FabSwingers.com forum: Couples on here but always male on?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all, just a quick one now.........is it me or with a lot of 'couples' on here we seem to come accross the ones where 95 percent are the ones where it's always the male half on here and never the female half???

Now i will hold my hands up and say it's the other way round with us and i (mrs) is mostly on here purely because mr dont get much time and he prefers me to chat and find people for meets as there is a better chance that he will like the people i chat to

saying that we both have to agree before we set up a meet.

But it's just strange that it mainly seems to always be the male half's that are on here as a couple, and a lot turn around and say it's only the male half playing now but they dont seem to think about making a single profile.

Anyway rant over lol, but if anyone else finds this too then please let us know

mrs x

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By *izzandJizzCouple
over a year ago

Westminster

In our case I (the male half) am the one who set up the profile and I am the only one who logs in. In the 4 years we have been "together" - well as together as occasional swinging fuck buddies can be - Sam has relied on me to find suitable partners for us. She is more fussy than me (natch..) and mostly we are defeated by events, logistics and our other lives....I am currently waiting for her feedback on 4 couples and a bi fem that I think could suit us, though she of course may or may not agree. As mrs says in her post, you both have to agree before arranging a meet so it just has to be this way...

Regarding the couples we know on here, it is normally the male and not the female that I message. Though I would say that with about a third of the couples we have messaged over a period of time, we have got seemingly genuine messages from the female half at some point in the proceedings. Ok, bye for now - Steve xx

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

In our case its 95% Bo Peep on here. Especially in the forums and sending winks and messages and browsing profiles.

We only ever on together if we in chat rooms or cams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kate hardly ever logs on here. If we get an invite, I show her the pics and we'll say "yes or no"

She prefers to converse face to face and in person, and not by email.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kate hardly ever logs on here. If we get an invite, I show her the pics and we'll say "yes or no"

She prefers to converse face to face and in person, and not by email.

I never use chat or cam, but I'm in here every day, that's why my mugshot is our avatar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See thats great as you are both in some way involved, i meant the 'couples' who are on here as couples but it always seems to be the male half on here and only the male half playing then we begin to wonder if they are in fact still a couple or if they are a couple then is the male half of the couple now playing behind his partners back??

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are a couple and i play alone too ...... and its me the fem jo always on never john .. he may look now and again if we are meeting couples together ..

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Its Always Justin on here too as i work from home and easy for me to log in at any time.

i also do the arranging with Karen giving her approval to people that would be interested in meeting us.

Is she says no its no.

We never play seperately and this way suits us best.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i'm not sure kev even remembers our password

Some ppl are into the net, others arent, he looks at profiles if we are arranging a meet,we decide together yes or no and thats it until it comes to the real world interaction.

So long as a couple meet when arranged why does it matter which one is using the site.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Female half normally online as oh doesn't have time and prefers phone chat. We agree on everything or it doesn't happen.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when it is a couple seeking another couple,does it matter who logs on,who sets up the meet?

if at the meet one quarter of the party hasnt turned up then you have a problem,but untill that actually happens,get on with enjoying the site n stop moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in our case it nearly always me the female half on here in the forums lee does go on a lot less than me but we always both look at messages and any offers of meets together xx

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It is usually Mr on for us tbh. Mrs is a complete Techno-Phobe and hates all things computer orientated lol.

However she is often sitting next to me and i do show her every msg or profile i think may interest us.

We are also happy to prove we are genuine in which ever way is preferable to potential meets.

Amazes me the amount of 'couples' that aren't interested in talking to the male half of a couple. We always meet as a couple and we are both happy to talk to either half of our potential meets. Must be the same ones you are talking about...

