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The more you indulge the more you move away from vanilla

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey horny people do you find that the more we push boundaries and explore the further away from vanilla we go.

Although am always a sucker for a deep

Hungry passionate kiss.

Am interested in your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried Neopolitan and Rspberry Ripple, but I always come back to Vanilla!

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

We tryed spunk together witch was nice but nothing on vanilla ice cream lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt I'd ever go vanilla again. I don't think I could live without kink in my life, although some nights I just want snuggles and romantic sex - if that's a thing!

But totally vanilla... nahh never again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I quite agree kink is indulgent but a cuddle is good too

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We like both. And we’ve done everything imaginable !

Vanilla is still the deepest and most meaningful sex we have . At times the more extreme and kinkiest sex is a bit too contrived , and we feel like we are doing it because it’s expected .

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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago

deptford London


"I doubt I'd ever go vanilla again. I don't think I could live without kink in my life, although some nights I just want snuggles and romantic sex - if that's a thing!

But totally vanilla... nahh never again "

vanilla is so long gone now, any thing other than kink just wont do the job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best sex is always when making love to my hubby. About as vanilla as it gets but still top of my list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doubt I'd ever go vanilla again. I don't think I could live without kink in my life, although some nights I just want snuggles and romantic sex - if that's a thing!

But totally vanilla... nahh never again "

As much as I love tying you up etc etc I am turned in just as much by the snuggles and romance and just being able to lie there gazing into those eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I doubt I'd ever go vanilla again. I don't think I could live without kink in my life, although some nights I just want snuggles and romantic sex - if that's a thing!

But totally vanilla... nahh never again

As much as I love tying you up etc etc I am turned in just as much by the snuggles and romance and just being able to lie there gazing into those eyes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do worry that Fab sex has altered my expectations of sex unrealistically outside of fab.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Always need the option of wild, filthy, pushing the boundaries sex but waking up in the middle of the night curled up together naked and the spooning turns to some slow forking... and falling back asleep again. Lovely.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

kinky sex is fun - but that's all it is. not very meaningful. and I love pushing boundaries and exploring and trying new things.

but proper vanilla sex with someone you love? that's more and completely different. that's being close to someone else's soul and can't be conspired to kink.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahhhh now there is the answer vanilla with a partner is making love

Non vanilla kink Is fucking and pushing boundaries

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I totally agree squirrel well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kink but need a little vanilla from time to time too. But it’s true OP the more kink you have the more you want to push the boundaries

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"kinky sex is fun - but that's all it is. not very meaningful. and I love pushing boundaries and exploring and trying new things.

but proper vanilla sex with someone you love? that's more and completely different. that's being close to someone else's soul and can't be conspired to kink."

Totally this. The most incredible moments are still the little ones - a glance, a touch, a smile across a crowded room. Lying my head on his chest & he kisses my forehead.

Baring your body is about kink & sex. Baring your soul is as intimate as it gets and is better than any type of kink

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"kinky sex is fun - but that's all it is. not very meaningful. and I love pushing boundaries and exploring and trying new things.

but proper vanilla sex with someone you love? that's more and completely different. that's being close to someone else's soul and can't be conspired to kink.

Totally this. The most incredible moments are still the little ones - a glance, a touch, a smile across a crowded room. Lying my head on his chest & he kisses my forehead.

Baring your body is about kink & sex. Baring your soul is as intimate as it gets and is better than any type of kink "

Beautifully put

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I quite agree and that is a good way to separate the two and pigeon hole the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you mean by vanilla.

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

If I think about an offer of a meet without kink I’m a bit meh and don’t bother

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's quite possible to have kink and depth and emotion and love and trust all at the same time...

Sex without a bit of kink is a bit boring to me... But add the right D/s from the right person....that hits the spot;)

Each to their own

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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago

Sussex/Surrey


"kinky sex is fun - but that's all it is. not very meaningful. and I love pushing boundaries and exploring and trying new things.

but proper vanilla sex with someone you love? that's more and completely different. that's being close to someone else's soul and can't be conspired to kink."

Absolutely this. And taking that a stage further, just lying conjoined tantra style for ages and just drifting.

Both types of sex have their attractions - and we enjoy both

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