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"No my friends are all pretty appalled " Is that because they know or the impression you get when talking to them in general? | |||
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"No my friends are all pretty appalled " Some folk are just narrow minded and will never understand... | |||
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"No my friends are all pretty appalled Some folk are just narrow minded and will never understand..." I don't think it can be resumed to narrow-mindedness. Some people may have a different perception and understand of what life is should be (it is questionable if it is socially constructed though), and ultimately what is better suited for them, but that doesn't make them narrow'minded. Such as 'us' being 'swingers' that doesn't necessarily make 'us' bad individuals without any principles. I don't really like making a distinction between 'us' and 'them' as I think we aren't fundamentally different from non-swingers. | |||
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"Is anyone in general open about their sex life? I have a mate who tells me every graphic detail of his sex life and it turns my stomach. I think there’s a lot to be said for being reserved, regardless of which lifestyle you follow. There’s some things that other people really don’t need to, or want to, know about." Agreed. Also if you're telling details of your sex life you're giving out intimate details about another person or people and I hate indiscretion. I think people who insist on telling all are probably trying to big themselves up. | |||
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"No my friends are all pretty appalled Is that because they know or the impression you get when talking to them in general? " They know I have non-monogamous relationships and friendships and they nearly all prefer monogamy, as do I. | |||
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"No my friends are all pretty appalled Some folk are just narrow minded and will never understand..." I don't think they are narrow minded at all, they simply do not find nsa sex with strangers appealing. I fancied some hot tottie after being trapped in a sexless marriage for many years, but it very soon became boring to me, I prefer a monogamous relationship any day, nothing to do with narrow mindedness. | |||
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"I mentioned it to a guy at work who split up with his mrs and was on plenty of fish talking to women. He asked how my weekend was and I said I had a good time with a smile on my face. I would say but then eventually said I was at a swingers club. Before you know it, he told all the managers and they sat me in a room and asked what goes on there. Never again will I talk openly about this again, not even my closest friends know. This is a double life I lead and tend to stay that way. Its a lifestyle and I enjoy it. My advice is to keep it yourselves and if you really want to tell someone, mention it to people you trust and who are non judgemental." People are terribly judgemental about other people's sex lives. Even on here. That's why details are best kept confidential in my opinion. | |||
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"I find myself leading 3 lives. my public life my private life and my Very Private life. i have one or two people who know me in all 3 but most of the time i keep all 3 seporate. it works well for me. " this | |||
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"Is anyone in general open about their sex life? I have a mate who tells me every graphic detail of his sex life and it turns my stomach. I think there’s a lot to be said for being reserved, regardless of which lifestyle you follow. There’s some things that other people really don’t need to, or want to, know about." | |||
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"The one or two vanilla friends that know we do this occasionally are more intrigued than judgmental, and I suspect slightly jealous that we are so solid together that we can do it. Let’s be honest people think about sex a lot more than they are willing to admit and would love to be able to have recreational sex but society has conditioned them to see it as wrong, also many see swinging as a group of ugly perverts just meeting to fuck without knowing that’s far from the truth, so they get their casual sex kick by cheating." Swinging/ sex for fun is disgusting. Who on earth would openly admit to that?! | |||
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"All our freinds and most of our family know... I have no problems telling people... lots of our freinds end up coming out with us... Take us how we are or don't we really don't care what people think " It's the same with us and we're quite proud of our lifestyle . Time for a swingers pride parade event | |||
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"Is anyone in general open about their sex life? I have a mate who tells me every graphic detail of his sex life and it turns my stomach. I think there’s a lot to be said for being reserved, regardless of which lifestyle you follow. There’s some things that other people really don’t need to, or want to, know about. " Exactly | |||
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"I’m very open with my friends and family about my lifestyle. Luckily they don’t judge. " This I have nothing to hide x | |||
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