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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am probably going to start a storm in a tea cup, and the topic probably has been mentioned before... But I need to vent.

It is so annoying when I get contacted by people who cannot be bothered to read with understanding or cannot take no for an answer. Yes, I know it is a swinging/sex site, and yes, I am painfully aware the ratio of single men to everyone else, females in particular. However, the desperation some people show... Men mainly, but some couples too. Yes, I am a single female on a swinging site, but it is still MY choice who I fuck and when. It works so much better trying to make conversation with me rather than show me a picture of a cock or say that they are the master of oral sex or whatever. I am a slut but not a call girl, will not meet 'now', 'tonight', 'in half an hour' or whatever. The art of conversation and making connection is so lost with so many people here.

What is even more annoying is being called a time waster by some idiots who could not take the rejection.

I probably should start doing what most women do, only reply to some people, but I think it's rude not to reply. I also know I can block all men, but I still believe there might be some undiscovered gems on here. And maybe I'm addicted to getting abused by idiots once in a while...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Just block them as soon as you say no thanks, stops the "why not?" or abusive replies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just block them as soon as you say no thanks, stops the "why not?" or abusive replies "

I am probably still too polite... Don't like blocking people... But might need to start using it more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block them as soon as you say no thanks, stops the "why not?" or abusive replies

I am probably still too polite... Don't like blocking people... But might need to start using it more often"

Oh god I have 60 plus in my block list. No means No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block them as soon as you say no thanks, stops the "why not?" or abusive replies

I am probably still too polite... Don't like blocking people... But might need to start using it more often

Oh god I have 60 plus in my block list. No means No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just why we blocked single guys lol total waste time

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By *ollyDayDreamerWoman
over a year ago

Gorleston

I feel the same way & used to reply to every message but it gets boring. If they can’t even be bothered to read my profile then I can’t be bothered to reply. Blocking & deleting messages everyday but hopefully you’ll find a decent one x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel the same way & used to reply to every message but it gets boring. If they can’t even be bothered to read my profile then I can’t be bothered to reply. Blocking & deleting messages everyday but hopefully you’ll find a decent one x"

Thank you . I have met some really great guys, had a lot of fun already and hopefully more fun to come . And that's why I don't want to stereotype.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dosent help this time of night and a friday , a lot of the men are trollied on booze

booze in

brains out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here I've tried replying politely to every message, but it leads to too many pointless conversations that just raise my blood pressure and not in a good way. My attitude now is the same as others have said, if people can't be bothered to spend a few minutes reading my page and writing a nice message then I'm not going to feel guilty about ignoring them.

I block several individuals every day. The filters I don't use as they only apply to age and gender etc, there's no "block idiots" option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be thankful you're not a man on here.

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By *uriousCouple999Couple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We have the same problem, always been polite and said no thanks ect but now it's just meet with abuse or pestered as to why not. If they maybe read our profile they would see why not I hated blocking people it felt rude, but longer we've been on here we have to if people wont take no for an answer or give us abuse for saying no. D

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I know where you're coming from OP. I've told myself that I won't bother replying to those who obviously haven't read my profile this year. Definitely keeps the in box more manageable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day I scaled my profile back, replied only to those I chose to and bulk deleted the rest was the day I stopped getting annoyed with the system.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same here I've tried replying politely to every message, but it leads to too many pointless conversations that just raise my blood pressure and not in a good way. My attitude now is the same as others have said, if people can't be bothered to spend a few minutes reading my page and writing a nice message then I'm not going to feel guilty about ignoring them.

I block several individuals every day. The filters I don't use as they only apply to age and gender etc, there's no "block idiots" option "

I love it, 'block idiots' button lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just be thankful you're not a man on here."

True...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I already have some screening in place, as I don't have the 'I'm looking for a man' box ticked. So only more persistent men would still send a message.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We've got over 100 blocked for differant reasons. It's your body, your life, your reasons for being here. Your not paid by them, so your rules. Must think with their knob, so why be polight to one? Block away and keep sane! (Fem)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block them as soon as you say no thanks, stops the "why not?" or abusive replies

I am probably still too polite... Don't like blocking people... But might need to start using it more often

Oh god I have 60 plus in my block list. No means No!

"

Only 60? ..... I’m a single guy and I’ve probably got just as many ...... there are some crazy couples and ladies about too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block them as soon as you say no thanks, stops the "why not?" or abusive replies

I am probably still too polite... Don't like blocking people... But might need to start using it more often

Oh god I have 60 plus in my block list. No means No!

Only 60? ..... I’m a single guy and I’ve probably got just as many ...... there are some crazy couples and ladies about too...."

Been on here just shy of a year.

My profile is only for Cupid's and the forums but I anyone who doesn't hear the word NO or they mother get blocked I very very rarely read messages off men I just bulk delete all the messages x

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