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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you know if you are bi? Can you be bi without having tried anything? What's the rules!?

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By *entscotscplCouple
over a year ago

falkirk ish

your profile say you are curious so is that not a hint ? a clue even ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if you are bi? Can you be bi without having tried anything? What's the rules!? "

You have to learn the handshake first.

Seriously, if you think of the opposite sex in a sexual way and want to do intimate pelasureable things with them then thats the feelings in place.

How you act on those feelings will tell you what you consider your own sexuality to be.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you look at the mens underwear section of the next catalogue.... and trace the outline of the cock with your finger.... you are curious.

if you trace with your tongue.... you are bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you fancy both sexes you are bi. Do you think a gay person has to have had sex to know they are gay? Or a straight person for that matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just wonder whether fantasy and reality are very different here. I haven't found the ideal couple so don't know how I would or wouldn't react that's all

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I just wonder whether fantasy and reality are very different here. I haven't found the ideal couple so don't know how I would or wouldn't react that's all"

think about it, if you decide you want to... tell them it's your first time... if they have anything about them, they will take it slowly and respect your option to change your mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will never know till you try.....

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"If you fancy both sexes you are bi. Do you think a gay person has to have had sex to know they are gay? Or a straight person for that matter"

+10000000000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you look at the mens underwear section of the next catalogue.... and trace the outline of the cock with your finger.... you are curious.

if you trace with your tongue.... you are bi.

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I do that!! Does that make me bi??? Ms ps I do it with calvin klein underwear boxes too until I get chucked out of debenhams lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"you look at the mens underwear section of the next catalogue.... and trace the outline of the cock with your finger.... you are curious.

if you trace with your tongue.... you are bi.

I do that!! Does that make me bi??? Ms ps I do it with calvin klein underwear boxes too until I get chucked out of debenhams lol "

am so proud of ya xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like looking at women, have had sex with one woman, didnt enjoy it as much as i do with a man though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if you are bi? Can you be bi without having tried anything? What's the rules!? "

Seriously mate if you have to ask that question you ain't

I've known I was attracted to men since I was a boy

My sexuality got the better of me in my twenties and I hated it

I tried to commit suicide 4 times because of it

Then I accepted and embraced it

Like I said if ya have to ask ya ain't xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if you are bi? Can you be bi without having tried anything? What's the rules!?

Seriously mate if you have to ask that question you ain't

I've known I was attracted to men since I was a boy

My sexuality got the better of me in my twenties and I hated it

I tried to commit suicide 4 times because of it

Then I accepted and embraced it

Like I said if ya have to ask ya ain't xx"

I don't agree, I questioned myself for years - was I wasn't I? Finally had my first experience with a woman at 25 and it turned into a long term relationship. Now I'm dating guys again but I still would like the option to sleep with a woman now and then. Hence why I'm here

Only you know yourself and only you can say when you're ready to do anything about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bi but has blocked messages from guys?? confused

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I disagree with what I put having seen how you put it

But it was how the question first read to me

A lot of folk try it because they think it's the in thing

(have actually had people say that to me honestly)

That was the reason for my answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bi but has blocked messages from guys?? confused "

Yeah because I got bombarded with cock pictures!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I disagree with what I put having seen how you put it

But it was how the question first read to me

A lot of folk try it because they think it's the in thing

(have actually had people say that to me honestly)

That was the reason for my answer "

Yes, I've known that too. I've also known girls snog their mates to get a guy's attention which is a bit backwards if you think about it but I can see why it works!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I disagree with what I put having seen how you put it

But it was how the question first read to me

A lot of folk try it because they think it's the in thing

(have actually had people say that to me honestly)

That was the reason for my answer

Yes, I've known that too. I've also known girls

snog their mates to get a guy's attention which is a bit backwards if you think about it but I can see why it works!! "

So can I lol xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I am a nonsexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So... what you doing here then? I thought this site was for people who want to be as sexual as they can possibly be?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I found the right couple I might try it still not sure. Would not have a relationship with a guy it's just a sex/ fantasy thing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well then I'd say you're bi-curious but just because you're curious about something it doesn't mean you have to act on it. I've always been curious to know how it would feel to get electricuted but there aint no way I'm gonna go sticking my finger in a plug socket!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then I'd say you're bi-curious but just because you're curious about something it doesn't mean you have to act on it. I've always been curious to know how it would feel to get electricuted but there aint no way I'm gonna go sticking my finger in a plug socket!"

Well said, but now I'm curious why you're curious about electrocution! Katy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes I want to other times I don't. With a hot couple and a few drinks anything is possible! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then I'd say you're bi-curious but just because you're curious about something it doesn't mean you have to act on it. I've always been curious to know how it would feel to get electricuted but there aint no way I'm gonna go sticking my finger in a plug socket!

Well said, but now I'm curious why you're curious about electrocution! Katy."

Haha! Absolutely no idea just one of those things I've always wondered ever since being a kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well then I'd say you're bi-curious but just because you're curious about something it doesn't mean you have to act on it. I've always been curious to know how it would feel to get electricuted but there aint no way I'm gonna go sticking my finger in a plug socket!

Well said, but now I'm curious why you're curious about electrocution! Katy.

Haha! Absolutely no idea just one of those things I've always wondered ever since being a kid "

OK, well glad to hear you're not going to try it Not quite the same, but for years I was curious about being spit-roast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, well glad to hear you're not going to try it Not quite the same, but for years I was curious about being spit-roast "

I'm guessing you're not curious any more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I want to other times I don't. With a hot couple and a few drinks anything is possible! Lol "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes I want to other times I don't. With a hot couple and a few drinks anything is possible! Lol

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Shame they are like finding hens teeth!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"So... what you doing here then? I thought this site was for people who want to be as sexual as they can possibly be?! "

Just to oggle your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, well glad to hear you're not going to try it Not quite the same, but for years I was curious about being spit-roast

I'm guessing you're not curious any more? "

No It's a little bit like being electrocuted, but in a non-lethal kind of way Katy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bahahahaha!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are sexually attractive to both genders you are Bisexual. Simples.

Since you're not sure I'd say you're Bi-curious, but that's just me.

& no you don't need experience to be any sexuality. Do you become straight only once you sleep with a member of the opposite sex?

I knew I was Bi at 15 but never slept with a woman until I was 27. A good friend of mine is also Bi, but has never slept with a woman.

Experience has nothing to do with sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if you are bi? Can you be bi without having tried anything? What's the rules!? "
suck it and see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you look at the mens underwear section of the next catalogue.... and trace the outline of the cock with your finger.... you are curious.

if you trace with your tongue.... you are bi.

"

Haaa haaa haaa haaa...oooooh View!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know if you are bi? Can you be bi without having tried anything? What's the rules!? suck it and see "

Yes, it's the only way to know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try it you might enjoy it! nothin to lose eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the physical act pails into insignificance when compared to the time u spend wondering should i / shouldn't i and torturing yourself over it.

if the curiosity is there act on it or you'll drive yourself potty !

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By *XXJAYMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"try it you might enjoy it! nothin to lose eh?"

I already have and it doubles the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as loads have said you dont have to have tried it too know you would like it and are bi. I thought and fantasied about it for years but only had women. And only once i'd started swinging and met a bi couple and felt comfortable trying it with them did I realise I had been bi all along. After alls said and done you know your limits and once you have fantasied about it your there!! you will meet the right couple or guy or tv to try it and if you let them know its your first time they will guide you throught it im sure, as i have with others over the years. good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bi but has blocked messages from guys?? confused "

she obviously wants to not get bombarded by cocks and cock pics, me too!!

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