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

To the OP - Why is it okay for you, the female half of a couple, to be only on here most of the time but it isn't okay if it's the male halves of other couples that do the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got a his n hers (greedy ain't we) so we can both do our bit on here from either mine or devils place... but we both login each others accounts and do our admin. It works well for us.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most time is fem on here ad at work in the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think some people think im having a go and saying the male half of the couple shouldnt be on here chatting, it's not that at all, im on here 60% of the time and mr 40% but some people we chat to it's ALWAYS the male half which we dont mind chatting to them at all but when it's starts off with a nice chat then turns into them saying 'mrs isnt playing but she has gave her permission for me to play on my own (being the male half)'

we find a lot of the male half of the couples we chat to they seem to always come out with offering there services without their female half :s

Please dont think we have got something against the male half of the couples to be on here, to be honest im going to get mr to come on here more than me.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has 2 profiles so the mrs can go on her own profile

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The unspoken insinuation regarding the male of the couple being the one on Fab is that there is no female.

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

The truth is there does seem to be quite a few single males posing as couples, I think that's what the OP was inferring, I can confirm that I have been approached by quite a few "couples" only to find out, just like the OP has, that it's only the male of the couple that can meet because the female is rescuing pygmies in Borneo or something like that, anyhoo, all have fun and take care, hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?"

Why?

What do you have to hide?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?

Why?

What do you have to hide?"

What a ridiculous response to a post....

If you think I have something to hide then report my profile to Admin and refrain from such silly remarks...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The truth is there does seem to be quite a few single males posing as couples, I think that's what the OP was inferring, I can confirm that I have been approached by quite a few "couples" only to find out, just like the OP has, that it's only the male of the couple that can meet because the female is rescuing pygmies in Borneo or something like that, anyhoo, all have fun and take care, hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxx

agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?

Why?

What do you have to hide?

What a ridiculous response to a post....

If you think I have something to hide then report my profile to Admin and refrain from such silly remarks..."

Saw it as an ironic remark

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?

Why?

What do you have to hide?

What a ridiculous response to a post....

If you think I have something to hide then report my profile to Admin and refrain from such silly remarks...

Saw it as an ironic remark

Why ironic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?"

the fact is that some people care and some done, everyone is allowed to have their say (or am i wrong?) im just saying that a lot of so called 'couples' on here turn out to be where just the male plays etc!!!

This is the whole reason of having forums isnt it? so people can have a say?

Mrs x

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?

Why?

What do you have to hide?

What a ridiculous response to a post....

If you think I have something to hide then report my profile to Admin and refrain from such silly remarks...

Saw it as an ironic remark

I'd have preferred 'iconic', but I'll settle for 'ironic'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?

Why?

What do you have to hide?

What a ridiculous response to a post....

If you think I have something to hide then report my profile to Admin and refrain from such silly remarks...

Saw it as an ironic remark

Why ironic?"

You know, as in quirky, wry humour

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Until the point comes that the site has compulsory live video stream of every member as they use the site then we only have the word of ANY couple....including the Op funnily enough, that is indeed the woman on line and not the male half of the couple.

It's all very well starting threads with moans and rants about how others choose to use the site, but at the end of the day even the Op could be acting completely hypocritical and could be the male half writing (typing) this very thread....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am getting what you are saying OP...and yes, there will be males on a couples profile who are really playing alone and have no intention of involving the wife, if there is one.

I think if we were looking for couples we would glady talk to the male, once, and then ask both of them to show face on cam ( us too ) and have a four way chat to see if everyone is happy, then go from there.

It would save wasted time on a man who is alone or says after a few chats that he wants to play alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?"

Sigh...Jane, Jane, Jane...you know the answer to that...yes!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

If I am meeting a couple then I speak to the female half on the phone first before any meet, then the first meet is a social meet to establish compatability (on all sides)....

To be honest it's not a difficult task to establish simple facts about those who are interested in you at a VERY early stage, to me it's all part of this swinging game, some you win and some you lose.

This site isn't perfect....but I don't care too much about that, it works suffiently for my wants and needs and I prefer to get on with it rather than dwell too much on how others behave with their memberships.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I am meeting a couple then I speak to the female half on the phone first before any meet, then the first meet is a social meet to establish compatability (on all sides)....

Lol not being funnt jane but your saying you just get on with it rather than dwell too much on how others behave??? forgive me if im wrong but what are you doing here? lol

If you dont like what i have posted and dont agree with what im saying then why do you carry on with your posts?

the mind boggles :s

Mrs x

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By *JSexyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As another f half of the couple who spends a lot of time in here I also find it frustrating.

