality first with nice looking face then body

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Hot body for the first meet.

Personality for repeat meets.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hot (in my opinion) body.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I want both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But... but... I want it all!!

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By *ony HardcockMan
over a year ago

Shepperton

For swinging fit body for a relationship personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bad personality can make someone ugly no matter how hot the body is .

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Hot body. I don't want to talk, I want to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bad personality can make someone ugly no matter how hot the body is .

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

On here first thing I look for is body / looks and fingers crossed the personality is great too

I’m not looking for a bf as I already have one of those that ticks all my boxes and can take or leave meeting if I want

So yes I can be as superficial and picky as I want to and don’t have to answer to anyone

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

On here, if we don't find someone's body/face appealing. It's unlikely that we'd take the time to discover their personality.

Equally, if someone is visually attractive but turns out to be a complete knob. That's not going to work either, unless they don't utter a word while in our company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality for me really but on here most seem to go for appealing looks and chatting skills I think..

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"On here, if we don't find someone's body/face appealing. It's unlikely that we'd take the time to discover their personality.

Equally, if someone is visually attractive but turns out to be a complete knob. That's not going to work either, unless they don't utter a word while in our company.

Ball-gag?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally but there has a be a muntal physical attraction as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bad personality can make someone ugly no matter how hot the body is .

I agree x

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

" On here? Body first. Every time. I only put effort in with those I find attractive. "

Me too. My vanilla friends are bursting with personality. I swing to fulfil my sexual fantasies and for these personality comes in second place after sexual attractiveness.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Hot body. I don't want to talk, I want to fuck."

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

On here, a decent profile with good photos & a nice body is what is going to cause the initial attraction.

But, I've had socials with some seriously hot hunks & left after 10mins.

I don't care how hot you look, if you've got the personality of a tin of beans, can't spark my imagination or make me laugh, you ain't getting in my knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Obviously there has to be an initial atraction to start with but if the personality isn't there it just won't get past the chatting stage.

A good mix of attraction and personality is what I look for but it is quite rare to find in one person but when you do oh boy thats when the fireworks start

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think looks mean everything. I have been looked atmanytimes, chatted for ages , then when it comes to showing the face but I get a no thanks your not my type ( why don't they just say I think your ugly and have done with it ), then I get blocked before I can even reply. I thought men were shallow, but compared to women they are not in the same league !

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We can't play if there's nothing remotely in common, it can't be all physical for us, there has to be a mental aspect, ie, some commonality. If we were to play with people and niggling away was the fact we're not on the same wavelength although they have great aesthetics it wouldn't work for us as we wouldn't be comfortable enough to let go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Why is it either/or? I want both

Me too !?

I’m patient I’ll wait "

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, both for a relationship

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It doesn’t even get past the first message if we don’t think they’re hot , so definately body first .

From there a great personality is a bonus , but not the be all and end all . We can certainly enjoy great sex with someone who’s hot , but not with someone we don’t find attractive .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's cake

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I want both, she's got to have a good personality as I want someone I feel relaxed with and can have a laugh together as well as filthy fun, but I'm also not attracted to larger ladies (sorry, just my preference) so athletic or curvy as long as the curves are in the right places

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it’s a bit of both but hot to me might not be to others .. I prefer a more curvy feminine woman ( boobs ! ) rather than a size 8 supermodel and we seek mostly bi play for me but personality is important because we like d/s play we want a woman or couple who can have the ability to talk openly and freely with us and who will be able to fully communicate their needs and limits etc .. and also to have s laugh and giggle sometimes our play sounds serious we like to just laugh and have fun too ! someone with the hottest body could be a complete bore . We also find that people shy away from us because I’m a larger woman with imperfections but as far as we are concerned it’s their loss !

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By *inky LizardCouple
over a year ago

west yorks

As long as they bring chips....does it matter?

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