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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Over the last few months, we have noticed a huge increase in circumstances where a user messages us, but in the time it takes us to login and read the message (more often than not, just a few hours), the user has left the site...

It has become almost commonplace.

Is there any reason do you think that would be happening? Anyone else seen the same thing? I’m sure its just coincidence, but I wondered if there might be an underlying reason.

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By *eardedProctologistMan
over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

T'es pas assez rapide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say it happens often but has happened a few times over the years.

I don't worry about it. Sure they'll be back again?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You can block newbies from messaging you. There must be thousands who join for a perve and then leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think some dip their toes in then leave shortly after

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"T'es pas assez rapide "

Ou meme ils sont trop rapide?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can block newbies from messaging you. There must be thousands who join for a perve and then leave."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That would explain it.

Maybe more people hearing about the site, joining and ditching it quickly. Thanks all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"T'es pas assez rapide "

Whooooosh! And they're gone!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I get this a few times a week, I often wonder if it is someone I have blocked and due to no response they give up and delete the fake account, just a thought

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Elvis has now left the building.

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By *orny4uBigTimeMan
over a year ago

Caister

I have had the same. Very annoying especially when you make the effort to reply aswel

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"T'es pas assez rapide

Ou meme ils sont trop rapide? "

Ils ont acheté la Kia Ce'ed Vitesse peut-etre?!

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"T'es pas assez rapide

Ou meme ils sont trop rapide?

Ils ont acheté la Kia Ce'ed Vitesse peut-etre?!"

That's easy for you to say

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

We keep getting the same one, seems to come back, message then go again. Same 'copy and paste' message, same public face pic attached. Every week for at least a month or so I reckon now.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I get the odd one but I have all newbies blocked. I often play a game with myself betting on how long after they join you see " this site is rubbish" on their status and how long it takes before they leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't "...has left site" also mean that they've blocked you?

Happens to me quite a lot, I assume it to mean that I've not replied quickly enough for them, and been blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can block newbies from messaging you. There must be thousands who join for a perve and then leave."

Thats what i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't "...has left site" also mean that they've blocked you?

Happens to me quite a lot, I assume it to mean that I've not replied quickly enough for them, and been blocked."

No. User has left site means they deleted

Blocked says “ you cant view this profile blah blah blah”

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"T'es pas assez rapide

Ou meme ils sont trop rapide?

Ils ont acheté la Kia Ce'ed Vitesse peut-etre?!"

Pah! La Kia Ce’ed Vitesse n’est pas rapide!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen it on the forum as well. One person said yesterday, "We'll stick it out" but today, they're no longer on the site.

One of two things -

1 - Fakes.

2 - Many think it's dial-a-sex. Just because people are on the site, they think they can just message, arrange a shag and sorted. When reality and frustration kicks in, they disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few are using Google Translate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't "...has left site" also mean that they've blocked you?

Happens to me quite a lot, I assume it to mean that I've not replied quickly enough for them, and been blocked.

No. User has left site means they deleted

Blocked says “ you cant view this profile blah blah blah”"

Oh, thank you. I didn't know that x

In that case yes, weird...

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london


"Quite a few are using Google Translate "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Quite a few are using Google Translate

"

I resemble that remark - was all my own work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"T'es pas assez rapide

Ou meme ils sont trop rapide?

Ils ont acheté la Kia Ce'ed Vitesse peut-etre?!

Pah! La Kia Ce’ed Vitesse n’est pas rapide!"

D'accord

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Yes, occasionally I experience that. Easiest thing in the world to press "delete" and move onto the next message. I don't think about their reason for either contacting me or withdrawing - it's only used up a second or two of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably because they are not getting the instant results they were expecting ..like instant replies and instant meets

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