I'm not entirely sure how serious the F halves are about swinging (if they know at all). However, we have chatted with lots of couples who did start off just with the M contact so I reckon its good to give them a chance. If they then can't produce the goods they should be made to demote their account to single guy only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the Forums & general chatting, mostly females. On the rest of the site, trying to arrange meets, mostly males. From my own experience, and a lot of the people I've met, most 'couples' are either single males, or the partner does not know about or participate. Meets are arranged, & female cannot make it for a multitude of reasons, & male wants to meet alone. Yes, several posters will say this isn't so, they've never had this happen, and most people are genuine, & 'I've never met a timewaster!' Lol. But the Forums/swingers & the rest of the site are entirely different entities, & inhabited by completely different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?

Why?

What do you have to hide?

What a ridiculous response to a post....

If you think I have something to hide then report my profile to Admin and refrain from such silly remarks..."

Can someone please satisfy '_atisfy jane' because it seems it hasnt happened yet

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

we are a couple, i the female do most of writin, i agree to meets as i need to find the person attreactive, we meet only guys, but have found guys message from couple profile sayin they can meet but wife was away or busy or takin a break, well they didnt read profile as i say we are only interested in straight guys , so i ask to talk to wife, nope not in, i ask to arrange an other time(i dont intend to) just to see response and get she has no interest now, still they hadnt read profile so i agree to meet great, where they ask i always reply ur house can chat to wife before we go, usually ends right there, i like jane wouldnt care who talks as part of a couple but i do draw a line when it is obvious there is either no wife or she knows nothing about it

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

we even had someone from a couple profile sayin mrs here message askin would we meet their man as she was headin off to look after a sick relative or dog,cat,mouse, point is, people do chance their arms, sad but i dont dwell on it, but i do think it should be freely talked about if people want to, is that not wot forums are for???

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Honesty is always the best policy.

When people ask why I play as a single guy rather than as part of a couple I am more than happy to explain to them that my wife and I are no longer together.

We had a couples profile and were very excited at the prospect of having some sexy fun with like minded people.

However when it came to actually meeting people for real my wife decided that she wasn't as happy and relaxed about it as she thought she would be and so decided that we wouldn't swing after all.

So I shot her.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"Honesty is always the best policy.

When people ask why I play as a single guy rather than as part of a couple I am more than happy to explain to them that my wife and I are no longer together.

We had a couples profile and were very excited at the prospect of having some sexy fun with like minded people.

However when it came to actually meeting people for real my wife decided that she wasn't as happy and relaxed about it as she thought she would be and so decided that we wouldn't swing after all.

So I shot her.

lol drastic action but effective lol

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

lol drastic action but effective lol"

Most couples accept it as at least being more honest than the average excuses they get.

Plus it has the added bonus of letting people know that yes, I am serious about meeting them.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Why?

What do you have to hide?

What a ridiculous response to a post....

If you think I have something to hide then report my profile to Admin and refrain from such silly remarks...

Can someone please satisfy '_atisfy jane' because it seems it hasnt happened yet

I have waited to see if such personal remarks about other members were all of a sudden permitted on the forums?,

Maybe the forum rules have changed....

Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?

Why?

What do you have to hide?

What a ridiculous response to a post....

If you think I have something to hide then report my profile to Admin and refrain from such silly remarks..."

Ooh calm down dear!! Wrong side of the bed this morning??

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?

Why?

What do you have to hide?

What a ridiculous response to a post....

If you think I have something to hide then report my profile to Admin and refrain from such silly remarks...

Ooh calm down dear!! Wrong side of the bed this morning??

Could be worse.....could be the wrong side of the River Tamar

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I (Mrs) am the one who is usually online 99% time, purely because I generally have more free time and I like to read the blogs.

I write our profile & upload photos, Mr will add the odd bit/change it occasionally but that's about it. He only really tends to come online to read any emails we get or check out any profiles that I like the look of.

Because Mr more often than not, says no, I never reply or send an email without him having a look first. (And they say ladies are the fussy ones lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

What do you have to hide?

