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Here vs “Real life”?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are you like in real life vs on here? I don’t mean physically. I just mean as a person...

They always say watch out for the quiet ones. Are you as sexually outgoing and open in your day to day life? Or would people be shocked to find you on here?

I’m intrigued to see what your answers are.

Personally, I think everyone I know would be surprised that I act the way I do behind closed doors (and online). I’m fairly quiet and reserved in my day to day life.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm more sexually open than my friends but I wouldn't be the same as I am on here when it comes to talking about it.

Otherwise I'm pretty much the same.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I’m pretty much the same to be honest. What you see and get from my profile and threads etc is pretty much me. However I do look much hunkier in person xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm way more chatty and out-going online. In reality I can be shy and awkward to a ridiculous extent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pretty much as I am here, my friends and people I work with wouldn’t be shocked by knowing about this side of me - if they thought about it they would probably guess.

I understand that we have different sides to ourselves depending on who we are with, but we are the same person so it shouldn’t be a shock to anyone that knows us well.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I tend to be a little submissive and try to portray myself less superior in fabs.

My alter-ego (fab) self is a respite of my true self where I have to lead, manage, control and organise others.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We really aren’t any different....no need for us to be anything other than ourselves

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Given I have friends who seem to think I've been celibate for almost 16 years - yea I thin there'd be some faces

But my close friends are more open minded themselves - some have even experimented with swinging and 2 friends know the lot but they're like sisters to me.

But acquaintances/ex work colleagues type people - clueless

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I, him, tell the truth, if they don’t ask I don’t tell, odd how people who do joke about swinging and clubs don’t believe you when you, rather exaggerate, going to them, a touch of reverse psychology.

An old friend of mine used to take (he was married) his girlfriend to the local pub, now who on earth would do that????

Now who on this earth

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Everyone i know would be shocked/horrified if i revealed what i got up to. Im just a normal middle aged woman who blends quietly into the background. My friend actually said to me the other day she thought it sad as i was living like a nun. Little does she know how i come alive at swingers clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lonely here..Lonely in reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually enjoy that as part of the fun, being quite tame in 'real life' and people not knowing! people I know always make jokes that it's the quiet ones you need to watch out for, love that I secretly know they're right!!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A Peruvian sharman called Don Americo Yabu once said, “there are two sorts os energy, domestic energies that is heavy, drain and draws strength... and then there is Salka, free energy, Mother Earths energy, live, empowering emerging, emerging.

Living in domestic is not good, living with domestic and salka is what Freud would call Ego. Living in total Salka well that is also unhealthy.

Well, in my world.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"A Peruvian sharman called Don Americo Yabu once said, “there are two sorts os energy, domestic energies that is heavy, drain and draws strength... and then there is Salka, free energy, Mother Earths energy, live, empowering emerging, emerging.

Living in domestic is not good, living with domestic and salka is what Freud would call Ego. Living in total Salka well that is also unhealthy.

Well, in my world. "

Ps, analogy isn’t a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the same on both.

Mainly stupid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty reserved and never discuss my sex life with people who aren't involved in it. As to what people might think, I have up worrying about that years ago.

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

well our male half not to much diferent.but k female has a very top job and would be sacked for activities on here .but she would just be a full time whore if she did ha

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We’re pretty much the same. Our friends wouldn’t be shocked to know we’re on here. Still would never admit it mind you lol.

Ed

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

This is a my secret garden, a playground for my libido, a fresh breeze to the quotidian reality...

What happens in Fabs, remains in Fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lonely here..Lonely in reality "

Same

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By *notherGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Somewhere

I think people imagine I live a life of monastic silence and such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is real life...

And sometimes just as complicated

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

No different really, confident but not cocky, polite but love bad taste and rude humour, friendly and get on with most people, take the piss out of myself a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two close friends would perhaps not be surprised if they knew.

The majority of people would be gobsmacked if they knew I am here.

To me, this separate life aspect is part of the thrill of being here but I understand completely that there are people for whom the dual life is like living in denial. Not for me though

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