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Meet before or head on in ?

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By *harliebluestockings OP   Couple
over a year ago

london

When going to a new club ( for you) do you prefer to meet with others before who know the venue to help break the ice or rather just get on with it ?

Have seen quiet a few arrange to meet first while we have always just gone in ( not many) but do find it can take a while to get "comfortable ".

Thoughts ? Experiences?

Apologies posted in wrong forum originally.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

I met a couple on my first visit to a club. Had been cgatting to them for a while but never met them. Wish id of gone on my own it felt awkward.

However if i knew people already it was easier to go with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to go alone, even to a new club. Less drama and only myself to please.

I’ve met single guys for the first time at a clubs and they’ve assumed this means play is almost inevitable. I’ve also gone with existing fwbs and uk is has resulted in disagreements about who to play with, despite previous conversations about our shared likes/dislikes.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I'm heading to a club on my own this weekend . Feel slightly (very) out of my comfort zone but I'm sure once I've pulled over in the car on route to be sick, I will be fine

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Whether the club was new to us or one we've been to before, we'd do the same kind of things.

We'd either make a play date with people we already knew or an informal meet to say hi with people we hadn't met previously . Or just go in and see what happens

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By *harliebluestockings OP   Couple
over a year ago

london


"Whether the club was new to us or one we've been to before, we'd do the same kind of things.

We'd either make a play date with people we already knew or an informal meet to say hi with people we hadn't met previously . Or just go in and see what happens "

Hahaha. So any of the above ?

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