What a ridiculous response to a post....

If you think I have something to hide then report my profile to Admin and refrain from such silly remarks...

Can someone please satisfy '_atisfy jane' because it seems it hasnt happened yet

I have waited to see if such personal remarks about other members were all of a sudden permitted on the forums?,

Maybe the forum rules have changed....

Interesting

Prey tell where are the personal remarks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so must be us thats the only ones on here that gets to chat to all the male halfs on here then by the looks of it :s

Anyway thank you all for your comments and opinions

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both come but tigress is the forumite.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Think some people think im having a go and saying the male half of the couple shouldnt be on here chatting, it's not that at all, im on here 60% of the time and mr 40% but some people we chat to it's ALWAYS the male half which we dont mind chatting to them at all but when it's starts off with a nice chat then turns into them saying 'mrs isnt playing but she has gave her permission for me to play on my own (being the male half)'

we find a lot of the male half of the couples we chat to they seem to always come out with offering there services without their female half :s

Please dont think we have got something against the male half of the couples to be on here, to be honest im going to get mr to come on here more than me.

Mrs x"

Ahhh got ya, yup it happens, part of why we prefer club meets,chat and hooking up at socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sharon leaves me to it....the filtering of reprobates that is...till the curtain call..

Otherwise she has her own interests in her free time ...

No big shakes...I`ve never studied the sites membership...thats an arcane pastime, akin to rotting the synapses ..little by little...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well it's me Dave on here 99% of the time cos I'm the one working at home. On top of that Sam loathes PC stuff, but she really does get a buzz reading the messages sent to us..............especially by the time you out the twats who are never going to show, getting down to the "finalists" makes it better than any game show in the universe

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

these days if we are in the caht room then it'll be dave as when we started old general was a great laugh ... but now any room is often full of directors that Sarah got bored ...

she'll still be found perusing profiles and a like as at the end of the day everyone has to be interested in meeting ...

but as to one key point the OP gas made ...

how often do you see status in meet today saying "pnly male here now" .. have seen that on single fem profiles to !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really get it, y would someone say there in a couple if its only one playing. Do people think they have a better chance of a meet if they say they are part of a couple(won't they only get found out anyways when they actually meet)

Just curious, im a single but if.i was a couple and the couple didn't want to play, I would still put myself as a single. I'm just confused.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"I don't really get it, y would someone say there in a couple if its only one playing. Do people think they have a better chance of a meet if they say they are part of a couple(won't they only get found out anyways when they actually meet)

Just curious, im a single but if.i was a couple and the couple didn't want to play, I would still put myself as a single. I'm just confused."

that is exactly why most do it,over the years we came across a few with dif ways of gettin girl out from well i'm mr will meet first with u see how that goes then we both meet, or hi this is his wife i need to go to scotland my sister is ill but mr has my full blessin to meet when ya say we'll just wait till u get back it's alway no no go right ahead i dont know when i'll be back, but we changed or profile from other site to meet guys only and still the twats done the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go in to the chat rooms quiet a lot and many the majority of the couples are together or are on at seperate times x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I (Martin) am on here the most, Jayne pops on now and then but mainly in the chatrooms to keep in touch with friends etc. We attend socials and parties as a couple, so evryone knows we are real lol!!!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

We are both on at times, but the forums are usually me (mrs). If we are both on and in new chat i have to use my single account which was set up for that purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always the mrs on here

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"Who cares?.....individual members (couples) use this site as they wish to use the site, it's their personal swinging experience at the end of the day....

Does EVERYTHING have to come under scrutiny on this site?"

Yes it does if people want to scrutinise and the rules do not forbid so I guess the site OWNERS see it as OK!. If you don't like it, don't post! unless you are turning into that seemily banned item that starts with T and ends with roll!

Better still, why don't you give us an insight into what YOU see as appropriate posts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its looking at pics of older women, its hubby (generally using the laptop one handed!!). If its posting in the forum its me!

