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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Isn't it better to be honest to a person and tell them, rather than just keep saying sorry I can't meet tonight everytime they message.

I've been honest in saying this yet I'm made to feel the bad person

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think I would do the same and if they didn't take it well cut contact with them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes be honest

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

Just done the same thing because fb wasn't satisfying me like he first was. If he's making you feel bad, he's a dick and you should be glad you've moved on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just done the same thing because fb wasn't satisfying me like he first was. If he's making you feel bad, he's a dick and you should be glad you've moved on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to be honest. Relationships and dynamics change and an adult would understand that.

If you don't let them down you'll be letting yourself down.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Isn't it better to be honest to a person and tell them, rather than just keep saying sorry I can't meet tonight everytime they message.

I've been honest in saying this yet I'm made to feel the bad person "

Better to be tactfully honest.

Don't allow someone the power to make you feel bad just because they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is NSA so don’t feel you have to do anything. If the spark has gone tell him so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather be honest then both can move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone doesn’t message me back like they used to then I soon get the hint and move on, as ABBA said “it’s the name of the game”.

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