If its answering messages, its both of us even though the majority seem to be aimed at me, so the answers usually come from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It tends to be 95% me (mrs) you will always know its me because you get a xxx after xxxx

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Personally I think most of the females are passive and are just pleasing their man, I know that won't be a popular commnet, but it also would go a long way to explaining why most couple are happy to meet single fem's but not males, doesn't take Frued to work it out

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

hum ok lol read ours

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Profiles always read better when written by the female, they are more subtle, it's also better when they do the approaches and arangements.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

well i please me and that does please him, if i fancy a guy or guys and flirt get it on i get hot and horny, i please me first and formost, yes i'm shallow but i have fun and intend to keep doin so till i dont want to lol xx

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

In truth I think you are in the minority, yes the women ultimately make the decisions, but I think in most cases the man leads the way, and that's why they won't meet single guys

You mean to tell me none of those women want another cock to play with? Of course they do, most of the men simply can't face the women getting all the fun.

I know these commnets won't be popular, but I think a lot of women will be quietly agreeing

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"In truth I think you are in the minority, yes the women ultimately make the decisions, but I think in most cases the man leads the way, and that's why they won't meet single guys

You mean to tell me none of those women want another cock to play with? Of course they do, most of the men simply can't face the women getting all the fun.

I know these commnets won't be popular, but I think a lot of women will be quietly agreeing

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i dont mean or intend to tel u anthing about other couple as i dont have their permission to speak for them and i wouldnt be so presumptious to assume that i knew wot they wanted, i can only answer for me and wot i like ans wot we as a couple like xx

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"In truth I think you are in the minority, yes the women ultimately make the decisions, but I think in most cases the man leads the way, and that's why they won't meet single guys

You mean to tell me none of those women want another cock to play with? Of course they do, most of the men simply can't face the women getting all the fun.

I know these commnets won't be popular, but I think a lot of women will be quietly agreeing

i dont mean or intend to tel u anthing about other couple as i dont have their permission to speak for them and i wouldnt be so presumptious to assume that i knew wot they wanted, i can only answer for me and wot i like ans wot we as a couple like xx

I'm just going from observations and on talking to others, but you are very pro-active in your arrangement, that's not the case with most couples.

And as a male, i can also see why they don't meet single males, it's a felfish and self preservation thing.

Finding a woman that will agree to swing is hard enough, so you aint gunna risk losing her lol

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

llol well maybe some mat think that way, but my man has no worries in that department, he's simley the best

sorry corny i know but no 1 cums close as mush as i love a play and shag a handsome guy, no 1 ever would get that part of me

be sad if what u say is true and prod in a lot of cases it is, but again not for me to say, i dont give it a second thought xx oh when wew got together it was just for sex but we grew xx

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By *yandmMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've had a sexual relationship that turned into a real one, so I know where you are coming from with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm normally the one on and wifey gets to say yes or no (seeing most of the messages are from guys then you'd hope so wouldn't you lol). I know I certainly wouldn't organise a meet and then leave her at home with another couple but I have been know to chance my luck if their profiles suggests I might be lucky. Seeing since we joined I've not yet slept with another woman while wifey has met up with a few men that me trying my luck is a little understandable.

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

guess it's a question of preference choice and agreement

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"Personally I think most of the females are passive and are just pleasing their man, I know that won't be a popular commnet, but it also would go a long way to explaining why most couple are happy to meet single fem's but not males, doesn't take Frued to work it out

You really believe that? You really think that women are just weak and allow men to treat them like doormats? Let the men shag who they want and not get upset about it cos they want to keep their man?

What a low opinion of women you have! They are sentient beings in case you didn't get the memo. You may be right in a minority of cases, but the vast majority we have met and indeed spoken to, the women take an active role and enjoy themselves! I suggest you go off and trim those eyebrows a bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passive?!?! Haha, would love to see what hubby says about that!

In our relationship, it is very much me that is the person driving it. 99% of the time hubby is watching me having the fun time that I want. Im not just going along with his requests, this is me fulfilling my desires and needs. Luckily for us, this is what works - I love to fuck, he loves to watch me fuck!

There is nothing passive about me!

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By *ogandsuzegCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

Us ladies probably are the exception - and even I don't do my/our pics!!! Why? It's just that basic technophobe thing and a reluctance, which it's taken me years to overcome, to admit how much I enjoy a nice cock!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mostly meet single men... And yes I do as asked but it is not like its not something I want to do.. I do see the couples on here that them pleasing their man is the main reason.. but then that in itself gives pleasure.

Cali X

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

at this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes nothing worse then clicking on couples cam and all u get is a male wanking on cam if ure a couple then surely u both shouled be able to chat every so often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In truth I think you are in the minority, yes the women ultimately make the decisions, but I think in most cases the man leads the way, and that's why they won't meet single guys

You mean to tell me none of those women want another cock to play with? Of course they do, most of the men simply can't face the women getting all the fun.

I know these commnets won't be popular, but I think a lot of women will be quietly agreeing

MOST CASES??? What a load of tripe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at this "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well with im the 1 thats on here 99%of the time.

im always in the chatrooms or posting on the forums,jas only looks at the profiles and maybe sends the odd wink or message lol

and i can honestly say i will or will never do anything just to please jas on here ,its a 2 way thing either we both enjoy it or we stop,,,shimples

when we go to socials everyone says oh he does excist lol but hes more into meeting and having fun,,,than just talking about it lol

auds xx

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Male does most of groundwork with female watching with interest at the time or following any communication when free to do so on moby. She does also use in my absence and same rule applies - i keep abreast as soon as i am able to.

In evenings always virtually always together but i must reitterate that when any messaging/looking/winking it is i (male) that does it on our behalf mindful of both our tastes. I/we also appreciate who i am communicating with be it he/she or both !

Too many (mainly guys) are touting,knocking one off,perving without having any plans whatsoever to meet and quite possibly behind partners back

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By *unwmidscplCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

we have the two profiles for when on the rare occasion mrsmids wants to cam,but other than that its 50/50 who is online, she makes the decisions mainly as she very picky'tut'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She has more time in the day so is often found hunting during daylight hours, although more inclined to follow up on existing friends than find new ones. He works away 50% of the time so is a night stalker more likely to browse new profiles and look for new playmates.

Each to there own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See thats great as you are both in some way involved, i meant the 'couples' who are on here as couples but it always seems to be the male half on here and only the male half playing then we begin to wonder if they are in fact still a couple or if they are a couple then is the male half of the couple now playing behind his partners back??

Mrs x"

we have had that problem, i am part of the 5% as andy works long hours so its me that writes posts i txt him when ive been in touch with a couple so he can check on his break times, but i also found a couple on here where i knew the female half, so i inboxed on a social netork site to say she had put her age on wrong, and guess what?? she knew nothing about fabs or what it was about, needless to say they have broke up but im sure the profile is still there even tho i have reported it twice now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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i love this comment lol and i actually got asked if i was actually bi or just do it to please andy, truth is i had sex with a fem b4 a male haha but we look for men women and couples

any offers?? haha

Nat xx

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

110% disagree with this, I the fem use the forums, we both use chat, we only meet couples and if either of us are not happy we dont go there, its an equal partnership, nothing more and nothing less. We both have to be happy or it will never work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here! wholeheartedly agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here! wholeheartedly agree!

90% of the time it's me (the woman) online.

We only meet women because Mr T doesn't get aroused by other men & the idea of watching me fuck another guy does nothing for him.

It was also me that brought up the suggestion of finding a fem fuck buddy, not him.

NO-ONE pressures me into doing anything! I'm no doormat!

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By *ISPCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Well, we're both on and off of the site all day as we have a perve on our phones.

We tend to find that Mr does more winking at people and probably more chatting to people while I tend to follow the streams of messages. I do tend to chip in to conversations but we always try to make it very clear who is talking to save confusion.

We only play together and never suggest that either Mr or I meet alone.

We have had quite a few "let's meet" messages then found out that all of a sudden Mrs Couple is all of a sudden pregnant and no longer playing, or Mrs is working a lot.

Each to their own and like others have said it's their experiences but it does make it easier when everyone says what they want and expect so it avoids any confusion

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